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tumblr user beware: you're in for a scare. // mary; 23 // ao3: tittlediddle

[lilytad]

when someone is a christian they are not constantly asked their position on the holocaust the transatlantic slave trade the extermination of native americans or any of the thousands of atrocities committed by christians so why do muslims get asked about terrorism and jewish people about israel and are grouped in with specific bad people while christians are not required to explain themselves??

[lilytad]

goyim and non muslims can and should reblog

[lilytad]

[christians and all sectors of christianity that means you]

[nixpunk]

i love you. you made a mistake? i dont care i love you. you made a wrong choice? love you. you don’t think you’re good for anything? guess what you’re good for loving i love you

[nixpunk]

i was 15 when i made this post and i’m 25 now, and still seeing people reblog and tag this with things about their lovers or their friends or characters or themselves or that they really needed this today. i dunno it just feels really special to me. thank you, keep loving each other, i still love you.

[duncans-do-not-sing]

Put a character in my ask!

[magicalgirlusami]

Alejandro - Have you ever manipulated someone into doing something for you?

Amy - Do you like to boss people around?

Anne Maria - How long does it take for you to get ready in the morning?

B - Do you talk a lot?

Beardo - What's your favorite hobby?

Beth - Have you ever had a crush on someone who was WAY out of your league? How so?

Blaineley - Has someone ever accused you of being fake?

Brick - Are you more of a leader or a follower?

Bridgette - Are you a vegan? Why or why not?

Cameron - Do you go out often?

Chef Hatchet - Can you cook?

Chris - Do you like being the center of attention?

Cody - How would you tell someone that you're not romantically interested in them?

Courtney - Are you revengeful?

Dakota - What is your reaction when someone wants to take a picture of you?

Dave - Are you easily grossed out?

Dawn - Do you believe in spirits and ghosts?

DJ - Are you close with your parents?

Duncan - Have you ever done something illegal?

Ella - Do you like singing? Can you sing?

Eva - Do you get angry easily?

Ezekiel - How many languages do you speak fluently?

Geoff - Describe the craziest/funniest thing to ever happen at a party you attended.

Gwen - Do you like being surrounded by people?

Harold - Have you ever been bullied?

Heather - Do you think it's important to be popular?

Izzy - Is being called "weird" or "crazy" by a friend a compliment or an insult to you?

Jasmine - How tall are you? Do you like it?

Jo - Are you competitive?

Justin - Do you think looks matter?

Katie - Have you ever insulted a friend behind their back?

LeShawna - Do you cry often?

Leonard - Do you need proof in order to believe in something?

Lightning - Are you a team player?

Lindsay - Do you have a bad memory? (names, dates, etc.)

Max - Are you good with children?

Mike - Have you ever been scared of revealing a secret to someone, because you were afraid it would chang the way they saw you?

Noah - Do you think sarcastic people are funny?

Owen - What is the strangest thing you've ever eaten?

Rodney - Do you believe in love at first sight?

Sadie - Do you have a BFF?

Sam - Do you enjoy playing video games? If so, which one is your favorite? Why?

Sammy - Do you have a hard time standing up for yourself? For others?

Scarlett - Do you use your intelligence for good or bad?

Scott - Do you ever intentionally hurt people's feelings?

Shawn - What is your worst fear?

Sierra - Who's your celebrity crush? What would you do if you got to meet them?

Sky - Are you athletic?

Staci - What is the last lie you told?

Sugar - Do you believe in yourself?

Topher - Is there something you wouldn't do to achieve your goals?

Trent - Name one song that always gives you chills.

Tyler - Do you enjoy things even if you're not good at them?

Zoey - Do you care about what people think of you?

[bistic]

[lambergeier]

the real danger of spending too much time with friends is you stumble out of ten days of happiness and good food like oh my god THAT was real life. my job means NOTHING

[lambergeier]

yeah it makes life worthwhile. i hope you get to hang out with a bunch of people you really like for several days in a row some time soon!

[memeuplift]

[mossspores]

life if comes fucks me

[oldbutchdanielmolloy]

omg you people can do anything

[luna-azzurra]

What helped me write trauma better is remembering that the nervous system learns predictions. If danger used to come after quiet, calm can feel threatening. If kindness used to come with a price, kindness can feel suspicious. So healing is not just “they know they’re safe now.” Healing is the slow, annoying, deeply unfair process of teaching the body that the old prediction is not always the present truth.

[maple-salad]

op says we can repost

[forestgreenandgray]

Hey do you know what rumination is?

Rumination is probably the most common type of OCD compulsion, but I rarely see anyone talking about it. I've talked to multiple people diagnosed with OCD who didn't even recognize it as a compulsion.

Basically, if you have OCD you have terrible intrusive thoughts. They can be about anything, but common themes are fear of being a bad person, fear of hurting someone, fear of contamination. etc.

Rumination is when you get stuck in a spiral. Rumination is when you spend hours catastrophizing, overthinking, analyzing, telling yourself it's going to be okay.

I'll say it again:

Rumination is a compulsion.

Rumination is a compulsion, and that means you have to stop doing it.

I did ERP (exposure response prevention) for my OCD with a therapist! For 9 months! And it did help, but the idea didn't really click until I found this website a couple years later.

And Oh My God. It made things make so much more sense, and I was able to pull myself out of an episode even though I wasn't in therapy or on meds at the time.

Genuinely if you have OCD, or even if you suspect you have OCD, I'm begging you to read some of these articles.

Like this was genuinely life changing for me.

Here are some of the ones that were most helpful to me:

Defining Rumination

How to Stop Ruminating

ERP Exercises for Compulsive Rumination

What to Do When You're Triggered

[byjove]

we need more mpreg in horror and less fpreg in horror. no more women terrifyingly pregnant, more men terrifyingly pregnant, preferably cis

[battle-kitties]

I fixed it for you

[catmask]

by the way. it never is too late to decide you want to be happy. the woman who helped me get hormones didnt start hers until she was 70, and i met her at 73, beautiful and smiling - and told me that the last three years of her life had been her favorite. your favorites might be ahead of you too. why not hang around and find out?

[ryanlewisandclark]

i cannot hate myself into a version of me i will love.

[ryanlewisandclark]

i cannot punish myself in any way that will unmake the past.

[lesvegas]

passing in public makes me feel like white shrek

[lesvegas]

literally how it feels

[welpnotagain]

[kosmogrl]

oooh I get it it’s always gonna be because of the environment I grew up in

[toddcoward69]

[disneygirl20-deactivated2016041]