it's about LOVE as a CONSCIOUS DECISION!! the point is to LOVE the THINGS and PEOPLE that are are ALREADY THERE in their BROKEN and INIMITABLE, highly INDIVIDUAL STATE versus loving the safe, unbroken IDEA of PEOPLE AND THINGS that MAY or MAY NOT have ever been REAL!! it's about the MATERIAL CONDITIONS of life in all its complexity and grief it's about CARING on PURPOSE it's about the NOW and THERE, the INTANGIBILITY of the HUMAN CONDITION, it's about EMBRACING the CONSTANT CHANGE instead of FEARING and HATING it,















