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19.

[charredasperity]

If you’re 20-26, click here for a repressed memory 

[erraticstaticromance]

Here’s a fun idea: don’t ask someone with multiple, straight line, uniform scars how they got them. It’s pretty obvious what they’re from. Just be quiet. Thanks. This has been a PSA

[livefastdontdie]

DeLa: *eliminates herself*

Shangela, in the confessional booth: Oh see, Miss DeLa came to play. She ain’t fooling me with that “I’m going home” act. This is just like in game of thrones when

[tayliberalsjwift]

This post was a joke until this literally fucking happened

[gaynehollander]

HOW IS THIS A DIRECT QUOTE FROM SHANGELA TONIGHT??

[crustyclarinet]

WAKING UP TIMES TIER LIST

GOD TIER: 8:00 AM, 9:00 AM

HIGH TIER: 7:00 AM, 10:00 AM

MID TIER: 6:00 AM

LOW TIER: 5:00 AM, 11:00 AM, any time in the middle of then night when everyone else is asleep

GARBAGE TIER: any time 12:00 PM or later

[benepla-deactivated20180521]

andjdnensjdb who’s mom made this post

[forgethowtosleep]

I feel so personally attacked right now

[kglca]

[aintnosuchthingastoothick]

I love the internet

[the-last-snow-elf]

a cinematic masterpiece. 

[nepofledgling]

Road work ahead??

Uh yeah, I sure hope it does

[just-shower-thoughts]

When your favorite song comes on the radio it always sounds better than when you play the song for yourself

[datingcptsd]

Try to remember that your partner might need more explanation for your thought process than you think is necessary, especially if it’s a “negative” thought.

“I disagree with you” –> “I disagree with you, but I’m not angry at you, and I’m not going to yell at you for not agreeing with me.”

“I’m hurt by what you did” –> “I’m hurt by what you did, but I don’t hate you, and I don’t think you’re a bad person. I just want to discuss it.”

“I’m frustrated” –> “I’m frustrated, but it doesn’t mean I don’t care about you.”

What feels obvious to you–the underlying asumption that of course you still love this person, of course this is just a single feeling–is not obvious to someone who has been trained to flinch at every criticism. Take the time to explain your feelings and their meanings to ease both your fears.

[phx5pwr-deactivated20240513]

This actually made me fucking cry.

[grayscalewinter]

I find this really fucking relevant today of all days.

[goruma]

my brain: ur dumb/annoying/ugly

me: 

[sunlightinabelljar-deactivated2]

so apparently when my sister and i were little we took golfing classes and we got kicked out after a week. the reason being that the old white male instructor kept calling my 4 year old sister Maria “Mary” after she told him several times that her name is pronounced Maria. anyway, at one point, he tells her “well, that doesn’t matter anymore. you’re in America now.” and that distressed my sister so much that she hit him with her golf club.

that’s not what did the damage, though. what fucked that old dude up is that i saw my sister hit him from where i was standing and i ran over and started beating him with MY golf club. my mom says that i didn’t know what the hell was happening, but i squared up.

that’s why we got kicked out.

[pammiejr]

[marisatomay]

me, talking about some twins: and they were wombmates

[thegenderqueerbatman]

oh my god they were wombmates

[patydin-deactivated20181026]

[disimba]

Deep.

[bongtokingprincess-deactivated2]

THISS LITERALLY JUST FUCKED ME UP

[walkingonsmoke]

Agreed ^^

[idiotsonfb]

these are not the stories we deserve but they are the ones we need right now.

[fat-mabari]

I was honestly expecting another account of racism the way this started out so this was really a relief… I hope everyone is all right and they’re all recovering well ♡

[justsomeantifas]

it’s socially acceptable to publicly starve kids in the united states. 

[justsomeantifas]

honestly i don’t even care if the kids parents are rich, you shouldn’t punish children for not being able to afford to eat when they have no ability or means to pay for such a thing on their own.

by withholding lunches and breakfasts over 2 dollar debts you are abusing a child. there’s no question about this. that is child abuse. 

[justsomeantifas]

and say a parent is intentionally not paying these debts to abuse their child, the state is complicit with this abuse. the school systems are actually the means by which the parent does the abusing. under no argument can you defend this without accepting that you think child abuse is okay.

[takocos]

I started a petition about this, because my brother’s school was doing this, and in the state of Ky you’re TECHNICALLY not supposed to.  You’re supposed to keep a tab and send it home as a bill if the student can’t pay.  So to get around it, the school gave the kids who couldn’t pay peanut butter crackers instead of real food.  Like they were technically still FEEDING them, but they had to straight up THROW THEIR TRAY AWAY and take the crackers at the end of the lunchline when they got to the cash register.  They didn’t even take the food back.  They made the kids throw it away.

I got so pissed off.

Not the kid’s fault, btw.  It was almost exclusively kids who were neglected so bad their parents hadn’t filled out the paperwork for the free lunch program.

[justsomeantifas]

so we cannot even make the argument that schools simply cannot afford to feed these poor kids, they absolutely can, but instead of feeding these children they choose to throw their food into the garbage. There are no arguments to be made here. This is child abuse. I cannot say that enough.

[fullhalalalchemist]

America 100% has the ability and resources to feed all children (people of all ages, for that matter!)