Unconventional sexts

Sometimes I want to tie up my boyfriend, sometimes I want him to tie me up, sometimes I just want to cuddle. But you'll mostly hear about the first two. 18+ obviously

[runkevinrunnnn]

[opposite-of-a-problem-deactivat]

Ugh yeah

[rrromance]

2018 is the year we replace faceless self-insert men in hentai with faceless self-insert women.

Oh and also female POV.

[rrromance]

Maybe I would like the cowgirl position more if porn of it wasn’t so male-view centric. I mean most porn is designed for the male gaze, but still. UGH. FOCUS ON THE MAN’S BODY FOR ONCE.

[gaygirlhay]

I'm a touchy girlfriend

I have to be up under you, kissing you, holding your hand, grabbing your butt, biting you… Something idc

[temptingdominance]

Any advice on dirty talk. I think its my weakest point and I want to show my sub I think he's a dirty little slut but its hard for me to come up with things to say.

Here’s my advice. Stop looking at it as dirty talk.

When you think of it as dirty talk, you think of it as role-playing. You think of it as fake. You have to force yourself to imitate something. Stop trying to be something you’re not.

Submissives are able to tell when you’re being fake. You need to be who you are. Now you might be reading this as an insult, that’s not what I’m saying.

The best thing that you can do is convey confidence and Authority. You don’t need to try and slip in words like bitch and cocksucker. You need to be firm and authoritative of what you want from your submissive.

I guarantee you that a submissive is so much more turned on when you tell them to get on on the bed and get their ass in the air and to not move until you touch them. Versus telling them that they are a slut.

Your words create emotional responses. You can eventually integrate words like pet, bitch, slut, cocksucker, and whore. But you need to build your confidence credibility first.

[ladylike-dominance]

Tons of people ask me how to dirty talk in bed…this sums it up perfectly!

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[vintagelacedsweetheart]

I'm a morning person if you wake me up with sex.

https://instagram.com/missdivinedoll

[unconventionalsexts]

how would you recommend a sub male develop his dom side for his partner?

Ooh that’s a great question.

- It’s okay to be nervous. It’s okay if things don’t go the way you planned. The first time I tried domming my boyfriend, it did not work at all. I have no idea what to do or say. I was so embarassed. I’m still pretty awkward and have lots of room for improvement, but I like to think I’m getting better. Of course, if at any point you decide it’s not for you and you don’t want to do it, you have the right to stop! But do give it a try if you feel up to it, it gets better with practice!

- Think about what turns you on, and what doesn’t. If you’re naturally submissive you may have to figure this out as you experiment with being a dom, but maybe you have some ideas already of what you might want to try. What plays are you interested in? What kind of dom do you want to be - are you going to be rough? nurturing? strict? paternal? - and how do you want you sub to act? What are your hard limits?

- If you don’t know what to do or what your partner wants from you as a dom, ask them. Doing your own research with the internet and tumblr and porn is all well and good, but everyone has different expectations and turn ons. They would know best what works for them. Figure out what best suits you as a couple.

- And leading from my previous two points, communicate! I know it’s practically a cliche at this point, but it’s so important. When I want to try something new in the bedroom I usually bring it up in neutral conversation, i.e. not during sex and outside of a dom/sub dynamic, to check whether he’s up to it. Then we have a “feedback” session afterwards. This is where we say stuff like “you can spank me harder” or “did it hurt when I was holding you down?” or “I like it when you pull my hair”. It’s a good idea even after vanilla sex, but I really appreciate it after “kinky” sex because honest feedback during the session can be difficult with roleplay.

I hope this helps!

[fuckkkkkkkktumblah-deactivated2]

just imagine your crush masturbating to the thought of you and making little moans and whispering your name and jESUS I NEED TO SIT DOWN

[hornysuggestionss]

i think dirty things about you in public just to make myself suffer all day

[fh3207972]

i am a firm supporter of the kissing ur partner after they give u head movement

[xthe-smitten-kittenx]

[carnalsuggestions]

you’re mine, you’re mine, you’re mine.

[luzerlu]

i like being complimented on my eyes and on my oral sex techniques 

[someoldvoiceactor]

You straddle his lap, enjoying the feeling of him underneath you as you begin exploring his neck and clavicle with your tongue, and leaving open-mouthed kisses in your wake. Both of you are naked, hot, wet, and worked up beyond belief. You trail your hand down his chest, and note with satisfaction how breathlessly it is heaving and how he trembles under your touch. You press him down into the bed as you pin his hard dick against his own stomach, wasting no time in humping it between your wet folds. You coat it in your juices as you slide yourself along its length, not letting him inside of you just yet, but savoring the feeling of letting him feel how wet he made you. He closes his eyes at the erotic sight of you, his fists clenched as though he is trying to hold back, but you won’t have that. You rake your nails down his sides, ordering his full attention, and he draws in a single shakey breath before daring to gaze up at you again. You can feel his hardness in perfect clarity as the head of his cock passes over your clit again and again, and both of you moan at the feeling of your most sensitive parts pressing and grinding against each other. He’s so fucking big , and every time it twitches against you, you can feel your need for him flow. He grabs desperately at your hips - to slow you, to speed you up - neither of you know or care as he begs you to let him fuck you. His little gasps and moans are driving you wild, you’re getting drunk off of them and you want to hear more, but his urgent and strong grip on your hips grounds you. He’s so cute like this, and you smirk at him confidently as you give a particularly hard thrust that makes him throw his head back in ecstacy…but without warning, his dick presses inside, slides right on in so slowly that it makes your walls tighten around him in response. He’s so lubed up from your own pussy that he could grab you and fuck you hard and fast right away if he wanted to… And he DOES want to. He flips your positions and moves his hips like a piston, reaching impossibly deep inside as he pins your legs to the bed, spreading you apart for him…watching your face as you come apart faster than you ever have before. He licks his lips hungrily as your own sounds spring forth almost involuntary, and when he nuzzles against your neck and growls low in your ear a single word, you have to bite your lip to hold back the whimpers and noises of want that threaten to tumble forth. “MINE.”

[sin-tastein]

that groan he does when i stop touching him