Hey.....I saw that you are accepting requests.... can you do lookism men reacting to s/o who is a independent woman and refuses to use their money
Hii omg ofc!! Thank you for the request!
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Ft. Gun Park, Goo Kim, Samuel Seo, DG/James Lee, Zack Lee
Notes: arguing, gaslighting, some fluff, dating/established relationship
Summary: you’d rather die than let a man pay for you
- He’s baffled that you pushed his card away and used yours instead
- He continues to try pay with his card but you’re somehow faster than him and he’s lowkey impressed 😂
- He admires how you stick to your own convictions and are independent
- However, he’s a traditional man and he thinks he should be paying so he often gets annoyed when you don’t let him
- Specially when you’re out on dinners together and argue on who’s getting the bill
- He can’t stand it when you refuse to let him pay
- He WILL hold you in a chokehold in front of the cashier and tell them to quickly use his card
- He’ll sneak his credit cards into your purse hoping you’ll accidentally use them
- Will buy you TONS of gifts to make up for when you refuse his money, and every time you fight because you’ve told him many times to stop doing that
- He’s used to spending a lot of money
- Designer clothes, gourmet food, alcohol, parties, GIRLS
- So he’s really shocked when you refuse his money
- At first he didn’t really care, if you wanted to use your own money it wasn’t any of his business
- But then it starts to irk his inferiority complex
- Did you think he can’t provide for you? Does he not have enough money? Do you have more money than him? So you think you’re better than him?
- Eventually, every time you refuse his money or pay for him he turns bitter and would throw backhanded “compliments” at you to make himself feel better
- He would find it really refreshing
- As an idol, people were only around him because of his money and popularity
- But seeing you refuse to take his money makes him see you as genuine
- He still offers to pay but doesn’t insist if you say no
- He’ll still spoil you with gifts and flowers tho because he thinks there isn’t anything else he can offer to you
- He also thinks he should always pay for his woman and would absolutely love to buy you food and gifts
- So when you refuse to let him pay he’s a bit hurt and paranoid thinking you don’t like him
- You explain to him how important your independency and values are to you and he understands and respects it
- But he won’t give up and will always try to pay for you
- Specially if it’s a date, he will try extra hard to not let you pay but still respect your boundaries