just existing but in a hot way @eniuhhhhiguess - Tumblr Blog

Hi, I'm Eni

I'm a trans woman living in Naarm/Melbourne. I'm 26, currently speedrunning getting tattooed as fuck any%, and piercings are super fun too.

I'm a dork and love video games, ttrpgs, writing and fantasy stuff is my favourite.

DNI: TERFs, SWERFs and Minors

NSFW sideblog (WIP, will pick up after christmas) : Bit of a whore, as a treat

#Pinned post #about myself

plaguedocboi

Im weighing in on the discourse. We need to start putting sea monsters on maps again.

Embraced corporate goth tgirl culture

#eni i guess #selfie

pseudomantis

the cambrian period was like 10 years ago

toskarinarchive

the cambrarin period was like 3 years ago

magi-magi-tamamoland-chan

the cambrian period is TOMORROW!!!

storyweavingspider

The lack of dates remaining on this means that tomorrow is always the eternal Cambrian period

storyweavingspider

If you are a white person in a racialized person’s life, especially as a partner or close friend, you should go out of your way to ask regularly “hey is there anything you have been holding on to that I did?” and critically both fix it and NOT DO ANYTHING TO PUNISH THEM FOR TELLING YOU.

As a white person raised in a white supremacist society, you’re gonna fuck up sometimes. That’s just a fact. But racialized people often aren’t able/comfortable speaking up when y’all do some shit because of the power imbalance/not feeling up to educating when you may be resistant/don’t think the “fight” will be Worth It.

Show initiative without making it A Struggle or playing the white guilt card. Show you actually care about them, their struggles, and the way you interact with them BEFORE they have to have a bigger Conversation with you, beyond when they need to yell about someone else being racist.

And for fucks sake if they’re making/showing you something from their culture fucking act like you realize the importance of that, that they’re showing you shows they grew up with or making you food they made with their families, that they’re letting you in and trusting you more than other whites in their life.

mintendo96

This would honestly be life changing for me. The idea came up because I feel so incapable of telling the people in my life when they do racist shit. And like furthermore, actually respond beyond just an I'm sorry. Like for the love of god actually internalize the shit the Black and Brown folks say to you.

mintendo96

I'm seeing a lot of tags from white people saying something along the lines of please tell me if I fuck up and like that really goes against the point of the post. Racialized people have to swallow so much racism on a daily basis and it's impossible to tell who is safe to confront.

Even close friends or partners are not necessarily safe. I have had partners dismiss accusations of racism just off hand, I have had partners treat me like a repository for knowledge on Muslim cultural practices despite the fact that *my family has been Christian since Jesus,* hell I have had a partner say I was overplaying my pain at the genocide to get sympathy.

Racialized people are constantly waiting for the other shoe to job. Constantly waiting for their "antiracist" white friend to decide they have learned all they need to. We need you to ask. We need you to care enough to be proactive literally at all. Stop asking us to trust you without doing any fucking work to prove you are trustworthy.

storyweavingspider

To emphasize

IF YOU ARE WHITE YOU HAVE TO TAKE THE FIRST STEP OR YOU ARE JUST PUTTING MORE LABOR AND DANGER ON YOUR RACIALIZED FRIENDS FOR YOUR FUCKING COMFORT

Fucking reblog this each time you see it so that it gets drilled into other whites heads

senatortedcruz

Didn't you retweet incest porn on 9/11?

we all mourn in different ways

jessaerys

Me and my beautiful spouse

#eni i guess #selfie #gif #trans

officeshelpdesk

由于中国世纪已经到来，我现在只会用（可能写得不太好的）简化汉语来发帖。

officeshelpdesk

有一天，我们都会回首往事，大笑起来，不过，我们会以一种明显的中国方式大笑。

officeshelpdesk

当有人谋杀“South African Pedophile Hitler”时，我会回去用英语发帖

discord-the-app-offical

No clue what you’re saying but right on brother

images-that-are-only-cursed

Cursed school presentations? Thank you!

I hate presentations 😂but who doesn’t?

images-that-are-only-cursed

blu3-skyy

w0wls

That shrek one is threatening

chuck-e-cheese-anime-faces

How’d y'all leave out this one?

peter-my-parkers

isspeeedyy

orchidvioletindigo

Brothers in arms

tehwitch

@hollowb00tijelly SHREK

junglejim4322

90% of age gaps don’t matter when you’re a grown adult as long as you don’t have a repeated pattern of dating people barely legal. I would date someone 30 years older than me if I liked them who gaf

junglejim4322

This entire conversation is somehow 90% people infantilizing themselves and 10% actually people talking about the issue of men who never grow out of dating 18/19 year olds. No it is not a big deal when a 25 year old dates a 35 year old please get a grip

junglejim4322

Honestly if you’re in your mid twenties infantilizing yourself on this level maybe you shouldn’t be dating anyone

#my stepdad gave me a weird look when he found out my SPOUSE who i MARRIED is 33 #im a 27 year old woman who has lived on her own for 10 years #it infuriated me so much since i knew my younger brother dated a 35 year old when he was 23 and my step dad DIDNT SAY SHIT #its an absurd double standard

simplyghosting

Me, pointing to the mirror: Do NOT become The Joker about this. This isn’t even a Condiment Man situation.

energyprison

new enemy i came up with called the "false mimic" this is just some guy that hides in chests and bobs the lid up and down like a mimic breathing. he has 1 hp and if you smack the chest he starts begging for his life snot and tears running down his face