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sol. yes? If i say that i don’t like you in that way, then what will happen to us? then, i’ll keep liking you like i do now, and you won’t return my feelings. and if i say i do like you? what? then, we’ll break up someday. but i don’t want us to stay like this, either. is that what was troubling you? what do we do? seo ji wan, my feelings will never change. so… don’t worry.
Lee Ho Jung as SOL, Yoon Seo Ah as JI WAN. EP. 09 | NEVERTHELESS, (2021) dir. Kim Ga Ram
this gets funnier every year
The year is 2042. Your daughter is awkwardly silent as she eats her dinner. “Something wrong sweetie?” She sighs and puts down her fork. “I was digging really deep in AO3 last night…Why didn’t you finish that coffee shop au?” It happened. Your past has come back to haunt you. Nay, it never truly left.
U CANNOT OUTRUN UR CRIME
OKAY BUT WAIT. This has happened to me. Recently. Because I am old and I have things out there from previous fandoms with previous pseuds and one day my teenager begins a rant at me about people never finishing any WIPs on the pit of voles (which he does not call the pit of voles because he has No Knowledge of such a thing but yet he still reads on which I didn’t think anyone did any longer) and he points out an example to me of something I WROTE AND LEFT WIPing for ages and he has NO IDEA #1 that his mom wrote this and #2 How much it still haunts me to this day that it will. sit. there. for. eternity. because I am too lazy to pull it down.
oh my god
#why didn’t you finish cleaning your room?#IDK MOM WHY DIDN’T YOU FINISH THE RON/DRACO MERMAID AU?
( @mrv3000 )
Every year, this becomes both more funny, and more painful, and for both of those reasons, it should never be lost or forgotten.
I will reblog this every time I see it.
FUCK YEA
Control (2019) - Yellow
I want to live by myself when I move out of my parent's place but I'm really afraid of money problems? I'm afraid that the only place I can afford will be in the ghetto and it'll all be torn apart and I'll only be allowed to eat one granola bar a week. I'm really stressing out about this. I don't know anything about after school life. I don't know anything about paying bills or how to buy an apartment and it's really scaring me. is there anything you know that can help me?
HI darling,
I’ve actually got a super wonderful masterpost for you to check out:
Home
what the hell is a mortgage?
first apartment essentials checklist
how to care for cacti and succulents
the care and keeping of plants
Getting an apartment
Money
earn rewards by taking polls
how to coupon
what to do when you can’t pay your bills
see if you’re paying too much for your cell phone bill
how to save money
How to Balance a Check Book
How to do Your Own Taxes
Health
how to take care of yourself when you’re sick
things to bring to a doctor’s appointment
how to get free therapy
what to expect from your first gynecologist appointment
how to make a doctor’s appointment
how to pick a health insurance plan
how to avoid a hangover
a list of stress relievers
how to remove a splinter
Emergency
what to do if you get pulled over by a cop
a list of hotlines in a crisis
things to keep in your car in case of an emergency
how to do the heimlich maneuver
Job
time management
create a resume
find the right career
how to pick a major
how to avoid a hangover
how to interview for a job
how to stop procrastinating
How to write cover letters
Travel
ULTIMATE PACKING LIST
Traveling for Cheap
Travel Accessories
The Best Way to Pack a Suitcase
How To Read A Map
How to Apply For A Passport
How to Make A Travel Budget
Better You
read the news
leave your childhood traumas behind
how to quit smoking
how to knit
how to stop biting your nails
how to stop procrastinating
how to stop skipping breakfast
how to stop micromanaging
how to stop avoiding asking for help
how to stop swearing constantly
how to stop being a pushover
learn another language
how to improve your self-esteem
how to sew
learn how to embroider
how to love yourself
100 tips for life
Apartments/Houses/Moving
Moving Out and Getting an Apartment, Part 1: Are You Sure? (The Responsible One)
Moving Out and Getting an Apartment, Part 2: Finding the Damn Apartment (The Responsible One)
Moving Out and Getting an Apartment, Part 3: Questions to Ask about the Damn Apartment (The Responsible One)
Moving Out and Getting an Apartment, Part 4: Packing and Moving All of Your Shit (The Responsible One)
How to Protect Your Home Against Break-Ins (The Responsible One)
Education
How to Find a Fucking College (The Sudden Adult)
How to Find Some Fucking Money for College (The Sudden Adult)
What to Do When You Can’t Afford Your #1 Post-Secondary School (The Sudden Adult)
Stop Shitting on Community College Kids (Why Community College is Fucking Awesome) (The Responsible One)
How to Ask for a Recommendation Letter (The Responsible One)
How to Choose a College Major (The Sudden Adult)
Finances
How to Write a Goddamn Check (The Responsible One)
How to Convince Credit Companies You’re Not a Worthless Bag of Shit (The Responsible One)
Debit vs Credit (The Responsible One)
What to Do if Your Wallet is Stolen/Lost (The Sudden Adult)
Budgeting 101 (The Responsible One)
Important Tax Links to Know (The Responsible One)
How to Choose a Bank Without Screwing Yourself (The Responsible One)
Job Hunting
How to Write a Resume Like a Boss (The Responsible One)
How to Write a Cover Letter Someone Will Actually Read (The Responsible One)
How to Handle a Phone Interview without Fucking Up (The Responsible One)
10 Sites to Start Your Job Search (The Responsible One)
Life Skills
Staying in Touch with Friends/Family (The Sudden Adult)
Bar Etiquette (The Sudden Adult)
What to Do After a Car Accident (The Sudden Adult)
Grow Up and Buy Your Own Groceries (The Responsible One)
How to Survive Plane Trips (The Sudden Adult)
How to Make a List of Goals (The Responsible One)
How to Stop Whining and Make a Damn Appointment (The Responsible One)
Miscellaneous
What to Expect from the Hell that is Jury Duty (The Responsible One)
Relationships
Marriage: What the Fuck Does It Mean and How the Hell Do I Know When I’m Ready? (Guest post - The Northwest Adult)
How Fucked Are You for Moving In with Your Significant Other: An Interview with an Actual Real-Life Couple Living Together™ (mintypineapple and catastrofries)
Travel & Vehicles
How to Winterize Your Piece of Shit Vehicle (The Responsible One)
How to Make Public Transportation Your Bitch (The Responsible One)
Other Blog Features
Apps for Asshats
Harsh Truths & Bitter Reminders
Asks I’ll Probably Need to Refer People to Later
Apartments (or Life Skills) - How Not to Live in Filth (The Sudden Adult)
Finances - Tax Basics (The Responsible One)
Important Documents - How to Get a Copy of Your Birth Certificate (The Responsible One)
Important Documents - How to Get a Replacement ID (The Responsible One)
Health - How to Deal with a Chemical Burn (The Responsible One)
Job Hunting - List of Jobs Based on Social Interaction Levels (The Sudden Adult)
Job Hunting - How to Avoid Falling into a Pit of Despair While Job Hunting (The Responsible One)
Job Hunting - Questions to Ask in an Interview (The Responsible One)
Life Skills - First-Time Flying Tips (The Sudden Adult)
Life Skills - How to Ask a Good Question (The Responsible One)
Life Skills - Reasons to Take a Foreign Language (The Responsible One)
Life Skills - Opening a Bar Tab (The Sudden Adult)
Relationships - Long Distance Relationships: How to Stay in Contact (The Responsible One)
Adult Cheat Sheet:
what to do if your pet gets lost
removing stains from your carpet
how to know if you’re eligible for food stamps
throwing a dinner party
i’m pregnant, now what?
first aid tools to keep in your house
how to keep a clean kitchen
learning how to become independent from your parents
job interview tips
opening your first bank account
what to do if you lose your wallet
tips for cheap furniture
easy ways to cut your spending
selecting the right tires for your car
taking out your first loan
picking out the right credit card
how to get out of parking tickets
how to fix a leaky faucet
get all of your news in one place
getting rid of mice & rats in your house
when to go to the e.r.
buying your first home
how to buy your first stocks
guide to brewing coffee
first apartment essentials checklist
coping with a job you hate
30 books to read before you’re 30
what’s the deal with retirement?
difference between insurances
Once you’ve looked over all those cool links, I have some general advice for you on how you can have some sort of support system going for you:
Reasons to move out of home
You may decide to leave home for many different reasons, including:
wishing to live independently
location difficulties – for example, the need to move closer to university
conflict with your parents
being asked to leave by your parents.
Issues to consider when moving out of home
It’s common to be a little unsure when you make a decision like leaving home. You may choose to move, but find that you face problems you didn’t anticipate, such as:
Unreadiness – you may find you are not quite ready to handle all the responsibilities.
Money worries – bills including rent, utilities like gas and electricity and the cost of groceries may catch you by surprise, especially if you are used to your parents providing for everything. Debt may become an issue.
Flatmate problems – issues such as paying bills on time, sharing housework equally, friends who never pay board, but stay anyway, and lifestyle incompatibilities (such as a non-drug-user flatting with a drug user) may result in hostilities and arguments.
Your parents may be worried
Think about how your parents may be feeling and talk with them if they are worried about you. Most parents want their children to be happy and independent, but they might be concerned about a lot of different things. For example:
They may worry that you are not ready.
They may be sad because they will miss you.
They may think you shouldn’t leave home until you are married or have bought a house.
They may be concerned about the people you have chosen to live with.
Reassure your parents that you will keep in touch and visit regularly. Try to leave on a positive note. Hopefully, they are happy about your plans and support your decision.
Tips for a successful move
Tips include:
Don’t make a rash decision – consider the situation carefully. Are you ready to live independently? Do you make enough money to support yourself? Are you moving out for the right reasons?
Draw up a realistic budget – don’t forget to include ‘hidden’ expenses such as the property’s security deposit or bond (usually four weeks’ rent), connection fees for utilities, and home and contents insurance.
Communicate – avoid misunderstandings, hostilities and arguments by talking openly and respectfully about your concerns with flatmates and parents. Make sure you’re open to their point of view too – getting along is a two-way street.
Keep in touch – talk to your parents about regular home visits: for example, having Sunday night dinner together every week.
Work out acceptable behaviour – if your parents don’t like your flatmate(s), find out why. It is usually the behaviour rather than the person that causes offence (for example, swearing or smoking). Out of respect for your parents, ask your flatmate(s) to be on their best behaviour when your parents visit and do the same for them.
Ask for help – if things are becoming difficult, don’t be too proud to ask your parents for help. They have a lot of life experience.
If your family home does not provide support
Not everyone who leaves home can return home or ask their parents for help in times of trouble. If you have been thrown out of home or left home to escape abuse or conflict, you may be too young or unprepared to cope.
If you are a fostered child, you will have to leave the state-care system when you turn 18, but you may not be ready to make the sudden transition to independence.
If you need support, help is available from a range of community and government organisations. Assistance includes emergency accommodation and food vouchers. If you can’t call your parents or foster parents, call one of the associations below for information, advice and assistance.
Where to get help
Your doctor
Kids Helpline Tel. 1800 55 1800
Lifeline Tel. 13 11 44
Home Ground Services Tel. 1800 048 325
Relationships Australia Tel. 1300 364 277
Centrelink Crisis or Special Help Tel. 13 28 50
Tenants Union of Victoria Tel. (03) 9416 2577
Things to remember
Try to solve any problems before you leave home. Don’t leave because of a fight or other family difficulty if you can possibly avoid it.
Draw up a realistic budget that includes ‘hidden’ expenses, such as bond, connection fees for utilities, and home and contents insurance.
Remember that you can get help from a range of community and government organizations.
(source)
Keep me updated? xx
Reblogging for myself
reblogging for those that follow me that may be starting to move out
Signal boosting: because who knows who may need this today…? :)
“I’m almost 50, and here is the best thing I have learned so far: every strange thing you’ve ever been into, every failed hobby or forgotten instrument, everything you have ever learned will come back to you, will serve you when you need it. No love, however brief, is wasted.” @louisethebaker on Twitter
No love, however brief, is wasted.
No time either. Even if you invest it in people who leave you. When you’re building others, you’re building yourself also. No time is wasted.
Wanna watch some lesbians?!
I know how hard it can be to find representation on tv (even tho its getting better), so if you dont know what to watch next and you want to see some wlw scenes/plots - this list is for you
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MOVIES:
-A Date for Mad Mary (2016)
-Ana e Vitória (2018)
-Aimee and Jaguar (1999)
-All about E (2015)
-Almost Adults (2016)
-Atomic Blonde (2017)
-AWOL (2016)
-Becks (2017)
-Better Than Chocolate (1999)
-Below Her Mouth (2016)
-Bloomington (2010)
-Booksmart (2019)
-Blue is The Warmest Colour (2013) [La Vie d'Adèle]
-Brides To Be (2016)
-But I’m a Cheerleader (1999)
-Carmilla Movie (2017)
-Carol (2015)
-Colette (2018)
-Cloudburst (2011)
-D.E.B.S. (2004)
-Desert Hearts (1985)
-Disobiedience (2017)
-Elena Undone (2010)
-Elisa y Marcela (2019)
-Ek Ladki ko Dekha Toh Aisa Laga (2019)
-Feel Good (2020)
-First Girl i Loved (2016)
-Girltrash: All Night Long (2013)
-Hearts Beat Loud (2018)
-Heartland (2017)
-I Can’t Think Straight (2007)
-Imagine Me&You (2005)
-It’s in The Water (1997)
-Kiss Me (2011) - [kiss myg]
-Kissing Jessica Stein (2001)
-La Luciernaga (2015) [The Firefly]
-Let It Snow (2019)
-Lez Bomb (2018)
-Lost and Delirious (2001)
-Loving Anabelle (2006)
-My Days of Mercy (2017)
-Nina’s Heavenly Delights (2006)
-Pariah (2011)
-Portrait of a Lady on Fire (2019)
-Rafiki (2018)
-Room in Rome (2010)
-Saving Face (2004)
-Season of Love (2019🎄)
-Summer Time (2015) [La belle saison]
-Tell it To the Bees (2018)
-Thelma (2017)
-The Children’s Hour (1961)
-The Half Of It (2020)
-The Favourite (2019)
-The Feels (2017)
-The Four-Faced Liar (2010)
-The Handmaiden (2016)
-The Incredible True Story of Two Girls in Love (1995)
-The Miseducation of Cameron Post (2018)
-The Perfect Ending (2015)
-The Perfection (2018)
-The World Unseen (2007)
-Vita and Virginia (2018)
-When Night is Falling (1995)
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TV SHOWS:
!!!!! 🖍 = an animated series !!!!!
-Amar a Muerte (2018-2019)
-Amar en Tiempos Revueltos (2005-)
-Amar es Para Siempre (2013-)
-Atypical (2017-)
-Bad Girls (1999-2006)
-Batwoman (2019-)
-Black Mirror - San Junipero (2011-)
-Brooklyn Nine Nine (2013-)
-Buffy, The Vampire Slayer (1997-2003)
-Cable Girls (2017-)
-Dead To Me (2019-)
-Degrassi: The Next Generation (2001-2015)
-Derry Girls (2018-)
-Dickinson (2019-)
-Euphoria (2019-)
-Everything Sucks (2018)
-Faking It (2014-2016)
-Fingersmith (2005)
-Gentelmen Jack (2019-)
-Glee (2009-2015)
-Grey’s Anatomy (2005-)
-Gypsy (2017)
-🖍Harley Quinn (2019-)
-Home and Away (1988-)
-Jane the Virgin (2014-2019)
-Killing Eve (2019-)
-Legacies(2018-)
-Legends of Tomorrow (2016-)
-Lip Service (2010-2012)
-Locked Up (2015-2019) [vis a vis]
-Lost Girl (2010-2015)
-Mindhunter (2017-)
-Motherland: Fort Salem (2020-)
-One Day at a Time (2017-)
-Orange is The New Black (2013-2019)
-Orphan Black (2013-2017)
-Perdona Nuestros Pecados (2017-2018)
-Pretty Little Liars (2010-2017)
-Ratched (2020-)
-Riverdale (2017-)
-Runaways (2017-2019)
-Russian Doll (2019)
-Schloss Einstein - Staffel 23 (2019-2019)
-Sense8 (2015-2018)
-🖍She-Ra and the Princesses of Power (2018-2020)
-South of Nowhere (2005-2008)
-Supergirl (2015-)
-Skins (2007-2013)
-Stranger Things (2016-)
-🖍Steven Universe (2013-)
-Tales of The City (2018-)
-Teenage Bounty Hunters (2020-)
-The 100 (2014-2020)
-The Guiding Light (1952-2009)
-The Haunting of Hill House (2018)
-The Haunting of Bly Manor (2020)
-The Hockey Girls (2019-2020) [Les de l'hoquei]
-The House of Flowers (2018-)
-The L Word (2004-2009)
-The L Word: Generation Q (2019-)
-The Originals (2013-2018)
-The Other Love Story (2016-)
-The Shannara Chronicles (2016-2017)
-The Umbrella Academy (2019-)
-Tipping the Velvet (2002)
-Queer as Folk (2000-2005)
-You Me Her (2016-2020)
-Venice the Series (2009-)
-Wentworth (2013-)
-Wynnona Earp (2016-)
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WEB SERIES:
-Anyone But Me
-ANNE+
-All for One
-Barbelle
-BIFL the series
-Carmilla
-Control (Kontrola)
-Gal Pals
-Girls Like Magic
-Girltrash
-Her Story
-Last Life
-Pot Luck
-RED
-The Other Love Story
-THE STRIPPER
-Same Same
-SKAM Espana
-Starting From Now
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YOUTUBERS:
-Alayna Joy
-Ally Hills
-Alissa and Sam
-Anna Campbell
-Amy Ordman
-BerkleyLovesTori
-Breane Williamson
-Cammie Scott
-Cristy Lawrance
-Drea and Ronnie
-Hannah Hart
-Hannah & Sadie
-Jessica Kellgren-Fozard
-Kale and Jess
-Karin and Skyler
-Keara Graves
-Kristen McKenzie
-Maria Lin
-Monica Nguyen
-Paige and Holly
-Rose and Rosie
-Sara and Rachel
-Sam and Alyssa
-Shannon Beverige
-Stevie Boebi
-Willow Faith
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I’m gonna update the list (SEE THE PINNED POST ON MY DASH), so if you know any other title let me know!
and please REBLOG - you never know who needs it right now
——updated 12.10.2020—–
so I got into grad school today with my shitty 2.8 gpa and the moral of the story is reblog those good luck posts for the love of god
okay so i just got my dream job??? a week after applying to it?? and now i’m thinking….maybe this is the good luck post
…..not even six hours later i got an offer of a well paying full time long-term job with free room and board in queens in nyc, allowing me independence and a way to escape an abusive situation and an unhealthy environment
likes charge reblogs cast, folks, this is the good luck post
i need all the help i can get for finals
Hey so
the last time I reblogged this post right before I got a great job, in a permanent work-from-home position, with benefits, retirement, and a salary literally 3x what I was making before, doing something I really like.
So you know.
This might be the real one, y’all.
what the hell? i could use some luck *hits reblog*
Well what the fuck now
please help me
I FUCKING HATE MY LIFE PLEASE
Hi guys! I wanted to make a little addition to this timeless post of mine!!!! :)
SEE YOU NEXT YEAR!!!!
I thought it was all different people and not one person on a streak. Op are you okay??
don’t even get me started
thanks
The Last of Us Part II (2020)
[ID: A video of Laura Bailey, who is behind the camera, and her two-year-old son Ronin. Ronin is a white boy with brown hair and eyes, wearing a blue and yellow long-sleeve shirt, and holding a lump of yellow Play-doh that’s been modeled into a rough approximation of a shark. In the lower right corner is text reading “science!” Transcript below. /end ID]
Ronin, speaking clearly but with a heavy Baby accent: “I shark!”
Laura, his interpreter: “Oh, okay.”
Ronin: “I big sharp teeth.”
Laura: “You have big, sharp teeth?”
Ronin: “Yeah.”
Laura: “Do you have legs?”
Ronin: “I don’t.”
Laura: “What do you have?”
Ronin: “I’ve got fins.”
Laura: “You’ve got fins. What do you eat, shark?”
Ronin: “I eat... What might eat?”
Laura: “What do you eat?”
Ronin: “I eat pumpkins!”
Laura: “You eat pumpkins?! [laughs]”
Ronin: “Yeah.”
Laura: “Oh.”
Destroy gender roles, not gender identity
THIS. THIS IS IT. THIS IS WHAT PEOPLE DONT UNDERSTAND.
I love my gender. I hate being told how to be my gender.
EX-FUCKING-ACTLY!!!!!!!!!
SAY IT LOUDER!
my blog is a safe space for anyone who’s written “sorry :(” on a math test before
Head empty all I can think of is this Victorian plate from the 1890s
