Just an idiot lmao

[this-is-trans-joy]

I watched an amazing movie about transmasculinity and then every other review for it pissed me off so I made my own. Call me an evil transgender but I think this was about more than just a gender non-conforming girl.

[deceptivelydefective]

Everyone loves us when we're gender non-conforming women, but the second we go "actually, I was never a woman to begin with" it's ignored or we're actively forced to become feminine as if that'll fix it, and I'm so TIRED. The fact we have what, 2 pieces of canon representation I can think of off the top of my head and one of those is because the actor came out as a trans man after season 2, and we're supposed to just sit and be happy that we never see ourselves, or when we do it's always "corrected" at the end and they realise they were a woman all along

And I swear anytime I complain irl I get hit with “but not everything has to be trans” or worse “well I wish my biggest issue was that I don't have to deal with hyper visibility”, sorry for hi-jacking your post OP.

What is the film btw? I'd like to check it out!

[this-is-trans-joy]

I watched an amazing movie about transmasculinity and then every other review for it pissed me off so I made my own. Call me an evil transgender but I think this was about more than just a gender non-conforming girl.

[trans-genji]

“ sir that’s my emotional support cowboy “

someone said this meme but with bw genji so i drew it 

[charl0ttan]

dog i gotta move like yesterday

[pukicho]

Please stay

[pukicho]

Parents are giving their children names no one has ever spoken out loud before

[pukicho]

Was it Human?

[this-is-trans-joy]

Don’t care. Ryland Grace counts as a sexyman because they made him pathetic. They made him scream and cry at the slightest inconvenience. They made him sopping wet. Every other Ryan Gosling character wouldn’t count because he’s too conventionally attractive but Grace has the aroace swag that is absolutely VITAL to being a sexyman. I literally don’t give a shit you can kill me. You can kill me for this.

[mobius-m-mobius]

#i miss this (insp)

[pangur-and-grim]

my humours have balanced. I have become mentally normal again

[pangur-and-grim]

no, mentally normal people can still write spider sex books

[teaboot]

YOU

[writterings]

i was sitting with a bunch of cis people at lunch who think i’m cis and they literally had an entire conversation on how “nowadays you can’t tell who’s transgender” while i there wearing a trans pride flag t-shirt

[femonologue]

[tboy-cock]

happy pride! if you tell cis passing masculine trans men that they "look like theyd hatecrime you" you owe every cis passing masculine trans man $200

[tboy-cock]

this is literally two sentences and the first sentence only has 2 words. you should be embarrassed

[dykepuffs]

I have had 3 notably VERY WHITE people say exactly that to me over the last 2 years, all either in queer venues or at Pride (the LGBT community centre, a trans Pride event, and at a conference I was speaking at) and every time I have replied with something along the lines of "Yeah, I know, white people can't look at a Gypsy without thinking we're violent, it's a huge problem."

The way that every single one uses the exact phrasing of "look like (you/they) would hatecrime me" makes me think that there was some viral skit that has made this seem like an acceptable thing to say to trans men, rather than it being totally original and spontaneous thoughts.

[pangur-and-grim]

wait I have one more story. there's a group of anti-abortion protesters who often set up by the Ethiopian cafe I hang out in, and when I was waiting to cross one of them held up an aborted fetus sign and said "how does this make you feel?" and I said "hungry", and then I was so satisfied by my own cleverness that I missed the lights and stepped off the sidewalk into oncoming traffic

[pangur-and-grim]

send this to the person you want to have sex with, I guarantee it works

[pangur-and-grim]

actually, results pending

[fishmass]

worked for me. sounds like a skill issue ig

[pangur-and-grim]

GOD DAMN IT!!!!!!!!!!!!

[deceptivelydefective]

Does this work if you're asexual and would like your other asexual friend to date you without any sex? Or is it a sex only thing? Asking for a friend

[b-side-takes]

transmasc erasure is so stupid because it happens so often but every time you go to point it out it's just like "what, so you hate this individual person for talking about trans women??"

[this-is-multigenderphobia]

Bioessentialism will have people saying stuff like "all amabs are dangerous and violent, and all afabs are incapable of harm and pure" and gender essentialism will have people saying "all trans feminine people and trans women are incapable of harm and pure, and all trans masculine people and trans men are dangerous and violent"

And I keep seeing them used as reactions to each other. You get away from one and fall into the other.

"hey, before you interact, tell me what category of humans you think are inherently evil and disgusting and that we should exterminate to live all peacefully and safely? :)" <- this is how it sounds.

I am not joking when I say the death of nuance is the death of us.

[equalistmako]

let’s take that “one (1)” meme a step further & add emojis to the mix wouldn’t that be cool (😎)

[equalistmako]

[adamsmasher]

[silyaspider]

And now we know who invented boomer texting.

[greenbloods]

we are never going to be free until it literally doesnt matter whether a person is ugly or not

[greenbloods]

we are never going to be free until it literally doesnt matter whether a person is ugly or not

[vexatiousvic]

"no one gives a fuck whether a man is ugly" right, that's why "looksmaxxing" is a thing...

[self-mortification]

DONT use glasses, youll become dependent on them to see!!!! #WARONDRUGS #OVERPRESCRIPTION #CORRECTIVELENSADDICTION

[derinthescarletpescatarian]

I know this is a humorous exaggeration designed to show how silly it is to deny medication and mobility/quality of life aids to disabled people by applying the argument to something silly in a way that nobody would ever do but... unfortunately I have heard people say this. I've heard people suggest that people with minor sight problems shouldn't get glasses, and people needing to move to a stronger prescription should do it and should stay on as light a prescription as they can use and still function, because the glasses will "weaken their eyes" and make their eyesight worse (which is bullshit). People will pull this ableist bullshit on glasses wearers, too.

[bananonbinary]

unfortunately no matter how much you try to parody ableism, some completely genuine asshole out there already has you beat.

[theothin]

#'you wouldnt say this about wheelchairs!' yes they would.#'you wouldnt do this with a missing limb!' i promise they do#'but what about-' look just assume no matter how stupid it is that people are dicks about it

[deceptivelydefective]

Not only will people do this, I've seen my own Nana (who needs reading glasses) say this to explain why she's not wearing her reading glasses. Which then means at Christmas we have to wait a solid 10 minutes on each present or card while she attempts to decipher the handwriting without her glasses