32, tma queer woman, [list of mental health diagnoses here], very kinky and very gray ace. i like art, sad movies, low budget movies, scary movies, mtg (not so much lately though holy fUCK), lots of "bad" music and some "good" music too, indie games and certain n!ntendo games, almost anything animated, heavy clothing, and simple/powerful food.
if you've read this far, please consider reaching out. i am so so so so SO bad at talking to new people over text but i want friends, dammit.
this blog is personal not aesthetic or kink specific it's just Me, i wont tag your triggers unless we're mutuals or some other niche circumstance.
tag list under the cut.
"#cute" is things i think are cute. mostly animals but plenty of sweet people and kind gestures mixed in
"#art" is any art i come across that i want to look at again
"#laugh rule" "#snort rule" "#cry rule" and "#swear rule" are all tags that indicate that the post made me involuntarily laugh, snort, cry, or swear respectively.
"#kickass" is what it sounds like. this and tags like it ("fantastic" and "#holy fuck" etc) are basically commentary
"#nowhere else" is when a post takes on that certain tumblr quality between clever, absurd, and _____. my own personal Heritage Posts. please help me expand this tag!
"#screaming this" means it's something i agree with and with i could tell the whole world. in person i'm very quiet till i like you.
"#true" is where i keep trans affirmations.
"#blogging" is what it sounds like.
"#ref" is a book mark for future use, open ended other than that
"#to do" is things i want to do
"#buy" is things i want to have
"#kink" is a tag i'm going to start using to help express my kinky side on here. otherwise it's what it sounds like, basically Enn Ess Eff Doubleyou or whatever.
tags may also be commentary, as often they are on tumblr. i rarely make full additions to posts.
i think far too many people have only seen this video as that one sped up gif version of it and that is a crime that needs to be fixed because this video actually changed my life
actually you'll find that the issue with my political enemies is that they're stupid and uneducated and illiterate and can't handle the real world and they failed english class and also shut-in losers who don't go outside and don't have friends and don't have sex and need to get some real problems and who nobody likes and also they're freaks and not normal and weirdos who need therapy or maybe to get shoved into a locker and to get some help i mean this in the nicest way possible and also hysterical bitches who look too much into things and think saying go outside is ableist and they're childish immature entitled babies having meltdowns asking for a later bedtime and also their family doesn't like them very much plus they're unemployed and don't do any physical labor so they have too much time to think about things and also they have brainrot and are brain damaged and also brainless i guess a lot of it is an issue with their brain i suppose plus they're gluttonous addicts who can't control their disgusting urges and whose will - sorry, attention span - is diseased and who are delusional and irrational and they're perverts who look strange and off-putting and they jack off to weird porn. so as you can see the evilness of their various ideologies is self evident
“How many times do you see where a man or woman has shot another through jealousy! The standard of purity has decided that it is right, "it shows spirit," "it is justifiable" to—murder a human being for doing exactly what you did yourself,—love the same woman or same man! Morality! Honor! Virtue!! Passing from the moral to the physical phase; take the statistics of any insane asylum, and you will find that, out of the different classes, unmarried women furnish the largest one. To preserve your cruel, vicious, indecent standard of purity (?) you drive your daughters insane, while your wives are killed with excess. Such is marriage. Don't take my word for it; go through the report of any asylum or the annals of any graveyard.
Look how your children grow up. Taught from their earliest infancy to curb their love natures—restrained at every turn! Your blasting lies would even blacken a child's kiss. Little girls must not be tomboyish, must not go barefoot, must not climb trees, must not learn to swim, must not do anything they desire to do which Madame Grundy has decreed "improper." Little boys are laughed at as effeminate, silly girl-boys if they want to make patchwork or play with a doll. Then when they grow up, "Oh! Men don't care for home or children as women do!" Why should they, when the deliberate effort of your life has been to crush that nature out of them. "Women can't rough it like men." Train any animal, or any plant, as you train your girls, and it won't be able to rough it either. Now will somebody tell me why either sex should hold a corner on athletic sports? Why any child should not have free use of its limbs?
These are the effects of your purity standard, your marriage law. This is your work—look at it! Half your children dying under five years of age, your girls insane, your married women walking corpses, your men so bad that they themselves often admit Prostitution holds against PURITY a bond of indebtedness. This is the beautiful effect of your god, Marriage, before which Natural Desire must abase and belie itself. Be proud of it!”
"slut era" i say as i rot and decay in my bedroom and watch the years pass me by as i miss out on core experiences other people my age are having while i think about the past
When Tess Morgan's son came home with a tattoo, she was griefstricken. She knew her reaction was OTT (he's 21) but it signalled a change in their relationship
This is gold this, absolute gold, the most over the top melodramatic hysterical ridiculous thing I’ve ever read
This is actually so interesting to read- it’s from 2012 but its full of the same anxieties, even some of the same phrasing that many of the guardian’s later pieces on transness use. really hammers home how much of the terfism that emerged in the late 10s was middle class mothers angry at a loss of control over their adult children- whether that be their bodies or their friends or their opinions- and making that everyone’s problem because they have the power to do so
I look at him, sitting there, my 21-year-old son. I feel I’m being interviewed for a job I don’t even want. I say, “But you’re not. You’re different. I will never look at you in the same way again. It’s a visceral feeling. Maybe because I’m your mother. All those years of looking after your body – taking you to the dentist and making you drink milk and worrying about green leafy vegetables and sunscreen and cancer from mobile phones. And then you let some stranger inject ink under your skin. To me, it seems like self-mutilation. If you’d lost your arm in a car accident, I would have understood. I would have done everything to make you feel better. But this – this is desecration. And I hate it.”
Weird amount of women online saying things like "I could never have a son cus what if he becomes an incel" bro then you parent? Take his phone away and put him on punishment? Educate and engage with him? Have your brother or father or close male friend intervene if you're a single mom and reprimand him like many women were doing even before the internet started this shit? I get the anxiety but in this made up scenario why did you forget that you are still a grown adult with significantly more life experience and power than a child who relies on you for food water and clothing?
I feel like if your neurosis is so bad that the only way you can conceive of being a parent and caring and loving for a child is under the condition that they don't have a penis you just need to not be a parent at all tbh. You're either going to uncritically pass your trauma onto your daughter and make her incapable of functioning in the real world or you're going to become an insufferable weird freak that makes herself out to be a victim if that daughter ends up transitioning and becoming your son and cutting you off for being aforementioned weird freak. Either way it just sounds like you aren't mature or competent enough to sign up for what is ultimately a long term investment that is never all sunshine and rainbows regardless of the gender status.
minor clarification needed, is that instead of or in addition to the dozens regularly telling us how we're subhuman and explaining in graphic detail how they want us to be tortured to death for the latest crime they've imagined us doing on one of the dozens of blogs dedicated specifically to stalking us and inventing and sharing reasons to harass us while hoping we post something that can be used to doxx us because they're all slavering over the chance to more directly harm us somehow
getting into transfem culture? i'll show you something interesting.
the two types of transfem culture are "co-opted by tmes" and "harmful to the greater trans community". all transfem culture is placed into these two categories.
blahaj? co-opted. referring to each other by familial roles? harmful to the community. the term egg? co-opted. age regression? harmful to the community.
tranny? co-opted. transfeminism? harmful to the community. despite being co-opted into forcemasc, forcefem is "harmful to the community".
Hello TME. In front of you is a post in which a transfem laments the fact that she and her sisters cannot have anything, not even a cute plushie shark, which she will list alongside several other, more serious things.
You must reply without belittling said transfems pain and if you d- Oh that was quick. Bravo! Now into the acid with you.
I wonder why this person only mentioned the sharks and none of the more serious things?
Then again, it probably wouldn't sound quite as high, mighty and above it all to say:
"god I'm so sorry that someone co-opted an intra community slur whilst you were trying to reclaim it, that must be so difficult."
Or:
"god I'm so sorry people who claim to be your brothers siblings and allies frequently repress your civil rights movement, that must be so hard for you."
