[prisonofsociety-deactivated2014]

Reblog if it's okay to befriend you, ask questions, ask for advice, rant, vent, let something off your chest, or just have a nice chat.

[the-gay-goblin]

Don’t scroll past this. Please.

One of my partners, @foofy-model-260 isn’t doing well and has asked me to make a one note a day post.

She’s decided to keep the reasons private, and you may dm them for details.

For every three notes she won’t consider doing anything. You are limited to eight notes per blog per day.

@im-a-dragon-cawcaw @insert-awesome-loki-url-here @rspct-trans-ppl-or-ill-bite-u @pumpkin-rose-boy @basementcrispychicken @someoneiwasnt @that-house @imapursoon @imaverycatgirl @korean-vergil @an-odd-candied-comet @one-note-one-day @one-note-for-one-day

[cherryjax1525]

[official-lucifers-child]

all of the above

[wywei-remade-deactivated2020121]

I’m making a version without the puzzle peice because the history behind that symbol is rather offensive.

[spirallingintotheabyss]

Reblogging this version, sorry about the first time everyone!

[theoneandonlyredrobin]

All of the above

[mylifeontheline]

a l l  o f  t h e m 

[b00kworm]

A L L  O F  T H E  A B O V E

[harcodia]

Because this is something that also needs stating…

[the-gay-goblin]

Y E S

[awakeby-awindow]

Cowards won’t Reblog

[squirrledworld]

Just a reminder:

If a post is like “reblog to show you support x thing or *insert threat here*”

You don’t need to reblog it. If you want to show you support the subject of the post a little, you can tap the heart at the bottom of the post.

If you just don’t want to interact with the post, even if it claims that you’re a terf if you can just scroll on by even if you’re not a terf, it’s okay to just scroll past it.

You don’t need to reblog or like a post to show you support something. People can’t force you to do that, and anxiety inducing posts like that are okay to ignore.

That doesn’t mean you can’t reblog! Feel free to reblog posts like that, but maybe tag those types of posts as #rb bait or whatever you think is best.

[aus-tin-cup]

REBLOG THIS IF:

- you support trans kids under 18

- you support trans kids getting surgeries before 18

- you support trans kids starting hormone therapy before 18

[nerdygaymormon]

[barbara-lazuli]

Best use of this meme

[icarus-suraki]

Important Announcement:

April Fools Day (April 1) is one week away. To that end, I just want it known now, well before the day, that this blog will NOT be posting any jump scares, fake announcements, freak-out posts, fake hackings, fake emergencies, fake news, and “gotcha!” stuff on April Fools Day. We’re staying safe and chill around here.

I’m honestly not into April Fools Day, really, unless the jokes are obvious and silly–like Rickrolls and Dad Jokes. Rickrolls and Dad Jokes are just traditional. 

[askboxmemes]

Go on Anonymous and tell me one thing you've been too scared to tell me, but have always wanted to say.

[the-blackdale-deactivated202105]

Do it :)

[emablckthrn]

Ooo yes please

[spookyscarykittycat]

Please do this! :))

[fandomchaosposts]

hmm yes do it please :))

[thetenderpassion]

[lovelynemesis-deactivated201903]

This has happened to me before when I was in college at a frat party. This girl comes squeezing herself in between me and my friend and throws her arms around me. “Amanda, I am so glad you decided to come!” I was so confused and just figured she was drunk and mistaked me for someone else, until I saw the panic on her face. She leaned close and whispered that a guy was following her, was certain that he had put something in her drink and if I would please play along. I looked behind her and sure enough, some creep was watching her like a hawk. We invited her to hang out with us the rest of the night and even waited until her ride showed up just to make sure she was safe. Always look out for each other!

[phoenixwolf876]

If you ever feel scared like this just come up to me like we have been friends since kindergarten, call me any name u can come up with ill play along.

[17mul]

🗣

[black-hippie-moonchild]

👌🏾

[succubus-is-smol-deactivated201]

Stay together, stay safe

[eclecticstudentwriter]

Perfect advice. I’m reblogging this as a guy, because first of all, if you”re a guy : DON’T DO THAT. Don’t be that creep.

And if you’re a guy and you notice some creep is following or stalking a girl, and that she’s obviously uncomfortable or panicked, go ahead and say hi, long time no see, pretend to be her cousin, and tell her discretly you noticed there was a shady guy. Ask her if something’s wrong, if she feels unsafe, if she wants your help (very important - she may not trust you enough, no one could blame her, don’t take it personally). (and don’t you dare take advantage of the help you offered for a flirt opportunity, that would make you no better than the creep)

We can all stop “witnessing and do nothing”, and set an example.

[hapslock]

Alternative option for a guy: if you feel safe doing so, go up to the creeper who’s following her and be like “hey WHAT’S UP bud do you like SPORTS? My favourite team is the redsox what’s YOURS my man? What you DRINKING dude that looks GOOD.” and be friendly and just loud enough to blow his cover. Draw attention to him and see what he does. He won’t feel as safe creeping if he knows people are looking at him, and maybe he’ll leave. It also means the woman won’t have to worry that you are *another* creeper she has to be wary of, and you may distract the bad dude enough to give her a chance to lose him.

[tumakhunter]

Reblogging for that last comment.

[1-ofthecoolkids2]

NO THIS NEEDS TO BE BOOSTED

[perpetually-tuned-out-deactivat]

so like if we are mutuals and you need to call someone on the phone legit hit me up and i will totally give you my number for situations like this. I don’t give two fucks if I’m at work! Your safety is more important to me! Please call me and laugh obnoxiously. Hell put me on speaker while you talk so my coworkers can help make some noise and keep you company

[sebbbystaaanmoved-deactivated20]

^^^^ this tho

[stuckonjbbarnes]

SAME HERE

[north-peach]

seriously, don’t hesitate 

[thefringeperson]

I am someone who does not get social cues very well.  At all.  But if someone is making you uncomfortable and I am there, I will absolutely be your new best friend and glare pointedly at whatever creeper has you twitchy while I walk with you to wherever you’re going.

[yeah-asbestos]

I will always help you! All these tips are very useful, for guys and for the girls

[eesirachs]

“I loved you, always.”

[scp-469-blog]

going to comment a little on this game: the overseeing voice talks as if it owns you, and defies your free will. if you follow its orders, you are praised, and the worldview becomes sharper and more detailed. if you don’t, you are chastised, and the world becomes more vague and difficult to navigate, but also more colourful and loud. it’s odd, and sort of eerie, but definitely interesting. take it as you will.

[scarecrows-talk-deactivated2018]

This game really unsettles me. It unsttles me that my first choice to obey, and when I played again and disobeyed, I got really emotional really fast. Failure hurt me more the more I disobeyed. It was… interesting to experience.

[some-asshole-with-a-pony-icon-d]

i’ve always said we are trained to obey more than to think.

[bobateebrek]

holy shit. i reblogged this the first time without playing. then i played in and it is terrifying. i very much like this, but it will give you intense feelings. 

[inarticulate-spaghetti]

What’s the game??

[bobateebrek]

you obey everything the game tells you too, even jumping into barbs and basically killing yourself. if you dont youre chastised and even the scolding is terrifying

[theanimatedraccoon]

So, essentially, it’s a game that illustrates what it’s like to be in an abusive parents or an abusive relationship - and how it affects you emotionally. That is horrific and ingenious - the next time someone negates the affects of emotional abuse, I’ll take them to this game and let them come to their own conclusions.

[phiasmir]

This game absolutely gets it. The most solid and reliable degradation is a gendered insult. The more you obey and co-operate, the better understanding you seem to have of your word, and things seem easier. But what really gets me is the contradiction. You are not allowed to have the correct answer. Are you a boy or a girl? The answer is no, I will give you the answer. even towards the end, your “praise” is “no, I will give you the answer. You earned this answer, but it is given to you by me.” Disobeying makes the world frightening and confusing and difficult, but beautiful in a world devoid of flavour.

[thewasteland]

So I tried this cause I love weird stuff. As someone who has been abused, it didn’t really give me intense feelings, but I do have some thoughts.

It made me realize I instinctively choose which orders are worth disobeying and which are not, I plan my rebellion carefully. The insults didn’t really get to me, but it was sort of creepy I guess. I could feel Gabe (protector) get co-front as I played, but I don’t know if that was cause of the game’s general eeriness or because it was simply hard to play and I needed help. The “do I own your body or your mind” question really did hit me. Abusers already control your body, but they want to control your mind and that’s the game, to keep it away from them. Our mind literally split itself apart so that our abuser only owned a piece of it. (It’s more complicated than that ofc, but that’s a part of it.) It also struck me that disobeying vs obeying is a question of safety vs self, body vs mind. In order to keep yourself safe you obey, but the more you obey the more you lose your sense of self. Made me think of the “golden child vs scapegoat” thing I’ve heard of parents doing and the way we were alternatively treated as both as an only child, and the thin line we had to walk of keeping ourselves safe while trying to keep our identity intact. I like to think we were mostly successful, although obviously we ended up with more than one identity. The truth is, real abuse is a game with no way to win, all you can do is try to minimize loss.

[transmasckurapika]

A terf posted this calling it "gaslighting" and "terrible" but I thought it was sweet so I'm reposting it from them.

[jabberwockypie]

People really do just throw around “gaslighting” to mean “making me consider how my actions impact other people” and “telling me things I don’t like hearing” and “calling me on behavior that harms other people”, huh?

[avoiding-the-parentals-deactiva]

Reblog if you're gay, lesbian, bisexual, pansexual, asexual, transgender or a supporter.

[nimurea]

This should be reblogged by everyone. Even if you’re straight, you should be a supporter.

[thepiscesactor-deactivated20121]

Just an experiment. Reblog if you actually give a fuck about male victims of domestic violence and rape.

[minotaursauce]

Of fucking course

What sick bastard doesn’t

[xaldien]

“You’d be surprised”, said Xaldien, who just lost four followers and received a lovely “men can’t be raped” anon shortly after reblogging this the first time.

[minotaursauce]

Yowch, disgusting.

[samuraiko]

If I don’t reblog this, assume I’m dead.

[glory-of-hera-blog]

Always reblog this

[nygmobblepot-der-pool-deactivat]

If you Dont reblog this if u see it then i cant call u my friend

[witchofthefuture]

IF ANYONE TELLS ME THAT MEN CAN’T BE VICTIMS OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE AND RAPE, I AM SICKENED BY THEIR MERE PRESENCE ON MY BLOG.

If you disagree with me, unfollow my blog, block me and never look at my blog again.

If you want to debate about this or send anon’s about this, I will reply but your actions have consequences.

[witchofthefuture]

Out of 19000+ followers I have, only one of you actually reblogged about this issue, yet a lot of you have reblogged and liked a picture by playboy about catcalling and that how men should never do it.

Additionally, I have received abuse in my ask box (which I will be answering when I can) and threats. In particular death threats and rape threats.

I can see the real problem here already. Male domestic violence and rape is just invisible in our society because we don’t want to talk about this because it just damages the status quo of this fucking website.

[tarothy-deactivated20230301]

I’m a male victim of child sexual abuse. We matter. Please, reblog this.

[happerbunny-deactivated20211002]

Please never forget male victims are real and it can happen to everyone/anyone

[brightb-vt]

Make sure the romance is there on both sides people

[protectwoc]

Male victims are REAL

[wokesmalltownprincess]

Protecting our sons

[darkveryhumanteacher]

I SHALL NEVER STOP REBLOGING THIS WHEN I SEE IT.

[drstrangefangirl8900-deactivate]

Never gonna stop

[its-elvis-innit]

ALL GENDERS CAN FALL VICTIM TO RAPE

[smolanxiouscatvoid]

^^^^^

[god-of-identity]

fuckin reblogggg

[marxox]

Whatever sick fuck doesnt reblog this deserves to rot in a dark room alone

[pissvortex]

[st-just]

[breakingbowties-deactivated2021]

[queersasquatchofcolour]

fuck hostile architecture

[imjustapigeon]

DID is so stigmatised.

I learnt just how stigmatised this disorder is when I accidentally switched (I think it was stress induced) in front of about 10 people.

when I got completely overwhelmed, I had a sudden, horrific headache and then found myself spaced out, so I assumed that I just got overwhelmed and zoned out for a bit.

I realised something was wrong when I looked around me to see everyone staring at me, their faces contorted with shock and horror. they looked shellshocked as they unblinkingly stared and stood, frozen. they were visibly terrified of me, and apart from the uttering of a few short sentences, there was an icy, hostile silence. after a few minutes of this, I became so unnerved by it that I left. I later went to see them again and when they noticed me walking closer to them, their faces once again became contorted with the same expression of complete and utter fear. one individual, petrified, positioned herself in front of the group and refused to let me walk any closer to them.

they agreed to not tell me I have DID (great friends/aquaintances, I know), and I figured it out by piecing this event, among others, together. a few of them afterwards made it very clear to me that they weren't friends with me. a few of them, looking back on it, were weirdly jealous of the attention I got from switching. I don't know why you'd want to be treated like a serial killer, but ok then. a couple of them acted infantilising towards me. one of them tried to positively trigger out a little, knowing that I couldn't consent to it (she knew I didn't know I had DID). she probably did this because she thought it would be 'interesting'.

they didn't react this way because of anything they'd read or researched about DID. not that they'd bother to do that anyway. they reacted this way because of the horror films they'd watched that depict us as unstable killers, like in Split, and because of the stereotype of the evil, murderous alter.

this is the effect of the portrayal of DID in the media. people are scared of us. they think we are dangers to society. when people see someone with visible DID, they first see a murderer, a dangerous person. they, second, if at all, see a trauma/abuse victim.

this pushes people with DID, who already may be disabled by their condition, into the margins of society. they can't be open about their disorder, or they risk discrimination. if, by accident, people find out they have it, they will most likely be treated badly because of it.

having DID is hard enough, we shouldn't have to deal with this stigma surrounding us.

horror films like Split and Glass have a real effect on systems, whether you see it in your everyday lives or not. I am living proof of that. don't try to pretend that the media doesn't influence people's perceptions of groups of people. it obviously does. please stop defending horror films about my disorder. please stop treating us like serial killers. it was horrible to be treated like that, and no system should have to go through that.

[mg-system]

Hope it's okay to reblog this

[guerrillatech]