What the Fuck is Going on?

@beau-bi-furious

Beau | Artist | Bisexual | Non-binary | they/them | art Blog is @yutaaaa-art

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the only thing keeping me on twitter is this account

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I live for these

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ah, how could I forget the best one

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and then there's just this:

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have some more

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shout out to ace and aro kids who are constantly bombarded with the opinion that sex and romantic love are directly connected to living a happy life.

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Y’all are just reblogging this at the speed of sound tonight

Since it’s almost valentines day, and this message is about to get hammered in even more, reblogging this again.

evitcani-writes

please god stop stigmatizing hallmarks of neurodivergent behavior as “red flags” for bad friends.

I mean stuff like:

Oversharing (ADHD)

“secretly” copying the way you talk/dress/act (common for everyone, but many neurodivergent people who are affected socially)

Forgetting to pause and ask about you (ADHD, autism, social anxiety)

Failure to convey empathy or affection in a way you understand (autism, social anxiety, many many others)

Unhappiness (Depression, also friends don’t have to perform happiness wtf)

Talk “too much” (ADHD, social anxiety, so many more)

Fussy (really?)

Refuse to open up (really??)

Talk loudly (ADHD notoriously makes volume control hard, also wtf how’s that make u a bad friend)

Just hhhhhhh

hhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

talk to your friends !! if you feel underappreciated or overtalked!

✨Communication✨

THIS!!! THIS!!!

I had SO many problems with talking too much all throughout middle school and even to this day, and no one told me SHIT until they were blowing up at me for no understanding/doing something wrong.

ALSO, yes, talk to your friends if you feel talked over or don’t understand/appreciate something they do, but please be nice about it. I had a parter who didn’t like that I always forgot to ask them how they were doing after they asked me, but they brought it up by saying, “I feel like you’re using our chat just to talk about yourself” and basically calling me selfish instead of, I don’t know, “I have trouble vocalizing my feelings unless I’m asked, could you ask me how I’m doing after I ask you?”

Be!!!! Kind!!!! Learn to communicate with us the way we know, we’re always making an effort to communicate with you in your NT way!!!

schizocassandraoftroy

Honestly I wish people with neurological disorders and mental illness talking to themselves was more normalized so here’s to people with autism who narrate things! people with adhd who talk out loud to remember stuff! people with tourette’s and tic disorders with verbal tics! people with psychosis who talk to their voices! people with DID who talk to their alters!

If you talk to yourself for any reason you are wonderful and not bad or weird. And if you see someone talking to yourself and think it’s weird? Maybe mind your own business!

People have this weird belief that if you're critical of a system or tradition, then it must be because you failed to live up to that system or tradition. The idea of having a principled stance, regardless of whether or not *you* personally benefit from society accepting that stance, is foreign to so many people. And this belief is really fucking important for and beneficial to the elites of this country. If you can get the masses to equate criticizing you and the institutions you control with abject personal failure, congratulations, you've just made yourself immune to accountability

Also, as a failure of the education system: we need to spend more time listening to the people our systems leave behind. "Well of course you're critical of this; you failed" should not be a conversation-ender even if it is true.

body shaming men is also wrong and not funny

body shaming men is also wrong and not funny

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I didn’t want to disrupt the post about hostile architecture I saw because it’s true that the main target is homeless people but I did want to mention that this architecture also hurts people who aren’t skinny. I want to preface this all by saying I am in no way trying to minimize how this impacts people experiencing homelessness I am just trying to add on to the discussion of how these are bad.

You think that someone who can’t fit into those weird little yellow seats is going to feel comfortable? No. It will only make them feel bad or excluded.

Look at this shit. It’s not good or nice.

It only adds to the ways fat people are made feel unwelcome and though we already needed to tear this shit down because it makes life a million times worse for people experiencing homelessness and so this isn’t saying this is why you should tear it down. It is saying that our society is fatphobic and that sucks.

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It’s also not great for disabled people (or god forbid, disabled homeless people because they exist too) because if someone is having a crisis and needs to lay down they have to lay on the ground instead of on a bench. A bench is a lot safer because you’re not as likely to lay on something hard or sharp or be tripped over/stepped on. Someone might also see a bench like these and opt to try to find a better place to lie down and end up falling instead. People who pass out or have CFS episodes might only have a few seconds warning before they should really be lying down, and benches like this make it much harder.

I’ve seen some places say that benches like the first one are “wheelchair accessible”, which is fucking stupid because it’s already a chair??? the nature of a wheelchair is that it’s a chair, you don’t need a special space to park your wheelchair, you can just park in on one end of the bench.

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men’s loyalty to violence is disturbing. when women want a life free of abuse, assault, threat, & coercion, men’s first suggestion is “learn to fight back. learn to defend yourself”. i don’t want my life to be a fight. i don’t want to “prove myself” through inflicting pain & fear. i don’t find violence and physical conflict fulfilling or self-actualising. they’re exhausting & dehumanizing

statefairdairyprincess

Tea only

i am of course tempted to make a joke about the harley quinn show being an example of gay people cannot have shit ever without some disgusting add-on trying to lump itself with us but the antisemitism in that show seems to fly under the radar and THAT is the bigger problem at hand here

Jews will talk 'subtle' antisemitism (read: antisemitism that isnt openly calling for death to Jews) and how dangerous it is and how it introduces people to antisemitism and people will ignore them then be shocked when Jewish people are hurt in real life. "How can people think like this in current year?' Because you ignore it until it's the absolute worst.

You can reblog fuck nazis post and protect Jews post, but you still have to advocate against antisemitism and it all starts with shows with badly hidden antisemitism

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For anyone wondering

In the very first episode they made Oswald Cobblepot and his wife throwing their son a bar mitzvah. The Cobblepots are very rich, even handing out bags of cash as gift bags. They also control Gotham’s largest bank.

In the fifth episode, Ivy’s Jewish landlords burn down their own building for insurance and called it “Jewish lightning.”

The antisemitic caricatures of Penguin and his family, and of Sy Borgman and his wife, are reminiscent of Julius Streicher's work in Der Stürmer

A reminder that there were no major works prior to this that characterized Cobblepot as Jewish. They made a character Jewish just to make him the subject of antisemitism.

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I literally cannot empathize enough how much this bs happens and people tell us Jews that we're "overreacting"

Don't forget how the show actually removed Harley's Jewish heritage (which was present in all her previous incarnations) just for this series, and then immediately put these jokes in. It's very obvious and deliberate, and taints the whole series for us.

If you experienced trauma in childhood or had a rough childhood, dude listen to me. Offer yourself play. You were deprived of it.

Keep bubbles in the house, blow bubbles in the yard, blow them in your room, get a coloring book that doesn’t have to be an adult one with mandalas, watch cartoons, laugh at stupid things, dress up as a superhero for Halloween, wear a Santa hat on Christmas and big light up snowflake earrings, lay down on the floor, lay down in the grass, eat eggos for dinner sometimes. It’s not stupid. You’re not childish. You’re giving your inner child what they had taken from them. They deserve it.

personal-scientist

I don't want to derail this post because it's an important message, and OP has addressed it to the people who most need to hear it. But... can i just add, for people who don't feel like they can give themselves permission to do this, that you can give yourself these things even if you didn't overtly experience trauma in childhood?

Even if you never thought of your upbringing as painful or malicious, you can and should still give yourself things you missed out on. Take that class! Learn that skill! Eat the foods you like, or branch out into new ones! Jump in piles of leaves and decorate your walls the way you want them.

Give yourself the things you couldnt have as a kid, especially if you didn't really get to have a childhood, but even if you didn't have the childhood you wanted. Go for a bike ride with friends. Go stargazing. Whatever it was that you feel like you missed, it's important to seek those things and remember that play and joy aren't exclusive to childhood.

I don’t think you derailed this at all and think this was a really thoughtful addition. So thank you!

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Im in fucking tears rn

Even if you had the best childhood ever and you still like doing those things, do them. There are no rules, so why not enjoy yourself

If you experienced trauma in childhood or had a rough childhood, dude listen to me. Offer yourself play. You were deprived of it.

Keep bubbles in the house, blow bubbles in the yard, blow them in your room, get a coloring book that doesn’t have to be an adult one with mandalas, watch cartoons, laugh at stupid things, dress up as a superhero for Halloween, wear a Santa hat on Christmas and big light up snowflake earrings, lay down on the floor, lay down in the grass, eat eggos for dinner sometimes. It’s not stupid. You’re not childish. You’re giving your inner child what they had taken from them. They deserve it.

personal-scientist

I don't want to derail this post because it's an important message, and OP has addressed it to the people who most need to hear it. But... can i just add, for people who don't feel like they can give themselves permission to do this, that you can give yourself these things even if you didn't overtly experience trauma in childhood?

Even if you never thought of your upbringing as painful or malicious, you can and should still give yourself things you missed out on. Take that class! Learn that skill! Eat the foods you like, or branch out into new ones! Jump in piles of leaves and decorate your walls the way you want them.

Give yourself the things you couldnt have as a kid, especially if you didn't really get to have a childhood, but even if you didn't have the childhood you wanted. Go for a bike ride with friends. Go stargazing. Whatever it was that you feel like you missed, it's important to seek those things and remember that play and joy aren't exclusive to childhood.

I don’t think you derailed this at all and think this was a really thoughtful addition. So thank you!

modernamami-deactivated20230110

Im in fucking tears rn

Even if you had the best childhood ever and you still like doing those things, do them. There are no rules, so why not enjoy yourself

actually im gonna say it again. if u see a m/f couple and think “EWWW heteros 🤢🤢🤢“ i will put u in the fucking morgue. bi ppl exist. transhets exist. maybe start remembering that lol

Also! Het couples who feature poc or a white person and a poc are a big deal too bc most media is just white relationships whether gay or straight or whatever!

hey reblog this version

white people go like “is anyone going to redesign this nonhuman evil character as a poc?” and not wait for an answer

white people go “is anyone going to redesign this nonhuman good character as a white person?” and not wait for an answer

white people can rb but please do not clown

white people really cant give a shit abt anyone but themselves unless held at gunpoint or smth huh?

“what about the poor little white kids just trying to have fun?” what about the poor little kids of color made to feel unsafe and unwelcome in a space that was supposed to be fun?

“why can’t poc just make their own redesigns and we can keep these ones” why cant you realize that your actions have consequences and that you should maybe try to not enforce racist stereotypes??

like ofc its ideal to have VARIETY among both villains AND protagonists, its when your characters look like this

that the issue arises

scratch “can”, white people are encouraged to reblog

whats happening with crisp ratt

SO basically someone posted this on twitter:

and everyone picked pratt that he started trending lmfao

(and then people found out about him being MAGA/belonging to a church that supports conversion therapy)

SO NOW the marvel PR clown brigade is writing dissertations on how nice chris pratt is (like??)

and people are rightfully upset bc WHERE was this energy for people in the marvel cast who were actually harassed like

and ALL this was over a twitter joke about which ‘chris’ is better lmfao

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Listen white men we’re not denying that you’re friend with the guy but that doesn’t stop him from supporting people who are against universal human rights. There’s no point in saying “he’s such a good guy and a good friend and a good Christian” I don’t know, maybe he’s a great friend. But as multidimensional as we are, it’s not impossible for a good friend to have shitty opinions. I don’t know how you, a RICH WHITE CISHET MAN, can make the poor excuse that “he’s a good friend” to YOU and think that’s enough. Of course he’s friendly to you because he’s not against YOUR rights. You’re a RICH WHITE CISHET MAN, and you can’t get hurt by the things he supports, so whether he’s good company to you doesn’t change the fact that he supports the erasure of gay lives.

We are not Sinless Mr Downey. But we have character development. We accept that we said things that were ignorant because we didn’t know better, and if confronted to it we don’t try to shrug it off because we’re still good friends. How can such old men forget to take responsibility for their “mistakes”. How can you get to a point where you defend someone for being against a community’s human rights and pretend that criticism is the most oppressive thing people can do to him ? Why are you defending the oppressor and pulling the victim card for him ?

I didn’t see this energy when people replaced The Black Panther’s promotional poster with APES. I didn’t see it when Nathalie Portman was dragged TWICE for her character in Thor. I didn’t see it when Taika Waititi was selected to direct Thor and fans were racist. Didn’t see it either when Brie Larson was dragged on every single platform for playing a fictional character. Didn’t see for Mackie, didn’t see it for the sexualization of Hayley Atwell, didn’t see it for people who weren’t being oppressive but truly oppressed.

if you dont have me on facebook you are probably not missing out on any posts but the comment section is important too lmao

I went to the Renaissance faire dressed as a warrior. I had a real sword with me, too. I was standing (in character) next to a sword-fighting ring, where kids of all ages got the chance to pick up a sword and challenge the champion. Some woman walks by, with her little girl. The girl starts walking towards the ring, saying she wants to fight. But the mom pulled her away hella sharply, and was like, “That’s for boys.” You don’t want to be a BOY, do you?” And the girl looked around and saw me. I think she thought I was a boy; I had my hair in a ponytail, and was wearing a hood. So she comes up to me and asks me, “Do you think girls can be fighters, too?” And her mom looks like she’s silently gloating. Like she thinks I’m going to say no. So I take off my hood, untie my hair so that it flows freely, and kneel before her. And I’m like, “Milady, anyone can be a fighter.” I swear, the look on that mother’s face made my day.

This post was good but then it got better

celticshenanigans

Okay, this is a slight topic diversion, but in response to the above comment. I’ve volunteered at the CT Ren Faire for years now. For the last 5 or so I’ve worked in the game section, and we have a game similar to the above comment called “Smite the Knight”. I’ve been in the ring before, it’s a ton of fun getting to run around with the kids. The main goal is entertainment. Have a good shtick, keep the crowd engaged, and let the kids have a good time.

In both work and observing, I have learned something about kids. A lot of parents try to get their boys to go fight. Of the young ones that do, they tend to be shy. You get the ones who just swing the boffer swords around with no regard for life, but, mostly, they’re reserved. It’s adorable. I mean, they’re kids.

But the girls. THE GIRLS. Holy crap. I swear, the pinker the dress, the more taffeta and glitter…the more intensity. I remember, the first year I worked there, one girl came in, grabbed the biggest sword she could, and WENT TO TOWN on our knight. Lifted it over head, let out this primal scream and mowed him down. Homeboy is 6′2″, she was FIVE. And once he was in the fetal position (He was fine. It was for show.) on the ground, she stopped, put her foot on his chest, and yelled “I AM A FIERCE PRINCESS!!”. Later in the day when she walked by a couple of us yelled “Ah! It’s the fierce princess!” and she stopped and flexed. It was the best, and I will never forget that girl.

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OH MY GOD IT’S BACK YES

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This has improved since last I reblogged.

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I taught karate for like 5 years, and the girls were always, pound for pound, better than the boys. Even the girls who didn’t really want to do it and were only there because their parents made them were better than like 95% of the boys.

I was playing fiddle at a ren faire, and two little girls were really enjoying our set. After quite some time one of them walked up to me and shyly offered me her star tinsel tiara, because she “didn’t have any money. And this protects you from trolls!” I said “Thanks, that’s really sweet – but what about you? Don’t you need protection from trolls?”

At which point this six-ish-year-old girl whips out her certificate from the axe throwing booth and says “Nah, I’m fine.”

I still have that tinsel tiara. It’s draped over my modem. I figure it’ll protect me from the most trolls that way.

I am not in the habit of reblogging a post and slapping an “it got better” on there BUT I SAY GOTDAMN

I GET TO SEE SUCH LEGENDARY POSTS IRLL

the happiness i feel may be just a bit of an overreaction

This is so adorable!

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