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Soulmates as a horror concept.
You WILL love this person. It doesn't matter who you loved before; any feelings you had, any promises you made, they will become inconsequential as soon as you lock eyes with the stranger Fate has picked for you.
There's no way to stop it.
There's no way to say "no."
You will meet someone and with a single glance, both of you will become someone new, someone who's now bound to this stranger whether you like it or not, want it or not.
Trapped in a dance together until the day you die.
“A kiss may be grand, but it won’t pay the rental, on your humble flat, or help you at the automat.”
Like literally the most famous song about how much girls love jewellry is just explaining the importance of getting jewellry for when your partner leaves you penniless and alone.
The founder of Girl Scouting in the US, Juliette Gordon Low, funded her first troop by selling her pearl necklace, which was her only belonging after her husband died and left everything to his mistress.
She founded Girl Scouts to teach girls self-sufficiency so they wouldn’t have to go through what she went through when her husband died and she didn’t know how to take care of herself.
While we’re on the subject, let’s please also remember that historically disenfranchised communities who had to worry about frequently being run out of town often bought expensive jewelry with their limited funds not because they were greedy or tacky or classless, but rather because you can’t sew a real estate investment into the lining of your coat, and the powers that be can’t freeze a diamond necklace the way that they can freeze a bank account.
Speaking as a jeweler in America right now, I cannot tell you how many people are buying jewelry as an emergency fund. The business my spouse started and I’ve been helping with for nigh on 20 years now, we sell to the queer community. Other people, sure, but I cannot tell you how many queer folks I’ve made jewelry for.
And they are buying as much as they can right now. Genderweird people, gay men, bi folks in same gender marriages, lesbians, anyone who looks around and realizes that the noose is tightening? They’re buying what they can afford. Sometimes a little more than they can afford.
People are asking about metal purity in our jewelry. This has never happened before, not even during the first trump debacle. People are worried, wondering how they can get out if things go real bad. And I tell them how to sell their stuff for cash if they need to. How to find places that won’t cheat them.
How to get the most out of the jewelry they already have.
They play it off as a joke, most of the time, and I’ll play along to make sure they’re comfortable, but we all know the joke is only funny because it’s true.
I have warned people that they won’t get what they paid back. People who buy jewelry are trying to make money, and they don’t care about the hours put into hand crafting a piece. They care about the metal, the stones, and not much else. Folks I tell this to understand, and sometimes ask if we sell bullion. Or coins. Something that they can use in the emergency they expect is coming.
I wish I didn’t have to do this. I wish more people worried about what it says when people are planning on fleeing their homes with only what they have on their back. I wish I didn’t have a plan for what happens when my genderqueer ass is declared illegal.
But I do.
To expand on this excellent explanation: Do not buy diamonds.
Due to the DeBeers cartel, diamonds are expensive to buy but kind of worthless because there’s a giant stockpile of them.
e.g. you can buy a $1000 diamond then try to sell it back and be offered $200. The price is artificial because not only are they not that rare now, but we cn make them bigger, better and in any colour we like.
Which means DeBeers is trying to persuade everyone that natural diamonds, mined the old fashioned way with slave labour or giant, ecosystem wrecking dredgers, are ‘better’.
Guillotines all ‘round.
Anyway, Silver is also a weird one: It’s too stable. You buy a bar for $5 back in 1995, and now it’s worth $5, accounting for inflation. It doesn’t really lose or accrue value that much.
OK at this point you should know that: 1: I’m not a professional: This is not my field. 2: This is my opinion and if you’re intruiged, you should absolutely research the hell out of this Ok that caveat done, this is where I’m going with this:
Gold on the other hand…
… Gold’s value is based on how much people are panic buying it. Republicans are always having A Moment and panic buying gold bars, pushing the price up.
Meaning the price is somewhat of a bubble, and there’s a point where it’ll burst and a lot of people will panic sell and drive the price into the ground.
This means that Silver is probably your best bet because the value won’t change very much, and there’s not a weird hyperinflation bubble happening, unless you want to speculate n the value of gold, which is a horribly high buy-in price, and you might not sell fast enough to avoid losing your shirt.
Bullion of any type is also partially scammy.
You can buy a plain bar with a little markup over the metal ‘sscrap’ price for the cost of processing (Casting a bar, assaying, certifying, packing, posting, someone’s profit…) and you will take a small loss when you sell.
But what you don’t want is the ‘collectable’ bars with buffalos or naked ladies or enamel painted eagles on.
I mean if you want one just because it’d make you happy, absolutely - I knew a guy who had a 1kg silver bar as a paperweight just to troll people who assumed it was fake. And I have a small 1 troy ounce bar I keep as a fidget toy.
The resale value of a ‘collectible’ bullion bar is… about the same as a plain bullion bar, so any extra you paid is a loss. Unless you can find someone who desperately wants to collect that set (Which is possible in the same way as winning the lottery is possible: It is, but you won’t).
Coins are also… eh. Actual real coins are a whole different thing. A lot of bullion comes in ‘Rounds’ - It’s fake coins. Bullion bars in disks to look like coins. They’re not legal tender, they’re just precious metals that are the equivalent of monopoly money.
You cannot spend them any more than you can spend a bullion bar, or a hallmark ceramic cupid.
There is a vested interest on the vendor’s behalf for you to believe that because they are circular and maybe have an eagle on, or a portrait of Trump, that they’re somehow worth more than the metal in them. They aren’t.
Bullion is very often sold as 999.0 fine. That’s 99.9 per-CENT pure. or 999 Per MILLE - It’s measured in parts per thousand.
This is an example of a bar that’s been damaged by handling - It’s mine, the one I bought to just hold and enjoy.
Handling isn’t just a cosmetic issue - It wears the bar down over time so it’s no longer 1 troy ounce exactly. Another thing you should watch for when buying.
A bar that hasn’t been handled will look more or less untouched, and be in a plastic case or bag. If it’s dirty or scratched and scuffed, it’s been someone’s play thing or possibly fake.
Beware of voins and bars that have soemthing in the description that admits that it’s impure - Fine Jewellry Silver? OK it’s mixed with Zinc to make it harder. Weird descriptions that make it sound like an SNL skit:
“Is it pure silver?” ‘It’s FREEDOM™ silver, and that’s BETTER! Look for the eagle stamp’ “So it’s like… 999.99 pm pure?” 'FREEDOM™ silver is certified by the Trump Foundation!’ “OK but it’s pure silver.” 'Right but what’s the purity?’ “It’s 100% (shipped in) America FREEDOM™ silver!”
… it’s aluminium plated in silver that will rub off. There’s a lot of listing son non-bullion speciality sites doing this.
Or cheap “Chinese” bullion with zodiac stamps which won’t tell you the purity.
There are also a lot of Bullion sites buying and selling, who are… mmm let’s say they’re in the Trump school of economics.
The easy way to see who’s doing what is to Google for bullion live prices then compare to see if the market’s showing the same on multiple different sites like the Royal Mint.
Remember: If the price is too good to be true, read the small print, check the purity and the actual weight.
For example I left the bar on the left in my pocket and it shrank in the wash…
OK it’s a comically small but still very real bullion bar in its case. That’s what silver looks like when some asshole hasn’t been fondling it for years.
However, if someone did some creative photography and put that up, you might assume it’s a full size bar and miss that it’s small enough to fit in your ear. You think you’re getting ten big bars and… you’re getting ten chips, that have the value of about half a One Troy Ounce bar.
They are however very cool little novelties to give people. Now you know.
Anyway, unlike the metal I’m not precious. This is all my opinion. If someone (Looking at you @shymikka, if it would please you?) feels like explaining any parts that are wrong, dangerous or misleading DO IT.
Please. I do NOT want to steer someone wrong because they thought column inches = expertise.
I’m Jewish, and all of my parents, grandparents, and great-grandparents (and going back yet further) always made sure we had secreted valuables and trade skills that can travel. Whether it was a bar of silver, a string of pearls, candlesticks, goldsmith’s tools, a law degree, bottles of liquor, letters of introduction, fine cloth – anything to give us a backup option when things would break bad. So here’s my advice: (1) don’t put all your eggs in one basket. get a mix of stuff. (2) social connections, education, and skills are just as important as cash or even more so. (3) understand that when the shit hits the fan, you WILL NOT get full value. you will be forced to abandon most of your things, and you will be extorted over the rest. (4) have a real, written, thought-out exit plan. if you wait until the last second, you might not make it out of the crush.
Such excellent advice here. Gotta reiterate from that last post, diversify. It’s hard to predict what people are gonna value and what’s gonna suddenly become worthless.
And especially, survival skills and trade skills are worth more than any object will ever be. If you have to prioritize what you can and can’t carry with you, carry survival tools before you carry valuable metals. If shit goes bad enough, you’re gonna be glad you have a knife and a water purification system over a gold or silver necklace.
As a Middle Eastern trans woman of color, while I do incidentally have some gold jewelry, it’s not really because of emergencies. My emergency prep is bugout bags with water filtration and a compass and flashlights and multitools and a machete and so on, and the skill set that means I can walk from here to Canada without ever leaving the mountains if I have to, and provide treatment for injuries and illness on the way, and defend myself and my family if it comes to that. Honestly being a plumber would probably be worth more settling in a new place than my jewelry making and tarot reading and herbal medicine, but I do have something people will pay for, at least.
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Movement nudge, hand mobility! 🙌
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1) do this even if you're under 40. seriously. I definitely should have been doing something like this for years and I only turned 40 a month and a half ago
2) if you're like me just now trying this going "oh god i've only done 15 and i think my hands are cramping" start lower than 30 and increase by 5 once whatever number you're doing no longer makes your hand cramp up. I can manage about 15 per exercise at the moment.
If you're hypermobile, be especially gentle.
Something neuroscience-y that helps with prose: attention is selective. A character will not notice everything in a room. They will notice what matters to their goal, fear, desire, training, wound, or obsession. A jealous character notices hands. a hungry character notices food. A soldier notices exits. A lonely character notices pairs. Description becomes character when attention has a bias.
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I’m seeing a lot of people saying this post changed their brain chemistry, and as a neuroscientist I wanted to say yes!!! Yes it does!
Wanting something requires dopamine signaling, but liking something doesn’t.
If you have a mental illness/disorder that affects dopamine, you might feel that you don’t want to do the things that you like. You do still like them. You will appreciate having done them.
Let your likes guide you.
(If you want to read more, here’s one experimental paper about it. https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC5171207/ This theory called the incentive-sensitization theory was originally created to explain behaviors in addiction but can be applied elsewhere as well)
Rewards are both ‘liked’ and ‘wanted’, and those two words seem almost interchangeable. However, the brain circuitry that mediates the psych
it really is quite bad for your military to have an image of itself as a warrior class. what you really want is for your soldiers to think of themselves as boring professionals who will fill out a report form if someone gets a little too warrior ethos out there
There is a very definite pattern at play throughout all of history...
It goes back way further, but I'm not putting that much work into this so Imma start with Sparta. The warrior culture that said shit like "Sparta needs no walls" and "Spartans, what is your profession?!" fought Thebes three times, and three times they got absolutely humiliated by a bunch of guys who would rather just be gay poets together.
Everyone remembers them responding to a threat with "If." No one remembers they immediately got their asses kicked. Everyone remembers Thermopylae, no one remembers they got steamrolled after that, and it was actually a bunch of Athenian philosophers who sent the mighty Persian empire with "so many archers we were fighting in the shade" home with their tail between their legs.
Then Rome thought they were gonna eat everybody's lunch, and a bunch of Celtic farmers kicked their shit in so hard twice that the entire empire literally collapsed because they didn't have enough soldiers left to defend it.
Then the Spanish Conquistadors conquisted exactly nothing because they thought they were great warriors, and 100% of their successes were actually because they were disgusting and disease ridden and so used to making each other sick that they died less from smallpox than the people they were invading who bathed regularly and were (in the case of the Mexica) mostly at that point in history just a bunch of bureaucrats who still repeatedly beat their asses despite having weapons made of wood and stone.
Then the Nazi "master race" as previously established got absolutely owned by British bureaucracy, American teenagers who lied about their age to skip high school classes and shoot Nazis, French exotic dancers and secretaries, and a group of Dutch school girls.
Now the Russian war machine is donating their tanks to Ukrainian farmers and getting curb stomped by knitting circles because (Yakov Smirnoff voice) In soviet Russia, occupied country conquers you.
And the largest and most well funded military force in all of human history recently signed what amounted to a surrender agreement with a country that hasn't been a world power pretty much since they got their asses kicked by Athenian philosophers.
Take a lesson from all of Greek mythology as well as world history. Nothing will fuck your shit faster than your own hubris. Thinking you're hot shit militarily is the fastest route to getting the shit kicked out of you.
I may not have the time nor energy for a long post today but that doesn't stop my brain from coming up with so many words, banging on the inside of my skull begging to be let out. I have a doctors appointment in 3 and a half hours and I haven't slept all night, and today, a neurosurgeon I saw for the first time took me condition seriously in a way that I wasn't used to, but I left with more confusion. The couple of diagnoses I have long thought to be the cause of my severe progressive paralysis were proposed--- not to be fake like many doctors have suggested ---but to not make enough sense, not be nearly severe enough to explain my symptoms.
today I went to a doctors appointment and they proposed that paraneoplastic syndrome should be investigated as a part of my differential diagnosis, a diagnosis I've only heard of from watching House MD. They said it could be that or an autoimmune condition attacking my central nervous system or something else, but luckily today they finally affirmed something I have long known: my reflexes are abnormal and there is no way this could be attributed to some bullshit functional overlay. Something is wrong, so wrong as to be out of the scope of a neurosurgeon at one of the best hospitals in the country. Something is wrong and even though I never stopped looking for an answer, even when I felt like I should be thinking horses not zebras (despite having (currently) and having had (in my childhood) multiple very rare conditions), I had settled slightly into thinking a condition that didn't quite fit my symptoms explained them all, not something exceedingly common but an Occam's razor kind of situation: "Plurality should not be posited without necessity" so maybe if I have relatively minor symptoms from this one thing, perchance, possibly it could explain the symptoms so severe that I fear I will die an early death. But that's not Occam's razor is. It isn't the attribute one thing to everything postulate, it's the idea that plurality should not be posited without necessity, not that plurality should never be posited whatsoever. So sometimes you need to trust yourself even when you think that you have exhausted every option to figure out what is wrong and what is right--- what is true and what isn't. Don't get me wrong, I still have plenty of debilitating symptoms from common conditions but sometimes you know the journey isn't over and maybe it's my obsessive or self-conscious or frantic nature but over the years, I've lost a lot of my fight (for a plethora of bad reasons) but you must question why there are so many people who aim to instill complacency because those people have something to gain. Often the power those people seek to gain is antithetical to an empowered populous, an empowered patient, someone with even the smallest bit of fight left in them. So keep being strong and annoying and a bitch because I can almost guarantee youre not as mean as you think you are. Keep being. I'll never forget a comment I got on a poem I wrote talking about how I just felt like everything about me was decaying with all sorts of related metaphors. The person said some kind things about my writing as a whole and then ended their comment with "you are so much more than rot on wood." It still gives me goosebumps to write it because the little acts of kindness and power we instill in one another each day mean something. There's a whole big world out there, and that simultaneously means that you can still avoid ever seeing your enemy again after they move to the same big city as you, but it also means that those times we don't want to disappear into the crowd, but struggle to stay steadfast, someone will find you. They say no one is coming to save you and that's true, but it also means that we must save each other, no superhero, no deus ex machina, just some people doing the best they can.
i see a lotta people (myself included) worry about their story not being original, or overdone and like... that's literally what all stories are. every story when boiled down is a replication of what's already there because that's where inspiration comes from. from something you saw in existence. but that's okay!
because people will still read the same enemies to lovers or hero beats villain tropes over and over again. when you throw your story in the pot and set it to a boil and throw in the ingredients you want, it's a different taste. your words aren't exactly the same as those who've written that defiant princess trope because you aren't the same. while yes, the same ingredients and experiences exist out there, they were still thrown in at different times or strengths. nobody else is you, despite how similar they may seem.
every writer, especially beginning writers, have a voice. over time you'll curate and grow that voice with specific words you lean on more or tropes you write about more, but that's what makes it so special.
you'll sigh and chide yourself for writing the same thing again, while someone else will light up with delight when they recognize it's you who's writing it and this is exactly what they've been wanting to read to end their day.
what matters at the end of the day is that you wrote it. and hopefully you enjoyed writing it as much as someone else will with reading it
some people will be like “I wonder why fanfic writers don’t share their works anymore😔” and then this is them when a writer is kind enough to share something they write — as a hobby, for their own enjoyment — with them for free.
some people really don’t realize how privileged they are that they get fanfics for free. imagine having access to something for free because someone is kind enough to share it with you… and then being rude, entitled and an ungrateful pos to that person who was kind enough to share their creation with you for free
“almost 1 year is a lil too much for me” fuck off. fanfic writers don’t owe you anything. one of my favorite fics was updated after 13 years, and what I did is that I thanked the author for choosing to continue the work, I didn’t act like a spoiled toddler by asking why they didn’t update sooner. and even if a writer chooses to abandon their fic permanently with no explanation, that is their choice, their hobby, their decision. they don’t owe your entitled ass anything.
you people let tiktok rot your brains to the point you see everything as content farm and engagement. not a piece of art created by the artist’s love and passion. it’s dystopian.
Y'all for real please do these. Even if you're certain your posture doesn't suck. One day you will wake up with impinged shoulder pain like I did and let me tell you it fucking HURTS. Do these exercises even just once a week and it will make such a difference. Especially my fellow creatives out there, stop shrimping over your work and go do these right now. RIGHT NOW.
Also, if you’re even a little concerned about getting a hump or having trouble standing fully upright in your old age, this is how you prevent that. If you want to be up and about when you’re old you have to start when you’re younger. And keep in mind there is no bad time to start and it’s never too late. Starting today is way better than never starting at all.
we need to be more bored. i used to be so creative in my spare time, now I'm just on my phone.
Abolish ICE.