listen to bisexuals!!

i made this bc i see a lot of misconceptions abt bisexuality so heres where ill put everything trying to correct people lol

[biphobiabgon]

before telling me im "panphobic" please actually consider the feelings and history of bisexual people, what we have to say, and how this label has affected us.

im mostly here to educate people, so please have an open mind.

[airsignz]

[homosexuanal]

[vvvvvvvvvvvvv1-deactivated20260]

Things that are normal for bisexual women:

-Being unsure if you’re gay, straight, or bisexual

-Experiencing homophobia

-Wishing you could be a man to date women

-Breathing fire

-Not wanting to date or have sex until you’re ready

-Not wanting to ever date men and choose exclusively women

-Experiencing attraction to men and women differently

-Having a fat juicy pussy

-Feeling alienated from both straight and gay culture

-Being upset over stigma against bisexuals

-Fitting some stereotypes and not others

-Being able to fly

-Worrying over whether or not you’re objectifying other women

-Wanting to dress and be seen as more masculine

-Ability to raise the dead

-Being the smartest person around

-Occasionally freezing time by accident

[forwomenbiwomen]

Finally some REAL bisexual positivity 🙄💯💯💯

[nannotual-moved-deactivated2021]

i love love loooove when people make up these arbitrary rules for bisexuality based on absolutely fucking nothing like "uh actually bisexual is when you care about looks" and "bisexuals have a preference while pansexuals don't!" me thinks you people need to go outside and like. have a face to face conversation with someone. i think that's the issue here.

[nannotual-moved-deactivated2021]

do y'all realize that the shit you're saying about bisexuality is biphobic... you're saying that bisexuals are shallow and we only care about looks and we have preferences and can't possibly have equal attraction to other genders etc. like y'all paint pansexuality as this haven with that hearts not parts bullshit which just makes bisexuality look restrictive in comparison... i'm fucking sick of it! y'all are making up all these rules for bisexuality that never fucking existed in the first place just to paint pansexuality as more woke and progressive... literally go chew on fucking glass.

[nannotual-moved-deactivated2021]

"pansexuality includes enbies but bisexuality doesn't" YOU PEOPLE ARE JUST MAKING SHIT UP AT THIS POINT SHUT THE FUCK UP!!!!!!!!!!

[violet-lavender-fem]

sticker design :)

i chose the sunset flag bc it’s the most widely-recognizable (and it looks pretty in a gradient)

[violet-lavender-fem]

here’s a bumper sticker/banner version inspired by this post by @sapphos-darlings!

[wyvern-of-the-evening]

Being “open to a threesome” with someone of the same sex doesn’t make you bisexual.

Finding women pretty/men handsome doesn’t make you bisexual.

If you use the split attraction model, you’re a moron, that shit is conversion therapy rhetoric

If you’re attracted to “genders” but all of those “genders” you’re into are biologically opposite sex, you’re not bisexual.

If you’re “bisexual” because you think it will attract the opposite sex, you aren’t bisexual.

You’re only bisexual if you’re attracted to both sexes. Spicy straights need to get the fuck out of the bi community so we can properly organize groups.

[feminine-catharsis]

if you think your boyfriend or husband is accepting towards your sexuality but is seemingly not upset by you kissing/undressing/being sexual with a woman, or more accepting to allow you to have relations with a woman as opposed to being upset if you asked to be with a man,congrats. you are being fetishized

[iknowitwontwork]

people from this country are so slay and amazing and sexy fr

[gaywrites]

Something to feel hopeful about: The first-ever Bi Pride parade in West Hollywood last month. Yay visibility, yay community. 💗💙💜(photos by Jon Viscott for The Advocate) 

[pjharvey-moved-deactivated20250]

“sexuality is so complicated and impossible to label” - annoying tumblr person about to describe what is literally just bisexuality

[whatsnewalycat]

[shinhati]

bisexual women are not a sexual resource for trans people or anyone else. "the solution to lonely trans people is bi folks!" no it isn't. kill yourself

[shinhati]

actually im gonna list attitudes/stereotypes that contribute to this

bi women don't have sexual boundaries

bi women are freaky and hypersexual

others are entitled to bi women's sexuality

bisexuals have a responsibility to defer/cater to the rest of the LGBT

[hawkmommy]

Exactly!

[bi-culture-is]

Just a friendly reminder that the pink on the bi flag stands for women, the blue stands for men, and the purple stands for non-binary people.

[lgbstims]

Friendly reminder that what the actual creator of the bi flag said was:

“The pink color represents sexual attraction to the same sex only (gay and lesbian), the blue represents sexual attraction to the opposite sex only (straight) and the resultant overlap color purple represents sexual attraction to both sexes (bi).”

[tamberoo]

wow! how fucking convienient it is that you had to use the wayback machine and find your source all the way back in TWO THOUSAND ONE, ALMOST TWO WHOLE DECADES AGO

this is the EXACT WEBSITE that posted link goes to. and the audacity to say people are “making stuff up” in the tags of that post, saying it’s as easy as looking at wikipedia. well, let’s take a look at wikipedia now!

The APA defines bisexuality as people “who experiences emotional, romantic and/or sexual attractions to, or engages in romantic or sexual relationships with, more than one sex or gender.”

The APA also writes in a broad definition of sexual orientation that “sexual orientation is distinct from other components of sex and gender, including biological sex (the anatomical, physiological and genetic characteristics associated with being male or female), gender identity (the psychological sense of being male or female)* and social gender role (the cultural norms that define feminine and masculine behavior).”

[lgbstims]

…….yes. Because the flag was invented 20+ years ago…so naturally the sources are from that time period. We use the wayback machine bc those sites are no longer up…..

Wikipedia changing their definition of bisexuality doesn’t change Michael Page’s intention in 1998. Pink for same SEX attraction, blue for opposite SEX, and purple for the resulting overlap. Nonbinary gender identity bullshit wasn’t involved

[tomcats-and-tophats]

If you answer the question of “what defines a bi woman” with “men” you fail the test automatically. Accepting my bisexuality was realizing I didn’t have to be with men and tailor my life to their expectations. I’ve said it a thousand times and I’ll say it a thousand times more: if I say “bi woman” and, instead of thinking of an individual woman you think first and foremost of men, you are contributing to the misogyny we face

[synthie]

if bi women have a million fans i’m one of them.. if bi women have 5 fans i’m one of them.. if bi women have 1 fan? that one is me. if bi women have no fans… i’m no longer on this earth

[normalfeminist]

love when people post stuff like "normalize going to the store in your pajamas!!" but then they have "queer" in their bio. like girl you can't even normalize being bi