charlie

late emo and frank iero apologist | 16y | she/her

[keposhka]

my chemical romance performing on the projekt revolution tour on July 28, 2007, in San Bernardino, California | 📸 By Scarlet Lark

[cherylmustdie]

i desperately need whatever they had in the air at pro rev 2007

because that was just something else

[awsugar]

How many fr*rard kisses were there and what was the timeline?

ok well....since you asked

im not okay video unknown date 2004 (theres probably a date i mean definitely but im not gonna spend an hour looking for it)

conan december 17 2004 (the most.....insane. also the first on the mouth)

this is unknown date 2005 looks like fall

little kiss december 4 2005 (about 30 seconds in, this one only popped up LAST year...)

the one with no audio february 23 2007

download festival 2007 (2 minutes in..."let me just kiss this kid")

thats what these photos are from

anyway Thee Kiss july 28 2007

i think that is all of them...don't ask me why i have such an encyclopedic knowledge of this im really normal i promise....

[biteurhip]

anyways uh

[rocals]

I get emotional every time I think about ray toro's room circa 2005 with a twin bed covered in stuffed animals and not one but TWO posters for his own band on the wall. I want him

[lynoniaa]

[30magazines]

“idk some kid in my inbox was telling me to look us up on here”

[stpansy]

frank and gerard revenge era very soft onstage kiss that people can’t even really see because they’re toward the back of the stage and gerard’s flat on his back and frank stops playing and lowers himself down very gently. what the fuck was up with that

[overlyspecificmcrmemes]

saw a picture of gerard today that made me wanna give him a big ole smacking wet kiss to the cheek

[overlyspecificmcrmemes]

it’s this picture since you were all asking

[boydevision]

Gerard catching a bobby pin and putting it in their mouth

[cordspaghetti]

“There was something awesome about being at a truck stop at like two a.m. putting eyeliner on with big burly truckers everywhere. It was just really dangerous.”

[vampyrard]

here's my hannibal war of hearts fmv ! hope yall like it <3

[vampyrard]

yall take my six of crows quiz 😁

hi hi hope you enjoy the quiz <3

[jondrawsthings]

[lizzibennet]

sometimes i forget how reading is just. marvelous. just an absolutely fucking endlessly joyful activity. i’ll go about my life and not read one single book for months and be like why am i morose! why am i so apathetic! what is missing here!!!! and try to look for whatever it is that is lacking and never find it anywhere and i get so tired and sad and angry, and then i’m finally like i’m gonna stop everything for a couple days and read a really good book bc i don’t care about anything else. and suddenly i get motivated to work bc i know i’ll read when i’m on break. i get more creative. i want to watercolor again and bust out the shameful fabric stash with all my unfinished sewing projects. god even my dreams get more vivid!! what the fuck! and i’m like here is the magic i was looking for, why did i ever think i was going to find it anywhere else. it was always here!!!

[saltash]

anya taylor-joy smoking in venice

[tinsnip]

When we’re new to adulthood, it doesn’t immediately occur to all of us that you’re almost always allowed to leave a situation, because growing up we’re forced to stay in situations until someone dismisses us and/or takes us home, or if we do leave on our own accord there’s someone waiting at home to say “we don’t quit in this family!” Boring party? You can leave. You don’t like the lecture? You can walk out. New doctor not working out? You can end the appointment, you don’t need to wait for them to dismiss you. Bad date? You can just go home. Leaving a situation prematurely might have consequences, but unless you’re under arrest or serving prison time, it’s pretty much always allowed.

–commenter Allison @ askamanager

[obstinaterixatrix]

[copperbadge]

A while back, I called for a Lyft ride home from the airport. The lyft pulled up, he called my name, and I opened the door and climbed in. While I was climbing in he was getting out, which I didn’t realize until he opened the back door on the other side.

Him: I’ll put your bag in the trunk. Me: Oh, there’s no need.  Him: I’ll just put it back there.  Me: I prefer to keep my bag with me.

I was also still holding onto it so he couldn’t just grab it, and when I said “I prefer to keep it with me” this cloud of rage crossed his face.

Him: Then get out.  Me: Excuse me? Him: Get out, I don’t want your bag fucking up my upholstery.

Now, this was a weekender – essentially an upscale duffle bag. Small, almost brand new, easily fitting on the middle-seat beside me. I don’t know if he was just really intense about his upholstery or if he was running some kind of scam, but either way I now DEFINITELY was not going to let him separate me from my bag.

So I said “Okay,” and I picked up my bag and got out, took out my phone, and cancelled him as my driver.

He looked at me like I’d grown a second head. There was this moment of total disconnect in his face, and then he started ranting about how someone had damaged his upholstery and they needed to put their bags in the back and he wasn’t going to have me getting his upholstery dirty. 

I said, “I’m out of your car. Drive on, I’ll get another,” and held up my phone.

This had clearly never happened before – it looked like plenty of people had thought “This guy is crazy” but went the “so I’d better let him do what he wants” route instead of “so I’m getting out of his car”. Which is totally normal! We’re socialized to prioritize “not making a scene” over personal safety. But when you do call that bluff, when you defy the social convention that the other person is counting on to make you do what they want you to do, they don’t know how to react, which gives you time for a clean getaway. And maybe he thought I was a dickhead but what do I care what an asshole thinks of me? 

Anyway the moral of the story is yes, you should know that you can almost always leave a situation and often it’s in your best interest to do so. 

(Right after I called for another car he picked up a fare using Quick Match or whatever it’s called, peeled out of the Lyft lane, and hit another car well nigh immediately.)

[noping-out-deactivated20241117]

[ID: The Benefits of walking away. (Illustration of the back of a person walking away. ) 1. Makes bad things disappear quickly. 2. Gives everyone optimal view of your back. 3. Answers question, “I wonder what would happen if I just walked away”]