really hate to say this but some parts of this community are genuinely shitty and I am sick and fucking tired of it
yes, antis will take the worst examples of us they can find, but they can only do that because some of you KEEP FUCKING ALLOWING BAD EXAMPLES
get pro-noncon beings the FUCK out of our community
get abusers the FUCK out of our community
get literal fucking PREDATORS the FUCK OUT OF OUR COMMUNITY
stop fucking supporting predators, stop allowing predators into the community, stop letting predators do whatever the fuck they want
EVERY TIME YOU POSITIVELY INTERACT WITH A PREDATOR/PRO-NONCON BEING, YOU MAKE THE PROBLEM WORSE
"I don't wanna be involved in discourse!!" PREDATORY BEHAVIOR IS NOT DISCOURSE, IT IS ACTUAL FUCKING HARM AND WHEN YOU CALL IT DRAMA OR DISCOURSE YOU DUMB IT DOWN LIKE IT'S NOT A BIG DEAL
even if you still don't want to comment on predatory pieces of SHIT, that's fine, but at least fucking REPORT THEM and ESPECIALLY IF THEY'VE DONE ILLEGAL SHIT
THE SPREAD OF CSEM IS NOT "DISCOURSE."
YOU ARE NOT BEING "ACCEPTING" BY SUPPORTING ABUSERS.
IT IS NOT "DRAMATIC" TO CALL OUT PREDATOY BEHAVIOR.
stop fucking complaining and actually get off your fucking ass and DO SOMETHING about the bad people in the community, FOR FUCK'S SAKE.