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alt blog, enjoyyy. where the discourse goes.

[phosphorusab]

So did anyone else see that one white trans woman on TikTok tell the trans guy from Seattle who got his teeth knocked out by a cis guy that it was his fault, because he didn’t understand a ‘male social cue’?

Was it just me? Because she’s being transmisogynistic to any trans woman that calls her out

With community like that, who needs enemies

[cannibal-rainbow]

Not shaving and not wearing make up are literally nonbehaviors. They’re a complete lack of action. But doing nothing is considered masculine because women are not allowed to just be. this goes double for trans women.

[cannibal-rainbow]

reblog this version because transmisogynists don’t know how to fuck off.

[riv3rboychaos]

even if we assume that trans women are targeted more than trans men (they are not), how fucking wrong do you have to be to go "i wish republicans would target trans men more" in response to that instead of, oh i dont know, wishing that people would just stop being transphobic to anyone ?? like wtf??

[riv3rboychaos]

"can you stop reblogging posts from people who care about trans men's rights" i- do you not see the problem with what youre saying?? do you just not realise how fucking stupid you sound??

[bats4brainsss]

Like I’m sorry but you cannot genuinely look at posts like this being so comfortably directed at us, much of the time without consequence, along with all of the real world things that are done to us, and then look me in the eye and tell me transandrophobia isn’t real. Shut up.

[love-ardour-anarchism]

The whole TMA/TME discourse is so nonsensical to me because do you think that bigots will ask me if I'm "transfeminized" before being horrible to me because I disturb their precious cisheteronormative ideas of what men and women are supposed to look like?

I grew up thinking I was supposed to be a boy, I've been on estrogen for over half a decade and since embracing my butchness wholeheartedly I've comfortably settled into a spot where people on the street stare at me in disgust because no matter what I'm either a fat hairy dyke or a faggot with massive tits.

The idea of a binary of "affected by transmisogyny" and "exempt from transmisogyny" has some pretty big fallacies, one of them being that bigots whose hatred is based on a knee-jerk reaction of sheer revulsion do not care what I identify as or what gender I was assigned at birth.

They care that I obviously exist somewhere outside of their normative ideas and YES, that means I experience transmisogyny (which I'd define as hatred of counter-normative femininity) but ALSO transandrophobia (which I'd define as hatred of counter-normative masculinity).

[kayla-denker]

The issue of trans women being sent to men's prisons isn't brought up as being a monstrous thing because of the misgendering, it's monstrous because we're sent there to be legally sex trafficked.

That's what V-coding is. That is why they are so adamant about sending trans women to men's prisons, because sex trafficking trans women within the men's prison system is an essential part of that system. Being misgendered by this isn't even an issue that's on our radar!

[riv3rboychaos]

"the easiest way to tell if something a trans man says about his experience as a trans man is something they should say is to remove the trans part of trans man" do they not realise how stupid that sounds

[angrychicagoan24]

i’m gonna be real the people who complain about transandrophobia and transmisandry and stuff not being good terms because they imply this or that are just like the people who would say homophobia is a bad term because they’re not afraid of gay people

[transand]

a vicious cycle

[centipede-rain]

Important tags from @thetowerandthewheel

All trans people suffer in unique ways in a transphobic society. Why are so many people forgetting this. :/

[testosteroneterrorist]

you guys realize radical feminism is bad because of the gender essentialism, right?

its not just that when they say hateful things towards “men” they also mean trans women? you cant just say the same shit as them but change whos included in the “men” and “women” catagories. thats still the same gender essentialism. just like, wokely.

[sapphoslilhelper]

I gotta address this misconception now that I've seen it twice. Y'ALL -

Transmasculine people have BEEN writing feminist theory centering the trans experience - Judith Butler, Jack Halberstam, José Esteban Muñoz (edit - incredible theorist, not transmasc sorry!!! more transmasc theorists in reblogs), Toby Beauchamp, Hil Malatino, Abram J. Lewis, Christopher Lee...

Do not believe anyone who tells you transmasculine people aren't speaking about our experiences, aren't theorizing, aren't publishing theory.

Do not be complicit in our erasure.

[nonbinary-wrath-month]

The reason why so many of y'all's feminism sucks is because you still believe deep down in your hearts that there are only two kinds of people in the world: precious, ethereal, fragile dollthings called "women", and violent, lustful, rage-fueled apes called "men". Until you throw that idea away, 3rd-grade-tier "girls rule boys drool, girls are princesses and boys are stinky :(" is as feminist as we'll ever get-- and I hope it's obvious that that's lightyears away from the bare minimum of where we need to be.

[nonbinary-wrath-month]

I don't know how I'm supposed to explain to ostensibly trans-friendly feminists that "women are beautiful soft things made of glass, men are obsessed with violence and sex" is exactly what the patriarchy wants you to believe. Patriarchy wants you to believe that being a woman and/or having a vagina (patriarchy generally believes those two things are synonymous) makes one shatter on impact with reality. It makes you easier to control if you are scared shitless of the other half of the population, and it makes you more compliant with your lot in life if you believe it is in the nature of the other half of the population to rape and kill rather than realise those were choices those individual rapists and murderers made. There is no way to make gender essentialism progressive and feminist, because it is one of patriarchy's tools of subjugation. Stop trying to make it progressive.

And I can scream all of that from the rooftops over and over again, and what I hear in reply is "Trans men really are men because no woman would ever decide to become an inherently evil repugnant rapist ape", and "You're so right. Trans women are women because they too are pretty delicate little objects I can fuck", and "You're non-binary? So are you fucktoy non-binary or sexpest non-binary?", and my patience runs ever thinner.

[perverted-asexual]

Every day tumblr users get closer and closer to saying you can only be trans in a god honouring way.

Edit: my problem is with the comparison and trying to rate people's transness and who's more transgressive. If you attempt to turn this into a trans guys vs trans girls post you are missing the point.

[yaoigaysexaura]

there's something so fucking sinister about a post comparing trans men to predators alike transphobic people as if we're not being trafficked and murdered and raped everyday while having those experiences erased getting a whole 3.5k notes. and this was written by a trans guy too! how can you be so unkind?

[uncle-fruity]

I actually hate it when people make a post about a trans experience and then get pissy when the trans people they weren't talking to/about relate to it. To sarcastically paraphrase: "This post isn't for trans men! I get that you all are relating to it in the comments and want to make your voices heard, but it's SOOOOOOOO important to me that we only talk about the trans people I want to talk about! Yes, it's an issue that affects all of us, and No, I didn't mention that I wanted this post to be exclusive to the people I'm talking about in the original post, but stop vocally relating to this post because it isn't about you! You're the bad guy for making this about yourself and my inherent exclusion of you from this conversation is Good and Moral, actually."

I get that you all want a special conversation that centers only people like yourself, but if you don't want other people to relate to it vocally, it actually is your job to say so up front and to not be a fucking asswipe to people who just want to contribute their experiences to a conversation that SHOULD include them but WON'T include them because you fuckos are obsessed with separatism.

And, to be clear, I am not against a post that is meant to center the voices of people with a specific identity, but I *do* think you become an asshole when you don't communicate that and then get mad & act like it's other people's fault for your inability to communicate.

Like, imagine getting mad at other trans people for relating to your issues and then pissing all over any solidarity you might have been able to find with them. I am so sick of everyone acting like oppression is a fucking exclusive club and not something we're all in together! If you make a post about trans oppression and other trans people relate to it that is a good chance to build connection & understanding -- but apparently the RIGHT trans people aren't relating to it enough for some people so they have to be a massive jerk instead.

Idk, y'all. It really sucks to be in community with people who are acting like dogs fighting over scraps. It sucks to be around people who constantly lash out at their fellow trans people instead of making any effort to be inclusive and welcoming. I hate your queer tribalism and I'm sick of separatism and I'm especially fucking sick of feeling like my goddamn oppression is treated like it's part of a competition against people who should care & relate & show support. You don't want certain trans people to relate to a post that they relate to, but what does that accomplish besides silencing trans people you want to exclude? Fuck that.

[hello-im-dog]

Patricia Taxxon and Hbomberguy

Patricia Taxxon was previously friends with and collaborated with HBomberguy, a popular Youtuber known for his extensive video essays. Some of his most well known videos include ROBLOX_OOF.mp3 and Plagiarism and You(Tube). Patricia composed the music for his videos covering Ctrl+Alt+Del and RWBY.

They eventually stopped speaking to each other, which in itself is not unusual.

However, before being banned from Tumblr, Patricia made a number of posts speaking negatively about HBomb, stating that he was a bad friend and underpaid her.

She also publicly defended James Somerton, the primary subject of the plagiarism video. Somerton was a video essayist who focused on queer media and plagiarized the work of numerous queer authors while making tens of thousands of dollars through Youtube ad revenue, Patreon, and IndieGoGo scams.

On May 14, 2026, HBomberguy made a post on Bluesky that he deleted shortly afterward. He did not mention Patricia by name in the post.

context of Patricia's post:

Patricia's response:

A reddit thread was created, and in the comments Patricia received a considerable amount of pushback.

Hbomb's producer commented on the Reddit thread and asked the mods to take it down.

The thread gained quite a bit of traction.

Patrica then posted the screenshot of what Hbomb had said and continued to talk about the situation on Bluesky.

She received even more pushback.

She then said that she was planning to make a post on her 2nd youtube channel. She deleted the post and then called Hbomb an abuser.

As of May 22nd 2026, Patricia has deactivated her Bluesky.

It needs to be emphasized, while Hbomb was irresponsible in making the initial vague post, he did not mention her by name and quickly deleted it. Patricia, however, continued bringing up the situation herself, which drew further negative attention toward her.

Despite this, some people claim HBomb pedojacketed her.

When it comes to HBomberguy allegedly underpaying Patricia when she was 18 and unsure how to price her commissions, that was definitely wrong. At the same time, I feel the issue would have been better handled privately once Patricia had a better understanding of the value of her work, rather than being discussed publicly after their friendship had ended.

[tofire]

They rly have the gall to call harrier "raised $340,000 in a 57 hour marathon live stream for a trans charity" bomberguy transphobic. Bro was here day 1 when the internet was way more bigoted than today be fr