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I think what gets me about "Society wants trans women dead, and trans men to detransition" is that there's this...potential implication that is very infantilizing to trans men and our struggles.
Many people have pointed out how this idea poses being detransitioned back into being a cis woman as a privilege, or a less cruel fate.
But here's what I think those who believe detrans is better than death are missing, and also what they are implying.
They are missing/ignoring the countless trans men who would fight tooth and nail to remain as trans men. The ones who would refuse to go down without a fight. Who would rather be killed than made into someone's pregnant and barefoot trophy wife. And subsequently the consequences of doing that.
And then the implication is that detransitioning, for trans men, is either "not that bad" or...trans men would just comply. We would be told "You aren't a man, you're a woman, now lay down and get pregnant" and just...accept that? That we are somehow so malleable, so placid, that if enough people told us to stop being men, we just...would?
Like this is just some big game of pretend we're playing, rather than some major part of our identities?
Y'all know what I mean? "Society JUST wants trans men to detransition" as though us trans guys would just huff and sigh begrudgingly as we are institutionalized, forcefully wedded, and so on? That it's some mild inconvenience to be removed of our autonomy, and forced into something we aren't?
That we would just go along with it, while our trans sisters are murdered in the streets??
Like, are you fucking serious?
Again, anyone else getting this vibe from these people who really downplay this shit? "JUST detransition" like "JUST put on your dress so we can go to Church already!!" as though we're a bunch of fussy children who are throwing tantrums over silly things? It's so fucking gross, and while I would hope that's not what these people mean, I think many of us have also seen how eager these people are to infantilize trans men and transmascs.
Your Antisemitism Is Probably From Medieval Christianity
A huge amount of modern antisemitism did not appear out of nowhere. Many of the ideas people repeat today, even in "secular" or atheist spaces, are just recycled versions of medieval Christian anti-Jewish beliefs.
"Jews kill children" / "Jews thirst for blood" / "Israelis harvest organs." This is the modern descendant of the blood libel, the medieval Christian accusation that Jews murdered Christian children for ritual purposes, especially around Passover. Modern versions include imagery of Jews or Israelis drinking blood, killing children for pleasure, or harvesting organs. USHMM: Blood Libel
"Jews think they are superior because they are the ‘chosen people.’" This distorts the Jewish concept of chosenness, which traditionally concerns covenant, obligation, and responsibility, not racial or moral superiority. Christian anti-Jewish polemics historically portrayed Jews as arrogant or spiritually obstinate for maintaining their covenant and rejecting Christianity. The modern "Jewish supremacy" version grows out of that older framework. My Jewish Learning: Chosen People USHMM: Antisemitism
"The Jews killed Jesus." This is the classic deicide charge. For centuries, Jews were collectively blamed for the crucifixion of Jesus, even though he was executed by Roman authorities. This accusation helped justify persecution throughout Christian Europe. USHMM: Antisemitism
"Jews are greedy / Jews love money / Jews control finance." Medieval Christian restrictions excluded Jews from many professions while pushing some into moneylending and commerce. Jews were then demonized for participating in the very economic roles they had been restricted to. This is the ancestor of modern "Jewish bankers," "Rothschild control," and "Jews run Wall Street" conspiracies. USHMM: Antisemitism in the Early Modern Era
"Jews secretly control governments, media, banks, or the world." Medieval Christian societies frequently portrayed Jews as an alien and conspiratorial group acting against Christian society. Later secular conspiracy theories kept the same structure while replacing religious language with political language. USHMM: Antisemitism
"Jews are disloyal to the countries they live in." Jews were historically treated as permanent outsiders in Christian Europe. This evolved into the modern dual loyalty trope: the belief that Jews are secretly more loyal to other Jews, Israel, or a supposed global Jewish agenda than to their own countries. ADL: Online Antisemitism Report Card
"Jews spread disease, poison people, or contaminate society." During the Black Death, Jews were accused of poisoning wells and deliberately causing disease. Modern conspiracy theories about Jews spreading pandemics, controlling pharmaceutical companies, or deliberately corrupting society use the same basic structure. USHMM: Blood Libel
"Jews harm or corrupt children." This overlaps heavily with blood libel. Medieval Jews were accused of kidnapping, torturing, and murdering Christian children. Modern claims that Jews deliberately corrupt, mutilate, sexualize, or indoctrinate children recycle that same imagery. ADL: Antisemitism and Conspiratorial Beliefs
"Jews are demonic, satanic, or uniquely evil." Medieval Christian art and literature often directly associated Jews with the devil. Modern descriptions of Jews or "Zionists" as inherently monstrous, demonic, or metaphysically evil descend from this tradition even when the speaker is secular. USHMM: Antisemitism
"Jews deserve exile because they rejected God." A longstanding Christian theological idea held that Jewish exile was divine punishment for rejecting Christianity. This contributed to the belief that Jews were supposed to remain stateless and subordinate. Modern hostility to the idea of Jewish return or Jewish self-determination can sometimes reproduce this older supersessionist structure. USHMM: Antisemitism From the Early Church to 1400
"Jews fabricate persecution for sympathy, money, or power." Modern claims that Jews invent antisemitism, exaggerate persecution, fabricated the Holocaust, or use accusations of antisemitism solely for political advantage build on older stereotypes portraying Jews as inherently dishonest and manipulative. USHMM: Antisemitism
The point: a society can become less religious without automatically shedding the prejudices that were created inside a religious culture. Many modern antisemitic claims are secularized versions of much older Christian accusations against Jews.
Being atheist does not make someone immune to repeating Christian antisemitism. Sometimes the theology disappears, but the trope survives.
Zionism IS antisemitism
Israel IS antisemitic
Black IS white.
War IS peace.
Freedom IS slavery.
Ignorance IS strength.
Some of you useful idiots need to recognize that you're being used.
Unless, of course, you are just antisemites pretending not to be, then go fill your pockets with sunflower seeds.
Used by whom?
There are two groups right now known to use social media specifically with antisemitism for their ends. One is Russia, the other is the IRGC. Both are working together (note all the Iranian drones Russia is using in Ukraine) in general, both have specific goals.
Russia wants a return to Russian imperialism (which never stopped during the USSR, just the langauge), and to defeat their biggest enemy on the world stage, the USA.
Now, Russia is busy shitting itself to death thanks to Ukraine. Putin knows the second he admits defeat in Ukraine, he will, like many other Russian oligarchs, learn how gravity is a harsh mistress. Any sane leader whose intent was conquest would have backed out by 2023. Sanity cannot be found on the Russian side of the attempt to conquer and commit genocide in Ukraine. Russia also loves to DARVO.
Iran, meanwhile, finds itself in the smaller proxy war in the Middle East. There are three main powers in the Middle East. Iran, Saudi Arabia, and Israel. The IRGC has set itself up primarily as opposition to Israel. It has funded (along with Qatar) several proxy groups to fight Israel and Saudi Arabia: Hezbollah, Hamas, and the Houthis. Two of these are Shiite groups, Hamas was a more practical 'they oppose Israel' group. Hamas actually gave the IRGC certain advice, by, again, engaging in DARVO. Among other things, by entering leftwing spaces and using leftwing language to repaint the situation. Jews are the indigenous people of Israel. Arabs are there by conquest. This is also why, for example, you will find Arabs ruling much of Northern Africa, instead of the indigenous peoples, such as the Amazigh. (As a digression, many of the indigenous peoples of North Africa had been displaced or assimilated already by Carthage and Rome, but that's a separate issue.) Iran helped Assad commit multiple genocides against native Syrian peoples in the 2010s, many of whom sought refuge, and were given it, by Israel.
Iran seeks the destruction of Israel. Like Hamas and the PLO, they agree that Israel belongs to Islam by right of conquest.
Meanwhile, Israel started from a group of Jews that had bought land at huge markups in Israel, agreed to a partition plan (which the Arabs refused because they couldn't accept the existence of Israel), declared independence when the UK wussed out, were immediately attacked by 5 arab nations who they defeated. Arabs living in the area who did not flee, they became Israeli citizens. There are Arab Muslims in the IDF, in the Knesset, serving as judges. That said, most of Israel's population comes from Jews who were living in Arab majority countries who were blamed for Israel existing, as if they did a damned thing. In 1948 there were 851,000 Jews living in Algeria, Egypt, Iraq, Libya, Morocco, Syria, Tunisia, Yemen. Now, if we include the UAE, which didn't exist at the time, we have under 4000 Jews living in those countries. They were subjected to repeated pogroms in the 20th century as rulers blamed their failures (the actual nakba, that 5 nations couldn't defeat a newly formed one) on their own Jewish communities, who then fled to the one place Jews were safe: Israel.
WW2 and shortly after showed Jews were not safe anywhere. Not in Europe, who refused to take in Jewish refugees until they started being slaughtered. Not in the USA, which did the same. Not in the USSR, which started oppressing its Jews because Israel existed. So forming a country in their homeland as a safe haven for Jews was really the only choice. Assimilation didn't work. Coexistence didn't work. So rebuilding their homeland was the only option.
Now, obviously, not every Jew went to Israel. But a real fact is this: there are more Arab Muslims living in Israel than there are Jews living in every country except for Israel and the USA.
Now, as a note: only the Jews get to define Zionism. And while there are many branches of it, some of which most people (including most Zionists) find abhorrent, they are typically a small minority. Zionism, at it's core, is this: Israel is the ancestral homeland of the Jews, and they have a right to live there, defended from those who would harm them.
Israel is the most successful landback ever.
And Russia and the IRGC still can't stand it. Ironically, most Iranians feel kinship with Israelis.
Israel is a settler colony that has no right to exist
Oh man, you're using a Homelander reaction image. Like you know you're in the wrong.
Israel is landback. Palestinian Arabs are the settlers. You are regurgitating someone else's DARVO.
Like, if it's a colony, who is it a colony OF? A colony has a motherland, who set up this colony?
Israel was created by the imperial core and was formed in an ethnic cleanse. If you truly want to end the genocide of marginalized peoples, you wouldn’t be supporting them.
I think Israel should be abolished because I am opposed to white nationalism, genocide, rape, murder, pedophilia, forced famines, imperialism, forced sterilization, capitalism, Nazism, and mass surveillance.
Jews have the right to live in Palestine. I am not opposed to that. But this doesn’t excuse the mass murder of middle eastern people. Forcefully displacing an entire population by means of unrelenting violence is abhorrent in every meaning of the word.
My original point is that all ethnostates are bad, regardless of who created them. If Zionism is meant to provide safety to the Jews, then it is hypocritical in its entirety.
Zionism, fundamentally, is the belief that certain ethnic groups are more important than others. In other words, racist nationalism. If you really didn’t like Nazi Germany, then you would hate Israel.
We are all human.
Imperial Core... You are truly propagandized. Nobody in "the Imperial Core" actually wanted Israel to form. They were all antisemites, like your dumb ass.
Fuck off, Nazi.
A - Imperialism exists, and very much had its hand in the creation of Israel.
B - I am not antisemitic, and the original post was against antisemitism.
C - Fuck off, Nazi.
A: It exists. What imperialism was involved in the creation of Israel was opposed.
B: You are. You are just in denial.
C: You're the one parroting the positions of people who teach their kids from Mein Kampf. Nazi.
Genuinely asking, what could you possibly have interpreted as fascist or antisemetic about my previous statements?
I’m an anarcho-communist and I have some fairly recent Jewish ancestry, although I am an atheist/satanist myself.
So, the claim that zionism is antisemitic is, at best, you not knowing shit about what zionism is. Zionism is landback. Zionism is not settler colonialism. Settler colonialism would be why Arabs are living outside of the Arabian peninsula. That would be why Arabic is the primary language and ethnicity of 23 countries. That would be why Iranian is written in Arabic script rather than the scripts it had beforehand (which, to be fair, were also borrowed). That would be why the Amazigh people are 2nd class citizens in their ancestral lands.
Arabs aren't the first people to do that, nor the last, but they do seem to get overlooked in this because a bunch of people view them as noble savages
The claim that Israel is antisemitic is just farcical. Maybe you think it's antisemitic because Arabs are a 'semitic' people. You are ignoring the origin of the term antisemitism. Back in the 18th century in Germany, it was just called Judenhass, or Jew Hate. Someone who wanted his hatred to sound more scientific called it 'antisemitism', based on the idea that there were three main types of peoples: those of Ham, Shem, and Japheth, and Jews were, of course, of Shem's people. Thus, Semites. See? Scientific racism.
While there are semitic languages, the idea of a 'semitic people' is largely discounted in modern anthropology and ethnology.
Your arguments are based, again, on the nonsense found in Mein Kampf, only repackages to be more palatable to a leftist point of view. The Jews aren't filthy Palestinians who should go back to Palestine (common view in the early 20th century), but they're now horrible European Colonists stealing from the uwu smol bean Arabs. Who had been oppressing the Jews among them almost as much as the Europeans (and in many specific instances, worse). Hamas and the PA (and the PLO before it) hold to the idea that Israel was conquered by Muslims, and so it should be theirs forever. Not every Muslim holds this view. But viewed in this light, every attack on Israel (each of which was repulsed, they only ever took land in defensive wars, they tried to GIVE BACK Gaza and the West Bank, but Egypt and Jordan refused) is Arab Muslim Imperialism.
Also, the idea of the Imperial Core is literal Soviet propaganda, from the country that continued Russian Imperialism only now we're pretending we're doing it for good Communist reasons, and then after its collapse, look, Russia's invading Ukraine for what are clearly imperialist reasons.
Israel had no backing from any 'Imperial Core', actually acting in opposition to it (they declared independence from the UK), and in fact it wasn't until the 70s that the USA started actually allying with it.
Most of the more hard right-wing in Israel come from Jews whose parents were kicked out of Arabic Settler Colonial states when they blamed these people, who had nothing to do with the foundation of Israel, for Israel forming and kicking all their asses in a defensive war.
To be honest, I feel like you’re taking Hitler’s talking points and repackaging them to discredit the Arabs. I don’t think any group of people is inherently worse than another. I am simply recognizing the actions Israel has taken in their occupation of Palestine.
I dare you to go to a starving Gazan and tell them that their people are invaders. I dare you to go to a mother whose child was killed and tell her that her people are colonizers.
My point, as always, is that genocide is wrong.
You seem to get mad about that.
I mean, I'm not. I'm taking your talking points and showing how they apply to the Arabs, not the Jews. You're the one talking about settler colonialism. I think that the Palestinian Arabs should get their own state (or states) that aren't run by genocidal assholes. You are not 'recognizing the actions Israel has taken', you are spouting the propaganda of genocidal assholes.
I'm mad that you are accusing people of genocide who have been subjected to it for millennia, and who aren't doing it now. I am mad that you are misrepresenting things to shit on people who don't deserve it. I am mad that you either don't know what genocide is, or what the facts on the ground actually are, because with the definition of genocide, and the facts on the ground, Israel isn't committing genocide. But Hamas did commit a genocidal act on October 7th.
I'm mad that you're at best a useful idiot for genocidal assholes who intentionally put their own people in danger so they can blame Israel for their own war crimes. Putting military targets in among civilians is a war crime. Israel's response has been designed to try and get the civilians to leave the targets. And in urban warfare, an under 1:2 ratio of combatants to civilians killed is actually much better than pretty much anyone else achieves.
Gazans don't have missiles fired randomly from Israel in an attempt at maximum civilian damage. Israel has had that from Gaza, South Lebanon, Yemen, and Iran. Jews are not allowed to own property in Gaza. Palestinians own a lot of property in Israel, and hell, there are Palestinian Arabs in Likud, aka the political party that would like to annex the West Bank and Gaza.
Your claims are wrong, your basic facts are wrong. Be better.
wow the way op takes literally everything and then tries to darvo like
Listen.
EVERYBODY knows (or should) that you DO. NOT. STOP. in Vidor, Texas.
It’s best to just run out of gas elsewhere. Whatever you do, black folks, DO NOT STOP IN VIDOR, TEXAS.
There’s a good chance you’ll get lynched or just come up missing - and I’m not joking.
also do NOT stop in Harrison, Arkansas!!!! (relatively close to OK and MI) a nazi town with a BIG KKK organization.
Reblog To Save Life
Okay but like reblog to LITERALLY SAVE SOMEONE’S LIFE
Please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please puHLEAAASSEEEEEEE BE SAFE
They are called sundown towns and there are a LOT of them in the US.
https://sundown.tougaloo.edu/sundowntowns.php
This website has a clickable map where you can see suspected and confirmed sundown towns by state, as well as information about whether these attitudes are historical or current.
The homepage of Dr. James W. Loewen, author of Lies My Teacher Told Me, Lies Across America, and Sundown Towns.
Reblog for the link
reblog for the link
REBLOG FOR THE LINK
Please stay safe
REBLOG IT DOESNT MATTER WHAT BLOG YOU ARE THIS IS GONNA SAVE SOMEONE
I am poc too and i am scared for my LIFE when i go to the south. please stay safe.
I am not poc but I know this could save someone’s life. Please reblog and spread the message.
My obligatory addition to this every time it crosses my dash, because I know the link is definitely missing ones in my own (northern) state and there are some in this thread not on the above link either - thread by LeVar Burton with a LOT of replies from people naming the sundown towns near them:
https://twitter.com/levarburton/status/1300918792143339520
Just in case someone is traveling, please be careful
AUTO REBLOG
On this weeks episode of why America is terrifying.
im not american but god this is terrifying
REBLOG REBLOG REBLOG THIS IS HORRIFYING
This is fucking terrifying stay safe y'all :(
Heres Arizona’s , by the way
As someone that lives in Beaumont right next to Vidor DO NOT STOP HERE EITHER!!! Or literally ANY of the surrounding cities. You have a better chance in New Orleans and Lafayette than here. 
actually I think you should be normal about ordinary citizens of authoritarian countries and yes that applies even to that country you're thinking of right now
"but they support [dictator] and [violent action]!" okay is it possible that a combination of propaganda, election rigging, and authoritarian crackdowns on dissent could lead a population to look like it supports something most people would find distasteful under more reasonable circumstances
you're not an horrible person you are 15 years old
"you can be 15 years old and also a terrible person" teenagers do stupid shit all the time, adults do stupid shit all the time, what matters is that you learn about that and that you don't let that define you. you are figuring out yourself and you never really stop doing that.
this is a thing i saw on tiktok and it's been bothering me forever and ever. okay yeah you took bad decisions/hurted people/etc. but that doesn't mean that you're destinated to hurt people or to be a bad person forever and ever. perhaps at the moment you thought what you were doing was good. perhaps you were trying to protect yourself. perhaps you just didn't know any better. perhaps you thought that it wouldn't be that bad. whatever thing you've might've done on the past doesn't define you in any sort of way. you are a human being and you will do a lot of mistakes until you die. putting yourself down won't help on anything. others putting you down doesn't mean anything. don't let your mistakes be something that defines you, but let them be a reminder that you're still here and that you can grow as a person.
if this breaches containment I'll be genuinely happy. be kinder to yourselfs. life is about growing and learning, not about punishing and denying.
It might be an unpopular view but I don't want Aziraphale and Crowley's relationship to have been part of the ineffable plan. I don't want their love for each other to have been just another chess piece on God's board, destined, since their creation to fall in love. They deserve better than that.
If anything, I want their love to be in spite of the plan. For, just like their sense of right and wrong, their emotional growth together to be hard fought and all their own. I love the idea that it flies in the face of what is expected from an angel and a demon.
I don't want them to love each other because they are supposed to. That would be so diminutive. I want Aziraphale to love Crowley because he's Crowley and Crowley to love Aziraphale because he's Aziraphale. Divine plans and prophecies be damned. Being part of the ineffable plan would erase the agency and beauty from it. Their love is theirs.
war’s description in the book is so consistently ridiculous that i have to laugh
“She licked a spatter of blood—someone else’s—from the back of her hand with a scarlet, cat-like tongue. Then she smiled. And she walked out of the bar, her heels clicking on the tiles.”
like is that. is that what straight men find sexy. there’s some other line in the same scene about how she’s wearing silken hose, and really, it must be that i’d blissfully forgotten what weird standards of attractiveness cishet men tend to have for women, but ohhh my god. war could’ve been so fucking cool. why did she have to be sexy at all?? so many other directions that could’ve gone. and why was war the one woman? i have so many questions and none of them have good answers
Once again John Oliver proves that you can do anything with money and lawyers
Oliver then proceeded to detail how with $50 and knowledge of the law he was able to successfully apply online to create a debt buying company named “Central Asset Recovery Professionals,” or as Oliver put it, “CARP” named after “a bottom-feeding fish.”
After setting up a rudimentary website for CARP, the satirical, but still real company was offered a $15 million package of medical debt for $60,000.
Oliver explained that the debt was out of statute, which means it is the kind of debt that a collector can only continue to collect, but not sue the debtor for.
Then, instead of chasing down the 9,000 debtors in the debt package as a normal collection agency would, Oliver decided to stage the largest one-time giveaway in television history and work with the nonprofit RIP Medical Debt to forgive the $15 million with no consequences for the debtors.
Okay but now I know what I want to do of I get rich?
You dont have to be rich to do a bit of this actually
RIP Medical Debt is a charity (and therefore takes donations). They buy the rights to medical debt and then forgive them. So far they’ve forgiven over 1B in medical debt.
So a little ray of hope for someone out there today.
Donating $10 buys $1,000 of medical debt. This is real, it works, and we’ve done it ourselves. You can too.
As of June 29, 2024, the charity is still active under a new name, Undue Medical Debt
Signal Boost!!!
If you’re Catholic this is a great thing to do for the Jubilee year by the way. Forgive debts and set captives free!
Now renamed as Undue Medical Debt:
Undue Medical Debt makes it easy for donors to make an impactful difference in the lives of those struggling with medical debt.
I got a letter recently letting me know that a $3k medical bill from an emergency room visit in 2018 had been purchased by Undue Medical Debt and destroyed. Gone forever. They were very clear that I didn’t have to do anything, but they would appreciate it if I would talk to people about it to spread the word about what they were doing. Fucking phenomenal.
I got $2k erased last year!
The Rules of Anti-Transmasculinity
1. Your body is not your own.
1a. Your body is a site for other’s desires.
If they want you to be beautiful, it is cruel of you to deny them that. If they want you to be feminine, it is cruel of you to deny them that. If they think you should reproduce, it is cruel of you to divest yourself of reproductive duties.
1b. Your body is owned by the state.
Reproductive laws that can affect cis women also affect you, but you cannot weigh in on them, because you are not a woman.
Anti-trans laws affect you, but you must not bring this up; you are never the “real” target, even when you are, because you are not “really” trans.
When the legislation talks about “protecting” your fertility, you should feel lucky to be safeguarded from yourself.
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2. Your experiences are not your own.
Your childhood does not exist. You cannot claim girlhood if you are a man, and you cannot claim boyhood if you did not grow up within it, and no other visions of childhood may exist. Your history, however you define it, is fundamentally incompatible with who you are.
Forms of sexism which are aimed at women, by a binary logic, cannot be aimed at men or mascs. If your experiences contradict this, either you are invalidating your identity, or you are appropriating womanhood.
It is your duty to blithely dissociate yourself from any trauma patriarchy may have inflicted on you. Men cannot be affected by these things even if it happens to them personally. A “real” man must be stoic and uncaring.
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3. You are a “default” body.
You are to be assumed affluent, perisex, binary, and passing, with no legal or situational barriers to medical or social transition, and no reproductive concerns to speak of — unless your nonconformity can be used to dismiss you.
You are assumed to be able-bodied, sane of mind, white, and thin — unless your mental health or appearance is good for mockery.
You are to be treated as essentially cismasculine. Being treated as if you are cis is a compliment, even when it is erasing your lived experiences, and even if it is known and true that transfems have their own unique struggles from cis women too.
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4. You are an “aberrant” body.
4a. Your body is a site of fascination. You (are presumed to) have a gestative capacity, and a fun extra hole. These traits are relevant when others assess your attractiveness and their kinks. They are not relevant in the context of your health. You’re a submissive little bottom, right?
(Your body is something to conquer and claim. This may be done to emphasize your femininity, deny your androgyny, or defang your masculinity.)
4b. Your body is a site of disgust. Any steps you may take to masculinize yourself are “ruining” your “female” features, regardless of any joy you personally take from the changes, and regardless of if you engage with medical transition or not.
(You are killing the woman you are supposed to be. Stand trial.)
4c. Your body is too unattractive to be sexually violenced. It doesn’t happen. When it does, you have anatomical privilege, because you are (presumed to be) in possession of a vulva, and victims with those are of course always believed. But it doesn’t happen, because you are essentially a cis man, and of course men don't get raped.
(It is not possible to be targeted for this violence because you are transmasculine. It is always misaimed violence, intended for someone else. Apologize to her for taking up her space.)
4d. Your body is a proxy for other’s ideas about activism. Womanhood is good, and manhood is bad, and things in-between are uncomfortable and hard to classify; therefore, a detransition back to cisfemininity would be a preferable state of being, wouldn’t it?
(Your transition is at odds with good feminism.)
4e. Your body is a joke. Men don’t menstruate. Men don’t gestate. Men don’t lactate. Men can't have breasts. If the suggestion sends people into hysterics, you must take it lying down.
(Remember; comedy is subversion, and you are an “abberant” body.)
4f. Your body is a hypothetical and not a lived reality. If men could menstruate or gestate, that would fix patriarchy. It would not result in men being denied at the door of the gynecology office, surely.
(To entertain your existence is a rhetorical inconvenience.)
4g. Your body is a source of put-down. You are a cunt, a pussy, a fembrained bitchmoid — and it isn’t sexist to refer to you as such, because you are a man. Your disinclination to be reduced to bioessentialist biogotry is simply proof that your masculinity is fragile. It is not proper for you to object to it, even when it is the same rhetoric spewed by patriarchy itself, and even if it would be equally galling to say to a woman, cis or trans.
(Have you not considered that your trans body is privileged under cis patriarchy?)
4h. Passing is universal to all transmasculine bodies and all life situations. Closeted, clocky, queer, or femme trans men and mascs cannot exist, and are not subjected to the same violence as women or other queer men. Legal gender markers don’t matter. Medical access isn’t a concern. People from your past cannot possibly be vindictive enough to out you, because queer or not, you have male privilege.
(Have you considered that you simply aren’t trying hard enough to pass?)
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5. If you are inadequately masculine, pre-transition, nonbinary, or bi-gendered, you cannot “really” be a man.
Remember; you are a lost little girl when you need to be talked down to.
Remember; manhood and womanhood are diametric opposites, exclusive states of being.
Remember; poverty is not an excuse.
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6. If you are inadequately feminine or too masculine, you cannot “really” be queer.
Remember; you are a “default” body.
Remember; you are essentially cis.
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7. If you are too assertive or too unwilling to serve as a punching bag, you cannot “really” be a feminist.
Remember; men cannot be feminists.
Remember; men cannot need feminism.
Remember; your masculinity is most readily acknowledged when it provides a rhetorical threat.
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8. If you really insist on your masculinity, then it must be in service to others. You owe them labor, defense, money, and deference.
You are not owed equality or reciprocity, because men are responsible for patriarchy. You are on the hook for the patriarch’s debt, and you are presumed to share his wallet.
(A man is a protector and a provider. I thought you wanted to be a man?)
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9. Your interest in your own autonomy is indistinguishable from power-grabbing.
Your self-determination and self-advocacy aligns you with patriarchal interests, or is a sign that you are too battered by patriarchy to self-determine in the first place. Someone else must decide these things for you. Someone else must speculate on your motives. You do not get to speak for yourself.
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10. Your inclusion and representation is not important.
10a. When you notice your absence from culture, art, and storytelling, others ask; why do you not simply project your experiences onto cis men? Remember, you are a default body. Surely you are different from other queer people who need direct representation.
(When you try to do that, you are classically fembrained and illiterate for thinking a given character could have transmasculine subtext or themes.)
Projecting onto cis women is akin to killing them.
Why are you not satisfied with mpreg fanfic?
10b. When you make your own art and stories, you are playing with dolls. It is unimportant, juvenile, and easily dismissed much in the way that people discuss teenage girls who act as culture-makers.
(If transmasculinity is not present in the world of art, it must be because it has no artistic merit.)
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11. Your erasure is proof that you have nothing to offer.
The muffling of violence done to you or your brothers is proof that no violence occurs in the first place.
The muffling of you or your brother’s contributions is proof that none of you contributed in the first place.
The removal of your brothers from the historical narrative is proof that they didn’t exist, or that they never stood in solidarity with other feminists and queers.
Silence is proof that you need not speak.
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12. Denying any danger that you may be in is affirmative to your masculinity, because men cannot be harmed.
There are no statistics that say otherwise if we never read them.
There are no patterns of abuse if we never speak of them.
There are no dead if they are recorded as femicides.
There are no victims if we do not speak their names.
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These contradictory impositions are not aimed at transmascs alone, but they are the recurring patterns I notice as a transmasculine feminist. We are not the only ones in danger, but we are queer all the same, and all queerness is targeted under patriarchy.
HI LET’S SHARE NICOLE’S WORDS ON THE SUBJECT!
It has been literal years but every time I see Martin’s tweets posted somewhere and his word is shared as truth while her post is not shared it sort of reiterates the fact that we trust men to speak about feminism more than we believe women who experience it.
Interesting, innit? https://medium.com/@nickyknacks/working-while-female-59a5de3ad266
Reading her account of how their boss treated her blows me away. Men are so emboldened that they will literally admit to illegal discrimination casually and face no consequences.
In all the years of seeing this post I’ve never seen a link to her side. Didn’t even know she’d written one.
Adding screenshots of her post. His whole post is there without needing a link. Hers should be, too.
Also, she posted this is 2017! It’s fucking 2020 and I’ve seen his side of this for years, but it took 3 years for her side to make its way to my dash…
I’ve reblogged his story at least twice; it’s time for Nicole’s.
Reblogged him, bout time I got to reblog her.
I’ve never seen either side of this story, so sure, I’ll reblog this.
assorted doodles. guess whose apple pen bit the dust today
wait help why is that correct grammar i’m confused
Repressing your emotions is a spectrum!
so there is a democrat candidate for Congress in Texas who wants concentration camps for American Zionists. no joke, her name is Maureen Galindo. yes, this makes her a fucking Nazi and I cannot believe it's 2026, barely 80 years after wwii ended, and we're already at this point. her and Graham Platner make a good team. just lol. I have no idea what to event think atp.
"punch Nazis" until it's an actual Nazi.
also just found out she's attacked "Jews who own Hollywood" as members of the "Synagogue of Satan". she also said she wouldn't take "blood money" from Israel. genuinely KKK level shit. I'm not posting these gross videos on my page but feel free to look it up to verify.
Chris Rabb was endorsed by AOC and won the Dem primary for Pennsylvania district 3. he suggested that the Bondi massacre was a false flag. the massacre that killed fifteen Jews, including children, and injured dozens others.
we have a serious problem here, but nobody is listening to us.
pinning this until people start listening to us