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22 mostly a side account to be unafraid of being horny for characters (uses it more then main account so this is kind of a lie)

[itgetsbetter]

I had no friends for the last five years of my life. I was the only visibly queer person in my entire uni program and felt so alone surrounded by straight, neurotypical women who could never seem to understand me. I spent so many nights wondering if I would ever find my people or if I was just meant to be alone for the rest of my life.

Anyway, yesterday I spent hours lying in a hammock with someone I met through a queer organization in my new city. We got coffee together, listened to music, talked about everything and nothing. We're going to pride with our entire friend group tomorrow. I'm not alone anymore. I just want everyone reading this to know that you WILL find your people. You ARE a person worth knowing and caring about.

that sounds delightful can we come next time!

glad you're finding your people :)

[depsidase]

[ahotknife]

where’s that article by james frankie thomas where he says like “prior to my transition there was only one kind of sex i wanted to have. and i thought i could never have it” because i am about to blow these people’s minds

[ahotknife]

i found it 😌 the article was published on Slate and here’s JF’s commentary on it

[ahotknife]

i have gotten some very odd anons about this post that i’m choosing to ignore. but i am going to double down on this. no i don’t care if girls watch gay porn or imagine themselves as a gay person or wonder what it would be like to have gay sex. so many people imprison themselves by thinking they could never be gay and/or trans. well i’m telling them they better watch out. being gay and/or trans is real. and it could happen to YOU. as a matter of fact i sincerely hope it does

[projectxa3]

from Anarchopuppy

#tbh i think the intense stigma against “straight” ppl “fetishizing” queerness keeps a lot of ppl in the closet

#theres no harm in exploring those feelings in private. indulge in the fantasy and see where it takes u

#dont be a creep to other ppl obv but that goes w/o saying #if id had the courage to confront the ache id feel when i thought abt lesbian sex and how id “never be able to have it” earlier

#it wouldve saved me a lot of time

[genderrat]

the racism from trfs is insane what do you mean theyre saying transmascs and enbies commenting about their opression is the same as saying "All Lives Matter" white baby I need you to shut up

[petchya]

A pitfall a lot of people fall into when drawing afro-textured Black hair is that they draw the curls as if they were loose, using sharp shapes that imply a very different flow than you'd find with 4c-adjacent coils.

See below:

While all three are hair textures people can have, larger shapes and sharper points show an increased loss of texture. Ideally, you should be using small, fairly uniform shapes if you aren't familiar enough with Black hair to experiment with how you show texture.

There are a lot of ways to use sharpness and small detail when designing Black hairstyles that don't necessitate looser curls! Shaping/styling can really take you almost anywhere.

And don't just listen to me! Check out Ice @creatingblackcharacters for beautiful Black-made art and her incredibly detailed syllabus. The more you pay Black people their due attention, the better you'll get.

[spiribia]

Why is so much adult oriented 2d animation bastard ugly, do they know they don’t have to do that? The characters don’t have to projectile vomit all the time either, but maybe that’s asking too much

[femme-penelope]

Btw if you're a trans woman you're allowed to like guys. You don't lose queerness for it. I know some of you are repressing it. You know who you are

[diviedrawn]

“I will always protect you”

[checkyourasianbias]

Love Island S8 Reddit fans are INSUFFERABLE. You can dislike people (quite frankly most of the contestants from every season suck because it's reality TV) and still have the common decency to pronounce people's names correctly. It's not that hard. I don't know who Parmesan is. I know Parmida. I don't know who Anita is. I know Aniya (she's not Asian but it happened enough times on multiple subreddits). Idgaf about autocorrect, your phone isn't a typewriter or something YOU CAN GO BACK A FEW SPACES AND CHANGE IT. Mocking ethnic names does not have the same equivalence to making puns out of names commonly associated with white people. If you're going to make fun of people via puns, at least do it right goodness. It's not funny if the joke is at the expense of an entire minority group and not just that one person. You're not making fun of JUST LIUSA Parmida by calling her Parchment paper or whatever, you're mocking the name itself. How are you going to say you're not bigoted and complain about doing the bare minimum lol it starts small! It seeps through everyday interactions!!! If you pick and choose when to show basic human decency to people, you're not paving the way with good intentions.

[shriika]

i apologize (you forgive me)

[problematicpeniswriting]

Everyone who unironically says stupid shit like "transandrobros" and thinks transmascs are only "experiencing a fractions of actual oppression for the first time" needs to shut the fuck up and apologize to coloured transmascs and ESPECIALLY black trans mascs. You need to apologize to fucking disabled and neurodivergent transmascs. Yeah, sorry, not everyone's white and multiple aspects of our identities can oppress us.

Edit: AND INTERSEX PEOPLE

[mahawavy]

[frownyalfred]

in which I am both at the same time…somehow

[harleyquillao3]

I’m in this photo and I don’t like it 😂😭

[gertritude-art]

(stares at you)

[gertritude-art]

This is what she looks like now! Her very normal stare warms one's heart.

[creatingblackcharacters]

I'm not taking "be nice to racists or they'll cause fascism" advice, particularly from the person giving Villain-wannabe speeches. Y'all can keep these and just block me.

[creatingblackcharacters]

Funny enough, this is a core reason why I hate fantasy racism. It's always people like this who think "well you must have done SOMETHING to cause people to hate you! Have you tried not being a savage?" writing stories. No, I don't think it was the Ancient Curse of Mean Brown People that caused the fascist uprising of The Empire, actually.

[treecitysessions]

Going around asking random people to hit their shit is crazy actually this is the one time I’ll side with a Frenchman