I wish people who aren't detrans/reidentified would just shut the fuck up about us forever. You don't want talk to us so when you talk about us you just sound stupid, annoying, condescending, idiotic, etc etc
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I wish people who aren't detrans/reidentified would just shut the fuck up about us forever. You don't want talk to us so when you talk about us you just sound stupid, annoying, condescending, idiotic, etc etc
woah its been 3 years since i last posted here. 2021. i can't believe how much has changed. i never could have predicated where i would be in 2024 back then. i never could have predicted having a loving wife and a loving partner and living somewhere totally different. i could never have predicted id own a house and have a dog and a friendship circle the size that it is. i could never have predicated being (more) comfortable with who i am as a person.
my last post, the last one i actually made for myself, talked about how i was terrified i was that nobody would ever see me for what i thought i was. but fuck me i was so so wrong.
turns out i just needed a friendship circle full of people who are gay, who are lesbian, who are bisexual, who are comfortable in who they are, who look at me when i say im a dyke-- with my ugly mustache and sometimes stubble beard, with my weird deep voice, with my surgery-flat chest and hairy back and hairy legs and the gut that testosterone gave me-- and go "yes, you are". who look at me and see me for me and respect my choices and my opinions. who let me call myself a he/she. who let me crawl in beside them and don't complain when my dykey little carabiner digs into their hips.
me three years ago could never have imagined. could never have even dreamed.
if you're detrans, if you want to pursue detransition, if your one month or one year or one decade into your transition and you look at yourself in a mirror and think it was all a mistake. it will be fine. it will be. it has to be. so surround yourself with love. surround yourself with dykes and fags and fruits and crossdressers. surround yourself with people that will look at you and say "yes, you are."
trans people who are threatened by detransitioners -- your insecurity is showing, recognize it has nothing to do with you at all. maybe question yourself why you feel so threatened and feel the need to attempt to silence detransitioners by screaming 'transphobe' and 'terf'.
ngl, silencing or downplaying detransitioners views and experiences is just another way to glorify transitioning as something a teeny tiny group of people regret/nothing bad comes from transitioning.
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Detrans woman (or reidentified woman): someone who detransitioned to womanhood.
It could overlap with FtMtF, however not every detrans woman feel represented by that acronym, some may detransition from being non-binary, for example (i.e. FtNtF).
i buzzed my hair today and i feel incredible. everyone was so unsupportive, telling me I'd look unattractive (god fucking forbid) or that i should try a pixie cut instead, asking if i'm going back to my "boy phase" etc... i was so nervous and convinced it would look horrible but actually it suits me really well and i feel so much freer and instantly so confident. like, my mum won't even look me in the eyes but for once i don't care about what people think!! i'm so happy with it and if you're considering cutting/shaving your hair DO IT!! it's practical, attractive and fun to run your hands through lol
Case Overview The Dhillon Law Group and LiMandri & Jonna LLP, in conjunction with the Center for American Liberty, sent a letter of intent t
Case Overview
The Dhillon Law Group and LiMandri & Jonna LLP, in conjunction with the Center for American Liberty, sent a letter of intent to sue to the Permanente Medical Group, Kaiser Foundation Health Plan & Kaiser Foundation Hospitals who performed, supervised, and/or advised transgender hormone therapy and surgical intervention for Chloe Cole when she was between 13-17 years old.
“My teenage life has been the culmination of excruciating pain, regret, and most importantly injustice,” Cole said. “I have been emotionally and physically damaged and stunted by so-called medical professionals in my most important developmental period. I was butchered by an institution that we trust more than anything else in our lives. What is worse is that I am not alone in my pain. I will see to the fact that the blood and tears of detransitioners like myself will not lay waste. It is impossible for me to recoup what I have lost, but I will insure no children will be harmed at the hands of these liars and mutilators.”
“The medical system shouldn’t dictate the future of young children’s lives. Through this legal action, the ‘professionals’ involved will be held accountable for their despicable plot to mutilate children and financially benefit from it,” said Center for American Liberty’s CEO, Harmeet Dhillon (@pnjaban). “We will break the cycle of them breaking our children before it’s too late.”
Background: Chloe is a biological female who suffered from a perceived psychological issue “gender dysphoria” beginning at 9-years-old. Under Defendants’ advice and supervision, between 13-17 years-old, Chole underwent harmful transgender treatment, specifically, off-label puberty blockers, cross-sex hormone treatment, and a double mastectomy.
Throughout Chloe’s medical experience in California, the facilities and institutions actively promoted, encouraged, and advertised the availability of these treatments. Chloe and her parents were not informed of the option for psychiatric treatment or an approach that attempted to treat the underlying psychological conditions to bring about a mental state congruent with Chloe’s biological sex.
Defendants also falsely informed Chloe and her parents that Chloe was at a high risk for suicide, unless she socially and medically transitioned to appear more like a male. Chloe has been informed by her parents that Defendants even gave them the ultimatum: “would you rather have a dead daughter or a live son?”
Chloe will be seeking punitive damages based on the evidence of malice, oppression and fraud.
The website is asking people to reach out to them to fill out a form if you've had similar experiences.
Remembered how I went from longingly putting a dot on the M category of standardized tests and other forms after bubbling in my legally designated F to changing the avatar to female during my turn on online videogames I shared with my brothers so people would know a girl beat them