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wait you understand that kinks are ok because they're fantasies that make you happy right? you all get that you don't need to have trauma for your kinks to be okay? right? like none of you think i witnessed a tragic accident on the pool toy assembly line right?
like "some people work through their personal issues with kink" was a good first step for some of the class that were struggling but i think now we're ready for "things that don't hurt anyone and make people happy are okay even if you personally think it's icky"
BECAUSE ROUGE THE BAT DRAWN AS WIDE AS SHE IS TALL WITH TITS TO MATCH KILLED MY GRANDMA, OKAY?
1001 Nights (1998) Art: Yoshitaka Amano
captain picker isgonna finger himself
his wife is. 44 years old.
The fucking that old man website when someone actually fucks that old man
Tumblr is stuffed to the brim with 18-25 year olds who talk endlessly about being a hole for old men and have a heart attack the second a consenting adult is in a relationship with an old man
I wish kinky sex ed wasn't so stigmatized even among left-leaning "sex positive" circles. Everyone's all "uwu I'm a sub I'll do anything you ask" okay mommy wants you to read The New Bottoming Book so you learn how to sub without hurting yourself since your sex ed up to this point is porn and your ex boyfriend Jared who liked to choke you incorrectly
I’m so glad you asked! Let me list off what I’ve got for you:
Books I personally recommend:
- The New Topping Book and The New Bottoming Book, by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy
If you’re having kinky sex at all, you need to read at least one of these two books. Point blank. They’ll teach you the very basics of negotiating properly (which is critical!), and help you identify what you are and aren’t into.
- Mindfucking Mindfully, by Sir Ezra Where this book really shines isn’t actually in helping you “mindfuck” people, it’s in taking a close look at how to do so ethically. It’s a great answer to the question “how do I get someone to consent to something and still surprise and shock them with it?”
- Real Service by Raven Kaldera and Joshua Tenpenny This is a slightly niche pick but there simply isn’t a better book on the subject. It’s written from a 24/7 M/s perspective, which is not what I do, but the book itself is an indispensable guide to giving and receiving service. The phrase “if the Master doesn’t want it, it isn’t service” will be burned into my psyche for quite some time. I love this book a lot. Maybe my favorite out of all of these.
- Enough To Make You Blush: Exploring Erotic Humiliation, by Princess Kali This one’s high on my reading list; I’ve heard it recommended by a number of people whose opinions on these things I trust.
- Pretty Much Anything Midori Has Ever Done Midori is a great resource for this stuff - I haven’t personally read much of her work, but she’s a well known sex educator and great at what she does. She’s known for bondage, but has a lot of range beyond that.
- This Negotiations Worksheet from Bex Talks Sex This is what I default to using a lot of the time for negotiations. Forget BDSMtest, you don’t need that, it’s no good. Just look through this worksheet’s wordbank with your partner. Big fan especially of the “how do you want to feel?” section.
Books I can kind of recommend:
- The Ultimate Guide to Kink, edited by Tristan Taormino This book is weird. There’s a lot of good info for experienced players, but some of what’s written here skeeves me out. I think if I had a top that thought the way some of the tops in here think, they would not be topping me for long. But there’s some good techniques and so on to pick up that I wouldn’t have otherwise. I liked the distinction one of the authors makes between being sadistic in the sense of inflicting pain and being sadistic in the sense of doing something your sub doesn’t “enjoy.”
- The Ritual of Dominance and Submission, by David English Man, this book fucking sucks. The writing and editing are garbage, and the fear and protocol play described need way more careful negotiation than he ever lets on, let alone recommends. This is some 50 Shades bullshit. The only time I recommend this book is to tops like me who tend to be very affirming to their partners and need a guide on how to really scare them - when their partner consents and when you negotiate it, which this book sucks at teaching you. Really good content on fear, punishment, and protocol play, really terrible presentation of the topic though. Don’t read this if you don’t already know what you’re doing.
- Paradigms of Power, by Raven Kaldera I love this book. Great book. Very focused on 24/7 M/s play though, and, being an anthology, some chapters are better than others. If you can’t read something and pick out what is and isn’t for you, don’t bother. But some really great inspiration, and generally pretty well written. Big fan of the discussion of leather throughout the book.
Hope some of these are helpful for people ^-^ for the average person reading this I recommend New Bottoming/Topping, but they’re all important parts of my library and I’ve recommended all of them to friends at some point or another.
May I also suggest Hell on Wheels and Kneeling in Spirit by Raven Kaldera, d/s companion books that address kink with a disability. They're a should read for everyone, imo. You never know when you or a partner are going to have changes in your body that affect what you can physically do. Temporary illness/injury and even just age can affect your sex life.
I'd like to suggest Better Bondage for Every Body! It goes really in depth on anatomy, pain processing, self-tying, and has chapters specifically focusing on how to do rope bondage on/for someone who is disabled or has chronic pain, which was really important to me.
[Image ID: Tumblr reply from asStraightAsAU-turn reading: Okay but do you have some books for education on that matter? Im highly interested to get Actually educated on these topics /End ID]
is this a safe space to say that I want to pin someone against the wall and kiss them with teeth and tongue and then bring my lips up their jawline and down their neck with my hands lost in their hair... ?
Britain you’ve done enough dominating for a lifetime
okay this is the best reply everyone go home
while I don’t agree with that referring to men in their 30s-early 40s as “old man yaoi”, I UNDERSTAND why many people who primarily consume honest-to-goodness BL manga are quicker to call it that, because there is just such poor representation for men that aren’t hairless dehydrated 20-something twunks. They’re wrong, but I get why it happens.
I also understand that “middle-aged yaoi” isn’t as fun to say as “old man yaoi”, even when it’s more technically accurate.
So I would like to propose new vocabulary: Grown Ass Yaoi. yaoi that’s grown ass men. they’re not old but they’re not young adults either. you get me? Grown Ass Yaoi
WAIT—
the nsfw ban on Tumblr is temporarily lifted every time you scroll your for you tab at work
mature content warnings on text posts of nothing but letters on a screen. . . remember when you were allowed to post like an adult and not be shamed or silenced for it
there is no acceptable explanation for this post being given a mature content warning outside of saying that you are an adult baby on the cyber nanny website!
They hate me for being a horny pervert but I have warriors defending my honour across the globe
Sex scene as character study is so good. What is your relationship to your body? What is your relationship to your partner? What lessons have you absorbed from the culture about yourself as a sexual being? How much do you have to trust someone before being comfortable with intimacy? What fears and insecurities come to the fore for you when you take your clothes off? It's so good.
How do they communicate? How do they expect others to communicate? How well do they understand their body and their own capacity for pleasure? What do they tend to do to make their partner feel comfortable? How comfortable are they showing emotion in front of others? How much insight do they have into what their own emotions mean and are connected to? What are they focused on during the encounter? How conscious are they of exchanges of power and vulnerability? very very very good
FUCK
ads these days are so sensitive to being tapped like darling my fingers barely brushed you and youre already opening yourself for me... well close those damn legs. dont make me get the taser
it's just a nosebleed don't worry
sometimes home is a person
please don't say that
i think it goes without saying but is still worth noting, my beef with booktok literature is 100% about the quality. i LOVE housewives reading weird porn. i wish they would do it more
on the contrary: as an author of weird porn, it is literally actually my job
Tim's eye is twitching.
Specifically his right eye, so it's safe to assume that Tim has also clocked the scene unfolding at coat check, where Bernard's date has just arrived.
If his left eye were twitching, it would mean that he hasn't slept in a few days, or has had too many stimulants, or spent too many hours looking at a screen or reading case files in an effort to brute force his way into a breakthrough.
"Bernard," he growls through gritted teeth, fist clenched on his wine glass so tightly that Bernard thinks he might actually hear the thin vessel singing a death scream.
But Tim's right eye is twitching, which means that he is hanging on to his self-control and/or civilian identity — the bland, brilliant, bisexual-and-literally-nothing-else-of-interest CEO of Wayne Enterprises — by the finest of threads, and is genuinely considering whether it would be worth it to do something inadvisable.
In this case, Bernard suspects that the 'something inadvisable' Tim's genuinely considering is storming across this ballroom to bend Conner "aw-shucks" Kent over the coat check counter and rail him until he cries.
Bernard couldn't honestly say he isn't also genuinely considering that himself, so it's not like he could blame Tim for it if he did.
He thinks that would probably be the least surprising development in the situation for the slightly stunned looking coat check clerk who is passing Conner "aw-shucks golly-gosh darn" Kent a numbered ticket in a trembling hand while her eyes dart around in an effort to find somewhere respectable to land. She doesn't have many options.
In all fairness to Tim, his right eye, and the slightly stunned looking coat check clerk, Bernard can admit that it's probably his fault that his date, Conner "aw-shucks golly-gosh darn, here lemme get that door for'ya, ope just gonna squeeeeze past'ya" Kent, just walked into the Wayne Enterprises Holiday Gala wearing an outfit that is only 'a tuxedo' in the most basic sense.
He is indeed wearing the pants and jacket that Tim bought him just last week — accompanied by what they both now understand to have been the unclear advice that, "You can't go wrong with a black tuxedo, so pair this with anything classy under the jacket. If you want to wear makeup or jewelry, just keep it simple, with colors that match your outfit. Don't fret baby, you'll be the best arm candy Bernard could ask for, and you know I'll be watching you all night, too. If you can be good and stick with Bernard for the whole gala, we'll give you a treat once we're back home."
Bernard has a dazed thought that Kon accidentally brought the treat to the gala, and that he and Tim might not be good enough at being good to be tested like this in public.
In all fairness to Kon, he fulfilled the brief to the letter, even if the slightly nervous look on his face as he scans the crowd for them makes it clear that he didn't fully understand the spirit and isn't entirely sure why he's drawing the kind of attention he is in this social environment.
In the right context, brocade is an undeniably classy element of many formal pieces, and there are many in attendance tonight sporting a plunging neckline with copious amounts of cleavage.
His color choices can't be faulted, either, as Kon's far from the only person at the gala wearing primarily black with accents of gold — the hint of gold sparkles on his eyelids are boldly underlined with a gentle smudge of black eyeliner, and he's even wearing the matching set of gold rings and studs in all of his piercings that they just gave him for their anniversary, so his entire outfit is stunningly put-together, in Bernard's opinion.
Really, he would be hard-pressed to name any better, more delicious, more downright fucking edible arm candy in the entire hotel than his half-Kryptonian boyfriend, even if it's making his much more human boyfriend's right eye twitch.
In all fairness to Bernard, when Kon had asked earlier that week about styling a corset, Bernard had assumed it was for the upcoming Burlesque Night at their favorite BDSM club.
everyone should blame and/or thank @opalsong and @tigerlilyandcherryblossom for engaging with me on this post about male corsetry thirst traps, because this is what came of it, despite the very high number of things!!! I still!!! need to do today 😭😭 Why isn't adulting more interesting than sexy fictional boys?
