Jay in that scene in PaybackEP8
For a very domineering man who says things like 'I'll break you to make you mine if neccessary' Jay was actually gentle. Yes, he deliberately hurt Sun in some parts, not prepping him correctly or long enough, being relentless even while Sun writhed in pain for a few moments. But! The whole foreplay he took his time getting Sun undressed, laying him on the table, picking him up and holding him close, laying him gently (!) on the bed, kissing his body down and taking him into his mouth (I know I'm not the only one who heard that slurping sound when Jay was down there), kissing Sun's tears away even while ra*ling him into the mattress, kissing him afterwards. And in between, even if only for a few seconds, he held still and gave Sun moments to adjust before he continued. Or that moment he slowly pulled out, waited and Sun's gaze travelled down and then Jay flipped him onto his front. It's clearly important for him that as much pleasure as he takes he wants Sun to experience pleasure too. He could have been more aggressive overall, could have manhandled and thrown Sun around much more and been more sadistic. He wasn't.
