I need to speak to transmascs and trans men for a second, as an asexual person.
Tumblr dumped a post a good while back that I was too tapped out to try to rewrite. But now I’m going to try again.
Because look. We were the scapegoats several years ago. And you are now. We got bullied off the site. I personally did not, because I wasn’t very active at the time, but I’ve read a LOT of stories of ace spec people who did.
Like mushrooms after radioactive fallout.
If you need to take a break from Tumblr, and go to more close-knit or closed off spaces somewhere, group chats, Telegram, whatever, to preserve your peace as a transmasculine person? Please do so!
Those of us with our heads on straight will welcome you back when it’s safe(er).
I would personally recommend not deleting your Tumblr outright, but just waiting for this latest wave of shit to go by.
Or, simply cut back on your time staying here. Break that scrolling habit. Fill your cup.
While the fascists lick their lips at the prospect of murdering us all, dumbshits are trying to push versions of “transfeminism” that are toxic and anti-inclusionist.
The utter inability to see the bigger picture is exactly what the oligarchs want. Just like they use race to divide the working classes to prevent resistance or overthrow, via identity politics, they also try to point out what they think are “contradictions” in “gender ideology” when in reality … reality is just complicated.
Average people falling for this and coming after you?
I am holding you so gently when I say this. You do not deserve that.
You do not deserve to be punched down on by entirely misdirected anger at transphobic and sexist society as a whole.
You are not someone’s punching bag.
Those people should be in their own communities, f***ing shit up against power structures, organizing resistance, not in your DMs.
Keyboard warriors, pretty much every last one of them.
And they don’t DESERVE to feast on the chunks they just tried to rip from your mind.
They’re vultures, screaming and flopping around about tired talking points, not the rhetorical glorious dominant apex predator that they think they are.
You are not a coward, or HEAVEN FORBID, “unmanly” for leaving- or restricting Tumblr’s access to your mind.
Bring back what masculinity was before colonialism injected toxicity into it.