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When I am at ‘hating Criston Cole competition’ and then these three show up
RANT ABOUT THE HOTD FANDOM AND ADHD STRUGGLES WHILE IN IT
Please read and if you do thank you.
And no judgements please I already do it enough with myself.
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I don't even know what to call this maybe it's parasocial and if so then so be it, but I do also think it has a lot to do with my ADHD and anxiety, bc I just had to click "not interested" on everything HOTD related on Twitter so that maybe my feed would get the hint and not recommend me more posts from people commenting on the show, and so far it has worked but Idk if it's gonna hold up for long, but I think it's so ridiculous that I felt the need to do that, not only is it ridiculous on my part but also from the fandom in general bc the people constantly hating, and I feel like I need to say this everytime bc people don't understand it, I mean HATE, NOT CRITICISM, are completely ruining this fandom and everyone else's experience in it, bc while this happens on TikTok, Instagram, reddit and basically any social media I feel like Twitter is the hotspot for trolls, haters and book purists that can't even handle the color of something being changed. And I think my experience was getting so fucked bc part of me wanted to see what people thought about it, but I knew that if I went on Twitter it would all be unnecessary nitpicking, bc there's no one there that will actually talk about the show like a normal person, it's either people being weirdos by hate watching or exaggerating the shit out of everything, so I always told myself I shouldn't go there I can't go there bc people there annoy me and I end up hyperfixating on those comments and automatically it brings me anxiety, but if anyone has ADHD or experiences hyperfixations, they know very well that they are hard to just stop, obviously, so I would always go back to see it, and I tried to change my mindset to "it's people just ragebaiting or being annoying, or it's their opinion and no matter how stupid it is, that's life, it doesn't affect me" and I've kept the mind set of "it doesn't affect my life" bc it really doesn't, but everything else went out the window, bc I started seeing people who were probably baiting for attention, or they were just straight up dumb, but I also saw a lot of misogyny and people that claim to be fans of the story and were completely missing the whole point of it, and that bothered me so much it's ridiculous, and even though I knew this comments annoyed me and bothered me my hyperfixation still made me go and look at more of them, I'm literally right now fighting it, it's awful. And the worst part is that I know very well that while I clicked on "not interested" in a lot of posts and now I haven't seen a post about Hotd on it yet, I know for a fact that this won't stop me, it will somehow make it worse bc I'm gonna end up going to the search bar and searching for the show or characters, and lately the search bar has been all fucked up so I won't see the popular posts I will see the random ass posts that will range from a multitude of things that will resemble what my feed was like, and I have to fight myself not to do that, bc I don't want to delete Twitter, I have multiple accounts and while I'm only not okay with deleting one of them (it's one that has nothing to do with pop culture or shows) I know that I will eventually use that one if I delete the other, it's actually crazy, this is what ADHD does to my fucking brain so the next person that romanticizes ADHD literally fuck you.
I would also appreciate some type of advice on controlling this, I don't wanna say urges bc that sounds really weird but it's the best way to explain it, of wanting to search for shit that I know will bother me, and also tips for anything else at this point lmao.
It also doesn't help that I feel so protective of certain characters bc I feel like they are so misunderstood by "fans" that just wanna scream and claim that it's bad writing, and other stuff about them in general that I always become like a fucking bodyguard to them.
It's nice to see someone who has the same fucking experience here as I do. And unfortunately that experience is just not nice at all.
I was supposed to go "into hibernation" from the fandom until next week but here I am again because people are attacking the actors themselves, especially Matt Smith for playing Daemon. Way too many book purists at that, raging on about how fans of the show are intellectually declined and morally flawed simply because we actually enjoy the show.
And I can't help but to talk about it. To write about it. On everywhere. I don't interact with the fandom on twitter because I just KNOW how insane it'll be on there. On Instagram, the ones I do interact with are chill and actually have a sense of humour and know how to watch a show without taking things too seriously and going crazy. I've dealt with a couple raging incels on there as well, but then there's a lot of good fans on there that have my back.
I don't interact with the fandom on tiktok either because of the cancel culture on there, and on YouTube, it's easier to express your thoughts about the characters and episodes in the comments, though you will still be attacked. And there's not a single person on YouTube who actually enjoys the show and everyone on there is a book purist because as always, being a book purist automatically makes you intellectually inclined to and better than the rest of us and you do need to be extremely wise and smart to make 2 hour long commentary videos about why exactly you hate the show is disgusting and sucks and anyone who enjoys it is a worm who deserves to die. So I steer clear of YouTube regularly except when I just can't control myself which is at least once a day.
I really don't even know how to permanently get rid of this fandom from my feed. I've been engaging with a lot more other fandoms just so I can finally be free of it, but it keeps appearing every now and then and even when I manage to not engage, it just keeps coming. Of course, I don't think either of us would be having this problem in the first place if a good amount of this fandom just knew how to remain civil.
I’ve been thinking lately how Rhaenyra, and by extension her family, receives some of the most baffling hate I’ve ever seen in my years of being in fandom spaces. It’s obsessive almost on a psychological level. They don’t hate her because of flaws in her morality, because if that was the case they would take issue with other characters that they never seem to speak on, to the surprise of no one. The male fans especially hate her in a way that feels sexual in nature. The way they talk about her, it’s always her body or her sexuality that they criticize. It's almost reminiscent of the way Aemond speaks about her, or Criston Cole. They rejoice at her death, which was sexualized as well. Posting memes depicting her screaming and crying in her final moments as a way to ‘own’ team black stans. They hate her in a violent, sexual manner because…they cannot control her, because she doesn’t conform to what the patriarchy expects of her. And then the whole of team green fans roll their eyes when you say this.
“She’s not the feminist girl boss you think she is!”
As if saying that defying patriarchy is something to roll your eyes and be annoyed about? Her rejecting patriarchal expectations isn’t the same thing as saying she’s a feminist, it’s a literal fact about her character. She takes what little charge in her own sexual agency that she can. She takes a lover, she causes a scandal, she finds what slice of happiness she can in a world that is never concerned with a woman’s happiness, and they want us to begrudge her over this? When they themselves post graphics and quotes about the sorrow from every female character that has endured an arranged marriage and suffered at the hands of men? The male fans of team green I never expect much from, but what’s truly bizarre is how many women join hands with them in the obsessive hatred and over criticism of Rhaenyra. Suddenly violence against women is acceptable and hilarious because said character is morally flawed, and her stans are all shrieking idiots, of course.They believe Rhaenyra stans are all braindead and clearly can’t see that it’s a story about how BOTH sides are bad, they just want their feminist girl boss to be queen, only they see the true story of course. That in a gendered conflict, it’s not tone deaf at all to sing the man’s praises for his bare minimum actions, he’s a fighter, doing this all for his family, giving him a noble and heroic light while characterizing the woman as a selfish, spoiled princess that deserved her death. This is the correct reading of the text, according to them. They are very intelligent of course.
And yet somehow, they still aren’t satisfied. They gear all their content towards hating and criticizing Rhaenyra. Many of them make more content about her than their supposed favorite characters, and if they do talk about them, somehow Rhaenyra still ends up in the conversation, it’s like they can’t help themselves. Usually hatred for a character can be traced to a reason, like they get in the way of a ship, or they do something truly heinous, but with Rhaenyra it’s different. There’s misogyny of course, but it also feels like compensation. Team green characters have never been beloved or analyzed to the point they are now. The show reinvented them and completely changed the game for how the fandom perceives the dance, when before, the greens had been seen as antagonists with little depth, and readers drew connections with Rhaenyra and the women that came before and after her. But now the greens have been given sad eyes, you see. Sad eyes and ‘nuance’. First they boasted that they were a ‘complex’ villainous family and this made them more interesting against Rhaenyra and her family. Then they shifted the narrative that actually they all had noble intentions, and were originally a united front, and came out on top in every scenario, and only REAL book readers know this.
Except this was a lie, as are most things they continue to claim about these characters, like Aegon being a heroic warrior, or Alicent being a political genius. Why then do they push it so much? Probably because outside of their circle, the reaction to the greens remained unchanged. Despite finally gaining a real fandom, their popularity could never match team black’s, and they were still largely considered as antagonists and no one was interested in engaging with their characters beyond treating them exactly as the source material does, as bitter antagonists. It’s like team green stan’s saw what most people thought of their new beloved characters and doubled down and channeled their hatred towards Rhaenyra because of it, and are willing to hold hands with actual misogynists in solidarity over it. How dare nobody take the complex nuance of the shakespearean greek tragedy that is the greens seriously and instead support the feminist girlboss Dany wannabe instead.
And of course, Rhaenyra is the main focus of their hatred, but by extension all of the characters on her team need to be stripped of anything positive, the whole ship has to go down. Jace was a loser who died in his first battle, and he would have had a terrible reign as king anyways being a bastard of course. Nevermind that the text does nothing but highlight him as a good and worthy heir, and his death was considered tragic. Daemon had an embarrassing death, having to kill himself just to take out Aemond. Nevermind that his death was seen as legendary and epic, having songs made out of it. Baela’s attempt at defeating Aegon was laughably bad compared to Aegon and Sunfyre’s heroic triumph. Let’s not take into consideration at all that she stayed with her dragon all the way down while Aegon jumped from his and broke his legs and Sunfyre only became more twisted and deformed after taking the life of another dragon. Definitely nothing more to analyze here at all. These are all the correct interpretations of the text and not at all opinions that only generated after the show popularized the greens, opinions that are not even shared in the universe of the text itself.
“Thousands died. Yet none of these losses were felt so deeply as that of Jacaerys Velaryon, Prince of Dragonstone, heir to the Iron Throne.”
“And it was then, the tales tell us, that Prince Daemon Targaryen swung a leg over his saddle and leapt from one dragon to the other.”
“Baela’s dragon brought down our late king.”
No, of course Rhaenyra is just a wannabe girlboss queen and her sides are all flops worthy of being laughed at while great minds and thinkers analyze the depth of Aegon and Alicent's complexities (and cheer for the downfall of a woman’s suffering in a gendered conflict in a book where gender is a central topic). This was definitely the point of the story and misogyny, fake intellectualism, and spiteful over compensation haven’t combined into a bizarre obsessive hate campaign against a victim of patriarchy. And if you don’t agree well, you clearly just haven’t read ‘the books’.
"The show wants us to believe Alicent was such a good ruler while constantly claiming she always had men in her way, that makes no sense."
Well, yes. That's the whole point, I fear.
For a fandom that always complain about nuances and the show making every character too "two-dimensional", you yourselves are really lacking on that matter. Some of the criticism against episode 3 prove it yet again.
One of the main focus of the show is pointing out the struggle women, including in upper position, faced because of society's mysoginy. Both Alicent and Rhaenyra's entire lives illustrate it perfectly.
Alicent's dependant on the men around her, unlike Rhaenyra, she's born royal and was never meant to have a power other than they are willing to grant her. Her authorithy relies on her father, her husband, then her sons. Her regency was permitted because she was supported by men, and tolerated by others (out of regard for the first). During S1 E6, we see Alicent and Rhaenyra in the small council, Viserys is there to support their power, so the rest of them aren't going to dimish it in front of him. Yet, Rhaenyra's inheritance had always been questioned because of her sex, therefore Alicent, who spent her entire life cathering, is very much aware than her own position is questioned.
Alicent was Viserys's regent, him being still alive and sometimes conscious prevented the rest of the small council from denying Alicent's authorithy. She was also the daughter of the Hand, I highly doubt Otto would have let someone else take over Alicent's position (not when it benefits him so well). So from episode 6 to 8, Alicent's power doesn't seem question. We do need to consider that we aren't told how the entirety of Alicent's. Who knows how exactly they were treating her during that time? It is likely that her decisions were being doubted in a way Viserys's wouldn't have been. And again, tolerance isn't acceptance nor respect.
Yet, in episode 9, same episodewe see the crack of this facade as soon as Viserys passed. He was the bridge of her power and that fridge collapsed. We are revealed that the small council had been planning to usurp and kill Rhaenyra without involving her. If they hid something that important to her, the mother of the very man they're planning to crown, what makes you think it's the only matter they kept her in the dark about? Cole killed another member who wasn't aware of the conspiracy and opposed to it. It's further proofs that, even amongst the men, the small council wasn't honest within one another. Why wouldn't that apply to Alicent as well? Why wouldn't they be whispering behind her back as well?
Through S1, we see various characters plotting against Viserys's will and questioning him. How do you not believe they were doing the same thing to Alicent? A woman? Only in her position through marriage? The main reason behind the Greens faction is that Rhaenyra is a woman so she shouldn't rule. Do you genuinely think people with that mentality won't treat their own women the same, even they're forced to accept her?
Then, Aegon is crowned and Alicent's downfall began. As the queen and the prince (non-heir), his mother was above him. When Viserys died that hierachy shift. We moved on to S2 and we saw Alicent losing her authority bites by bites. It started when Viserys died and Aegon became king, it worsened when Otto got replaced by Cole (he was no longer there to support her) and reached its peak when Aemond was made regent and kicked her out of the council. Times and times through S2, Alicent was reminded that she was just a woman and for this exact reason, she was never fully accepted (again, one of the main of the show).
Alicent was the most qualified to be regent: she had already done correctly it, she has the qualities requiered from a ruler, she had been in the small council for 16 years at most. But she's refused because she's a woman. They favored Aemond over, someone much younger, with no experience, dangerous and unstable, and who's barely been attended the small council for few months/weeks. Aemond worsened the conflict by killing Luke, as she said "Aemond is young. And his lack of restraint has already cost us dearly, while Alicent tried to do the smart thing: negociated with the other party to avoid a war. Despite her competences, despite her attempt to serve them, they once again disminished her because of her genitals. They wouldn't have done it if they believed in her from the start. Alicent was no longer above them and the king being bedrotted and unconscious, there was no one to prevent them what they have always wanted: deny her. So, how have you watched S2 and still claimed that Alicent saying that men have worked against her is absurd?
Even among the Blacks (some of which are just there out of loyalty for Viserys and/or hatred for the Greens, not because they genuinely believe in women's right to rule), Rhaenyra is still victim of mysoginy. Rhaenyra is the previous king's first born child and his chosen, yet she still has to face it, why would that be any different for Alicent who is somehow an intruder in their world? I thought we all knew that siding with your opresssors won't ever make them view as their equal. That's a reality Alicent had to learn.
Viserys himself contributed to lessening her. He treated her as his sexual object and baby machine (just like he did with Aemma). He ridiculed her when she tried to a good hostess for Daemon by showing him the tapestries (definitely not the first nor last time). He constantly made her feel like her and her children were replacements and second thoughts. He diminished and invalidated her words, like her claim of Rhaenyra's children being bastards (the truth). He let her be humiliated and acted like she was being unreasonable when Aemond lost his eye. If her own husband treated her like that, other men disrespecting her was also happening.
So yes, the show saying that Alicent was good ruler while acknowledging that men have worked against is logical. It's litterally what happened. Two things can be true at once.
As much as there is a lot valid criticisms against hotd, sometimes, some of you are mistaking your disliking of the story and refusal to understand it for that same reason for actual bad writing.
I don't understand how anyone in their right mind could look at this man and decide I want to defend him. I 100% believe that he would not sit there and lie still cheat or do anything horrible to four or about anybody for the pure sake that this clear looks like a little angel baby love child from heaven who is not greedy or money hungry nope. Cannot imagine can't fathom that he's just such a cutie patooty.
Like I genuinely look at this man I'm like he looks like every corporate white old fuck head in America and every corporate white old Asian dude in China who has way too much money sits on a multi-billion dollar company and has more scandals and illegal shit he does than there are Graves on the planet.
alicent deserves to be raped for betraying rhae
First off, I don't know who exactly you are and couldn't care less btw. That's just disgusting.
Alicent was groomed her entire life by her father and guilt tripped into believing what he wanted. She betrayed rhaenyra out of her devotion to her father's cause. And obviously, that's something that's difficult to part from.
Now saying she deserves to be raped for betraying rhaenyra? That's a whole level of retardation I've not yet seen in the fandom. You've most likely never been raped before. Nobody DESERVES to be raped or sexually assaulted in any way. Not even Otto Hightower or Criston Cole.
There was no necessary cause for including any of her sexual assault scenes in the show. They added nothing, and were addressed never. Hopefully this anon gets some therapy and gets off the internet because this fandom and show may have changed you or fucked you up that bad to be having this mindset.
I will now be offline until next week and hopefully the hotd fandom won't be here to harass me by then.
i'm still here!!!!! #SAEMOND
This is what we need the fandom to be like. Not death threats and tearing each other apart...
Your fucking disgusting and youll fucking be rped by your ugly and disgusting father. Suck a cock and know your place, bitch. I'll laugh when snot nyra and her bitch ass gets eaten and burnt.
Okay.
Oh after being on YouTube for an hour I'm more so glad about Criston's death. Hopeless, dishonourable, short.
Bruh no one is upset about them not being explicit that gwayne is Bi.
Everyone is upset about being policed about interpreting gwayne as bi.
Like?
Oh anon(I have a hint of whom this might be), if only you saw the posts your buddies are making about being angry at the writers making him gay and not bi...
Prime example being the on I reposted a couple hours ago. And since you most likely came from that post, I'll remind you that the person who's post I reposted literally made it a point that they were pissed at the writers for making him gay and that it could lead to stereotypes. Mind you, the writers haven't even confirmed this.
Reading too much into it.
If the writers were gonna out him, they wouldn't have done it as so. And now our dear friend ALSO wants the writers to write him as bi, instead of gay. Another issue. The writers wouldn't put him in that fashion.
Again, reading TOO much into it.
starting to see ppl annoy women who think Gwayne is attractive
“You know he’s gay right?” Are you aware that bisexual men are real 😭 like bi men exist
Coming into a fandom late
Coming into a fandom early and watching it become an angry clusterfuck
Being in a dormant fandom that suddenly comes alive again after a new book/movie
Don’t forget about those who come in the midst of a fandom war.
Accuracy at its best
Being in a fandom and not even knowing there’s a war going on…
all of this shit…lol
When You’re Not In The Fandom But You’re Nosy AF
When you get into a fandom only to discover it’s dead
This gets better every time I see it.
@fuboos-mess
Being in a dead fandom…
Or being in such a tiny fandom that it feels like youre the only one
The accuracy hurts.
Being in a fandom that had a shit ending.
When you’ve been fangirling long enough, you’ve experienced all of the above.
Being in a fandom meant for kids.
This just gets better..
@mi-kleos
When you realize that joining the fandom has ruined you
Fandom hell in general
Yes.
This^^^ just… ALL OF THIS.
Being in so many fandoms that you don’t even know what’s going on
THIS IS THE SKULDUGGERY FUCKING PLEASANT FANDOM IN ONE POST!!
Trying to recruit people to your fandom
Annnnnnndddd it’s back
Being in a fandom which has so many antis
I’ve probably reblogged this before, but that was before these great additions.
Being in a fandom that actually works together
Why is this so true? All of it.
being in a fanbase but all your mutuals suddenly turn into Kpop blogs
I always enjoy it when a good post comes around again and has been improved by the reblogs like the years for a fine wine.
Being in a fandom when shit goes down and everyone has different opinions
When you are in a fandom and don’t care for others people opinion…..even if they are right…(believe me, I have met several of those)
Being in a fandom you never meant to join
I love this. and it’s gotten better
After abandoning a fandom you’re still a little bit emotionally invested in….
All of these are me. Lol
Being in a fandom on Tumblr
And it reached its epic conclusion
I CHOKED ON FUNDIP
HISTORY HAS BEEN ENGRAVED INTO THIS POST
Okay so I just watched the episode. And I think we're now building up to a really dangerous path now.
I'm really busy rn so I'll skim across this real quick the way a team greener thinks some of us talk, enjoy.
I feel bad for Hugh and Kat.
I felt bad for Ulf till he sent that coat to Rhaenyra and now he's gonna betray her.
Daemon shouldn't have hit him. Ulf is too stubborn and isn't fit for the dragon rider/ servant life.
I was so disgusted with the Alyn and Baela ship but I see some of y'all blaming Condal and Hess for this when it's literally canon. Let me see anyone asking for canon again...
I WAS disgusted- because she's known Jace her entire life and they were so close and amazing for each other but she's had only one interaction with Alyn and there was nothing that even hinted at a romance- until the kiss. The kiss was hot. It was the hottest Hot D kiss I've ever seen and I was so hyped. Don't shame me I simply got exited and loved it cus who doesn't love a good kiss? Honestly I expected the writers to swerve this one and put her with Addam since they've all decided to keep Baela betrothed forever since she patrols with him more often and has been with him longer than Alyn. But then again, the kiss was super hot, as unholy and insane as it was.
I'm not longer an Alys fan. Why Aemond? He's gross and I hate that she has dragon eggs now they may be powerful.
Gwayne why did you stop the assassins? That's so bad (do it again) you shouldn't have, you know Ormund is bad (I know you did it for Daeron of course) and the assassins were only coerced by team black it's not their fault( i still love you). But seriously. You get to Tumbleton and you just tell the boy you're leaving just like that? No hug? No reassurance whatsoever??? Please, you can't possibly do this to us.
Yeah, I'll update y'all later when I get more energy.
I might delete this if the perception is bad and reminder that this is my post and my blog so if you wanna be hateful, I'm just going to block you, sorry not sorry.
I don’t hate the idea of Gwayne Hightower being gay, but I really dislike it. To be entirely clear upfront, this isn’t coming from a place of homophobia - I’m a bisexual woman with a solid group of queer friends, including a gay best friend who actually agrees with me on this exact take. I’ve thought about this specific trope in other fandoms, and I just think the writers made a bad call here.
First off, there’s pretty much a universal agreement across the fandom that Gwayne is one of the very few men in House of the Dragon and honestly, the broader ASOIAF universe who actually treats women with basic respect and behaves like a decent human being. By turning around and writing him as gay, it almost feels like falling into that stereotypical trap where a man can only be kind, gentle, and respectful toward women if he has zero romantic or sexual interest in them. It subtly reinforces this weird narrative that straight (or women-attracted) men in Westeros are inherently toxic, and that respect from a man only comes with a lack of attraction.
Second, I’m genuinely dreading what this is going to do to the online fandom culture. We all know how toxic certain spaces can get and this decision feels like it's going to awaken a very annoying corner of the internet with new reasons to be misogynistic. It won't be long before people start gatekeeping him with comments like, "He’s for the men only now," or "Women need to stop thirsting over him." It’s going to lead to endless discourse and fandom policing over whether women are even "allowed" to make edits, write fanfiction, or crush on him anymore.
And at the risk of sounding like "that friend that's too woke", it honestly feels misogynistic on a smaller level. Why is it that whenever the writers manage to create a likable, non-threatening, respectful male character, he gets removed from the table for women entirely? It feels like a slap in the face to female fans who just wanted one good guy who is actually attracted to women. We deserve to have decent male characters who like women too, even if it’s just in a fictional fantasy setting.
If the writers were determined to give him queer representation, making him bisexual would have made so much more sense. It would have preserved his appeal, fit the world naturally, and avoided handing toxic fans a weapon to police women, something that women in this fandom already have to deal with plenty enough. At the end of the day, it just feels like a lazy choice to make Ormund seem worse and make Gwayne a sterotype.
That might just be me though and I'm more than happy to have this conversation with people in a HEALTHY and NONARGUMENTIVE enviroment.
From what I saw and deduced this episode, there was only a tiny hint of him being gay. And by a tiny I mean a 0.01% chance of the writers planning on displaying that information.
I think people are reading too much into it. There was no mention, and that tiny sliver Ormund let out could have meant anything else. Now the entire fandom has lost its mind trying to make sense of him being gay or straight or bi. And it's weird as hell, expecting the writers to write him as bi, when he hasn't even been confirmed gay at all.
What did we expect Ormund to say? "You found solace in your brothers AND sisters"????
With the way some hotd fans talk about Rhaenyra you'd think team black somehow murdered their families in cold blood. And no, miss me with the "you're being disgusting and insensitive to people who've actually lost their families", we're all watching a show about way worse shit going on and I can assure you, I will keep making these comparisons because some of you actually move that way.
It's like you'd expect team black to actually respond that way or retaliate in a similar fashion but no. And the few that do are always attacked in an insane way, more than you could have expected. I made it clear a while ago that I did not do teams, because I see how flawed each person is, and the team they're on is. But I'm sorry team greeners take the cake when it comes to projection and this nastiness whenever they talk about Rhaenyra in particular. Don't call me crazy either because I'm not even exaggerating.
They talk about her with this intense malice and putridness. The way Criston Cole and Aemond talk about her. And when you do call that out, they somehow flip it on you and accuse you of labelling them. Well I'm actually going to call you a weird piece of shit ass incel if you talk like one and act like one and take criticism like one. There is no context where you would need to go all caps like a 13 year old kpop stan, going crazy with the red font and shaming the actors themselves for no reason if you weren't insane.
They attack not just the characters (which is somewhat immature btw), but the actors themselves, AND the fans. I search the team black tag and it's just fans celebrating their faves and having discussions, and then I search the team green tags and it's a whole bunch of BULLSHIT.
I'm trying to find a reason to stay unbiased but I'm being forced to choose here.
You know what's pathetic and cowardly as fuck? Using "the boycott won't even work, the girls are too popular with casual listeners who don't know what's happening" as an excuse for why YOU PERSONALLY won't boycott.
What, you won't boycott because others won't boycott? That's actually really pathetic. You're refusing to take action because you assume beforehand that it won’t succeed, even though the boycott could still have value.
That's defeatism, activist defeatism, apathy, cynicism, fatalism, status quo bias, whatever you wanna call it, at the end, it's pathetic.
Assuming that an action is worthless unless it achieves total success is PATHETIC.
A boycott does not necessarily have to completely destroy a famous company to have an effect. We're doing this to raise awareness, create reputational pressure, reduce ADOR's sales at the margins and influence those dumb money hungry investors.