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klezmer is good because it’s like what if a banjo had a baby with the frozen expanse of the eastern european tundra and an affair on the side with the kind of pent up generational trauma that can only be expressed by banging on a piece of metal really hard. give it a listen you’ll know what i mean

susiephone

so frustrating to be a skeptic with a sense of whimsy because like. I want there to be cryptids. I want there to be magic. I want there to be evidence of something we don't fully understand and can't explain. but then 99% of the "proof" out there for that stuff is like. the most obvious scam you've ever seen in your life.

ckret2

saltedume

tuiskuh

As a woman who is both gender non-conforming and who is planning a pregnancy in the near future AND who works with children, I am very invested in the conversation about the confines of femininity, the complexities of motherhood and the fascistic expectation of women to have children. I also often find it deeply frustrating.

I do not think it should need to be said, but unfortunately it absolutely is, that nobody should ever be forced to become pregnant, be a parent or carry a pregnancy to term. Ever. This requires both complete and total abortion rights & access but also the dismantling of the gendered expectation of women to want and need children. Remaining child free should not only be possible for women, it should also be normal and completely accepted. Anything else is oppressive.

However, I am deeply bothered by how many people who share these views talk about children. I have come across many posts describing children in cruel and dehumanizing ways, emphasizing how gross and terrible children are and how much of a burden they are to their parents. This, I think is also wrong.

Children are a particularly vulnerable population. They often have very little rights and autonomy and are at the whims of adults around them, which makes then particularly vulnerable to abuse. Children are real, fully realized people who have very specific needs and considerations. Constantly discussing how disgusting and terrible children are, means attacking people who have no power and cannot defend themselves, legally or otherwise. These views cannot be separated from calls to remove children from public life, like parks and transportation, the practice of which is both dehumanizing and oppressive. This goes hand in hand with the gendered oppression of women who are unfortunately still often the primary caregivers of children. Forcing children out of the public sphere means forcing mothers out of it too. And the right to not have children needs to go hand in hand with the right to have children. Women need abortion rights and access but they also need the right and access to give birth for free. They need robust childcare and child & family friendly infrastructure. Otherwise the only people who can afford to have children are wealthy elites.

The rights of women to not have children and the rights of children and mothers go hand in hand. They are not contradictory. Being a parent is a complex relationship, one wrought with a long history of violence and oppression of children and women. It is not easy to navigate, and nobody should be expected to do it. Simultaneously, the people who do decide to do it deserve help and support, not scorn or mockery. And most of all, children, all children, even the annoying, dirty and screaming ones deserve a safe loving world that sees their full humanity, respects their perspectives and their bodily autonomy. We are all a part of creating that world for them. Society should be about being good to each other, and that includes children too.

imperator-knoedel

"Children are real, fully realized people"

But what about babies? Surely a newborn doesn't count as a person? Where do we draw the line? Age Three?

tuiskuh

i dunno man, there is no age cap or line. babies are real people too. they experience pain and fear and love and have preferences and in general are alive and have complete real subjectivity. the fact that babies need help in both communicating and functioning does not make them any less real people than older children or adults. a baby crying on an airplane might be annoying and overstimulating to us adults but that baby is in genuine fear, distress or pain and has not yet developed the tools to cope with that, and for all we know it might be the first or worst time they've ever experienced this pain or distress before. it matters. the subjective experience of babies matters. yes, it matters because we know through studies that the first two years of life are incredibly important for a person's adult mental health, but also because even as a baby, even if that baby never ended up living to their adulthood, it would still matter because that is a real person who matters. I am not saying babies or small children are somehow unchangeable and on the same intellectual level as adults. of course not. that is obviously untrue. but treating children as just 'in progress adults' or somehow 'unfinished' is ignoring their real subjectivity as children who have children's perception and unique way of seeing things and experiencing things. every child is just as much of real person with genuine interiority as any adult is. they simply experience the world and communicate differently and have a lot more intense support needs than most (but not all!) human adults, which makes them very vulnerable to abuse.

nereididae

She was so right for this #myavoidance

clownboybebop

Those sick fucks at Ocean Spray will mix anything with a cranberry

sleepnoises

boyfriend's quail photos have reached perhaps a lifetime peak today

dark-scape

This is a great playlist. Starts off with "Hit or Miss" by Odetta: amazing song by a great artist whose voice gives me shivers. I recognize a lot of the artists, but there's also some that are new to me. It's not overly long so it's a perfect intro to the topic.

auntymurda

the girl with the pearl earring. cy3rix on instagram. 2025.

probuccalfat

venus planet of love was destroyed by global warming and me i feel also not so good

spiralmindz

what im learning from my years of being one of the annoying woke black people on here is that a Lot of white and nonblack people really do not understand what racism is and what it has done to African Americans. like when we learn abt it in schools they dont really tell you abt the mass rape and genocide and torture of Africans by white slave owners, they dont talk abt the murder of babies and the cannibalism either. its all in The Past so we should just get over it, lol. and then when nonamerican's colonial past gets brought up they start throwing tantrums too, because antiblackness is a global thing, many countries have exploited Africa and its people. this isnt unique to one nation. its so funny how all these Smart Communists are so ignorant abt racism in america and globally, and then when black leftist/progressive tumblr users try to say anything abt their real actual Lived Experiences as Black people its met with dismissal and hatred and condescension and Um, Actually, im not from america, can you talk to me like im 5 about racism please :) and if youre anything but Nice they will call you a slur

spiralmindz

slavery is still very much legal in america and a lot of people either dont know or dont care

celestial-fang

Recommending some of my favorite non-English movies with beautiful visuals:

Farewell my Concubine (1996) 🇨🇳

The doomed relationship between a beautiful male China opera actor who is forced into a feminine role and his fellow star. Set against a backdrop of regime changes from the Republic Era, Japanese occupation to the modern PRC.

Gabbeh (1998) 🇮🇷

Named after a type of Persian rug- the art form through which we experience a girl’s life, from her family’s nomadic culture to her romance and marriage.

The Silence (1996) 🇮🇷 🇹🇯

A blind boy who repairs instruments sees the world through music. Explores concepts of Sufism (Islamic mysticism) as seen in Rumi’s poetry. (Same director as above)

Spring, Summer, Fall, Winter… and Spring（2003)🇰🇷

A young monk lives with his elderly master in a floating temple on a lake. We follow the seasons of his life, told via Buddhist symbolism and philosophy.

Death of a Beauty/ 美人之死 (1986) 🇨🇳

Based on an Uyghur folktale. A woman who was once renowned for her beauty now lives in an old castle, hiding her burned face even as the prince who loves her searches for her.

On the Silver Globe 🇵🇱

Surreal sci-fi film about space travelers who crash on a primitive planet, starting a religion among the inhabitants as divine figures even as they long for the heaven that is old earth. A ‘parody’ of the origins of the Abrahamic faiths(?)

romanceyourdemons

when the blackberry bushes have thorns to discourage mammals from monopolizing the consumption of their fruits and encourage birds to spread their seeds but they don’t know that the mammal in question is ME #notdiscouraged

romanceyourdemons

#ow

romanceyourdemons

#stuck

secondquarrel

so venezuela has become a usamerican colony. like that happened and everything carried on like normal

secondquarrel

like i know venezuela is going through a huge humanitarian crisis right now and their political regime is low in the list of priorities when tallinmg about it obviously it's just it shocked me to read trump congratulating his secretary of energy on how well he's running what used to be a sovereign country until a few months back you know