https://www.tumblr.com/shesalittlelost/818482688812089344/thinking-about-feyre-today-and-the-whole-loser?source=share
this is a very interesting acotar analysis. what do you think about it?
I’m glad you sent this to me because it’s not only interesting, it’s also fully correct about the overwhelming heteronormativity of ACOTAR and what SJM’s tastes are like.
It’s my opinion that the heteronormativity of ACOTAR is what makes it so ass. Every relationship is effectively the same, save for some superficial differences that do not impact the essence of the main romances. Hell, even their appearances are nearly identical and they all adhere to a specific “ideal” like op said. This makes reading ACOTAR incredibly boring for people like me, who can recognize the cookie-cutter mold and conclude that even spicy sex scenes and banter can’t save a dull relationship.
However, the vast majority of her readers want the gender roles. They like Stronk Man Shadow Daddy and Petite Sassy Ingenue because it’s a comfortably familiar patriarchal dynamic that vaguely gestures at being more than that. It’s not too trad, but only by a scant margin. At its core, the relationship ideal is still heavily patriarchal and paternalistic and even SJM’s feeble attempts at feminism strengthen that ideal. It’s like…imagine coverture but romantic! This ideal places the female lead in a submissive, childish position relative to her big strong man, and cultivates a dynamic of dependency where she belongs to him both on a social and biological level. This dynamic is mirrored in our patriarchal society, where women are infantilized and encouraged to put themselves at a man’s mercy for love and to escape the anxiety that freedom brings.
On the Elain/Lucien/Azriel note, I have few strong feelings towards that love triangle because Elain and Azriel are the literary equivalent of sawdust. They are the natural conclusion of SJM’s rigid adherence to her gender roles and are the base templates of the other relationships, only without any customization to make them distinguishable. Not sure if that makes sense, but whatever.
I prefer Lucien to Azriel because at least he was something resembling charisma, but that’s exactly why he’s probably not going to end up with Elain. SJM would never let me be happy.















