This changed me as a person I’m really excited to share it with you😇 ✨ Coming from childhood experiences of sexual abuse I thought that I deserved bad things to happen to me because I was a bad person and deserved it😑 ✨ We can all agree this is “wrong” but I believed it so it became true for me and bad things kept happening and I kept inviting them into my life and behaved accordingly🙈 ✨ Only after seeing those experiences without attaching feelings to them could I take a massive step back and look at them for what they were - out of my control🤔 ✨ Therefore I get to decide what they mean and the story I associate with them - it used to be my superhero origin story but now it carries much less significance😇 ✨ Now I see the things that are outside of my control as I see the wind and the rain - they just are and my feelings about them are neutral😁 ✨ We step into our power when we catch ourselves attaching feelings to objects and instead choose to see them for what they really are - just a product of our thinking😊 ✨ How would your life be different if you could see your negative past experiences without attaching feelings to them?🤔 ✨ #podcast #3principles #transformationjourney #betteringmyself #workingonmyself #workingonme #makingchanges #stayingfocused #positivepsychology #psychotherapist #psychologyquotes #psychologytoday #psychologist #emdr #clinicalpsychology #psychologymajor #psychotherapy #counseling #onlinetherapy (at London, United Kingdom) https://www.instagram.com/p/B--YD9xnIEI/?igshid=1gi7mv9u66h95















