to where the stars lay

if i let myself dream, maybe one day i'll know who i should be.

[khittheungkun]

( PERSONAL ) st. ives

st. ives template.

appearance into the mind academics backstory connections muse name written by pen name for st. ives chara

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ST. IVES minimalistic ﹒simple ﹒single-muse ﹒greys & blues

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finished this google doc template for a server i'm in! they're very swag and it was a blast to make this template. while this template is specifically used for st. ives, this can be used for a character in any academic settings. not marking this at an official template. ( also how does one make a side-blog a primary blog since my primary blog is for sonic fanart and i don't want to look at it anymore omgogmg but dok-champa is me !! ) ENDORSE @anzus-domain THEIR DOCS R SO COOL !!

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FEATURES side-bar navigation ﹒connections sheet ﹒academic information simple colour scheme ﹒spotify link

﹒make sure the credit is untouchable! it shouldn't be deleted at all costs ﹒please keep in mind that the filler text shows the limits of how far you can go without breaking the format, make sure your text is within the limits for best experience ﹒want to edit the image behind the "character synopsis?" they can be edited by right clicking the are and then clicking "select image" and viola! you can edit it ﹒easier to edit this on computer & laptop as opposed to phones ﹒feel free to jazz up the colour scheme !! have fun !!

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[rikushiwolf]

They are talking about dinosaurs

[poser-trouble]

me and the gang on discord taking turns to infodump

[renthony]

ANOYFBAB: Assigned None Of Your Fucking Business At Birth

[slowlyshytheorist]

My good people, I give you: Amatonormativity.

[frogsdocrimes]

[ID: a series of images of a person with light skin and short hair, gesturing and speaking into a microphone. captions in the images read:

You and this perfect person who you’ve never met before, to come out of nowhere, fit your life perfectly, complete you and make you whole for the first time in your life, much like your mother did for me.”

And even though what he said sounds sweet or whatever, what it manifested in my seven-year-old brain was this, “If you are not with someone, you are broken. If you are not with someone, you are incomplete. If you are not with someone, you are not whole.”

And that’s not just something my dad made me feel, that’s something that we as a society have made every single child born in the last 40 years feel. Every Disney princess has a prince, every prince has a princess, every television show or movie always has a character in it that doesn’t want to be in a relationship. They’re happy with who they are. But then by the end of the series, guess what. They were wrong! They were wrong for wanting to be alone, what a fucking idiot. Everyone needs someone, yeah. It’s all to do with love.

And when you raise children in that world, where everything points towards love, when you’ve raised them for 18 fucking years, when we become an adult for the first time in our late teens and our early 20s, we’re so terrified. We’re so trying to be an adult that some of us will take the wrong person, the wrong jigsaw piece, and just fucking jam them into our jigsaws anyway, denying that they clearly don’t fit. I’m gonna force this fucking person into our lives, because we’d much rather have something than nothing.

Then five years later, you’re stood looking at a jigsaw you don’t recognize, being like, “Ah! There’s a fucking cunt in the middle of this.” And in that moment you have a very, very difficult question to ask yourself. Do I admit the last five years of my life have been a waste? Do I waste the rest of my life?

My generation has become so obsessed with starting the rest of their lives that they’re willing to give up the one they are currently living. We have romanticized the idea of romance, and it is cancerous. People are more in love with the idea of love than the person they are with. The worst thing you can do with your life is spend it with the wrong human being.

/ end ID]

[milfmacbeth]

you COMMENT on fic? you comment on the story like it's worth something? oh! oh! love for reader! love for reader for One Thousand Years!!!!

[noc10-moved]

*parts a bead curtain as i enter the room, carrying a glass of lemonade* 

hey….

nothing you ever read, watch, or participate in will be ideologically pure and without its problems. your quest to consume the most unproblematic material will be, in the end, fruitless. your enjoyment of anything will be sapped away, leaving you a husk starved for media.

 it is okay to enjoy things that have problems to them, so long as you do it critically and with an open mind, and take care to consider others.

*leaves the way i came*

[more-witches]

This is possibly the healthiest post I’ve seen on this site

[tordenvejr]

there is no audience to perform for, there is no approval, no admiration to attain. there is no role worth playing, there is no one to convince. let it go

[seigesinbin]

Lol a mom and in your 30s? What're u doing writing smut?

[fataldrum]

Here’s the thing: asexuality and desexualization are two very different things. 

Asexuality is a sexual orientation and identity. It’s a part of who someone is. 

Desexualization is the process of removing or ignoring sexuality. It’s often part of stereotypes.

Example of desexualization: forcing disabled characters into chaste maternal roles while abled characters get to have fully realized sexual/romantic lives.

Not an example of desexualization: writing a disabled character who is also asexual. 

Desexualization is a huge problem with representations of disabled people, neurodivergent people, people of color, fat people, and other groups. 

Writing people from those groups as asexual is not a problem, nor is it desexualization. Those are two different issues. 

Headcanoning an asexual character as a member of those groups is not a problem, and is also not desexualization. People can be fat, neurodivergent, disabled, non-white, and ace at the same time. Asexuals, people of color, fat people, ND people, and disabled folks all deserve to see themselves in fiction without being told their existence is problematic or a stereotype. 

[nudityandnerdery]

Reblog if you are bisexual, pansexual, or asexual, if you support bisexuals, pansexuals, and asexuals, or

There’s no third, funny option, just the first two because it’s good to just support people because they deserve support.

[votedami]

The thing I hate most about depression is that it tricks you into thinking you don’t have depression. It makes you think that nothing is wrong with you, that you just feel this way because you lack value as a person. Whether that’s in your relationships, your academics, or a view of yourself, it makes you think you aren’t good enough for any of that.

“It’s not the illness,” it says, “You feel this way because it’s who you are.”

[adhdedrn]

“Mental illness is like fighting a war where the enemy’s strategy is to convince you that the war isn’t actually happening.”

[disease-danger-darkness-silence]

Me: I can’t get out of bed today, what is wrong with me. I’m so lazy and terrible and I am a huge flake and there has got to be something wrong with me. My brain: There is no war in Ba Sing Se.

[lesbianfreyja]

what’s with the weird stigma that being closeted is okay but only if it would be physically unsafe for you to come out? coming out is YOUR business, if you know it would be fine & nothing would happen to you & nobody would care, but you don’t want to anyway, that’s your choice and it’s perfectly valid.

[karshmallow]

achilles’ ward 🥺

[nineherbscharm]

is there anything funnier than somebody who has a tumblr account trying to seem like theyre above fandom

[bisexual-cyborg]

via @coniello

[legsdemandias]

no one writes love stories better than aromantics send 

[careful-knives]

The amount of care and detail aroaces put into writing steamy romances is unreal.

[legsdemandias]

The thing is we can’t rely on “love at first sight” or “it just is” logic because we don’t have that button, so instead we build relationships up and up and up, realistically, the only way we could imagine love happening 

[holybikinisbatman]

us 👏 aro 👏 aces 👏 make 👏 it 👏 happen 👏

[sailsofsalt]

Aroaces writing romance:

[mikkeneko]

listen asexuals have written some of THE kinkiest hot shit and i can testify that that is because they do not find the mechanics of sex interesting in and of itself, so they look at the scene and say “how can I make this spicy”

[crazy-pages]

Same reason queer romance stories are so often better than straight ones. When the standard literary shortcuts don’t work all that’s left is to knuckle down and actually put in the work.

[hazeldomain]

Regular romance novels: the second I saw them I was overcome with lust.

Ace writers, taking notes: okay yeah but why.

[pokemoncoloursplash]

[itsapmseymour]

You ever think about the first person who wrote out “uwu” and wonder if they knew the storm that would be unleashed?

[pronglewongle]

Via Wikipedia:

While the exact origin is unknown, it is speculated the first of the emoticon was in chatrooms. The first proven use of uwu is in the Yu-Gi-Oh fanfiction Genie of the Puzzle, published by user DaakuKitsune on Oct 14, 2005. In the fanfiction notes before the story, the author states “Again, feel free to throw squids and fish at me. UwU I deserve it, you know.”

So… The first recorded use of UwU was in a fucking FANFICTION OF YU-GI-OH.

[sensiblereblogifposts]

Reblog if you are going to throw fish and squids at them