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𝐄𝐥𝐞𝐯𝐚𝐭𝐞. 𝐄𝐱𝐩𝐚𝐧𝐝. 𝐄𝐯𝐨𝐥𝐯𝐞. 🔥

Hello, loves. I'm Vivienne Maeve. ✨

Welcome to your ultimate blueprint for stepping into the most magnetic, powerful version of yourself. This is more than just a space—it’s a movement. A revolution of self-worth, ambition, and unapologetic confidence.

Here, we don’t wait for opportunities. We create them.We don’t just dream—we become. This is where we rewrite the script, step into our power, and sculpt the life we were always meant to live.

Together, we’re unlocking the mindset shifts, strategies, and secrets to becoming the star of our own story. This isn’t just about leveling up—it’s about designing a life so extraordinary that it feels like pure magic. Because let’s be real: it’s all within reach.

Together, we’re unlocking the mindset shifts, strategies, and unshakable confidence it takes to turn our biggest fantasies into tangible reality. This isn’t just about leveling up—it’s about creating a life so extraordinary it feels like a movie. A life where we don’t just exist, but thrive, radiate, and unapologetically own our power.

Consider this your go-to guide for self-discovery, confidence, manifestation, and embodying the main character energy you were born for. Because you deserve it. We deserve it. And the world? It’s about to witness our rise.

To understand more about why this page was created and more about me read 𝔸𝕓𝕠𝕦𝕥 𝕞𝕖-

✧ Glow-Up Transformations & Foundations ✧

First Steps To A Glow Up

A guide to laying the foundation for a personal transformation. Covers mindset shifts, self-care basics, and the power of small, consistent changes.

The Inside Out Glow-Up

Shifts the focus from external transformation to inner healing. Talks about emotional intelligence, self-love, and deep-rooted confidence as the true markers of a glow-up.

Glow-Up Beyond The Surface

The blog covers glow-ups beyond looks, focusing on self-love, mindset shifts, and emotional healing for true transformation.

✧ Mindset & Confidence ✧

Reprogram Your Mind

Breaks down how to dismantle limiting beliefs, shift your mindset, and rewire your brain for self-assurance. A deep dive into mental conditioning and self-concept work.

Serotonin & Shadows

Explores the balance between light and darkness in personal growth. Talks about shadow work, self-sabotage, and finding happiness by embracing all parts of yourself.

Mind and Body Alchemy

This blog is a witty guide to syncing mind and body, turning self-care into a lifestyle. It encourages balance, self-awareness, and romanticizing the basics to make well-being effortless.

✧ Identity & Reinvention ✧

Alter Egos & Second Selves

Explores the concept of creating alternate versions of yourself for self-reinvention. Discusses how personas can help unlock confidence, ambition, and new ways of thinking.

A Chaotic Masterpiece

A raw, unfiltered look at personal growth—embracing chaos, mistakes, and uncertainty as necessary parts of evolution. Focuses on self-acceptance and reinvention.

Killing Through Chaos

It’s about owning your chaos, spinning the breakdown into a power move, and controlling the narrative even when everything’s falling apart.

✧ Spirituality & Energy Work ✧

A Journey Into the Unknown

Delves into spiritual awakening through Kundalini energy, chakra alignment, and energetic self-mastery. A mix of esoteric wisdom and practical steps.

Unlocking the Universe’s Magic

a beginner’s guide to crystals, tarot, and full moon rituals, teaching you how to cleanse, use, and harness their energy for manifestation and self-discovery.

✧ The Raw and The Real ✧

• The soft girl reality check

A tender guide to embracing stretch marks and cellulite—real skin, real beauty.

• Back acne and Body texture

Backne and body texture are more common than you think, and way less shameful than you’ve been told. This guide blends skincare solutions with self-love so you can heal without hating your reflection.

• A Raw Dive Into Body Image

This blog dives deep into the messy, emotional, and healing journey of body image—It’s a raw, empowering reminder that your body isn’t a trend, it’s your home—and you deserve to live in it fully, unapologetically.

And So the Journey Begins… ✨

Transformation isn’t a destination—it’s an evolution. Whether you're stepping into your alter ego, rewiring your mindset, or diving into energy work, every post here is a stepping stone to your highest self. Keep exploring, keep evolving, and most importantly—keep creating your own masterpiece.

More to come, always. Stay tuned. ♡

✨🕷️ Killing Through Chaos 🕷️✨

"She didn’t calm the storm. She became it."

There is something wildly powerful about not needing peace to win. When you learn to kill through chaos, you're not waiting for clarity, closure, or calm—you’re lighting the match while everything burns and walking away glowing.

This is for the girl who’s tired of surviving storms and ready to weaponize them. This is for the version of you that smiles through breakdowns and makes pain look like art.

🖤 1. Control the Narrative. Even If You’re Dying Inside.

When everything is messy and people expect you to crack?

Don’t. Give. Them. Anything.

Confusion is a weapon. Be vague. Be unreadable.

Curate your chaos. Make it look intentional. Like, yes, your life is falling apart—but in aesthetic fragments with good lighting.

Master the art of saying “I’m good” with a half-smile that says “I might burn the city down but cutely.”

“I don’t chase clarity. I create myth.”

If your world is on fire, show up like the devil’s favorite.

🕯️ 2. Protect Your Energy Like It’s Royal Property

When you’re in chaos mode, you don’t owe anyone your softness.

Detach. Emotionally, mentally, spiritually.

Block, delete, vanish. People are not entitled to your access, especially in your healing era.

Channel your rage into rituals—write, paint, clean, curse (if that’s your thing).

Don’t explain your silence. Let them feel your absence like a curse.

“They wanted access to the version of me I outgrew. Too late, babe.”

🌘 3. Don’t Break. Build.

Even when everything feels out of control, you can still build power in the dark.

Plot in silence. Your dreams don’t need an audience right now.

Heal, but like a villain does—strategically and fiercely.

Use the chaos as a pressure cooker. Let it shape you into someone terrifyingly unstoppable.

Take notes. Your revenge arc needs details.

🦂 4. Become Unpredictable

Chaos loses power when you stop being reactive.

Instead, be calculated. Be unpredictable. Be the plot twist.

Say no more often. Disappoint people who expect you to fold.

Rest when you want. Vanish when you need. Emerge when they least expect.

Change your style, your name, your damn number. Make reinvention your hobby.

“They don’t know who I am anymore. That’s the point.”

You are not lost.

You are in metamorphosis.

Let the storm shape you. Let the noise become your soundtrack.

And when it’s over?

Stand in the ruins with lip gloss on and say:

“I didn’t just survive. I rebranded.”

𝙼𝚒𝚛𝚛𝚘𝚛, 𝙼𝚒𝚛𝚛𝚘𝚛, 𝙾𝚗 𝙼𝚢 𝙼𝚒𝚗𝚍: 𝙰 𝚁𝚊𝚠 𝙳𝚒𝚟𝚎 𝙸𝚗𝚝𝚘 𝙱𝚘𝚍𝚢 𝙸𝚖𝚊𝚐𝚎

Chapter 1:

The First Time You Realized Your Body Was Being Watched

It starts young. For some, it’s the aunt who pinches your cheeks and tells you not to eat too many laddoos or you'll get “healthy.” For others, it’s the media showing you that "hot" means size zero, thigh gaps, flawless skin, abs, and hip bones that look like weapons. It doesn’t matter if you’re in India or Iceland—the world’s obsession with the “ideal body” finds you.

Suddenly, you’re no longer just living in your body. You’re managing it. Editing it. Apologizing for it. Dressing it to make it look “smaller,” “bigger,” “curvier,” “slimmer.”

You’re performing.

And no one handed you a script, but you knew what your role was supposed to be:

Be beautiful. But make it effortless. And definitely don’t complain.

Chapter 2:

The Inner Critic is Loud, Rude, and Always Online

Body image isn’t just what you see in the mirror—it’s the perception you’ve built over years, influenced by family, media, comparison, and let’s be honest, trauma.

It’s not always rational. It doesn’t care if you’re healthy. It doesn’t care if people compliment you. Body image is what you tell yourself when no one is watching.

It’s the whisper that says, “You’d be prettier if…”

It’s the scroll through social media that ends in, “Why don’t I look like that?”

It’s the photo you untag, the angle you avoid, the clothes you won’t wear even though you love them.

And it’s exhausting.

Because every single day, you’re trying to negotiate with a part of your brain that was never meant to be your enemy.

Chapter 3:

The Body Isn’t the Problem. Society’s Lens Is.

Let’s be real: standards change faster than fashion trends. What was “in” in 2005 is now demonized. Remember heroin chic? Now we want “slim thick.” The Kardashians switched from promoting waist trainers to doing pilates in Paris.

The goalposts of beauty are constantly shifting—and we’re made to feel like we are the problem for not keeping up.

Capitalism thrives on your insecurity.

So does the fitness industry, the fashion world, even some doctors.

But your body is not a trend. It’s not an aesthetic. It’s the vessel that carries you through life. It breathes, creates, heals, fights, holds trauma, holds joy, and holds memories. It’s sacred. It’s yours.

Chapter 4:

Healing Isn’t Linear (And Sometimes It’s a Damn Rollercoaster)

Let’s not pretend this is easy. You can do mirror affirmations, unfollow every model on Instagram, and still have days where you feel like garbage. That’s okay. Healing body image is like decluttering a house you’ve lived in for decades. You’re bound to find some dust.

Here’s what helps, even when you don’t believe it yet:

• Speak to yourself like you would to a friend.

If you wouldn’t call your bestie a “fat failure,” don’t say it to your damn self.

• Stop waiting to live your life.

Wear the outfit. Take the picture. Swim in the pool. Dance at the wedding. You don’t need to “earn” joy.

• Curate your feed.

If someone’s posts make you feel like trash, mute them. Replace with body-neutral, diverse, or joyful creators.

• Get back into your body.

Dance, stretch, walk, do yoga, breathe. Not to burn calories—but to connect with this beautiful, bizarre, resilient machine that is your body.

• Therapy.

Honestly, if you can access it, therapy is gold. Especially if you deal with disordered eating or body dysmorphia. You don’t have to carry this alone.

Chapter 5:

Body Positivity vs. Body Neutrality vs. Body Liberation

Let’s decode these real quick:

Body Positivity says: Love your body no matter what.

But some days, that feels fake, right?

Body Neutrality says: You don’t have to love it, just respect it.

It’s more chill, more sustainable.

Body Liberation says: Your worth has NOTHING to do with how your body looks. Let’s dismantle the whole system.

It’s the revolutionary big sister of the movement.

Pick whatever feels right. You don’t have to force joy every day. Some days survival is the victory.

Chapter 6:

Your Body Isn’t Ruined—It’s Lived In

Stretch marks? Life happened.

Cellulite? Literally 90% of women have it.

Acne, scars, bloating, belly rolls? Baby, those are human features, not flaws.

Your body doesn’t need to be smaller, smoother, tighter, or “corrected” to be beautiful. You’re not a before-and-after story. You’re a full damn novel.

And newsflash: you’re already enough.

Right now.

Without the glow-up. Without the transformation reel. Without the filter.

Chapter 7:

The Delulu Ending (That’s Lowkey Realistic Too)

Imagine this:

You wake up, look in the mirror, and smile—not because you look perfect, but because you look like you. You put on clothes that feel like freedom. You take photos and don’t overthink the angles. You eat what you want, move how you want, love who you want, and stop giving a damn what people think of your body. You realize the world lied to you—but now you’re reclaiming the truth.

That kind of peace? It’s not delusional.

It’s the most rebellious thing you can do.

Final Word from Someone Who’s Also Working On Herself:

Body image isn’t a destination. It’s a relationship. Some days you fight, some days you flirt, some days you hold hands and strut through life like the icons you are.

Just don’t ghost yourself in the process.

You’re not a project.

You’re a f**king masterpiece. In progress. With glitter.

okay so i finally made an instagram

think of it as my digital scrapbook—part glam diary, part chaotic renaissance

send a follow request and drop your insta username in my inbox (dw, I won’t post it)

if u came from Tumblr, say hi in the DMs so i know who my real ones are

expect:

self-glow chronicles, soft life logs, delulu diaries, breakdowns in a silk robe

and of course—hot takes, heartbreak glam, and healing in aesthetic lighting

#girlblogging #dream life #empowerment #leveling up #manifestation #main character #manifesting #love #aesthetic #gaslight gatekeep girlboss #maincharacterenergy

𓆩♡𓆪 BACK ACNE & BODY TEXTURE: WE’RE NOT AIRBRUSHED, BABE

because perfection is a filter, not a personality trait

❝ the intro: let’s break the skin myth ❞

You know that moment—about to wear a bomb outfit and then,

“ugh, my back’s breaking out again.”

Cue: hoodie, self-doubt, and hiding. But babe…why?

You’re not a walking Facetune filter.

You’re a soft, glowing, living being—sweating, surviving, thriving.

Backne and body texture are so normal it’s wild how we’ve been made to feel broken over it.

It’s not shameful. It’s skin. And skin has texture. Pores. Scars. Stories.

Let’s unlearn perfection & romanticize reality.

✧ the science-y bit (aka stop blaming yourself)

First of all—you’re not “dirty.” That’s outdated and honestly…rude.

Here’s what might actually be playing skin villain:

﹒Sweat + friction (tight clothes, workouts, sticky summers)

﹒Hormones (PMS wants war, not peace)

﹒Hair products (that silky conditioner? might be betrayal in a bottle)

﹒Diet & stress (yep, always in the mix)

﹒Clogged pores, dead skin, buildup

Your skin is reacting—not failing.

She’s a little sensitive, maybe dramatic. Relatable.

✧ the glow-up routine: healing, not hiding ✧

Step 1: Pre-shower Prep

﹒Dry brushing (lymphatic magic + regal vibes)

﹒Pre-shower oil (tea tree, neem, or even baby oil = calm & cleanse)

Step 2: Shower Like a Spa Spirit Guide

﹒Salicylic acid body wash (Neutrogena, CeraVe—you know the girls)

﹒Back loofah or silicone scrubber = reach the chaos

﹒Wash hair first, then body. Let no conditioner residue live rent-free.

Step 3: Post-Shower Skin Ritual

﹒Chemical exfoliants (BHA spray, glycolic toner—gentle, bossy)

﹒Light moisturizer (aloe, niacinamide, nothing cloggy)

﹒Spot treat: diluted tea tree oil or benzoyl peroxide

✧ delulu but make it dermatologically blessed ✧

﹒Silk pillowcases (even for your back—royalty only)

﹒Breezy fabrics (cotton > polyester betrayal)

﹒Clay or sulfur back masks (weekly spa-core)

﹒LED therapy (if you're that extra... and I support that)

Glow-up ≠ obsessing. It’s ritual. It’s romance. It’s ✨main character maintenance.✨

❝ the confidence shift ❞

Let this sink in, babe:

You don’t need smooth skin to be beautiful.

Texture doesn’t cancel out attraction.

Your body doesn’t exist to be airbrushed—it exists to live.

You are allowed to wear the dress before the skin clears.

You are allowed to shimmer on scars.

You are allowed to show the process, not just the after.

And you are not required to explain or shrink.

Romanticize the marks, the bumps, the stories.

Let your skin breathe and still be stunning.

*✧･ﾟ: * I Hate My Stretch Marks / Cellulite – The Soft Girl Reality Check :･ﾟ✧

Let’s just say it out loud:

Stretch marks and cellulite are not flaws.

They're not signs of laziness, ugliness, or imperfection.

They're literally just skin doing its thing.

But I get it. When you're scrolling through hyper-smooth, filtered bodies on your feed, it’s easy to feel like your skin didn’t get the memo. The softness, the texture, the lines — they start to feel like too much.

This post is for the soft girls (and anyone else) who look in the mirror and feel less-than because of them.

Let’s break this down.

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☁️ What They Are (and Why They’re So Normal)

Stretch marks = Little lightning-bolt scars from your skin stretching too fast (hello puberty, weight change, muscle gain).

Cellulite = Dimples caused by fat pushing against connective tissue.

Over 90% of women have it — even celebs and models.

They are:

• Totally normal

• Not a flaw

• Not proof you’re “not doing enough”

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☁️ Why Do We Hate Them?

Because we’ve been trained to.

Magazines airbrush them out. Filters erase every ripple. Brands market “flaw erasers.”

So we start to think natural = ugly.

It’s not.

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☁️ Can You Fade or Soften Them? Yes. Do You Need To? No.

But if you want to show them some TLC, here’s how:

For Stretch Marks:

• Retinol or Tretinoin (works best on newer marks)

• Rosehip Oil / Bio-Oil (hydrating + fading)

• Aloe Vera + Vitamin E

• Dry brushing + patience

For Cellulite:

• Caffeine scrubs + dry brushing (boosts blood flow)

• Foam rolling / Gua sha for body

• Strength training for smoother tone

• Topical firming creams (temporary but satisfying)

• Optional: microneedling, radiofrequency, etc.

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☁️ How to Feel Cute in Your Skin (With or Without “Fixes”)

• Follow creators who show real skin. Normalize texture in your feed.

• Wear what you want. Bike shorts, mini skirts, crop tops. Your skin deserves air and sunlight.

• Practice mirror affirmations.

"This skin holds me through everything. I owe her love."

• Make body care romantic. Oil your thighs under candlelight. Gua sha to your favorite playlist. Make it sacred, not shameful.

Final Soft Reminder:

Your stretch marks and cellulite are not mistakes.

They’re reminders that you’re alive, soft, changing, growing.

You’re not less beautiful because of them. You’re human.

You’re soft, radiant, and worthy. Always.

Thank you for being a self care blog 🫶🏻 so happy I found you!

Omg stoppp you’re gonna make me cry—thank you so much!! This little space started as a self-love note to my chaotic soul, and the fact that it’s now reaching beautiful beings like you?? Literal soul-alignment. So happy the universe brought us together—consider yourself part of the self-care "cult" (hydrated, healing, and slightly unhinged). Thank you for being here—now go sip your tea like it’s a love potion and romanticize your healing, okay?

✨Mind and Body Alchemy ✨

You ever feel like your mind and body are in a toxic situationship? Like, your body is clearly giving signs it needs rest, water, and maybe a vegetable, and your mind is like, nah, let’s stay up overthinking until 3 AM.

Or maybe your mind is screaming at you to get your life together, but your body is just lying there like a dead iPhone with no charger in sight.

So, let’s talk about how to get these two to stop ghosting each other and start working together.

1. Stop Betraying Your Own Energy

Some days, you wake up feeling like a main character. Other days, your brain is buffering and your body is lagging. Listen to that. Pushing through exhaustion isn’t “hustle culture,” it’s self-sabotage.

✔ If your body feels sluggish, give it movement, not punishment. A walk, a stretch, some music to get the energy flowing.

✔ If your mind feels foggy, declutter it. Journal, meditate, talk it out—even if it’s just yelling at yourself in the mirror.

Your energy isn’t a fixed state. Ride the waves instead of fighting the tide.

2. Romanticize the Bare Minimum

No, you don’t need a 20-step morning routine with moon water and imported matcha to have your life together. Romanticizing the bare minimum makes consistency feel ✨aesthetic✨ instead of a chore.

✔ Drinking water? Put it in a fancy glass, pretend it’s a potion of vitality.

✔ Eating a meal? Light a candle, play some background music, and call it a “self-care date.”

✔ Sleeping on time? Tell yourself it’s “beauty rest” and you’re waking up to be that girl/guy/person.

Make the basics feel luxurious. Because let’s be real—if taking care of yourself feels like a punishment, you won’t do it.

3. Your Body is Your Ride-or-Die

You can leave a toxic ex. You can quit a bad job. But your body? You’re stuck together. Forever. It carries you through life even when you don’t treat it right. Maybe it’s time to return the favor.

✔ Move it, fuel it, rest it. Not because you “have to,” but because it deserves it.

✔ Stop speaking about it like an enemy. Would you tell your best friend they look bad today? No? Then why do it to yourself?

✔ Listen to the warning signs. That gut feeling? That burnout creeping in? That’s your body trying to help you, not sabotage you.

Your body isn’t just the shell carrying your mind—it’s part of you. Treat it accordingly.

4. Mind & Body = Power Couple

The moment your mind and body start working with each other instead of against each other, you unlock main character energy.

✔ Prioritize both: Mental health days matter as much as gym days.

✔ Tune in: A healthy mind makes it easier to have a healthy body, and vice versa.

✔ Find balance: Chase goals, but rest too. Hustle, but enjoy the moment. Be delulu, but also self-aware.

Your mind and body are in this together. Might as well make them a power couple.

Take Care of Yourself, Babe.

Self-care isn’t just bubble baths and spa days—it’s listening to yourself. You deserve to feel good. You deserve to rest. You deserve to thrive.

Now go drink some water, stretch a little, and romanticize the hell out of your life.

Daily Grind: The Art of Becoming That Girl

25/03/25

This is a daily post, a daily denomination of becoming her. Feel free to join in and tag me along—let’s build this era together.

☀ Sleep & Wake Cycle

⏰ Woke up at: 8:30 AM

🌙 Slept at: 2:30 AM

✦ Progress? Could’ve used more sleep, but we move. Beauty rest is a luxury in this hustle era.

⚡ Productivity & Focus

📚 Study Session: NCERT NEET

🎯 Focus Level: 5/10

⏳ Time Spent: 2 hours

🤡 Distractions: my mind protested and i respect it

✦ Note to Self: Need to romanticize studying more. Maybe soft lofi beats and a warm cup of tea next time?

🧘‍♀️ Workout of the Day

✔ 15-minute yoga

✔ 10-minute meditation

⚡ Energy Levels After Workout: 6/10

⚖ Current Weight: 55.2 kg

✦ Mindset Shift: The goal isn’t to be skinny; the goal is to be glowing, strong, and thriving.

🥗 Nutrition & Hydration

🚫 Breakfast: Skipped (intermittent fasting era)

🥗 Lunch/Brunch: Brown chickpea sabji & roti

🍛 Dinner: Dal rice

🌱 Evening Snack: A veggie bun slider

💧 Drink Rotation:

1. Warm water (empty stomach) – because hydration is the ultimate flex.

2. Cinnamon tea – cozy, comforting, and kinda makes me feel like a mystical herbalist.

🚰 Water Intake: 2 liters

⏳ Intermittent Fasting: 18:6 (18-hour fasting, 6-hour eating window)

✦ Reminder: Hydration = Clear skin, more energy, and main character glow.

💆‍♀️ Self-Care & Glow-Up Rituals

✨ Skincare: Yes – because this face is an investment, not an expense.

✨ Body care: Yes – soft skin is a lifestyle.

✨ Oral care: Yes – fresh breath, fresh start.

✦ Mantra: If you take care of yourself like you’re expensive, you become expensive.

🌿 Inner Wellness - Supplements

💊 Vitamin E – for that lit-from-within glow

💊 Cod fish oil – brain power unlocked

💊 Multivitamins – because we don’t rely on vibes alone

💊 B Complex – energy boost, because coffee is temporary

💊 Iron – non-negotiable queen behavior

✦ Lesson: You can’t manifest your best life if you’re running on deficiencies.

🧠 Mood & Mental Check-In

💭 Mood: 4/10 (manageable, but we could aim higher)

🔥 Stress Level: 6/10 (not breaking, just bending)

✦ Affirmation: "I am in control of my energy. I attract what I align with."

💭 Personal Growth & Reflections

✨ How I’m better than yesterday:

☑ Another day of discipline, glow-ups, and chasing dreams.

Until next time—stay iconic, stay delusional, and stay hydrated.

☁️ Daily Grind :The Art of Becoming That Girl ✨

24/03/25

Welcome to another chapter of my becoming era—where ambition meets self-care, and discipline dances with a little bit of delusion. Because why settle for average when you can be iconic?this is gonna be a daily post or a daily denomination.feel Free to join in and tag me along.

🌙 Sleep & Wake Cycle

⏰ Woke up at: 9am (chaos mode activated)

😴 Slept at: 12am (way later than I should but we can work with it )

🖤 Productivity & Focus

📚 Study Session: Physics (because the laws of motion won’t learn themselves)

🎯 Focus Level: 5/10 (We’re getting there, but coffee might be my next savior)

⏳ Time Spent: 3 hours (commitment, but make it exhausting)

😴 Distractions: Studying like a scholar of chaos—my brain cells protested, and I respect them for that.

💪 Fitness & Energy

✨ Workout of the Day:

20-minute stretching (aka waking up my body)

25-minute yoga & 10-minute meditation (balancing chakras while plotting world domination)

⚡ Energy Levels After Workout: 6/10 (Progress, not perfection)

⚖️ Weight: 55.2 kg

🍽️ Nutrition & Hydration

🥄 Breakfast: Skipped (again… we don’t talk about it.)

🍛 Lunch/Brunch: (shepu)dill & roti—soul-soothing, approved by my ancestors.

🍲 Dinner: soya bean rice

☕ Evening Snack: banana and sapote and coffee (cozy, warm, and just the right touch of caffeine)

🔄 Drink Rotation:

1. Warm water (empty stomach)

2.lemon cucumber detox water (throughout the day)

💧 Water Intake: 2 liters

⏳ Intermittent Fasting: 18:6 (18-hour fasting, 6-hour eating window)

🧖‍♀️ Self-Care & Glow-Up Rituals

🌿 Daily Checklist:

✔ Skincare – Yes (because we don’t compromise on radiance)

✔ Body care – Yes (moisturized & thriving)

✔ Oral care – Yes (fresh breath, fresh energy)

💆‍♀️ Mood: 6/10 (stable but in need of a serotonin top-up)

⚡ Stress Level: 5/10 (handling life like a pro, but also… sigh)

💊 Inner Wellness – Supplements

Vitamin E (skin savior)

Cod fish oil (brain boost)

Multivitamins (insurance for my health)

B Complex (energy support)

Iron (because I refuse to feel like a fainting Victorian woman)

💡 Personal Growth & Reflections

✨ What I learned about myself: I’m done pushing myself to exhaustion. Hustle, but make it sustainable.

✨ How I’m better than yesterday: started working out and studying after a week

💌 Another day of discipline, glow-ups, and chasing dreams.

Until next time—stay iconic, stay delusional, and stay hydrated.

✨Unlocking the Universe’s Magic✨

Crystals, Tarot & the Full Moon

☾ Welcome to the World of Energy Work ☽

You feel it, don’t you? The pull of something unseen. The quiet hum of energy around you. The way the moonlight wraps around your skin like a whispered secret. Energy work isn’t just a practice—it’s a connection to the universe, to yourself, and to the ancient wisdom woven into the cosmos.

If you’re ready to awaken your intuition, balance your energy, and manifest your desires, you’re in the right place. Let’s explore the sacred trifecta: Crystals, Tarot, and the Full Moon.

𓆙 Crystals: Earth’s Energy Amplifiers 𓆙

Crystals are like tiny batteries, holding and amplifying energy. Each one has a frequency that can align with your intentions, helping you heal, manifest, and protect yourself.

☾ How to Choose Your Crystal ☽

Don’t overthink it—let your intuition guide you. The crystal that calls to you is the one you need. But if you want a guide:

✧ Clear Quartz – Clarity, amplification, energy cleansing.

✧ Rose Quartz – Love, self-healing, emotional balance.

✧ Amethyst – Intuition, dreams, spiritual connection.

✧ Black Tourmaline – Protection, grounding, negativity shield.

✧ Citrine – Abundance, confidence, joy.

☾ How to Cleanse & Charge Crystals ☽

Before using your crystal, cleanse it to remove stored energy:

☽ Water – Rinse under cool running water (avoid for selenite, pyrite, etc.).

☽ Smoke – Pass it through sage, palo santo, or incense.

☽ Moonlight – Leave it under the full moon overnight.

☽ Sound – Use singing bowls, bells, or chanting.

Once cleansed, hold your crystal, set an intention, and let it work its magic.

𓂀 Tarot: A Mirror to the Soul 𓂀

Tarot isn’t about fortune-telling—it’s a tool for self-discovery, clarity, and guidance. The cards reflect your energy and provide insight into what’s unseen.

☾ How to Use Tarot ☽

Choose a Deck – The Rider-Waite deck is a great beginner choice.

Cleanse Your Deck – Knock on it three times, pass it through smoke, or place it under moonlight.

Bond With It – Sleep with it near you, shuffle often, and pull a daily card.

☾ Beginner-Friendly Tarot Spreads ☽

🜂 One-Card Pull – What do I need to know today?

🜃 Three-Card Spread – Past | Present | Future

🜁 Full Moon Spread –

✧ What should I release?

✧ What should I embrace?

✧ What is being revealed to me?

💡 Pro Tip: Keep a tarot journal to track your readings and spot patterns. Tarot is a dialogue—let the cards speak to you.

🌕 The Full Moon: A Portal of Transformation 🌕

The full moon is the universe’s cosmic high tide, illuminating what needs to be released and what is ready to bloom. It’s the perfect time for cleansing, manifestation, and deep energy work.

☾ Full Moon Ritual for Energy Work ☽

☽ Cleanse Your Space – Burn sage, incense, or diffuse essential oils.

☽ Write & Release – Journal about what you’re letting go of. Burn the paper safely to symbolize release.

☽ Charge Your Crystals – Leave them under the moon to absorb its energy.

☽ Tarot & Reflection – Pull cards for guidance and journal your insights.

☽ Moon Bath – Stand under the moonlight, close your eyes, and let the energy wash over you.

💡 Pro Tip: Even if the moon isn’t visible, her energy is still there. Trust the connection.

☾ Energy Work: Aligning with the Universe ☽

Energy work is about harmony—balancing your aura, chakras, and intentions.

☾ Daily Energy Practices ☽

✧ Grounding – Walk barefoot, meditate, or hold a grounding crystal.

✧ Cleansing – Smudge your space, take salt baths, or visualize white light.

✧ Journaling – Record dreams, synchronicities, and emotions.

✧ Visualization – Imagine your desires as if they already exist.

𓆃 Final Thoughts: You Are Magic 𓆃

Energy work is not about rules—it’s about feeling. Trust your intuition, experiment, and flow with the rhythms of the universe. The more you tune in, the louder the universe speaks.

ɢʟᴏᴡ-ᴜᴘ ʙᴇʏᴏɴᴅ ᴛʜᴇ ꜱᴜʀꜰᴀᴄᴇ

A Spiritual & Energetic Transformation ✨🔮

We often think of a glow-up as just skincare, fashion, or fitness—but a true transformation starts deep within. A spiritual glow-up elevates your energy, aligns you with your highest self, and attracts abundance, love, and success effortlessly. Here’s how to start your inner glow-up journey and recognize the right energies in your life.

☁️ Step 1: Detox Your Energy Like You Detox Your Skin ☁️

Just like clogged pores dull your skin, stagnant energy and negativity block your glow.

🔮 Cut energetic cords with toxic people or past versions of yourself that no longer serve you. Try visualization techniques or candle rituals to release old energy.

🔥 Cleanse your aura with salt baths, smudging (if culturally appropriate), or sound healing.

🌿 Declutter your space to remove energy that keeps you stuck. Keep crystals like selenite, black tourmaline, or clear quartz nearby.

🌙 Step 2: Activate Your Magnetic Energy 🌙

Want to be effortlessly attractive, not just in looks but in energy? It’s all about frequency.

✨ Raise your vibration through high-energy habits—gratitude, laughter, creativity, and movement.

🧘 Balance your chakras, especially the Solar Plexus (confidence) and Heart Chakra (self-love). Use affirmations like “I am radiant. I am magnetic.”

💡 Practice embodiment—move like the version of yourself you dream of being. Confidence isn’t just a thought; it’s an energy you carry.

🦋 Step 3: Recognizing the Right (and Wrong) Energies in Your Circle 🦋

Not everyone deserves access to your energy. Here’s how to identify who should stay and who should go.

🚨 Red Flags in Friendships & Relationships:

❌ You feel drained after talking to them.

❌ They only reach out when they need something.

❌ They belittle your dreams or make you doubt yourself.

❌ They’re inconsistent—hot and cold energy.

❌ They guilt-trip you for setting boundaries.

🌿 Green Flags in Friendships & Relationships:

✅ You feel safe, seen, and energized around them.

✅ They celebrate your wins, big or small.

✅ They respect your boundaries and emotions.

✅ They communicate openly and honestly.

✅ They inspire you to grow and be your best self.

💫 Step 4: Protect & Expand Your Energy 💫

As you level up, not everyone will like your growth. Protect your energy and keep expanding.

🌟 Use protection rituals—visualize a golden light shield around you daily.

📜 Write affirmations and keep them in your mirror or journal.

🎶 Listen to high-frequency music (432Hz, 528Hz) to keep your energy aligned.

🌙 Trust your intuition—if something feels off, it probably is.

A true glow-up isn’t just about looking better—it’s about feeling better, vibrating higher, and attracting the right people, opportunities, and love into your life. 💖

✨ Are you ready to step into your most radiant self? ✨

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A Love Letter to the Light & Dark Within You

We exist in contradictions. Soft and sharp. Quiet and chaotic. Dreamer and destroyer. We crave serotonin—the golden glow of contentment—but we are also ruled by our shadows, the parts of us that lurk in moonlight, whispering truths we often ignore.

This space is not about toxic positivity. It’s not about drowning in darkness, either. It’s about integration. It’s about alchemy—turning pain into power, restlessness into creation, and emotions into art.

Welcome to the grey area, where we don’t just survive. We thrive.

☼ The Serotonin Side: Soft Euphoria & Gentle Joys

Serotonin isn’t just “happiness.” It’s balance. It’s the quiet kind of peace that feels like warm coffee in your hands or the way sunlight kisses your skin after days of rain. It’s the deep exhale that says, I am okay. I am here.

☁ How to Cultivate Daily Euphoria (Without Faking It)

Ritualize the Mundane.

Light a candle before you journal.

Play music while getting ready, make it cinematic.

Drink water like it’s a love potion.

Turn walks into thought voyages.

Learn to Love the Small Wins.

Finished a task? Clap for yourself.

Woke up on time? Victory.

Drank enough water? Main character behavior.

Fuel Your Brain Like It’s an Expensive Car. (A NON NEGOTIABLE)

Dark chocolate, matcha, bananas, omega-3s (because you deserve high-quality energy).

Hydration is non-negotiable.

If the sun won’t shine, fake it with golden lighting and warm colors.

Move Like You Love Yourself.

Not as punishment, but as poetry.

Dance at 2 AM just because.

Stretch with intention—feel every part of you waking up.

Practice the Art of Feeling Good for No Reason.

You don’t need an occasion to wear your best outfit.

You don’t need permission to be happy.

Sometimes, joy is just deciding to be present.

☾ The Shadow Side: Befriending the Beautiful Darkness

The world tells us to fear our shadows. To hide our anger, sadness, and intensity under layers of politeness. But ignoring the dark doesn’t make it disappear—it just makes it grow in secret.

The truth? Your darkness is not your enemy. It is your teacher.

☽ How to Integrate, Not Erase, Your Shadows

Meet Yourself in the Mirror.

Look into your own eyes. Really look.

Whisper affirmations, but not just soft ones.

Try: “I honor all versions of myself, even the ones I don’t understand yet.”

Let Your Darkness Speak.

Journal without filters. Write the raw, the messy, the uncomfortable truths.

Ask yourself: What am I afraid to admit? What parts of myself do I reject?

Turn the answers into art. Poetry. Fashion. Music. Movement.

Release & Rage with Purpose.

Write an angry letter and burn it.

Punch a pillow. Scream in the car.

Let emotions move through you instead of keeping them trapped inside.

Romanticize the Dark.

Late-night walks under streetlights.

The scent of rain-soaked earth.

Candlelit baths with black lace and red wine.

Music that aches, books that make you feel too much.

Let the darkness be cinematic, not just heavy.

☯ The Balance: Where Serotonin Meets Shadows

You are not meant to be all light or all dark. You are a storm with a sun inside. You are the wild contradiction of soft hands and sharp claws, poetry and chaos, serenity and rebellion.

How to live in the in-between:

Romanticize both ends of your spectrum. There is beauty in the darkness, just as there is depth in the light.

Feel deeply, but don’t drown. Let emotions pass through you like waves—not as prisons, but as messengers.

Make art out of your duality. The best stories, the best music, the best fashion, the best moments come from contrast.

Know that you are never just one thing. You are allowed to be happy and sad. Strong and soft. Lost and found.

Final Thought:-

You Are a Walking Universe

The world will try to tell you to pick a side—to be either sunshine or shadows. Don’t listen. You are both. You are all.

You are not broken. You are not too much.

You are the entire spectrum of existence wrapped in skin, and that?

That is magic.

Reprogram Your Mind : Crush Insecurities & Unlock Unshakable Confidence

Training Your Conscious Mind & Overcoming Insecurities

The mind is a battlefield. Every day, we fight against doubts, fears, and insecurities that try to hold us back. But what if you could reprogram your conscious mind to work for you instead of against you? What if you could train it to overcome insecurities, build confidence, and manifest the life you want?

Understanding the Conscious Mind

Your conscious mind is the part of you that makes decisions, processes information, and shapes how you see yourself and the world. It’s where self-talk happens—the constant stream of thoughts that influence your emotions and actions.

The problem? If your conscious mind is filled with insecurity and self-doubt, it will keep you trapped in negative patterns. But the good news? You can train it, rewire it, and shift your perspective. Here’s how:

1. Challenge & Reframe Negative Thoughts

Most insecurities come from the stories we tell ourselves. If you keep thinking, “I’m not good enough” or “People don’t like me”, your mind will start to believe it.

How to Reframe Your Thoughts:

Identify negative thoughts as soon as they come up.

Ask yourself: Is this really true?

Replace it with a more empowering thought. Example:

❌ “I’m not talented enough.”

✅ “I am constantly improving my skills, and that’s what matters.”

Your brain needs repetition to form new beliefs, so the more you do this, the more your mind starts to accept the positive version.

2. Visualize the Best Version of Yourself

Your mind responds to imagery. If you constantly see yourself failing or looking awkward in your mind, your brain will follow that script. Instead, visualize the version of yourself who is confident, secure, and successful.

Visualization Exercise:

Close your eyes for a few minutes every morning.

Picture yourself speaking confidently, walking with ease, and radiating self-assurance.

Feel the emotions of being that version of yourself.

Let that feeling guide your actions throughout the day.

Your brain doesn’t distinguish between imagination and reality, so the more you do this, the more your conscious mind aligns with that version of you.

3. Use Affirmations (But Do It Right)

Affirmations are powerful, but only if you believe them. Saying “I am confident” when you don’t feel it might trigger resistance.

How to Use Affirmations Effectively

Start with something believable:

Instead of “I love myself completely” (if that feels false), try “I am learning to appreciate myself more every day.”

Say them with emotion—feel the words as if they’re already true.

Write them down or repeat them in the mirror daily.

Example affirmations for overcoming insecurity:

I am growing into the best version of myself every day.

My worth is not defined by other people’s opinions.

I deserve to take up space and be heard.

4. Break the Habit of Seeking Validation

One of the biggest causes of insecurity is relying too much on what others think. The more you seek approval, the more you give your power away.

How to Stop Seeking Validation:

Practice self-approval – When you achieve something, acknowledge it without waiting for external praise.

Limit social media comparison – People only show their best moments online, not their struggles.

Ask yourself: “If no one could see this, would I still do it?” If the answer is yes, it’s coming from your true self, not the need for validation.

5. Take Action Despite Fear

Insecurities grow stronger when you avoid situations that make you uncomfortable. The only way to break them is by facing them head-on.

How to Push Through Fear:

Start with small challenges – If you’re scared of speaking up, start by making small comments in conversation

Reframe mistakes as learning – Instead of “I embarrassed myself”, think “I took a step toward growth.”

Keep a confidence journal – Write down every time you did something outside your comfort zone. Seeing your progress will build trust in yourself.

6. Cultivate a Strong Self-Identity

Your insecurities often come from not knowing who you truly are. The more solid your self-identity is, the less other people’s opinions affect you.

Ways to Strengthen Your Identity:

Discover your core values – What matters most to you? (e.g., creativity, independence, kindness)

Do things just for YOU – Pursue hobbies, interests, and passions that make you feel alive.

Dress & carry yourself with intention – The way you present yourself affects how you feel inside

When you know who you are, insecurities lose their grip because you’re no longer looking for external approval to define you.

7. Train Your Mind to Focus on What’s Going Right

Insecurity magnifies flaws and mistakes while ignoring strengths and progress. To shift this, start training your mind to notice what’s working.

Daily Practice:

Every night, write down three things you did well that day.

Celebrate small wins, even if they seem minor.

Shift focus from lack to growth—instead of “I’m not there yet,” think “I’m making progress.”

Where your focus goes, your energy flows. If you train your mind to focus on growth, you’ll feel more confident naturally.

FINAL THOUGHTS-

The Power Is in Your Hands

Your conscious mind is like a muscle. The more you train it, the stronger it becomes. Overcoming insecurity isn’t about suddenly feeling 100% confident all the time—it’s about shifting your mindset, rewiring old patterns, and taking action despite fear.

Start small, stay consistent, and watch how your confidence transforms.

What’s one insecurity you’re working on overcoming? Drop it in the comments—I’d love to hear your thoughts!

The Inside-Out Glow-Up

How to Stop Playing Small & Start Moving Like a Winner

There’s a difference between people who are just seen and people who are felt. The latter don’t beg for attention, they just walk into a room and shift the atmosphere. That’s the glow-up no one talks about—the kind that starts inside and radiates outward.

I thought a glow-up was about changing my hair, my wardrobe, my face. But what actually changed my life? My energy.

Here’s how I stopped playing small and started moving like the winner I was always meant to be.

Step 1: The Identity Shift – Becoming "That Person"

If you’re waiting for something external to confirm you’re important (money, attention, approval), you’ll always feel like something is missing. The glow-up happens when you wake up one day and decide:

I am interesting, valuable, magnetic—before anyone else says it.

I deserve to take up space and be seen.

I no longer play down my personality to make others comfortable.

Ask yourself: If I were already the most powerful, glowing version of me—how would I think? How would I move? What would I tolerate?

Then start acting like that.

Immediately.

Step 2: Unlearning Self-Sabotage & Small Energy

A lot of us were conditioned to be “humble,” to be “likable,” to dim ourselves down. But let’s be real—playing small has never helped anyone win.

Speaking softly so you don’t sound “too much”? Stop it.

Sitting back when you know you have something to say? Stop it.

Not going after what you want because “what if I fail”? Stop it.

Winners aren’t afraid to be seen trying. And trust me, people can feel when you doubt yourself. The second you start believing you belong in the spotlight, the world will reflect it back to you.

Step 3: The Energy Glow-Up – Embodying Unapologetic Presence

Confidence isn’t just posture or outfits (though, yes, those help). It’s the subtle way you exist that makes people remember you.

Speak slower. Move with certainty. Rushed energy screams insecurity.

Make eye contact. Like you expect people to listen when you talk.

Stop over-explaining. Say what you mean, then stop talking.

Carry yourself like you have somewhere important to be. Even if it’s just a coffee run.

People should feel something different when they’re around you. Like they just met someone important. Because they did.

Step 4: Raising Your Standards in Every Area

Here’s the truth: when you glow up internally, you’ll stop tolerating things that don’t align with your highest self.

Low-effort friendships? No, thanks.

Situationships with people who don’t see your worth? Not my vibe.

Doubting yourself before you even try? That’s embarrassing.

Once you start seeing yourself as the prize, the whole world starts treating you that way too.

Step 5: Moving Like a Winner (Before the World Recognizes It)

You don’t become magnetic, successful, iconic by waiting for permission. You do it by deciding:

“I’m already her.”

“I already have what it takes.”

“It’s just a matter of time before the world catches up.”

And then you start walking, talking, living like that’s the truth. Because it is.

The glow-up isn’t about becoming someone new. It’s about uncovering who you were always meant to be.

So stop playing

porcelanitaa

Thanks @princessfaerygia for the tag! decided to post it here bc it was getting too long. I don't know the girl from Thirteen, but based on the characters I know I can assume you're a sensitive person who deals with contradictory emotions but has a good heart. You're so precious!

My characters: Luka from Alien Stage, Mitsuba from TBHK, Viktor from Arcane and Bibi from I Love Amy.

tags (no pressure): @cuppa-coma , @scary-friend , @smittenseraphim , @sweetheart-sings , @strangerconnection @aloe-emo , @carnage-cathedral , @escarghosted , @angelstrash , @strawbjose , @wiltinglibrary , @sugarcandydoll , @sugardonutzz , @hellhoundsdoth0wl , @local-lover-boy , @xxx-ang3l-w1th-a-sh0tgun-xxx , @sunnyxjarrus , @viniknp , @virgils-muse , @carm3n-carm3n , @anqelicbf

hellhoundsdoth0wl

Thank you for the tag, @porcelanitaa . From the characters you added & I know, I assume you have been in a situationship or two before . (/j)

The characters I have chosen : Neuvillette (Genshin Impact) , Doctor Veritas Ratio (Honkai: Star Rail) , Metal Sonic (Sonic Franchise) , and Pearl (Steven Universe). Tags vv @lowpolyraccoon + @andromedacarriesaxes + @thenamesmobu + @rickazazel006 + @vivariumglass . Anyone else who'd like to join, as well. (No pressure, of course.)

porcelanitaa

Based on the characters you added I can assume you're really cool and you got bitches

huellitaa

i second this actually i assume ur really cool

thank you angel @porcelanitaa !! ♡ 💭🎀🐈‍⬛️ judging from ur characters, (the only one of which i know being mitsuba), i can assume that you're a very kind person ♡ but you often, whether consciously or subconsciously, put up walls to hide yourself from others. you cope by turning your pain to beauty through art and you often feel forgotten or left behind, despite your brilliance. also i will never forget or leave u behind .just so u know ♡

⊹˚. 🎀 my characters... 💬🐧👛

♡ 🧁 mizuki akiyama, project sekai (was v close to choosing ena but both work)

♡ 🩰 ragatha, the amazing digital circus

♡ 🐈‍⬛️ starlight glimmer, my little pony

♡ 💭 draculaura, monster high

no pressure... 🎀💬🐈‍⬛️ @ngtvcr33p @raym0ri @sillyeveline @wintvies @zxaera @heesbunny @ghostiaa @scandiangel @prettieinpink @agirlwithglam @sleepinginmygrave @honeytonedhottie @porcelanitaa @dollywons @floressaph @zooxanthellae @theyluvvaubery @silkcorpsedoll @sugarcandydoll @pinkestglittercat @0ddlyc0re @callmelyriic @cuyberpunk @sentfrmabove @angelicbee444 + all my other friends! ♡

agirlwithglam

hiii thankyou for the tag 🎀 i assume that you’re an absolute DOLL. your such a cutie glamorous girly girl, teenage girl at its finest right here!

my characters:

barbie (the barbie movie)

gretchen (mean girls)

pinkie pie (my little pony)

belle (beauty and the beast)

no pressure tags 💗🎀 @thegirlingold @heesbunny @prettieinpink @glowettee @n1pp @mindfulstudyquest @liviawildrose @prissygrlsorority @elicathebunny

liviawildrose-deactivated202508

thank you so so so much for tagging me this is so cute~

i feel like you’re giving a mix of whimsical optimism with emotional depth. you’re someone who values connection, self-growth, and inner beauty but also brings lighthearted, fun energy to the room.

in a nutshell can we be friends please 😭