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For you…even if I have to break the rule, I will do it.
A Meditation : 68 Capybaras
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I don't know who my intended audience is here, so whoever needs to hear this, I am begging you to learn to participate in conversations that are about things you aren't interested in.
Part of socializing and having friends is being a good listener even when you don't actually give a shit about the subject.
Your are hurting other people's feelings when you bluntly respond with "Anyway..." and then change the topic.
It can not always be about your preferred topic.
You are being rude. Yes, even if you are neurodivergent. You can be both autistic and rude.
Hey! Hi! Howdy!
Autistic mom of two autistic kiddos here. I do something with my kids called playing the good friend game. I have them ask me a question like “what did you do this weekend” and then I respond with something they don’t like ie: “I ate some sushi for dinner on Saturday! It was delicious!” Their job is to not make a gross face and not to yuck my yum. They have to ask me a follow up question! Minimum one about what I liked about the sushi or who I went with or what I ordered etc. and they have to be kind. I change up what I answer with for the initial question and for all follow ups. It’s incredible!
You can learn how to chit chat about things because you care about the people around you. Small talk is banal and boring but the people in your life are real and lovely and nuanced. Get to know them. You can do it. You’ll build relationships that last. Don’t do it for the sake of small talk. Do it because you’re deeply invested in learning how to see the people around you as whole pictures.
To be seen is to be known. And to be known is to be loved. Love the people around you and that love will come back to you.
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YESSSS! Social skills can be built!!
Tags by @intoxicatingimmediacy:
#my friends' lives and interests and opinions are interesting to me because it's about THEM #you can develop curiosity you can train yourself to care about the minutiae of the people you care about #why else be friends in the first place if you're not interested in each other #but also how else can you expand can you grow yourself if you block off all new input
i love this guy
I'm fully with them on this.
Like, a person obsessing over something mostly inconsequential to the point of making extensive records and analysing them? That's just your garden variety autism.
The store changing the fake windows display often enough for them to pick up on it through frequent visits? That is freaking weird. Not to mention making the fake weather more favourable in some room types but not others. You'd think they'd want to encourage the purchase of all products, why are they creating a contrast? This is clearly done on purpose, so what purpose is there for encouraging bedrooms and discouraging home offices? I guess maybe furnishing a bedroom costs more, which means more money for the store? But then why would you discourage the home office?
If the weather is bad then you don't want to commute to work in it, so it supports the home office mindset. It reminds the customer why they want a home office.
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Post on the Ikea subreddit by Redditor "Born_Lengthiness3572", first posted 10.02PM UTC on 24 July 2026. The post is titled:
I am no longer welcome at my local IKEA because I kept asking about the fake windows
The body of the post reads:
I have always liked IKEA. Not even because of the furniture, I just think it is relaxing to walk through the different rooms and imagine the kind of people who would live there. Sometimes I go without buying anything. I just like looking around. After maybe my sixth or seventh visit I noticed that almost every display room had a window with daylight behind it, even though obviously most of the showroom is in the middle of the building. At first I assumed they were just light panels, but then I realized they didn’t all have the same weather. One living room looked like a bright summer afternoon while another looked overcast. Some bedrooms even had what looked like early morning light. I asked one of the employees how they decided what weather each apartment gets. He laughed a little and said they are just printed backdrops with lights behind them. I accepted that explanation because it sounded reasonable, but it did not explain why the weather seemed to change between visits. Over the next few months I started taking pictures of the windows every time I went. I organized them into folders based on department and color of the lighting. I also made notes about whether the room was supposed to appeal to young professionals, families or students because I wondered if there was some connection. Eventually I noticed what I thought was a pattern. Home office displays almost always had dull weather, while bedrooms and children’s rooms had noticeably nicer conditions. I honestly found that a little manipulative because people make different decisions depending on the weather they think they are experiencing. I politely showed one of the employees a spreadsheet I had printed out. He looked at it for maybe five seconds before asking why I had visited the store fourteen times in two months. I explained that good research takes consistency. He told me that wasn’t really what he meant. A week later I emailed customer support asking whether the artificial weather was decided locally or if each store received instructions from Sweden. They forwarded my email to the store manager, who invited me into his office. He explained that there was no weather system and asked me to stop photographing the displays because customers had started asking questions after seeing me measure the brightness near the windows with my phone. Unfortunately I had already mentioned my findings in a neighborhood Facebook group because I thought other people might have noticed the same thing. One woman replied that she always felt happier in the bedroom section but assumed it was because of the mattresses. Another man commented that I should seek professional help. The discussion got surprisingly heated. Now whenever I go into that IKEA someone eventually recognizes me. Officially I can still go, but last month I heard an employee quietly tell another one, “that’s the weather guy.” I was literally just there to buy a bookshelf, so it’s not very pleasant. I still think the lighting changes more often than they admit. I don’t really see why they would lie about something so small, but I also don’t see why the home office always seems to have bad weather.
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wow even words from Thailand 🥺
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First image: Seal of the Royal Thai Embassy. Text: Message from the Royal Thai Embassy, Berlin On the Tragic Incident During the Christopher Street Day (CSD) The Royal Thai Embassy in Berlin is deeply saddened by the tragic incident that occurred during the Christopher Street Day (CSD) celebrations in Berlin on 25 July 2026. On behalf of the people of Thailand, we extend our deepest condolences to the family of the victim and wish a full and speedy recovery to those injured. We stand in solidarity with the German authorities, the LGBTQIA+ community, and all those affected by this heartbreaking tragedy. Christopher Street Day represents diversity, equality, inclusion, and human dignity. It is deeply distressing that such a horrific act of violence occurred during a peaceful celebration of these shared values. Thailand unequivocally condemns all forms of violence and reaffirms its commitment to promoting tolerance, mutual respect, and the protection of human dignity. Our thoughts are with the people of Berlin during this difficult time.
Second image: Bangkok pride logo. Photo credit to NBC news. Flowers surround a flag with four stripes, colored red, orange, yellow, and light green. Text: Statement from Bangkok Pride : Our Hearts with Berlin Unsere Herzen sind bei Berlin, heute und für immer.#BerlinPride
Third image: Bangkok Pride logo. Text: Statement from Bangkok Pride: the Berlin Pride Celebration (Christopher Street Day - CSD) Following the tragic act that resulted in loss of life and injuries, Bangkok Pride extends our deepest condolences to the families of the victims and sends our heartfelt thoughts to everyone affected by this tragedy. Pride should always be a safe space to celebrate dignity and equality. No one should ever have to fear for their safety when gathering to stand up for human rights. We stand in unwavering solidarity with Berlin's LGBTQIA+ community, as well as the organizers and volunteers. We will not allow violence to diminish our shared commitment to freedom, inclusion, and love. Our community will remain strong, and we will get through this together. Our hearts are with Berlin, today and always.
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If you don't stick around till the end, you will miss him ❤️
Clothes from Muslim cultures around the world
These are the very first paintings I made for Avatar Aang: The Last Airbender. I designed the art style for the Sonam and Tagah scenes throughout the film! I want to thank PD Jake Panian and AD Aaron Loftis for trusting me so much with these parts of the movie; their incredible leadership and support carried our entire team.
I feel like some people need to relearn Genre Expectations... "Man, this tragedy sucks!!! Why didn't they just do XYZ, then everything could have ended happily!!" well, then it wouldn't be a tragedy, would it. "Man, this lighthearted teen romcom is terrible, it's so sappy and unrealistic!!" Well, yeah. If it had been gritty and dark, it wouldn't have been a lighthearted romcom, would it. Is the writing actually bad or are you just trying to order a milkshake from a Home Depot
Bean soup mentality: it's not that it's not for me, it's just bad.
I am objective, ergo if I do not like something it must therefore be objectively bad.
(PS: Bean soup???)
Verified: Microsoft 365 gets massive 45% price hike — and it's all to do with AI tools (Tom's Guide - January 17, 2025)
oopsie i tripped and spilled my link to archive dot org's downloadable copy of Microsoft office suite for 2007, which features no AI tools and is a powerful word processor that still holds up just fine on windows 10!
[ Begin ID: A post by user marlakaycreative that reads "I dont' know who needs to hear this but Microsoft 365 went up from about $70 to about $100 this year because they added AI. If you go to cancel before it auto renews, it gives you the option to switch to the about $70 "Personal Classic" 365.
If this reaches one person who needed to know, I will have done my good deed today." / End ID ]
DAMSON IDRIS "Children of Blood and Bone" | 2026, dir. Gina Prince-Bythewood
Terrifyingly accurate representation of actual fans out there.
OP: Traditional Chinese yaoshan腰扇/waist fan, a type of fan that can be hung on the waist.
Sometimes art is best left unexplained.
Truncated text of tweet from MrPitBull, Mar 11, 2026:
She kept finding women in laboratory photographs from the 1800s. Then she read the published papers—and every single woman had vanished. Someone had erased them from history.
Yale University, 1969.
Margaret Rossiter was a graduate student studying the history of science. She was one of very few women in her program.
Every Friday afternoon, students and faculty gathered for beers and informal conversation. One week, Margaret asked a simple question: "Were there ever any women scientists?"
The faculty answered firmly: No.
Someone mentioned Marie Curie. The group dismissed it—her husband Pierre really deserved the credit.
Margaret didn't argue. But she also didn't believe them.
So she started looking.
She found a reference book called "American Men of Science"—essentially a Who's Who of scientific achievement. Despite the title, she was shocked to discover it contained entries about women. Botanists trained at Wellesley. Geologists from Vermont.
There were names. There were credentials. There were careers.
The professors had been wrong.
But Margaret's discovery was just the beginning. Because as she dug deeper into archives across the country, she found something far more disturbing.
Photograph after photograph showed women standing at laboratory benches, working with equipment, listed on research teams.
But when she read the published papers, the award citations, the official histories—those same women had disappeared. Their names were missing. Their contributions erased.
It wasn't random. It was systematic.
Women who designed experiments watched male colleagues publish results without giving them credit. Women whose discoveries were assigned to supervisors. Women listed in acknowledgments instead of as authors. Women passed over for awards that went to male collaborators who contributed far less.
Margaret realized she was witnessing a pattern that stretched across centuries.
Women had always been present in science. The record had simply pushed them aside.
She needed a name for what she was documenting.
In the early 1990s, she found it in the work of Matilda Joslyn Gage—a 19th-century suffragist who had written about this exact phenomenon in 1870.
In 1993, Margaret published a paper formally naming it: The Matilda Effect.
The term captured something that had been hidden in plain sight for generations. Once you knew the term, you saw it everywhere.
Her dissertation became a lifelong mission.
For more than 30 years, Margaret researched and wrote her landmark three-volume series: Women Scientists in America. She examined letters, institutional policies, individual careers. She gathered undeniable evidence that women in science had been consistently under-credited and structurally excluded.
Her work faced resistance. Many dismissed women's history as political rather than academic. Others insisted she was exaggerating.
Margaret didn't argue emotionally. She presented data. Documented cases. Patterns repeated across decades and institutions.
Eventually, the evidence became undeniable.
Her research helped restore recognition to scientists who had been erased:
Rosalind Franklin, whose X-ray work revealed DNA's structure—credit went to Watson and Crick.
Lise Meitner, who explained nuclear fission—omitted from the Nobel Prize.
Nettie Stevens, who discovered sex chromosomes—received little credit.
Cecilia Payne-Gaposchkin, who discovered stars are made of hydrogen—initially dismissed.
And countless others whose names had nearly vanished.
Margaret changed the narrative. Science was no longer just the story of solitary male geniuses. It became a story of collaboration that included women who had been written out.
The Matilda Effect became standard terminology. Scholars used it to examine how credit is assigned, how authors are listed, who receives awards, who gets left out.