#unaligned nonbinary

[transmascpolls]

Transmascs, are you binary or nonbinary, and are you / do you plan to physically transition (with HRT, surgery, etc)?

Binary man, planning to or am currently transitioning with HRT and/or surgeries

Binary man, NOT planning to and am not currently transitioning physically

Nonbinary man/masc, plan to / am currently transitioning with HRT &/or surgeries

Nonbinary man/masc, NOT planning to & am not currently transitioning physically

Unaligned / neutral / xeno / etc nonbinary, yes with HRT and/or surgery

Unaligned / neutral /xeno /etc nonbinary, not physically transition, no plans to

Other transmasculine identity, yes with HRT and/or surgery

Other transmasculine identity, not physically transitioning and no plans to

Not sure / don’t know / undecided

Other answer / it’s complicated

See results / not transmasculine

Voting ended onMar 14

[shynerdwantscuddles]

Shoutout to nonbinary people who are unaligned with either binary gender and get shoved into the categories of being either male or female aligned against their will or shunned from queer spaces for being unaligned. You deserve to be seen for who you are. Binary gendered people reading this, stop doing that.

[nonbinarymlm]

I don't know who needs to hear this, but not all nlw are sapphic or lesbians and not all nlm are Achillean or mlm.

Also all nlm are welcome on my blog if they're cool being in mlm associated spaces. You don't have to be a nonbinary man to have solidarity and shared experiences with me

[your-bigender-big-brother]

Today’s Gender of the Day is: Abinary!

Abinary (also called aphorian) describes a gender experience completely removed from the gender binary, being separate from male, female, masculine, feminine, and anything in between or derived from them. While nonbinary refers to any gender that is not strictly binary male or binary female and can include identities such as demiboy or demigirl, abinary falls outside of even those categories. This identity falls under the aporagender umbrella.

While this identity seems identical to the term anonbinary, the difference is that anonbinary can still include being feminine, masculine, and agender.

Identities that fall under the abinary label are agender, maverique, stellarian, aporagender, outherine, and many identities under the xenogender label.

A similar identity would be exobinary, which is an identity completely outside or independent of binary genders.

[velocifeather]

My gender is untouchable by mono attraction <3

[cursed--alien]

Fellow unaligned nonbinary people: don't EVER feel like you have to "settle" for someone who treats you as binary-aligned.

We deserve people who respect our WHOLE genders and we WILL find them.

Nonbinary may not be a monolith, but it isn't two monoliths either, and anyone who doesn't fully respect us as we are DOES NOT DESERVE US in any capacity.

And most importantly, NOBODY decides what labels to use for us other than ourselves, on an individual basis.

[effeminancyboy]

Translove pride flag!

this is a pride flag for anyone whos trans and loves being trans! (you can still use this even if you have days where you hate being trans! we all have those days <3)

who can use these flags: any and all trans people! (including straight trans people!) please dont make content with this flag if you arent trans (or if youre a tru/scum or trans/med) read my dni before interacting!

Color meanings:

Purple: transfems

Pink: trans women

Peach: multigendered nonbinaries

Yellow: aligned nonbinaries

White: pride and love

Mint: unaligned nonbinaries

Teal: xenogender nonbinaries

Blue: trans men

Dark blue: transmascs

[ace-and-aro-wlw-positivity]

Recently, I have had to come out several different times and each time I found myself having to remain in the closet with some aspect of my identity.

As a nonbinary lesbian, I often have to choose whether to come out as nonbinary or as a lesbian, even when coming out to other members of my own community!

Many times I have had to settle with nonbinary, something that hurts me deeply because being a lesbian is really important to me.

So I guess all this to say, nonbinary lesbians should not have to surrender parts of themselves to be accepted regardless of their relationship with gender or what pronouns they use.

We deserve the right to be completely, publicly ourselves.

-mod Andi