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Hey, just a reminder during pride month: don't be a gatekeeper of PRIDE. Just replied to this comment on my Instagram post, wanted to post it here where it could be shared as a reminder. You're loved and valued, your pride is important! #pridemonth #dontbeagatekeeper
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peaches and/or pepper with the polyamorous flag banner please! I like the version with the pi on it :3 thanks
Common bdsm myths busted
1) Caregiver/little is not fetishizing sexual assault of children, minors, or encouraging parents to rape their kids.
2) Pet play is no bestiality
3) BDSM is not internalized abuse.
4) BDSM folks belong in pride parades cause they’re considered “sexually abnormal”, and still deal with bullshit stereotypes on a daily basis, just like many orientations in the lgbt community
5) asexuals and sex repulsed have a place in the bdsm community
6) bdsm isn’t strictly sexual
7) Not all Dom’s are boys and not all subs are girls and switches are not confused
8) Minors don’t belong anywhere in the bdsm community. It’s fine to do research, but don’t go around saying “daddy spank me” on your blog, advertising you’re an underage little , or say “Looking for a Mommy Dom”, there’s MANY risks with this, outside of obvious risk of attracting sexual predators (remember: there’s child sex offenders on tumblr, theres porn collectors on Tumblr, etc. Look at the Lara Jade porn court case issue).
9) There is absolutely no way to have all factors under your control with breath play
10) Never eat actual pet food and/or use actual pet equipment (cages are fine, only exception) for pet play. Do not use actual horse saddle on your pony girl/boy since this runs the risk of seriously damaging their back.
11) Never have your adult baby solely be excreting liquid stool, since this is a sign something horrible is happening to their digestive system (and actually clean them up, dirty diapers have health risks!) Have your Littles use stuff meant for adults (don’t use pacifiers but for actual babies, since this can damage their mouth).
12) Silent treatment is only abuse of not agreed on prior to executing it.
13) subs are different from slaves just like Dom’s are different from Masters
14) Just about everyone in this world has a little bit of kink on them. Vanilla is strictly only missionary position, which I’m sure majority of the population who engage in sex don’t actually restrict themselves to just that.
More mythbusting!
👏👏👏Asexuals and the sex repulsed have a place in the BDSM and kink community 👏👏👏
Stop pushing the myth that bdsm is solely about sexual pleasure. Not everyone in the bdsm community sexualizes everything on the community. For fucks sake, most haters are the one pushing the lies and myths about the bdsm community
YAS YAS YAS YAS!! Say it loud and proud!
Asexual Pride Triskelion anyone?
Today we mourn, honor, and remember the transgender people who were murdered because of their gender identity or expression.
Today is the Transgender Day of Remembrance. Honor those killed in anti-trans acts of violence; mourn the lights in our community that have gone out; say their names and tell their stories; and vow to fight for those still with us.
Top BDSM Myths/Lies
Dominants are men only and power hungry bastards: Ladies can be Doms. You do have “greedy” Doms, but typically these are FAKE Doms. If they sound like they want a robot over a human being, they’re very likely FAKE.
There’s only Doms and subs, no in-betweens: We have switches folks, no, they’re not confused
DD/MD/CG = pedophilia: No, Daddy-Doms, Mommy-Doms, and Caregivers with their little are NOT promoting pedophilia. Please stop calling this “gross, disgusting kink”.
Pet play = bestiality: Nope, we take on the personas of animals, but we are NOT into having sex with animals
Contracts are mandatory for a BDSM relationship: this is totally individualistic and honestly has begun to fade out in the BDSM community, since BDSM contracts hold NO power in an actual court of law
Only people from abusive pasts are into BDSM: Everyone has a little bit of kink to them ;D I say this because I seriously doubt even the most “vanilla” (not BDSM folks) have missonary position sex…and that’s it. No oral, anal, boob sucking, dress up time, hand tying, blindfolds, etc.
Asexuals and sex repulsed have no place in the BDSM community: There’s safe spots for them too! Just gotta know where to look!
BDSM is all about who can have the most outrageous outfits: While this might be a joke in the community, this is false.
BDSM is internalized abuse: Abuse victims fear their abuser; BDSM individuals will happily consent to their partner, please refer to this post for my full argument - https://bdsmpetplay.tumblr.com/post/137825838133/why-bdsm-isnt-internalized-abuse
Submissive are pushovers: It takes a lot of trust in someone to trust them to safely suspend you 3+ feet above ground and know when to drop you down without possibly killing you in the process, they can stop a scene at any time for any reason whatsoever
slaves have no rights: False, everyone in the BDSM community is still human and thus, has basic human rights. BDSM titles are just that, titles. A slave has a right to say “no” and/or walk away ANY TIME they feel uncomfortable and/or unsafe
BDSM = Human Trafficking: This is abuse, not BDSM
BDSM is all about orgasm and sexual pleasure only: We have asexuals and sex repulsed in this community as well. The D/s relationship has a multitude of aspects in it, including (but not limited to) complex emotional and psychological ties and sensations
BDSM is a safe expression of your sexuality and, to many, a fulfilling lifestyle choice. My best advise to those who are new to it is that you learn the facts, learn to play safely, connect with your BDSM community for education opportunities.
repost rom https://ddlg.me! rly important to consider! share this :)😺
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There is a lot of discussion of what bisexuality means vs what pansexuality means, but at the end of the day, both can exist without one nee
You be you.
Leather BDSM pride in a nerdy kinky parody of a Pokeball! GET YOURS NOW!!
I’m kinky, full of pride, nerdy AF, and READ FOR LET’S GO PIKACHU!
Reblog this if you would be ok with it if your best friend came out as nonbinary
If you can’t reblog this plz never talk to me
