Naisten saari

Finnish. 42. Bisexual. Pro-woman. Gender critical. Feminist. What else?

[naistensaari]

Super tired of not being able to search anything from my own damned blog, so I made this post to tag it with all of my most convenient (i.e. leads to interesting things) tags.

[gnomebutch]

Attractive feminine women face so much bullshit and gross comments but I hate when people act as if conventionally unattractive women are somehow free from sexual harassment as if that’s not one of the primary ways they are bullied especially when younger, and when older they are seen as more vulnerable targets. There’s no amount of ‘ugliness’ that will save you from male deviancy.

[virtualcremefem]

as an "ugly" woman I have faced both "you're too ugly to be touched" "kys" bullying as well as direct sexual abuse and harassment

It doesn't save you

And it's notable that often when ugly women share their experiences of abuse they aren't believed because of their appearance, cue bullying

[blackswallowtailbutterfly]

Ladies! Sync with me! I deman you to do it!!!

[feral--bog--witch]

No! You sync with ME!

[blackswallowtailbutterfly]

SYNC WITH MEEEE!!!

[feral--bog--witch]

NO! SYNC WITH MEEEEEEEEE!!

[naistensaari]

I AM TRYING MY BEST

[naistensaari]

The thing about setting boundaries is that people who can't do that will think you're being ridiculous, childish, mean, annoying, dramatic etc. when you do.

[sisterofrage]

I hate flock cameras too but watching males freak out about "always being watched" and "being followed home" is so funny.

Hun, get over yourself. You're not that important/attractive/etc. to be followed. You think everyone wants to get YOU that badly? That's so pretentious. Imagine thinking something bad is going to happen any time you step foot outside. Go to therapy. Heal. So ridiculous. 🙄

[sisterofrage]

Since this post made everyone with 0 reading comprehension come out of the woodwork: the 2nd paragraph is parroting common responses from men when women try to bring up the stress of being constantly followed and watched. It was irony. Holy fuck.

[pisceanpharies]

I have to laugh at how fucking dumb so many women are to not have gotten that, or I'll scream, because their stupidity is dangerous.

[femalegrandma]

[dapperprincess]

women: i choose the bear because the way men are capable of raping, murdering, or even enslaving us is all far worse than being eaten alive or left to bleed out

this man: I choose the bear because female humans have said mean things to me

[fretami]

once again:

women are afraid of men because of the violence they inflict on us

men are afraid of women because their feelings get hurt

[eaytazy]

[radfemme-rage]

it’s truly remarkable when you put it this way. but it also begs the question: what is there, if anything, that could prevent this?

feminism has been around for decades, yet educating men has never worked.

the best thing a woman can do is be educated, have her own career and financial independence. and never partner with a male.

it won’t stop all violence against us, but it’ll save millions of us from male partner violence, which is more common than strangers killing or raping us.

[unstableextremist]

Marrying men for protection is the most comically backwards piece of advice given to women. That mf will beat you because its hot outside.

[quinntheestallion]

cut off his balls and his desire to transition disappeared lmao

[quinntheestallion]

*cuts off genitalia used for sex" WHY DON'T I WANT SEX. At this point, it's clear some people are so alienated from their bodies, from the animal kingdom, and from the natural world itself they have genuinely have started to believe human sexuality has no connection to the wider world and universe we live in. At one point, it was important to emphasize that not everyone has to reproduce and not all sex is reproductive, however, that has now unfortunately snowballed into people genuinely believing human sexuality exists solely for their own singular, individual personal pleasure and entertainment. People have literally forgotten that their bodies are part of a species, an animal kingdom, a natural world, a larger cosmic, creative process. So often these days the human body and human sexuality is spoken about as though it's a personal orgasm factory. And the delusion is so deep people expect to rearrange sexual genitalia to match their aesthetics but have their Orgasm Factory continue to pump out orgasms at their will. Here is a person, bewildered that their Orgasm Thingmagig is not working. SIR, YOU HAVE NO BALLS. Your body produces orgasms in the hope that the liquid from your balls makes into a viable womb. Your body no longer has a good reason to give you orgasms or sexual desire. The only body part designed solely for pleasure is the clitoris, sir. The female body has an actual pleasure button because I guess nature deemed our sexuality as having such supreme importance that it's worthy of one. Your poor little dick did not make the cut.

[veritablevent]

you can't girlboss your way out of the humiliation of performing femininity. miniskirts are supposed to humble you by having you stay alert to them riding up and exposing you. high heels are supposed to humble you by having you move carefully, wary of twisting an ankle (or stumbling and exposing yourself). make-up is supposed to humble you by having you control your feeding and resting habits, lest you smudge it. there's sexualization imbedded in them. they are SUPPOSED to embarrass you, because the ultimate titillation is the assertion of control over you. you can't desex them.

[sichorean]

Sounds about fuckin right

[labryslesbian]

but i’m supposed to feel sorry for transvestites?

[virtualcremefem]

Woman: talks critically about beauty culture, porn, shaving, makeup, BDSM, sex work

Inevitable libfem: Excuse me this really hurts the feelings of women who enjoy suffering and make it their personal choice, ((don't even post this shit at all, you insensitive prick! There's nothing to examine here, just let it go, let it be.))

Me: 🥲🥲🥲

[gendiebrainrotreceipts]

‘Cis people engage in gender affirmation too!!’ Yes those are called gender roles, we used to be able to acknowledge how they’re restrictive and imposed on everyone from birth….

[our-lady-of-cyber]

"gender affirming surgeries are just like cosmetic surgery done by cis people!" Yes and we hate those too

[vintage-bentley]

It’s not actually a good thing that some women feel pressured to get breast implants or that some men feel pressured to get ab implants. It’s not a good thing that gender roles are imposed so heavily and strictly that it leads people to hating their natural bodies for not fitting some standard, and makes them want to surgically alter their bodies. Why are we hand waving this away as “teehee it’s just gender affirming care which is always fine and good and wonderful and completely politically neutral!” Instead of analysing and criticising this?? Why are we being so intellectually lazy and wilfully ignorant?

[merysujka]

"i go by they/them so dont refer to me as-" gotcha as i will not be referring to you at all goodbye and fare well

[radfemtiktok]

[femanthropy]

^ the clitoris is still being censored, which is leading to surgeries damaging it to the point of losing sexual-sensory function.

Whilst males will have pages and pages of information in order as to NOT harm the sexual-sensory function.

Just when I think I’ve heard everything… female bodies are being censored in MEDICAL SETTINGS.

[conflictedbird]

this is fucking maddening

[kanelia]

@gendiebrainrotreceipts