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If I drove a bulldozer through an apple store and the cops just shoved me in a closet and pumped me full of DMT for 8 hours id literally just do it again the second they let me out
This is like the best admission I've ever heard that prison sentences are about fucked up torture rather than keeping dangerous people out of society.
Love it when people act like proving ārape or incestā exceptions for abortion are even possible, lmao
Quick, prove you were raped so you can access an abortion! How? I donāt know! Maybe youāll have to get a rape test done at the hospital and prove you have sufficient bruising? Maybe itāll require filing charges? Maybe itāll require a full ass criminal trial which is gonna take longer than 9 months, lol.
Prove you were a victim of incest! How? I donāt know, because if youāre a victim of incest you might very well be a young child who doesnāt have the emotional strength and knowledge to even describe the abuse thatās happening to you, let alone advocate for your rights. And even if you are an adult, I dare you to go in front of a judge and detail the sexual abuse from you brother/father/uncle and come out of that untraumatised, all to get permission to have access to abortion. Make sure you get the courage up in just a few weeks!
What about threats to life of the mother exceptions? Quick! Whatās the line you draw there? If a mother has extremely high blood pressure and diabetes and is at risk of death early enough in the pregnancy, is that enough for a termination? What about if the mother has an ectopic pregnancy? Or do we have to wait until the mother is suffering from sepsis and shock, blood poisoning maybe? Do mental health issues ever factor in?
It is literally impossible to place such restrictions on abortion that actually work, that are feasible and acceptable to those that would otherwise ban abortions outright.
Abortion on demand is the only answer.
Like, we donāt believe women who are raped when nothing is on the line. Why would we believe women when theyāre trying to access a restricted medical procedure?!
Also the crackhead prolifers that are against abortions for rape victims have cited that it "destroys evidence" and makes the rape "harder to prove". Like, you do know that the rapist's attorney is just going to say they had consensual sex and the pregnancy is what is making the victim file charges of rape? Also....rapists can sue for custody...
Ladies if you have kids consider sending your daughters to an all girls school. Can you being a 13 year old girl with a classmate like this creep?
Parenting advice on school laptops, cruel grandparents, and sleep training.
Dear Care and Feeding,
I am shocked by a recent revelation about my 13-year-old son, āLuke.ā His school gave all the kids laptops at the beginning of the year to complete schoolwork and attend remote classes. Students are expected to only use the computer for academic purposes, but of course kids will be kids. When my sonās school called me about what they found on his computer, however, it was beyond what I couldāve imagined. Apparently, Luke has been watching horrifying pornography involving necrophilia, as well as pornographic snuff films. I know that kids his age are often fascinated by sex, but thereās a huge difference to me between a teen watching a video of consenting adults having sex and them watching a video where someone defiles a corpse or is killed during sex. Itās hard to look at him the same way after I found this out. I asked him about it, and he says he came across these videos accidentally. However, I donāt believe that because the school explained that his internet browsing history showed that he was actively searching for this type of content on online search engines. It seems highly abnormal for a teen to be watching videos like this, and Iām worried about the impact theyāll have on him. Iām honestly considering sending him to a therapist, but my husband thinks thatās too extreme. What should I do about my sonās disturbing pornography habit?
Horrified in Houston
Dear Horrified,
Your sonās porn viewing habits could have gotten him in a lot of trouble at school; perhaps your husband will consider this when you reintroduce the conversation about therapyāas you should. The internet is filled with lots of shocking sexual content for unsupervised kids to discover, but your young son has managed to findāand to repeatedly seek outāimages that are incredibly disturbing and difficult to process, even for adults. Therapy is not ātoo extremeā an option; itās, in my opinion, an urgent and necessary one. Your son needs healthy ways to explore his budding sexuality; consuming snuff films could not be any further from that. Itās important that you get your son to someone who can help him to contextualize and move on from this interest into something more age-appropriate. I donāt think the two of you should be expected to know how to do that without the help of a professional. Please donāt take this lightly. Wishing you all the best.
How long would this have gone on if the school did discover it? Why werenāt they doing basic search history? Is he an only child in that house or does he have a sister?
She should have called him out about lying about how he came across it by accident.
Send the brat and the dad to therapy. What kind of father doesnāt see the issue with a 13 old watching this stuff?
Let's be real... the dad says therapy is "too extreme" probably because he also watches content like that
Is that so?
Women have been a leading force in sanitation strikes, calling for equal treatment and job security. This particular service industry has been the focus of multiple feminist manifestos and employment goals. Women fought long and hard to gain the right to work in sanitation, and theyāre continuing that effort to open up the field more. This issue is so big that Parks and Rec even made an episode about it.Ā
Female sewer workers have repeatedly sued the DEP for unfair treatment, seeking to open up the industry and gain equal status with their male peers. Sewer work is often targeted for its biased hiring practices. Hundreds of female candidates fight for limited available positions, but most are turned away, despite having the necessary experience and skills. Feminist workers recognize that these women are willing and able to do the work, but arenāt getting the opportunity to gain employment here.Ā
Historically, coal mining is one of the most highly targeted careers for gender bias. Women have been petitioning for the opportunity to mine safelyĀ since the Industrial Revolution. This is actually one of the primary and best studied examples of women fighting to enter traditionally male fields. Lots of women, who both succeeded in the mines and didnāt, continue to petition for increased access to this field.Ā
And yeah, women want white collar jobs too. Go figure - A diverse population of women, with different abilities, interests and levels of education, are all fighting for the right to seek diverse forms of employment. Fighting for equality in one sphere doesnāt mean that weāve forgotten about the others.Ā
Just because you arenāt paying attention to the feminist movement doesnāt mean that the feminist movement is nonexistent.Ā
And what happens when they canāt pay?
Hmmm
How dare these female prisoners not want to share cells and showers with penis-people
When I tried the āmales in womenās prisonsā discussion with a friend of mine, the only reason she offered for being dubious about it is that ācis women might attack trans womenā. She could not conceive of the reverse even being a possibility because the āCIS -> oppress -> TRANSā doctrine was so deeply-embedded.
I remember reading about this like last year, and basically rich peoples private ponds are having wild otters come in and eating their million dollar koi fish, so it actually has made them more popular with many of the working class in Singapore who already admired the otters, so its sort of similar to those capybara in Argentina
See Iām in a bit of a pickle with this - am I in favor of it for terrorizing the rich? Are the otters non-native and thus an ecological problem? Are the koi non-native and thus the otters are solving a problem? I donāt know how I feel about this, or how Iām supposed to feel. Which is why itās always important to have context before making a decision!
The kois are not native and live in rich people ponds. the otters are local and protected, if anyone is wondering
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my body, tearfully: when sleep???
me: my dude we just woke up!! Itās time for wakefulness and doing things and Productivity
my body, weeping: but???? when sleep?????
me: okay, finally now is sleep
my body: no. wrong.
People really do become ugly when their inside is ugly, it shines out just as much as a kind soul shines outward. ever read the famous silverstein poem, or did you sleep in class and inherited ignorance instead of truth.
I actually didn't attend school much beyond sixth grade thanks to abuse and disability. And yes, I actually slept through a lot of the bit I did attend, given how I couldn't sleep at night.
I also don't think we read Silverstein in Finland.
i mean itās cute but ultimately growing up is realizing sometimes attractive people are demons in human skin and ugly people are often nice. though maybe it can be taken more as a commentary on how people look to you after getting to know them
Thank you for the context!!
People really do become ugly when their inside is ugly, it shines out just as much as a kind soul shines outward. ever read the famous silverstein poem, or did you sleep in class and inherited ignorance instead of truth.
I actually didn't attend school much beyond sixth grade thanks to abuse and disability. And yes, I actually slept through a lot of the bit I did attend, given how I couldn't sleep at night.
I also don't think we read Silverstein in Finland.
A lot of terfs on Tumblr are cute. I don't get it, why would you throw away that beauty? Why would you hate trans women?
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The persistent idea that this is what really matters. Nothing else.
You know what I love? When people call the whole community "queer". It's even better when I get called queer by Randos and then told not to tag it as a slur. Why not just call me a cripple because I'm disabled? Why not call me a bitch because I'm a woman? Why not use every other slur that applies to me?
And you know what I love more than being essentially called a freak by own community? Being told that I ought to not be offended because they graciously reclaimed it FOR ME. Thank you so much, I appreciate it so much when you have the audacity to tell me how offensive it is that I don't like being called something that a) means weird/odd/abnormal and b) is still used as a slur today.
It's so wonderful to be told by my community to shut the fuck up about literally being called an abnormality. This is totally not just catholic school all over again.
And the cherry on top is how fantastic it feels to be called queer by straight people because "it's not a slur anymore."
I'm so glad we're taking pride in being othered by straights for something I thought we couldn't control.
I'm so glad that I'm weird and abnormal for liking the same sex. Thank you. I truly appreciate it.
i love that we and cats share pareidolia (seeing patterns where they dont exist), but instead of seeing faces in everyday objects like us, they see snakes
that computer cord? snake. string? small snake. cucumber? short fat straight snake
snake pareidolia is one of the strongest things in human minds too! people report freezing mid-stride before being consciously aware of a snake in front of them, and the same happens with coiled rope, etc. in humans and other primates. itās even been proposed that the need to detect snakes was a factor in the development of primatesā insanely good color eyesight
Itās because snakes are wonderful and we must stop and admire them at any cost
i find it so weird thatĀ āterfsā are the most hated thing on here. on my main blog, i have people that follow me withĀ āF TERFS!!!ā in their bio andĀ āreblog if you would punch a terfā posts all over their blog. but nothing about neo nazis? yāknow, people who actually kill? or pedophiles?Ā do you know how manyĀ āblock and be safe uwuā posts iāve seen about terfs? but, again, 0 for people like neo nazis.Ā
honestly, i just think yāall are pussies. yāall want something to rage against that isnāt your own parents, and neonazis are too scawy to go against because theyād easily gang up on you, give you a panic attack, and make you delete. so you settle for terfs since the extent of theirĀ āāāviolenceāāā is hating porn and blogging about labias.
I WANT MORE BISEXUAL & FEBFEM BLOGS TO FOLLOW !!!
lesbians are lovely ofc and i'll keep following them too, but y'all are the overwhelming majority on radblr and i personally prefer interacting more with the sisters i better relate to in terms of sexuality and experiences :,)
