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"... You're in for a scare!" [they/them – 18+] 18+ blog for horror, horniness, and a surprising amount of queer theory and sexual liberation. All posts are tagged for your viewing/filtering pleasure.

[anatomizer]

This is an 18+ blog for NSFW content like horror, sexuality, etc. While this sometimes includes queer theory & news, I also hornypost, fan out over horror franchises, and enjoy the monstrous, gorey, or disturbing creations I've made or come across.

Below the cut, I've listed some of my common tags. It isn't comprehensive, but it should cover most of the non-intuitive ones.

Have fun, stay safe, and be kind to one another, my dears.

Tag List (WIP)

#butcher's block – general text posts and reblogs tag, including hornyposting

#butcher box – asks and submissions

#my art – rare posts including my creations

#laugh rule – humor and funnies

#suggestive – NSFT, but not overtly horny

#thirst – NSFT, but exceedingly horny

#irl – NSFW with real people

#cuties – photos or illustrations of attractive people

#horror – general horror tag

#blood – light injury, gore, etc.

#gore – heavy injury, gore, etc.

#body horror – bio horrors, bodily violations, and crimes against nature

Kink Tags

All posts tagged with these are also tagged #thirst. May not be complete; any tags ending in " //" indicates a kink tag

dom // – D/s and bondage

sado // – sadomasochism

power // – power play incl. teasing, power loss, pred/prey lite, etc.

milk // – lactation

pet // – petplay

breed // – impregnation and breeding

hiero // – blasphemy

robo // – robotics and tech

terato // – monsters and creatures

leather // – leather and bondage

Secret FAQ

Why did you make/reblog [x] post?

Because this space is curated for myself, not you.

Why are/aren't you associated with [y]?

You are not privy to my life, nor is it your business.

Why have/haven't you talked about [z]?

This is a private blog run by one person for free. I owe you nothing.

[infizero]

bringing back my too woke opinion that you should be allowed to change labels without the previous one being incorrect

[infizero]

i think you should be allowed to identify as trans without retroactively saying you were also trans in the past. i think the "born this way" rhetoric is limiting and you should be able say stuff like "i was fully a girl when i was a kid and now im a boy" without it invalidating your current identity but maybe that's just me

[anatomizer]

One of the many, many things that makes the bioessentializing of queerness upsetting is how your own history is weaponized against you. These days, I don't often talk about the gendered parts of my life prior to coming out as androgyne. That information so immediately gets used to sort enben into Girl Nonbinary or Boy Nonbinary – including by other trans folks.

I have lived so much life before coming out, though. And once upon a time, I was a gendered child. The identity forced upon me shaped everything, for better and for worse. It informed the lense I had for myself. That was me.

Yet still, I often find myself having to choose who to be true to: my reality then, or my truth now. The choice is easy. Burying the child I was over and over again is not.

[auuwmk]

I stand with my problematic wife

[souvenirs]

[spitfaggot]

happy birthday, gilbert baker. (june 2, 1951 — march 31, 2017)

[justinhubbell]

Thanks for reading,

This is the 10th Anniversary Edition of "It's Not A Race." Originally released in August, this version is months late because the prospect of adding pages to what is easily my most read works was particularly daunting.

I wanted to post it again unattached to the original so I could display it the way it was meant to be seen. Blessings, -J

[whitealbum]

nonbinary olivia coleman you’re everything to me. this is what i was trying to post when tumblr went down do you think that caused it

[crappylineofbestfit]

I do think if we're posting this it's only fair to post the full quote, partly because I think there's a slightly more nuanced conversation in there, and also partly because it's so diabolical of pinknews to post this with the specific cut they made where Olivia asked them to not make that sentence an attention pulling headline. That bit has now been cut from the article but is still preserved in their Instagram post here:

The full article, with more information, is here:

Olivia Colman on relationship with trans community: 'I've learned a lot'

Actress Olivia Colman has spoken candidly about her enduring relationship with the queer community and learning about pronouns.

[pseudonymjones]

From 6/8/2018. I took it down back then because I was sick of arguing about it, but I’m putting it back up now for pride month. Hope you’re having a lovely one 💜

[unmanagedmystic]

"all the words for us are slurs" is going to live forever in my head now

[dorkery]

Must-know for Japanese fandom: the meaning of "proship" and the concept of "proshippers" in Western f｜オレンジア｜note

[TN: This is a translation of this note by Maromi. If you are able, I encourage you to read the original article for yourself as translation

I have never read a more excellent article

[todayiwrotenothing]

[brightwanderer]

This is a great take and I would like to adopt “Feelings Yakuza” in English actually, I feel like it conveys the whole thing way more obviously than “anti” (not to mention the muddled meaning of “proshipper”).

[thebiscuiteternal]

To avoid harassment, EA and SEA artists have started pre-emptively blocking users with "proship DNI" or any variation thereof in their profiles as a result of this article and said feelings yakuza are getting pissed that their DNIs are being hard enforced by the other side. How very dare.

[septmilleneurones]

I’m screaming with laughter at the actual Japanese term, o-kimochi yakuza. The “o” is an honorific indicator to indicate how prissy and self-important these people are being.

[thorst]

I don't know if Maromi intended this to be the incredible takedown that it is, but I couldn't not share it:

[genderkoolaid]

i get that its an interesting theory but genuinely i do not understand why being poor would make someone polyamorous. you do not need to date multiple people to have roommates. plenty of poor people have multiple roommates and are not in polyamorous relationships.

it seems strange to me to attribute either the rise in polyamory or the finding that polyamorous people tend to be poorer than monoamorous people to poor people being polyamorous to save money. not that i'm like, a polyamory essentialist, but lots of polyamorous people identify that way because they genuinely love / are attracted to multiple people and seek relationships that are fulfilling to them. polyamorous people are not protected by discrimination laws. polyamorous people can be fired from a job for being poly. polyamorous parents have to worry about having their ability to raise a child questioned or having their child taken away. polygamy is illegal in many places, meaning at least one part in a polyamorous relationship will be left legally outside the marriage and unable (afaik) to benefit or be protected by marriage legally. and no one ever talks about this, just talks about how polyamory is either 1) a rich white annoying privileged person thing, or 2) polyamory is a recession indicator haha.

i just think, perhaps, given how little-discussed discrimination against polyamorous people is, and how casually stigmatized it still is even in "progressive" spaces, and how often people treat it solely as a lifestyle choice & not something some people innately seem to desire and be fulfilled by, we could maybe think about what attributing polyamory to poverty & claiming that the same people would be monoamorous if they were less poor, is actually doing for anyone. like the same study that found polyamorous people tend to make less money also found they are more likely to be bi/pan and to be multiethnic or native; perhaps, just maybe, polyamorous people are a marginalized group and overlap a lot with other marginalized groups, and that is a more straightforward explanation of why they tend to be poorer than people being unable to get multiple roommates without engaging in a stigmatized form of relationship with them.

[gettinontopic]

Then you did not read the original black womens theory of intersectionality and do not believe in it! Because not acknowledging all parts of an identity is not applyying it correctly. There is in fact huge contradiction to using that theory and then leaving out a pice of someones intersection.

All idenities intersect here!

Stop butchering black womens theories!!!!

[vee-dmsr]

[nariarts]

Longtime readers may be aware of how much I relish an excuse to bully a company, so I'm sharing the wealth;

Clothing company Patagonia is currently suing drag queen Pattie Gonia for "irreparable” harm to their brand.

To be clear; Pattie named herself after the region in South America.

So Pattie is asking people to politely ask Patagonia to drop the lawsuit.

I'm extending the invitation to all of you, because suing a drag queen for 'infringement' in the current political cultural landscape is vile. Especially a drag queen who has raised millions of dollars for non-profits, uses her platform to raise awareness for climate activism, and fully aligns with Patagonia's apparent climate-conscious mission statement.

They're claiming they're suing for $1. They're actually asking her to stop using her name, and pay over $1 million in legal fees. They're straight up harassing her.

In contrast, drag queen Jan Sport has a Jansport bag line. It's that easy to just... work with a queen.

Anyway. Be respectful(ish), but feel free to be annoying on Patagnoia's socials, asking them to 'DROP THE LAWSUIT'

I think they have a twitter and tiktok too!

[creatingblackcharacters]

"When white people ask me what to do about racism and white fragility, the first thing I ask is "What has enabled you to be a full, educated professional adult and not know what to do about racism?"

It is a sincere question. How have we managed not to know, when the information is all around us? When people of color have been telling us for years? If we take that question seriously and map out all the ways we have come not to know what to do, we will have our guide before us.

For example, if my answer is that I was not educated about racism, I know that I will have to get educated. If my answer is that I don't know people of color, I will need to build relationships. If it is because there are no people of color in my environment, I will need to get out of my comfort zone and change my environment; addressing racism is not without effort."

Chapter 12, White Fragility- Robin diAngelo

[gentlyevilvt]

See the "I'm supposed to, what, fuck the dog?" post is funny and all but I also have the immediate reaction that A) if you have such an in-depth understanding of what the sub's getting out of it but not the dom then perhaps you should reconsider your position in such dynamics, but there's also the less talked-about B) if you can't comprehend a way to enjoy a kink that doesn't involve having sex (unless it's a kink that requires sex as a baseline like a rape kink), then you're almost definitely doing the kink wrong. Fucking the dog is an option but it's not the point, it's about seeing the relaxation and trust in their increasingly empty eyes, creating a space of absolute control and inspiring the kind of thoughtless love and loyalty of an owned pet. Being wanted and needed so badly that they would do anything for you to just rub them behind the ears and tell them that they're good. I don't want to fuck the dog, I want to tire the dog out from games and affection and then pull it into my lap here it feels so safe and comfortable that it falls asleep with a few soft whines. If you can't do kink without doing sex then you will not survive the winter

[nobuyoshiaraki]

WANIMAL

[nonbinarynow]

Reminder that you don't have to call yourself AMAB or AFAB. You don't have to say "I'm AFAB nonbinary." Saying "I'm nonbinary" is enough. You don't need to identify with what you were assigned as by some doctor however many years ago. Mentioning your ASAB is scarcely relevant to most conversations, even those about medical transitioning.

Nonbinary is enough, you don't have to supplement it with a binary system of any kind. It doesn't matter how many people want to know your "transition direction." It doesn't matter how many people want to know what your genitals are (which wouldn't be alluded to by your assigned sex anyway). It doesn't matter how many people want to binarise you. It doesn't matter how many binary people you confuse. No one needs to binarise you. Nonbinary. Is. Enough.

[genderkoolaid]

Gay adult film star banned from US for 10 years following 'painful' interrogation

The award-winning model says his banishment was the worst day of his life.

A gay Canadian adult film star claims that he was detained for over eight hours by U.S. Customs before receiving a 10-year ban from the country. Milo Miles said he was traveling to Las Vegas from Toronto's Pearson Airport in January when a routine U.S. customs screening turned into a nightmare. "It was the worst and most painful day of my life," Miles told LGBTQ Nation. "I was subjected to derogatory comments, with an unsettling focus on my sexual orientation and my sex life." Miles said his phone and luggage were searched, and he was asked intrusive questions about his sexuality and line of work. “All of this happened on two hours of sleep. I was starving, dehydrated, and in a state of complete exhaustion. I was treated like a criminal despite having done nothing wrong. I felt coerced, manipulated, and powerless. I am devastated.” U.S. Customs has the right to deny entry to people they believe are sex workers, even if they’ve never been convicted, and will use coercive tactics to try and elicit a confession, according to Maggies, a Canadian sex worker justice organization. [...] According to Miles, who was planning on visiting his boyfriend in Florida after the award show, U.S. Customs accused him of "escorting with no evidence" and were fixated on the "gay clothes," fiber pills, and PrEP he had packed, despite finding nothing illegal in his possessions. Miles ended up missing his flight due to the lengthy interrogation. When he came back the next day to catch another flight, he was interrogated again, and this time they found evidence of his career in the porn industry. "This officer decided to be a lot more thorough with his search and interrogation," he said. "After about two hours of intense interrogation, he found evidence that I do porn on my personal phone. Then, over the next two hours found evidence of escorting on my other phone." Miles said that they never found any evidence of prostitution, but noticed text conversations he had with past escorting clients — who he mostly provides with a boyfriend experience — and current text messages where he was trying to make plans with a client in Las Vegas. "Escorting is an exchange of money for time spent with an individual," he clarified. "For example, most of my clients are looking for 'the boyfriend' experience. Or someone to go to dinner with. Prostitution is an exchange of money for sexual services. There was never any evidence of prostitution on my phone, only escorting." Getting banned from the U.S. isn’t just bad for his career — he shoots a significant portion of his adult film project in the country — but has also damaged his personal life. "I was planning on building a life in the United States with my [future] husband, with my partner, who's American," Miles said. When asked by LGBTQ Nation what advice he would give other queer travelers, he said, "Avoid the United States at all costs. It’s not worth it. It’s not worth it to put your life at risk."

Even if he were a prostitute, the government should have no right to do this to any sex worker.

There is no queer liberation without liberation for sex workers.

[genderkoolaid]

#I wanna know why they targeted him in the first place#bc it sounds like straight up discrimination

They targeted him because he was queer & a sex worker & a man of color (& he is a sex worker, since some people in the notes seem confused: doing porn / "adult films" is sex work, escorting in sex work, stripping is sex work, etc. these are just different types.)

The link above to the organization Maggie's goes to a fact sheet they made specifically for sex workers traveling to the US for this exact reason (just a few pages from the whole thing:

IF I AM QUESTIONED AND SENT BACK, WHAT HAPPENS NEXT? Most likely you will be banned from entering the US for a minimum of 5 years. If you travel in the US before the ban is over, you will be charged with a federal crime. After the ban, you may or may not be subject to questioning again. Remember that legally you cannot enter the US within 10 years of working as a sex worker.

This is something the US is just allowed to do! And has been for a while! I'm sure it will be weaponized increasingly against all sexually marginalized people, but it is first and foremost whorephobic.