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[codependencytendencies]

This blog belongs to Spite(aka Limbo). She tends to be triggered by positivity posts sometimes, and has been known to go on rants about them.

We've tried our best to keep her from seeing them, but it's hard to know what to blacklist because it's hard to know what will set her off.

We didn't want to give her a sideblog, because giving her free reign anywhere is a recipe for disaster. So we have some rules to act as a fail safe. We may add more later.

1. Anyone can request to have additions/arguments to their post removed, no questions asked. [This only applies to positivity posts]

2. This blog is only to be used for emergencies. If an argument against a positivity post cannot be let go, then it will be reblogged here. She is not to go looking for arguments*

3. Sonrai (Logic) reserves the right to step in if he deems any argument to be taken too far by her.

4. No arguing with minors, system littles, or age regressors.

5. She is not allowed to edit this post.

While this blog is for her, the arguments against her are for the benefit for the others in the system.

It is highly likely that whatever she is arguing against, has reached the internet because the rest of us are losing.

If you engage with her, please do so with the knowledge that you are fighting someone's intrusive thoughts, inner demons, negative self talk, etc. She is a trauma holder, and a protector rolled into one.

We realize kindness is especially hard in dealing with her, but this is why we have created the sideblog. This way it is clear to everyone involved what is going on.

Thank you for your patience.

*10/12/21 edit: until further notice all passionate commentary reblogs shall be relegated here until we can safely discern when it is righteous anger and when it is just looking for a fight.

*5/11/22 edit* limbo is gone. all system discussions will be posted here until when and if limbo comes back and says otherwise.

3/12/25 limbo edit: data isn't updating my pinned post and I don't think it's fair that I can't update my post when I'm the one running the show right now

[thisis-suicidism]

I just kinda hate the notion that "suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem".

What if that "temporary problem" is a chronic illness or disease that could very well kill them slowly?

What if that "temporary problem" is poverty?

What if that "temporary problem" is being unable to access necessary medication for any number of reasons?

What if that "temporary problem" is having no way to get much needed support?

What if that "temporary problem" is mental and physical trauma that will likely negatively affect their life for a very long time?

This is suicidism. yes, it ignores the often systemic causes of trauma and suffering in this world. people see these problems are momentary aberrations on the norm when often time these experiences *are* the norm. abuse is normalized in our society, allowing people to suffer of preventable causes is normalized in our society. there is nothing "post-traumatic" about the experience of being a marginalized person in our society, the trauma is ongoing.

[sailatina3]

If a suicide could've been avoided by just having more money, it was a murder.

[codependencytendencies]

Reeeeeeally want to text a certain someone to tell them

I'm thinking reeeeeeal hard about that time I asked them for drugs (so I could OD)

But their dog is being put down next week , so.... bad time to do that.

I deserve a cookie or something for not doing that

[papayajuan2019]

killing myself out of habit

[ego-similis-testudines]

It's seriously fucked up that there's no way to speak frankly with a professional about suicidal thoughts without the looming threat of involuntary institutionalization and, by extension, psychiatric abuse. How, exactly, are suicidal people supposed to be aided in not feeling suicidal if they aren't allowed to safely express it through what are supposed to be the appropriate channels?

[support-for-the-suicidal]

blogs on tumblr that talk about suicide (+self harm+other related mental health topics) getting termed

especially if theyre not ever talking positively about it especially if theyre talking about in a complete neutral way

hell, even if they are talking about it positively

i dont think these spaces should be termed

when i was in crisis i think my only safe space (my tumblr blog) being termed would've sent me over the edge :/

This is suicidism. I agree with this so much! It's awful that spaces meant to help people are termed simply because of triggering topics. I'm honestly worried that this blog will eventually get termed because of that.

[codependencytendencies]

Fuck pictures

I don't have to get used to them

I have never regretted avoiding having my picture taken

I don't need to work on that shit

[irradiatedpup]

im anti recovery btw. out of spite. it's such a ridiculous nonsensical phrase that only exists on pro-psychiatric abuse dni banners. nobody on earth is against the idea of recovering from illness. im against forcing people to navigate miserable and abusive systems that strip them of their autonomy and force them into a narrow box of normalcy, and i do think every mentally ill/neurodivergent person should agree with me, but some people (especially anti endo system) really are out here like "if you don't want to be abused and dehumanized into being normal, then you're essentially self harming and need to remove your sense of identity in favor of conformity" and it legitimately boggles the mind. i am anti "recovery" when recovery is defined as a "return" to acceptable psychological "normalcy", yes. every insane person deserves the right to decide how they live their lives with their illnesses. that includes psychotic and dissociative people. that includes people who believe they are things they're not. grow the fuck up

[sjonni33]

take and take and take (click for quality!)

ko-fi ☕ patreon 🥪 merch ❇️

[netals]

Sucker Punch (2011) dir. Zack Snyder

[eldritch-vessel]

i am not a human fire text thingies i made today

[codependencytendencies]

CF June 12

SF July 6

[codependencytendencies]

[pluralterhuman]

being a system member who's been dormant for a long time is weird as hell because sometimes you're just benefiting from personal growth you haven't actually done

[7koepfig-deactivated20251209]

Never speaking to you again feels like the loudest thing I've ever said.

[codependencytendencies]