will start posting vi x reader hcs soon bc arcane has hit me fatally
and ill also starrt working on the other women x reader hcs including caitlyn, jinx and sevika! i still have a lot to do for school so it'll take a while, let's see if i can actually live up to my promises this time
Personally Nana is a manga i feel you need an understanding of sapphic women's struggles to be able to read through the context and intention of the characters and their issues. Primarily the two Nana's.
Nana Osaki has a discomfort around the idea of traditional feminine roles and what's 'expected' from her as a woman. The main reason she feels her relationship with Ren doesn't and won't work long term is he's fixated on wanting to have children with her.
However for Nana this'd get in the way of her desired career as a singer and also her future. She deems becoming a housewife and having to provide only for a man as 'the worst fate imaginable'. This is the main reason for conflict with her relationship with Ren.
While Ren isn't abusive in the same way as Takumi he does force Nana into doing things she doesn't feel comfortable with nor want to do. It's because of this that her relationship with Ren is so toxic for the both of them.
On Hachi's side, most of her issues seem to revolve around a clear case of comphet and struggling with her feelings for the women in her life. Hachi desires what Nana least desires (becoming married, having kids etc.) however romance with men is painful and isolating for her.
Hachi's first relationship being with Asano, where she was groomed while she was still a minor ruined her perception of how relationships should be. She only started dating Shouji after he guilt trips her into a relationship (and sex).
Hachi constantly states wanting a friendship with Shouji and how much it means to her however she starts dating because everyone around her acts like she's leading him on. So she dates him, then Shouji gets mad she doesn't act how HE wants her to act.
Shouji literally cheats on Hachi with Sachiko because she wouldn't just sleep with him all the time whenever he wanted. Hachi wasn't 'submissive' enough, Sachiko was.
Then on Hachi's part her 'liking' of Takumi was only in a way of how girls idolise a celebrity. There's no genuineness behind this because there's a fictional distance between you and them. Once Hachi actually meets Takumi she notices there's something wrong.
Hachi only got with Takumi because she was feeling abandoned and left behind by Nana who started focusing more on her career. Her entire relationship with Takumi is a cycle of abuse on making her think she needs him while he's aware she doesn't actually love him.
Takumi doesn't love Hachi, he only loves the amount of control he has over her. He literally treats her like his dog and both Nana and Hachi are aware of this. However it's not easy to break out of an abusive relationship just because you're aware.
Especially since with Takumi Hachi is able to have a child, which is something she's wanted since she was young. Obviously she doesn't love Takumi but on her mind, someone who never had a clear idea or desire for the future. It's the only thing she can do.
Especially since from her pov 'Nana doesn't need me anymore'. I'm not saying everyone needs to read the characters in a sapphic pov but none of the relationships they end up in are healthy for either of them, they both have men forcing their desires onto them.
Nana and Hachi's love for one another is the focus of the series and if it ever continued they'd definitely develop their relationship further. There's a sense of freedom in their love for one another that they can't get with men.
To conclude, Hachi has clear symptoms of comphet and she is likely a lesbian but struggles with seeing her feelings as valid. Where on Nana's side she can't achieve what she wants to achieve in life if she's dating a man because they'll always have different life desires.
this is my take on the malewife headcanons (written months ago)
tags: fluff, gender neutral reader, you guys are living together/married
i like to think that toji is the #1 malewife (even though it is likely just my delusions speaking!)
first and foremost, he is a great cook
just imagine toji in a white apron (tied around his slutty waist ofc)
he would wake up super early every morning just to make the both of you (and the kids) breakfast, which would likely be a traditional japanese breakfast (consisting of fish, rice, miso soup, and pickled vegetables)
on sundays, he would make you guys an english breakfast (consisting of eggs, bacon, tomato, mushrooms, toast and no baked beans bcs fuck baked beans)
reiterating the toji would-do-anything-for-you fushiguro agenda because he would even *attempt to make you all kinds of baked goods even though he always overbakes everything. and ofc you gotta gobble that burnt shit up telling him it was the best thing you've ever had
once again reiterating the toji would-do-anything-for-you fushiguro agenda: when he's not running from his responsibilities, he likes to cook you an elaborate meal at the end of the day and yes he does the dishes as well
after a long day of work, there is nothing better than coming home to a table set for two and a three-course meal prepared by toji fushiguro.
the set up is nothing too fancy, no decorations whatsoever, but the food is top notch
toji likes to sit at the end of the table, head slightly tilted on his hand, watching you eat the food he has carefully prepared for you. he doesn't say much, but you notice the way his eyes soften the moment you pick up your chopsticks and start eating
if you compliment his cooking, he will likely get flustered (though he doesn't show it). he will simply raise his eyebrows, look away and say that the kids helped too (the kids, in fact, did not help)
it is well-established that toji probably has pretty nasty hygiene, but it is also common knowledge that megumi's mom helped him get his shit together. so i like to think that as long as he has someone to depend on, he starts taking care of himself too. especially when he is handed the responsibility of taking care of his family- he will do everything he can to avoid falling back into his old habits (of ass hygiene)
if you are away for long hours/working/too tired, toji will step up and do all the cleaning for you- vacuuming, dusting, deep cleaning every room- whatever it is, you name it, he'll do it
he'll do it but it's gonna be a mediocre job at best. it's better than nothing though!
needless to say he's also quite good at fixing household items (basically a staple repairman husband)
once he's done will allat (he will speedrun that shit) he'll get back on the couch/bed, put an arm around your shoulder and enjoy his silence with you
in my head, gojo and geto sang this post break-up (canon) (i am gege)
another love - tom odell
gojo:
I wanna take you somewhere so you know I care
But it's so cold and I don't know where
I brought you daffodils in a pretty string
But they won't flower like they did last spring
And I wanna kiss you, make you feel alright
I'm just so tired to share my nights
I wanna cry and I wanna love
But all my tears have been used up
geto:
And if somebody hurts you, I wanna fight
But my hand's been broken one too many times
So I'll use my voice, I'll be so fucking rude
Words, they always win, but I know I'll lose
And I'd sing a song that'd be just ours
But I sang 'em all to another heart
And I wanna cry, I wanna learn to love
But all my tears have been used up
i am about to km/s actually. especially the geto part "and if somebody hurts you, i wanna fight, but my hand's been broken one too many times" it is literally the scene in which geto tries to fight against kenjaku ARGHGHGHGHhghghhgh im gonna pass out fr
yeah i've been thinking abt this all day, i'll write a fic abt it soon, so here's a little something from my notes app that i plan to incorporate into the fic (idk how it'll turn out:
geto has always been there, he always has.
so when gojo turns around, when he brings up an old joke, or brings home soba noodles, he still half-expected geto to be there, because he always has been, and he promised he always will be.
hi! i just rewatched haikyuu and i am currently reliving my 2020 haikyuu phase- enjoy ><
note 18/12/23: i think i wrote this back in september(?) and it has been in my drafts since forever, this is unfinished but i dont feel like finishing it anytime soon so have some food yall
tags: fluff, sugawara is still in hs, gender neutral reader
he is so wife to the point where if we had a hypothetical wedding, i'd be wearing the suit and he would be wearing the wedding dress
his love language is quality time and acts of service
if possible, he would spend every waking moment with you!!! even if you were just scrolling on your phones next to each other - as long as he is beside you, he is already satisfied :")
he likes taking you on dates (or vice versa) - he is fine with whatever you propose as long as you too are in close proximity of each other!
he particularly enjoys picnic dates !!!! he likes to watch the sunrise or the sunset with you but instead of the sun, he'd be staring at your face tbh
he also really likes coming over to your house or vice versa because he likes the flexibility of being able to do anything at any moment
whenever you come over, he will definetely cook something for you- i think he makes really good strawberry waffles
i'd like to think that he likes ruffling people's hair ( 〃▽〃) or patting people's head in general- he would definetely greet you with a headpat
if you are in different classes, he will definetely try to find excuses to come and find you during school hours. he'd offer to help the teacher give worksheets and stuff to your class just to smile and wave at you (but tbh he'd do it anyway because he's a good student)
oh and, be ready to receive princess/prince treatment when you are with him bc he is a gentleman!!!!! get ready to fight for the bill after dinner
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