la malinconia m'ammazza

venezuelan. he/they. with time we have come to understand certain things about ourselves. who we are, what we are meant to be doing, where we are meant to be and with this I ask myself: who are you?

[versacethotty]

queens: ariana????? is that really you????

ari:

[warriorsmurf]

I'm finishing up this scream baby. A mood.

[a-trans-comic-by-me]

[smokeytoastyghosty]

Me: yep

Me: sees trans man not binding and one in a dress

Me : nope!

You didn’t have to draw a trans man with boobs sis, thanks for the dysphoria babeey

[trainwreckbisexual]

if u get dysphoric when u see a boob that’s understandable but its also your problem to deal with n u don’t get to shame other trans dudes for drawing people like them with visible breasts. as much as it sucks, most trans men do have non flat chests and it’s not a bad thing to draw trans men with breasts (unless ur sexualising them, or ur drawing a real life trans man who’s dysphoric about his chest).

also u can’t have a go at op for drawing a trans man without a binder bc it makes u dysphoric n then call him sis. dont be a fuckin hypocrite dude.

anyways good post op

[maraeffect]

some trans men can’t bind for medical reasons. some don’t prefer to bind bc it’s uncomfortable, and hot, and sweaty!!! some trans men arent that bothered by chest dysphoria!

trans people are not required to attempt conformity to be valid in their identity. no one is required to try and “look cis”. that’s your own shit to deal with.

[eroticcannibal]

Thank you for drawing trans men who aren’t binding and who wear feminine clothes, OP, seeing trans people like myself really helps with my dysphoria

[transmxnfenris]

I can’t bind because of my severe asthma and pain in my ribs from fibromyalgia. So seeing trans men who aren’t binding really helps my crippling dysphoria. Thanks op (also disabled trans men aaaaaah! 💖)

[bleepblopbugs]

Also some trans men cant afford a binder, or are closeted, or itt isnt safe where they live to bind, binding isnt a necessity v

[xaira-gabvi]

Also trans men, just like cis men, are allowed to wear dresses.

[official-boob-posts]

official boob post

[roach-works]

chiming in to add that you also don’t have to be prudish and puritanical by assuming that it’s automatically, axiomatically wrong to sexualize trans people and characters or to depict trans characters sexually. yes, even the body parts that some individual trans people might not be comfortable with displaying on their own.

one person in this thread is extremely unhappy to see a drawing of a trans man’s tits. another person in this thread is quick to say that it’s okay for drawings of trans men to have tits, as long as no one was horny when they drew them. i myself, a trans man with tits, find it very nice to think that other people might be horny for tits like mine. everyone has a right to draw boundaries for themself and defend themselves from unwanted attention, but they inevitably step over the line when they try to universalize their discomfort.

sexual art is not inherently degrading or disrespectful, because human sexuality can be powerful, positive, and affirming. especially queer sexuality that admires the full breadth and variety of the ways people can have bodies and genders.

[skelinor]

Hopefully they’ll get along now, right?

…Right??

[blindstress]

Faltan cinco pa’las doce...

I would not be writing this if I did not feel like an avenue to release the emotions that are swarming my heart was necessary. The issue at hand is, that as my friends and family post in their social media their reunions with their relatives, I find myself once again, for the sixth time in a row, stuck in places that I simply cannot call home. Faltan cinco pa’las doce, el año va a terminar (there are five until twelve, the year is about to end) goes a gaita from Venezuela that I find myself remembering every year, followed by me voy corriendo a mi casa a abrazar a mi mamá (I go running to my house, to hug my mom). 

Every time, for the past six years, I have wished to recreate the scenes from that gaita. To run to my house and hug my mom, tell her I am doing fine despite the constant feeling of swarming thoughts that control my head. I understand that, being able to say I have somewhere to someday go back is a privilege. Yet I do not understand why I have been deprived of being able to exercise it; only that I do know why. Being a migrant has created that sense of longing, that sense of wanting to belong and that sense of never being able to achieve both. I want to go home, yet I am not able to, therefore, I am not able to go home and, consequentially, I feel as if I did not have on. 

I could probably write eons and essays and dissertations about this feeling. Perhaps, the shot of rum I had before writing this, as a result of the coldness of my college dorm, has caused me to take my phone and write all of this. Yet, I can only close by saying that one day I am able to irme corriendo a mi casa a abrazar a mi mamá.

[stevenrogered]

Taylor Hale makes Big Brother history, becoming the first Black woman to win the original show in 24 seasons, as well as the first houseguest to ever win BOTH the show and America’s Favorite Player

[whateeveerr]

[kirbycheatfurbymeat-deactivated]

[adamsmasher]

[franzkafkagf]

[spacewlkr]

this man rly logged back into twitter solely to spill, go off king

[briannabakerarchive]

DAMIANO DAVID of Måneskin during the Grand Final press conference @ Eurovision Song Contest

[pigeocore]

What eurovision jury think Europe Wants: 500 boring ass ballads that sound identical

What Europe REALLY Wants: 2000's rock, bisexuality, EDM Slavic Folk, Whatever Iceland has going on

[my-dark-happy-place]

Yes italy's song slapped but let's face it, they won because all the queers either wanted to fuck them or be them.

[everythingkennedy]

JFK accompanied by his wife visit Venezuela. 1961.

[ohthefracking]

me mourning asia and hoping aquaria slays the absolute fuck out of this final lip sync

[radicles]

This was DEFINITELY the highlight of the new episodes

[momo33me]

#Ask_Gaza | Episode 4: Do You Hate Jews?

[cute0001]

~

[oogilyboogilyboo-deactivated201]

THINGS THEY WON’T SHOW YOU ON THE NEWS Because media likes to pit people against each other, enraging people, make people look bad and make more money for themselves. 

Because GOD FORBID, Muslims, Arabs and especially Palestinians be showed in positive light.