diva

she/her

[transgressivegirlification]

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#diva speaks - op tag

[muzzlequeer]

Could you make a paraphilia for decapitation? I haven’t been able to find a flag for that. I also want an additional autophilia version, for the attraction to yourself being decapitated. Many thanks in advance!

» carnifiphilia

[ carnifiphilia ]

a flag for those who are attracted to decapitation

» autocarnifiphilia

[ auto - carnifiphilia ]

a flag for those who are attracted to themselves being decapitated

[blackoutbruh]

i really like genderbending striders........................

[littlecourse]

i could have been the worst person alive and i still wouldn’t have deserved to be abused and taken advantage of. you can’t earn abuse.

[faggot-rat]

Aborted Descartes voice: I would've thought...if I was.

[foone]

Yes phone, good idea, let's send that cow TF post to my dad and sister

[unconventiononthelawofthesea]

are you more or less problematic than prev?

more problematic

less problematic

Voting ended onJan 15

[biouxp]

I think about them all day

[ddeeric]

are u ready for this jelly

[trancegnder]

alpha dave + muckrake yuri stuff

[annabelle--cane]

one of The Many problems with how the general public conceptualizes addiction and recovery is that "rock bottom" makes a really good narrative beat, it's a nice and dramatic second act low point in your classic three act structure to give a character something to make them reevaluate and get their life in order, and the human brain sure likes holding on to Fun Narratives, so even well-intentioned people who don't consider themselves to believe in punitive measures get it stuck into their heads that thee way that people get sober is by experiencing some kind of reckoning of harsh consequences (losing a job or home, overdosing, being rejected by loved ones, getting desperate and feeling driven to do something really awful to keep using, etc). when, if you think about it for like two seconds, basically no one in the world is going to juuust about survive their own personal worst case scenario and think "wow, now would be a really great time to give up my only coping mechanism and voluntarily induce a medical emergency for the next several weeks," that kind of thing is far more likely to just immediately make everything Much worse.

[annabelle--cane]

I once saw a parenting blog or something that was written with a very earnest and measured tone seriously give the advice "if your teen is struggling with addiction and won't respond to anything you do then your best move would be to kick them out and cut them off so they run out of other options more quickly" and I just sat there in a kind of mute horror for a few minutes afterwards. like. no that's actually how you kill people. if a child is already in the midst of a mental health crisis, and you then deliberately engineer the situation to give them a second crisis, that is how you kill someone. I cannot stress this enough.

[uncannyumbreon]

honestly tfem dave being named dave still is real as fuck and i agree but i still like using dove because it makes it easier to search for tfem dave content ykwim. it's a cute shorthand

[lesbian-robin]

[blackoutbruh]

i love fem striders okay

[spriteeditorsprite]

transfem dave? pretty pretty please it would make me so happies.... (and while you're at it it would be so cool if you could make her hold hands with aradia and [also transfem] sollux.....💙)

here you go!!

[trancegnder]

sk8er girl

(join my transfem dave strider zine)

[melonpriest]

the one reading im a ride or die for