“women are fundamentally repulsed by the thought of engaging in sex where their partner isn’t consenting”
Yeah, I’m sure female rapists are just completely repulsed by what they’re doing. They can’t stand it. They’re disturbed by it. Definitely. Mhmm.
Plus, you only need scroll through the dubcon and noncon fics on any given fanfiction site to see that plenty of women fantasize about rape. Women are not all repulsed by imaginary rape. And that’s fine. That doesn’t make them rapists or bad people, it’s just imaginary.
“most men, even if they haven’t committed rape, are aroused by the thought of their partner being nonconsenting”
That’s nearly 4 billion people you’re talking about there - maybe don’t be quite so hasty in generalizing them.
That said… they’re not rapists if they haven’t raped anybody. If they’re not hurting anybody, and they’re not trying to hurt anybody, then what’s the big deal? They’re imagining things. Oh no, completely imaginary thoughts, however will anyone escape this evil!?
“however, almost all men masturbate to women being raped on a nightly basis”
Gay men definitely do not jack off thinking about women.
I’d love to see your evidence for this claim. I’d love to see a reliable statistic that shows that almost all men have rape fantasies nightly and masturbate to them. Tbh I doubt that even a majority of men even masturbate on a nightly basis - how much free time and stamina and routine do you think people have?
“females with rape fantasies tend to fantasize about being raped themselves because of internalized misogyny and self harm”
What about the lesbians who have fantasies of being raped by women? Is that misogyny somehow?
What about the men who have fantasies of being raped?
There is research into why people have rape fantasies and - while it can differ greatly from individual to individual - it can follow themes of wanting to not have control or accountability in the situation.
(Also, as said above, plenty of women have fantasies of rape that don’t position themselves as the victim - you’re generalizing so much here and it’s ridiculous.)
I don’t think I’d call an enjoyable masturbation session and an orgasm self-harm, that’s kind of the opposite of what it is.
“and im called evil for despising these monsters?”
Not evil necessarily, you’re just a bit of a sexist dick.