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[yamineco]

If you need me I’ll be on Twitter @/yamineco0912

Tumblr is too overwhelming now

[granteddrop]

based on @vampirefunkmetal​ ‘s very good post [here]

[louintotheocean]

The neurodivergent experience is talking about your brain as if it's a separate entity from your self

[angiethewitch]

yeah and it's a BASTARD

[crewdlydrawn-deactivated2022072]

A very accurate and timely twitter thread. 👌

[wofboi]

(This was my addition to that post)

And how about "only use their deadname and incorrect pronouns if they ask you to" many trans/LGBTQ+ people are stuck in homes where they can't use their correct name and pronouns.

It's a general rule not to use deadnames and incorrect pronouns, but if a person asks you to if they're in front of people who will kick them out or hurt them (maybe even just be horrible and rude and unaccepting), DO WHAT THEY TELL YOU. That is allyship.

Allyship is supporting people and doing whatever is necessary to keep them safe, even if you have to misgender them in front of a transphobic/homophobic person.

[crewdlydrawn-deactivated2022072]

‼️Important addition!!

[datasoong47]

“A collection of common glyphs of the poorly understood Memeorite civilization of the Second Silicon Age. Memeorite glyphs possess multiple conflicting interpretations and a complexity of meaning impossible to capture in a few short words. These are rough translations only.”

Source: https://twitter.com/beach_fox/status/1325668490431246336 (which include more “memeorite glyphs”

[followthebluebell]

Alright, here are my guesses:

Duality of Man - Virgin vs Chad

Death Blithely Accepted - “I’m in danger”

Unwise Desire - Distracted Boyfriend

Not to be Spoken - loss.jpg

Explaining to the Uncaring - Explaining to My Mom

Rage to the Unrepentant - Yelling at Cat

Easy Choice, Unwise Decision - Two Buttons

Scholarly Ignorance - “Is this a pigeon?”

Rejection and Acceptance - Drake No/Yes

[antique-scarecrow]

I’m frothing at the mouth

[everythingfox]

Some loaves

[babyboomerbullshit]

Oh No! tattoos!

[yipyap]

lol like this is actually cute. backfire

[obviouscaptain]

they’re boyfriends

[yipyap]

he’s worried his punk ass bf forgot to apply sunscreen again

[chazkuangshi]

he even picked out swim trunks to match his boyfriend’s tattoos. adorable

[phagi]

Sunscreen directions: best when applied with love

[starlightcelest]

Reposting cuz the op was transphobic

How to add a "read more/keep reading" on mobile:

1. Just type what ever you want to be above the cut.

2. Hit enter. Then type :readmore:

3. Hit enter again and continue typing

*the :readmore: has to be on its own line or it won't work

[wrong-unidraky-deactivated20220]

TO SAVE LIVES

[mexipika]

You absolutely NEED to click enter when typing :readmore: ! You can't just click underneath to start a new line

[bowithoutadaemon]

Test

Fuck it works!

[fagderolo]

when yr adhd does the intense Anger thing n u gotta remind yr brain that u dont wanna throw yr phone full force at a wall

[val-ritz]

gentle reminder to myself and those it may concern that “obsess over it silently, completely frozen while you just fume for six hours” is also not a healthy solution

[andthentheywilleatthestars]

what do I do then?

[val-ritz]

in the words of one JJ Bittenbinder, throw yourself off your rhythm!

anxiety and anger are extremely persistent in ADHD because we fixate on that input and devote all our runtime to trying to “fix” it when in reality the only way to fix it is to leave it alone. considering we are diagnosed with Chronic Cannot Leave It Alone Disease, that is Difficult.

when you’re outside one of these loops, take inventory of all the things you do that suck you into devoting all your attention to them. when i was a kid, the way i avoided asthma attacks was i played video games while taking my meds, so i wouldn’t be fixating on the anxiety and making the asthma worse. nowadays, i avoid anger spirals by also playing video games (in my experience turn-based strategy is a hyperfocus superhighway so i use those) so i’m forced to divert resources to do this other thing.

joke’s on you, impotent fury, you can’t kidnap my brain if my brain is somewhere else entirely

STREET SMARTS

[surlydruid]

Me, at my brain trying to suck me into a spiral of self destructive rage:

[floodnetworks]

thinking about how klingon courting works by the female roaring and throwing heavy objects and the male reading love poetry

[floodnetworks]

gay klingons:

lesbian klingons:

[ernmark]

Do gay Klingons ever get frustrated/dejected because their gentleman caller hasn’t so much as kicked a pebble their way or uttered the slightest growl?

Do questioning Klingons ever show their crush their poetry, only to have their crush assume that he’s helping them proofread or something?

Is there ever an issue where a lesbian Klingon tries very awkwardly to recite poetry to her lady love? 

Or instances where two lesbians are basically beating the shit out of each other and both thinking “I know she thinks this is just a regular old gal fight, but no, seriously, I’m trying to declare my intentions here”?

Are there euphemisms for LGBT Klingons? “Don’t try to win her over, Riker. She reads poetry.” 

[ishouldbeontheenterprise]

This one of the best things I’ve ever read

[nudityandnerdery]

Bisexual Klingons:

[goingonanadventuremaybe]

REBLOGGING FOR BI KLINGON COURTSHIP POETRY CHUCKING

[teaboot]

I hate it when your parents are like “I know you better than you know yourself!” Like no you don’t

[teaboot]

Like oh, you’re an expert on the inner machinations of my psyche? Name three of my top ten existential dreads

[heckacentipede]

“But I raised you!” Ya and the only version of me that you know is the one I carefully crafted so that you wouldn’t ask me questions because it became obvious early on you couldn’t handle the honest answers

[temmiechang]

small little animation of my character (Claire) i did

[temmiechang]

some drawings of my characters I never uploaded here

[kiiiiwwiii]

Everything’s fine :)

[markv5]

Шоколадки

Шоколадки

[nyawns]

Chocolates

[everythingfox]

Sky puppies

[socialistexan]

[shacklefunk-deactivated20220623]

yknow theres a lot of pressure to be successful, particularly on artsy kids whose professions are seen as useless unless theyre famous, but life is fucking hard and sometimes things dont turn out

but i think thats not bad. my dad has wanted to be a musician forever, and hes rly pretty good. but then he joined the military to get away from an abusive family, and then he got married, and then he got divorced, and a lot of horrible shit HAPPENED. he has ptsd and severe anxiety and he could never really get back on the horse. and he never made it as a musician, and now hes 53

but i grew up in a house full of instruments, and he can play all of them, and some of my earliest memories are of him playing guitar on the front porch and me thinking there wasnt a better musician in the world. so. even if you dont get to the stars, exactly, what you do isnt worthless. its not a waste of time if life is difficult and you cant make it, or if you arent famous, or if your work doesn’t influence thousands of people. it will influence someone

there are a million ways to be happy and a million ways to be a successful artist. we create what we do to enhance the human experience and relate to each other and improve ourselves. theres something to be said for just doing that,,,for the sake of doing it, yknow

[talkgentlytome]

This is the most comforting, warm and important piece of text I have ever read, and it is so true. No life is wasted that is spent sharing and loving.

[jehanneargentee]

My mother never became a professional artist. She became a social worker, then later taught emotionally disturbed children. But our home was filled with photographs of wildflowers and wildlife. Spice racks, shelves, and other useful objects were adorned with small paintings. She taught me and my sister that we could make things beautiful, even if in small ways, and let us glue glitter and fake gems on our cheap kids furniture and make it ours. Capitalism tries to say that art isn’t successful unless it makes money. But that’s not why humans make art. We make art to convey emotion. To make an object or a moment or a story OURS. And making someone smile when they hear you sing, or look at something you made for them is as valid a reason for creating as any other.