The Bigender Bunker

a blog created by a bigenderflux gremlet for bigender and multigender people (tbb)

[yourbigendergremlet]

Welcome to the bunker!

This blog is a safe-space for people who are bigender, bigenderfluid/bigenderflux, other bigender labels, multigender, gender-nonconforming, neopronoun users, and lgbt+ and allies in general!

This blog will provide my own experiences discovering being bigenderflux, answers to questions, pronoun and name checks, and more

FYI

Do not send in any NSFW content, this is a safe space for minors

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About me:

Hi there, im Candy and/or Cory! My pronouns are she/he/xe/xer and i am bigenderflux

I figured out that i am bigenderflux in 2023 and discovered that there are very little blogs for people like me. Im still figuring it out myself but we can do that together on this blog! Feel free to send in asks :)

Check out my other blogs:

@candy8448 - main blog

Follow my main blog for general fandom talk

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Tags:

#tbb.info

#tbb.rambles

#tbb.reblogs

#tbb.art

#tbb.qna

#tbb.asks

#tbb.checks

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What is Bigender?

Bigender is the experience of having two genders. These can be a combination from binary genders, nonbinary genders, xenogenders, demigenders, fluid genders, agender, or anything else, about whatever combination feels right for you. There are other bigender labels like bigenderfluid/bigenderflux which is where one or both of your genders change in either gender or intensity

What is Multigender?

Multigender is the experience of having more than just one gender. Common identities under this umberella include: bigender, trigender, polygender and pangender. Each one of these also include their own microlabels. These genders can be any combination of gender identity and are not just limited to male/female/nonbinary

Any identity can use whatever pronouns desired, even if it doesnt "match" the gender

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(WIP)

Active Bigender&Multigender blogs (that i can find):

(Feel free to mention more that i missed)

General lgbt+ blogs masterlist

@your-bigender-big-brother

@multigenderswag

@our-multigender-experience

@our-bigender-experiences

Bigender resources:

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More blog info here (my OCs, faq, check rules+)

No dni but i will block people if i see fit

-Your bigenderflux gremlet (tbb)

[yourbigendergremlet]

Every tiktok pride month series that is like "[styling/makup/drawing this] based of pride flags" and then its lesbian, bi, trans, ace, gay flag in that order, a nonbinary randomly placed somewhere in that order maybe a pansexual flag, and then the series ends. Ah gotta love how litterally nobody else ever gets covered 👍👍👍

[flockofcrowsbutwithknives]

Ok I need everyone to realize that this point is literally expressed with the tags in tumblr

Like Ik that’s probably hard to program but it’s so ironic

[shnowyfox]

it would be so awesome

it would be so cool

[shnowyfox]

it would be so awesome

it would be so cool

[tall]

[yourbigendergremlet]

Every tiktok pride month series that is like "[styling/makup/drawing this] based of pride flags" and then its lesbian, bi, trans, ace, gay flag in that order, a nonbinary randomly placed somewhere in that order maybe a pansexual flag, and then the series ends. Ah gotta love how litterally nobody else ever gets covered 👍👍👍

[cartoonsbyandie]

Patreon sticker club is going out this month, including this as a bonus sticker! (And a certain hippo as the main one...)

[writing-prompt-s]

The prince has been cursed, forcing him to live the rest of his life as a woman. At least that's the story the royal family is going with, because apparently an "unbreakable genderswap curse" is (sadly) much more acceptable than the princess being trans.

[banana-milk-offical]

lets do a thing :3

rb with your name, orientations and gender, preferred pronouns, optionally some struggles or joy being LGBTQ has brought you, and some comfort/affirmations or whatever for the person before and after you!!!! why is this so detailed bruh. and tag peeps ig??

Hai! I'm Nyxon

I am transgender FTM, asexual, and omniromantic!

My preferred pronouns are he/they!

Being LGBTQ makes me happy. Despite being cloested, it makes me feel like what I am actually makes sense and I'm not just some weird ahh guy. I used to be a girl who was angry a lot of the time for no reason, which is ironic ngl

Whoever you are, you are valid.

HAPPY PRIDE MONTH!!!

@writer-offical @mike-wheeler-offical @dying-pen-offical @itsuwari-no-kibo-offical @fay-offical @bees-in-a-beehive-offical @deductivelogico-offical @mossnrocksnmarshwater

[yourbigendergremlet]

Cory, uh everything is up in the complete air rn, though i aknowledge that i perhaps am leaning along the juleric, aro/demiromantic(???), agender/pangender, genderflux (?) Man idk. She/he/xe/xer.

Affirmations idk, do what feels right you can use whatever label even if u dont properly fit the definition, you dont have to use any labels at all (i dont at the moment) do whatever is safe and comfortable, put your safety above anything else, ignore ppl who suck but arent dangerous. Dont define yourself to others if you dont want to even if they are also in the community. Litterally if you feel it is you in any capacity, you aren't faking it even if your labels and feelings change and shift, ultimately everything is just a label, a sticker so its okay if you dont like it later on it diesnt mean you faked it in the moment or that it wasn't real for that period of yourself

[pupsmailbox]

do you know if there is a sexuality label for when your sexuality changes depending on what gender you are? (Ex- if you’re masc aligned you’re mlm but if you’re fem aligned you’re wlw)

I just made this list !

With what youre describing though , you should check out juleric , gaybian and poudrettian !

Also just going by abrosexual , abroromantic and genderfluid at the same time could work as well ! :)

[coinedbank]

1109: Julericurious

PT: 1109: Julericurious /end PT

DEFINITION ⦂⠀Someone who is primarily not straight and is curious or open to having relationships with genders other than that of one's usual partners for any reason. It is commonly considered a state of exploring one's sexuality or questioning if one is juleric.

PT: Definition: Someone who is primarily not straight and is curious or open to having relationships with genders other than that of one's usual partners for any reason. It is commonly considered a state of exploring one's sexuality or questioning if one is juleric. /end PT

ADDITIONAL ⦂⠀Coined on the 29th of April, 2026.

PT: Additional: Coined on the 29th of April, 2026. /end PT

TAGGING ⦂⠀@attracted-to-x @c1rcus-of-silliness @conformant-archive @dearestchild @goregender @orientation-archive @radiomogai

[micro-usb-deactivated20230625]

[spaghettioverdose-deactivated20]

As a trans woman I can confirm that they indeed found an ancient forest inside a 630ft deep sinkhole in China

[gayweeddaddy69]

cis people can reblog this but keep it on subject, please

[senshibignaturals]

Happy pride month everyone always remember that the sinkhole has an ecosystem large enough to house not only insects but likely several species of small birds or mammals

[yourbigendergremlet-temp]

HAPPY PRIDE MONTH!

From your bigenderflux gremlet :)

Drawing time: 2hrs 43mins

[yourbigendergremlet]

Youtube speedpaint:

[yourbigendergremlet]

Happy pride month, here is a drawing i did a few years ago before i joined tumblr

[yourbigendergremlet]

Wait no no no like is there actually some kind of label for that? Because i cannot imagine myself in a lesbian or a gay male couple however as a bigender person i can see myself in either role of a het couple. Like i can see myself with a girl if im a guy and i can see myself with a guy if im a girl. Does that... count???? Ive litterally never heard anyone experience that before.

[yourbigendergremlet]

Lowkey i think i might actually just be straight

[star-funeral-under-the-sea]