I feel like it’s worth clarifying some fronts for new followers on where my mind is at and my opinions so yall can make an informed decision on if my content will be aligned w ur values:
-I’m sex positive but VERY anti-porn industry. I’m pro women expressing themselves sexually in creative ways in the bedroom and with each other even in kin/k. I am anti males doing kin/k (matter of fact they have forfeited their right to sex at all as far as I’m concerned. but that’s a conversation for another day)
^I’m aware this is unpopular opinion, I’ve noticed a few women in the community conflate being anti-porn with committing to celibacy, rejecting their natural urges and fantasies, or keeping it strictly missionary with their girlfriends to stick it to the man. That’s all fine and I respect that but that’s not in line with my values. Women should not have their sexuality stifled or be made to feel like they need to restrict their “weird” preferences and sexual urges lest some man be watching…seems like a familiar statement to me. As it stands to men, even lesbianism is a fetish, our very existence functions as a porn category for them. It’s proven exceedingly difficult to curttail that without simultaneously repressing lesbians and forcing them into modesty and “correct” sexually puritan actions. It is, however, our responsibility to advocate for ending the pornography industry (and even the fictional porn such as h/entai that conditions the consumer to subjugate women). Basically let lesbians have weird sex and weird fantasies, they shouldn’t have to consider the male gaze or male anything to get off in the privacy of their own homes
-I’m gender critical but I uplift any born-female person who’s experiencing gender dysphoria whether currently active or detransitioning, they’re welcome on my blog
-I’m skeptical of rehab efforts of men who commit any crime towards women or children- ANY form of violence, intimidation, stalking, murder, assault, rape, etc. I do not believe they should be rehabilitated, and should not be parole eligible for crimes of that nature, ever. Taxpayer funding instead should be funneled towards supporting the victims healing
-I tend to give women the benefit of the doubt and afford them extra grace (as their male peers so often receive) even when they’re “wrong”, and I will continue to do so
-Despite having content on this blog that will appear negative when involving exposes of male culture, I am an optimist that women can prevail. I am neither blackp/illed nor a defeatist
