I will go to war for your right to hornypost as much and as explicitly as you want but I still think you should tag your explicit sexual fantasies and explicit kink posts as “nsfw” or “hornyposting” or “sexual” or “kink” or the like so I as someone who is just generally grossed out by all that don’t have to run into them by accident please
WAIT HOLD ON I cannot fucking believe when I was like four years old my parents were cajoling me to walk with the family and trying to get me to keep up even though I kept insisting that I was "tired" until they took me to a doctor and found out my LUNGS DIDN'T WORK. how insane that we live in a world where reasonably loving parents think their FOUR YEAR OLD is trying to be LAZY. like they were mortified to be clear. adults are just so trained to ignore children's complaints as untrustworthy, kids just need discipline, they can't possibly speak for themselves. what the fuuuuck.
YOU ARE NOT IMMUNE BTW you should always be trying to take children seriously, especially very little ones but definitely all of them. the most disempowered class basically legally defined as property and most people are like "yeah that's good actually I hate when they Loiter lol they're stupid and loud and i actually think children should stop existing. restrict their personhood more actually"
As Aromantic Visibility Day (June 5th) approaches this year, friendly reminder from an aroace: it's Aromantic Visibility Day, not "Aroace" Visibility Day! Not all aromantics are also asexual — there are aromantics who are allosexual (aroallos for short), aromantics who don't separately label their sexual orientation at all, and aromantics whose sexual orientation doesn't fit into an ace/allo binary, as well as likely even more aros who don't fit into "aroace" for even more reasons — and all of them are equally included in Aromantic Visibility Day, because they are equally aromantic! In fact, those aros who aren't ace are disproportionately erased and in need of visibility, even more than aroaces are (which is really saying something, because aroace visibility itself is already terrible), so including them in Aromantic Visibility Day is vital, and using the correct name for the occasion instead of calling it an "aroace day" is a start.
Overall: again, speaking as an aroace myself, we aroaces will not be offended if you just call Aromantic Visibility Day the thing it is actually called! I care about sharing this upcoming day with my fellow aros, so stop excluding them, even accidentally! We aroaces celebrate this day but it is not for us exclusively!
given the current climate this pride especially i feel i must mention that i love my trans friends, i stand with trans people in the fight against transphobic legislation and those who would enforce it, and this blog is not a good place for you to be if you do not vibe with that
rb with your name, orientations and gender, preferred pronouns, optionally some struggles or joy being LGBTQ has brought you, and some comfort/affirmations or whatever for the person before and after you!!!! why is this so detailed bruh. and tag peeps ig??
Hai! I'm Nyxon
I am transgender FTM, asexual, and omniromantic!
My preferred pronouns are he/they!
Being LGBTQ makes me happy. Despite being cloested, it makes me feel like what I am actually makes sense and I'm not just some weird ahh guy. I used to be a girl who was angry a lot of the time for no reason, which is ironic ngl
I am [sexuality has not been unlocked], asexual, and nonbinary!
My preferred pronouns are They/Them. :)
I have a bunch of friends in the LGBTQ+ society...*stares*
Person before me: *deep breath* GET GENDER-AFFIRMED NYXON! HOW HE/HIM OF YOU! THEIR SO AWESOME GUYS LOOK HE/THEY HE/THEY HE/THEY BOY BOY BOY! AHHH THEY ARE SO ACCEPTED AND SCRUMPTIOUS WOWZA! EVERYONE LOVES THEM THEM THEM RIGHT???? (I am. So sorry if this is overboard. ^^' You can burn me at the stake if you want.)
Person after me: You're so cool and amazing and I think you deserve everything you put your little LGBTQ+ friendly heart to. :)
Happy pride month everyone! Have a very safe month because I am going to run over all the homophobe-shaped speed bumps as a treat! :3c
@sacabambaspis-offical @ashelf66 @confused-cookie-blog @toaster-waffle-offical @bacone-official @britishtea-again @unlabelled-offical @genderqueer-offical + anyone else who wants to join! Yay! This was fun! ^^
hey, i'm genderqueer. (no real name yet... so nicknames are very welcome)
i am genderfluid, aegosexual, and abroromantic!
[id: i am genderfluid, aegosexual, and abroromantic!]
my preferred pronouns depend on the day or situation... but i use she/her and he/him separately, or sometimes interchangeably. currently i think i'm going by he/him right now...
being queer is a very mixed experience for me. romantically, i absolutely love that i am able to feel attraction towards the beauty of every gender (albeit, sometimes at different times), however, for sexual and gender orientations, it can make me quite frustrated. because i'm afab, my gender dysphoria can be insane when i'd rather be male, which makes it irritatingly hard to be alone with my thoughts. secondly, the only reason i'm aegosexual (asexual) is due to the fact that i am not amab. when i'm feeling more male, i have a tendency to fantasize (not going to say it explicitly, but you know what i mean) and have it immediately tamped down because i don't have an amab body. it can get really fucking annoying.
person before me: hey pen, thanks for tagging me! you seem really cool and i'm very grateful that you're running over all the negativity :) have a safe and happy pride month!
person after me: though i haven't read your post, all of you experiences are valid. if you aren't already, you are going to be okay, things are going to work out, and everything you've done will very soon pay off. thank you so much for reblogging this post and sharing part of your life with us! have an absolutely gorgeous day, and an even better pride month <3
i'm choir, not sure i really have any other names here yet ^^
i am non-binary, asexual and panromantic!
my preferred pronouns are they/them
being queer is important to me. there are so many labels that you can find and sure it may take a while before you find the right one, but the community is so accepting most of the time. i feel like i have a chance to be free in my identity, even if i'm closeted to my family and even though i struggle every day with nearly being outed.
person before me: thank you for tagging me, genderqueer!! i've always admired genderfluid people - even if you don't really choose how you feel and when, i've always gotten the kindest vibes from you. i think you're strong and brave in sharing about your identity and the reasons for your sexuality, a lot of people would never share that. have a fantastic day + pride month!
person after me: thank you for reblogging! you are loved, you are worth it, you are allowed to be whoever you want to be. nobody else can stop you from being whoever you are, even if it's just for yourself. happy pride month everyone!
i'm trans agender, aroace, and experience alterous attraction. my pronouns are they/he etc.
i'm very lucky to be surrounded by people for who the most part accept me for who i am. i know not all queer people get that so i try to be grateful every day. i love being trans, i love being genderqueer, i love loving my friends without romance, i love being part of such a large community of loving people. i'm proud to be who i am and i think over the years i've become a lot more accepting of myself and more eager to be loudly who i am
to choir: thanks for the tag! it's great to know another enby ace person, and obviously the actual choir thing is a huge plus for me. i haven't known you for very long but i think you're great and i wish you nothing but happiness. happy pride month!!!
to the person after me: somedays life is going to be hard, but i'm rooting for you! if you're happy with who you are now, i'm happy for you. and if you're still working on acceptance, i'm here to say that you are valid for who you are. love you!
@whatifiwasmadeofbones @drumsticks-offical + open tags! i don't know that many people to tag since i'm a very new blog
thank you for the tag!! hello call me bones. or don’t. i’m not a cop.
i am some kind of transmasc not really sure lmao. considering genderfaun, boyflux, and boything as labels. i’m biromantic and either asexual, or homosexual and fraysexual. I use any pronouns other than she/her with a preference for he/him and they/them!
i love being queer. i find myself in a community with so many lovely people where we understand what each other are going through and that’s really beautiful to me :) also can’t imagine what i would do were i limited to being romantically attracted to one gender lmao. everyone is too pretty for that. i’m very grateful for being trans so that i can really make a conscious choice about who i want to be if that makes sense!
to tenor: hi!! you are such a lovely person and i’m very glad to have met another choir enthusiast on here. tenors are super rad and you are no different. happy pride month!
to the next person: know that i am so proud of you, wherever you are in your journey. whether you have everything figured out, you’re questioning a lot, or you’re anywhere in between, you have made it through so much to find your true self. that is so much to do and i am so very proud of you.
npts: @not-linkachu @11-1366559937 @touch-tone-collective (any of y’all) @duckofmisfortuneoffical @lilspark-offical @gold-offical @grisha-offical + open in case i missed anyone!
I'm not exactly sure what my sexuality is. I may be aromatic, but maybe I'm lesbian or bisexual? or something in between. idrk yet. (it's my first time actually talking about it on the internet so be nice pls)
My pronouns are she/her
Even when I'm still questioning, I am surrounded by queer people (both online and irl) and I must say that all of you are the nicest people on earth. I am happy to be with you and ily all.
to Bones: ty for tagging me in literally the best tag game rn. I hope your day as well as the rest of your life will be full of happiness and everything and anything you may want from life.
to the next person: uhh..... *hugs you* i love you SO much.
tag list: @gus-offical @ihavenoconsistentinterests @mossinmytea @coffee--spill @nelly-rebellyyyyy @playlist-offical @timelinesjwriter @random-indian-girl @ashyd-shy @the-one-and-only-piper-offical @lovesflourmorethananything @crows-are-cool09 @rainbowkessem @imightbeafaerie-official-offical @wesperfaerie @queerbookbitch @sicklyvicktorianboy @algae122 @carthyanstar + anyone who feels like joining
I use any and all pronouns (If someone has had their pronouns go missing, my bad. In my defense they are tasty :3)
I don't fully know what I am yet but I think I am a demi-romantic gray sexual and I guess I am gender queer or maybe pan gender, the flag is more pretty lol
I love being gay so much, it has allowed me to make all sorts of different flavoured friends (lgbt+ wise, not flavour flavour wise lol) and I can be weird and people won't judge me for it!
It does suck when questioning my gender and sexuality tho 😅
Like I am supposed to be studying, why are you thinking of this now?? But whatever lol
Uhhh grisha, I don't really know you that well on a personal level but I love being tagged in whatever u tag me in, especially tag games. It's nice to think that a person I don't even know thought about me (sorry if that seems kinda selfish, I promise I don't mean it in that way! I mean it in I am grateful you do that kind of way!!)
To the next person: we most likely don't know each other in real life. And that's ok. One thing which I think is underated is care from strangers.
So from one stranger to another, I hope you have a wonderful, fun and happy life surrounded by people who love and support you no matter who you are <3
(also how are you guys getting colourful text?? I want colour ;-;)
Im not quite sure of my gender, for now I go as agender with any and all pronouns
I think im aroace or somewhere on that spectrum, but only time will tell ig
Being aroace and enby-spec has given me a sort of freeing feeling from social norms and whatnot, and it makes me feel free to love the world in my own way without any personal expectations for romance n stuff
Crow, i feel ya, questioning ts sucks, but we'll figure it out someday
uh. To whoevers next - dont let queerphodes get to ya, you'll always have a place here with us
@soil-clown @chocymilkmilo @chaos-incarnate-xd @ilovecoveysongs, and anyone else
Hello. I'm Claude, he/him. I keep wavering between being gay and bi, but I'm probably gay. I'm definitely not straight, that I know for sure.
It's not easy being a part of the LBGT community in a family that is not accepting and it was also a problem for me to come to terms with myself as someone with a religious background. Thankfully, I don't bully myself into being "normal" anymore because I have figured out that I already am normal. The next step is to explain that to my parents.
To Artemisia: Don't let anyone make you get married and have children like a good girl if you don't want to. They should mind their own business.
To everyone else: Be yourself and let others be themselves. Let nobody drag your spirit down.
this is so sweet <3 thanks for the tag! i'm not so usually open about these things but i'll try 😭 i was also tagged by @doomedlikemyyaoi!! gab you're awesome and i'm glad you're so comfortable in this community heheh <33
hi! i'm reaper. some of my mutuals call me ria or rai (and i love nicknames, trust me)
i'm somewhere between agender and gender neutral. i use they/them pronouns because i'm TWICE the person anyone will ever be and i cannot be defined. i have no gender and i'm all genders at the same time. <3 i'm on the aroace spectrum and probably PROBABLY pansexual.
as for some struggles, i used to be very religious and it made me feel guilty of my sexuality for the longest time. in fact, i did not accept myself at ALL and couldn't grapple with these things with my previous beliefs lol. i'm not religious anymore, and GOODNESS is it the most freedom i've felt. im much more comfortable about myself now. thoughhhh i don't want to come out to anyone and i really don't plan to for my own peace
to claude, good luck coming out to your parents! i hope everything goes smoothly!!! to everyone else, i hope you're having a great day <3
@still-fatemeh @iri-desky @duckydee-0 + everyone else who wants to do it, really
my name is kainat!! I think i may be genderfluid, or nonbinary? Im not really sure haha 😭somewhere on the aroaspec, (demisexual) no clue what my sexuality is all i know is that i love women
and as for struggles, i come from an extremely religious background so im sure you get the gist of it xP! I’ve come to terms with it though, i love my religion AND myself hehe 🫶
To ria, i could not be more happy for you 😽😽im so glad you finally feel comfortable in your skin bff <3!!
helloaooao!! i'm bram or whatever else you know me as. i'm a bisexual dude somewhere on the aroace spectrum!!
my personal struggle is with my religion and my identity. i've always been told that being queer is a sin. i strayed away from religion, putting it aside, not believing that they could coexist. but eventually i found my calling back to it and managed to balance them out!
i'm glad now that i've realized that everything else in our holy texts, homilies, and prayers contradicts that. God loves the oppressed and the lonely, and he wants us to love. and love is love, people are people. i'm safe in the knowledge that my Creator loves me for who i am, and those "catholics" are just using the name as a disguise for their bigotry. they're just taking the Lord's name in vain to condemn hate speech and it disgusts me. but at least none of it is true. love you God🥹
to jimmy. i hope you can see ryan gosling very soon <3
tags: @artandbeauty71 @pearl-in-vinegar @leonardbirdstein @iobsesswaytoomuch1 @straywings @trulyandreax @shakespeare-guy-anon + open tags, no pressure! :D
I use they/he pronouns, and I'm agender and aroace (AAA battery woohoo!)
I've really struggled with my aroace-ness. I've been in 3 relationships and really hurt all three people due to my lack of understanding of myself and the way I feel attraction. It's put me off dating forever, and I'm scared that I'll never have a genuine relationship (platonic or otherwise) with anyone again, especially since I moved recently and have only made a couple of friends.
To my lovely Bram: I'm so glad to hear that you've managed to reconcile with Catholicism. I've always hated the fact that people use their religion as a way to discriminate, when to me, the very basis of religion is universal love and community, and so to see queer religious people always brings me so much joy.
To whoever comes after me: I love you guys <3 keep being awesome
I use she/her pronouns, but love being referred to as he/him in a comedic or theatrical/performative context (something which I'm sure won't come around in the future in some sort of gender revelation.)
I'm technically 'omni' or 'pan' -sexual, but i prefer not to use labels as I don't really like being tied to a flag or a word. If a person is attractive, I'm attracted to them :)
I used to trap myself in circles of convincing myself that I faked my attraction to women just because I liked the feeling of identifying as queer, but after a few years of lying awake and staring at my ceiling every night, I realised that non-queer people don't continually lose sleep like this over their sexuality. I've now realised that I am more easily attracted to masc and androgynous people, but my attraction to women still remains.
Beloved Lenny:
I'm sincerely sorry that you've experienced a series of difficult relationships - I can imagine how hard coming to terms with being aroace must have been during a partnership, especially if the consequences were upsetting. The future is unknowable, but unlimited. Stay faithful that this too shall pass. :)
My name is YonBwekh, i'm genderfluid, pansexual and polyamorous, and use it/its pronouns
I don't really have anything to say about being LGBTQ+, apart from the fact that I hope everyone currently closeted can find themselves and have a safe space to come out.
open tags !!
Humans do have a surprisingly small amount of sexual dimorphism. On average more difference can be explained by culture more than biology. The horrible youth diet culture has a huge impact on height. Most people can train to lift a surprisingly large amount of weight, it's only at the upper competative level that differences become important... And even then ease of getting funding is significant.
I genuinely think this is most evident in the fact that it is SO easy for us to change sex. Like our bodies are similar enough that a perisex male can become female and a perisex female can become male just by using HRT!
just a quick reminder that if you are not indigenous I don’t want to hear you fucking talk about Two Spirit people nor should you be automatically looping them into American politics on being trans. not all 2Spirit people identify as trans, and being 2Spirit is not being inherently trans. being 2S is tied to nativeness- if you are not an indigenous person, then you are not Two Spirit. ergo, your conversations around dysphoria, passing, medical transition, etc. need to be mindful of this. respectfully, I never want to hear an American trans person challenging or questioning my identity. we are different creatures.
being 2S is not being non-binary. it’s not being trans.
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lowkenuinely stalking ur tumblr rn but what the flip flop does whump mean?? 🥹🫰🫰
it's a writing genre !!! mostly centred around hurt/comfort, a character getting hurt physically or mentally and then (normally) getting nursed back to health
its what i tend to write
Although not going by the term "asexual" yet, asexuality was spoken about alongside homosexuality as far back as the 1890s. Asexual history is just as vital to queer history as any other term and I'm so tired of watching us being treated like a new thing
do not forget the patron saint of these weeks that we celebrate ourselves proudly and openly in the streets
her name was Marsha P Johnson, and we have her to thank for so much.
remember, the first Pride was a riot, and she was one of the brave souls who endured it to help carve the path which so many of us walk today. she helped found several activist groups regarding LGBT safety and wellbeing. and she was absolutely radiant, too.
