non~BI~nary

my ask is open, please talk to me about homestuck. 28 yrs old. bi. they/them. ao3 is foolsdiamond. married to @stickgirll

[abisalli]

[raineisinkless]

Doing these w house md gang

[marauders4evr]

It occurs to me that there are people who weren’t on this website in 2012 and therefore never saw the magical gif that you can actually hear:

It’s been over five years and that still impresses the hell out of me.

[notjusthespongenextdoor]

For a city to be walkable. It must also be sittable.

[notjusthespongenextdoor]

#every time I read this phrase the same thing happens#I read it as shittable and go wait that can't be right#oh right they were talking about public benches that makes more sense#but public bathrooms available without fees should also be a thing tho#cities should definitely be shittable#it happens EVERY SINGLE TIME

it must also be shittable

[sabertoothwalrus]

I like the nodding emoji 🙂‍↕️ for how at peace it is. when I use it I feel like a wise sage who has reached an enlightened truth of the universe. mmmm 🙂‍↕️ monkey

[sadhoc]

there is a very real tendency of teenagers with anxiety disorders self diagnosing with considerably more stigmatized and impairing mental illnesses (e.g. schizophrenia, DID, personality disorders), but the best response to that isn't to get angry with them for "appropriating" lol. instead you show them coping resources for the problems they're actually having and deemphasize diagnostic categories in general. if an 18 year old is claiming to have alzheimer's, they're probably making an innocent mistake and are in genuine distress. be kind.

[mariaalenkoshepard]

Also I think this trend comes, at least in part, from how brushed aside anxiety disorders can be. If your parents and teachers dismiss you with 'oh everyone feels anxious', then inevitably you're going to start thinking that there must be something else going on with you

[lightblueminecraftorchid]

”You must feel very scared right now; let’s talk about how to help you personally, tailored to your symptoms” will always be more helpful than “stop faking (X) for attention”. If theyre that desperate for attention or an explanation, something is wrong.

[9twoeight]

20260502 oc art

[foolsdiamond]

at the town council meeting for a suburb of my city to protest the building of a data center, there's so many citizens here we are out of seats. doorguy said there usually isn't more than five people. God bless my area

[foolsdiamond]

to anyone else who happens to be on Tumblr during this meeting with me

God bless the community for speaking up against this & everyone who came with far more research than I did to fight it

[foolsdiamond]

wife and I both went up to speak, and I got so emotional I barely said anything lol. thank you to everyone who did research and had numbers, and thank you personally to the only black woman to speak who used her loud voice to drive up the energy and spur all the public opposition for the data center and to put fear into the white men sitting behind the counter. several more people got up to speak because of her encouragement.

[afterdeathgirl-deactivated20260]

frotting can have a winner and loser

[afterdeathgirl-deactivated20260]

frotting can have a victim

[foreveriallyzombified]

i had a nightmare last night madonna lady gaga (all one person in this dream like a fusion) released a single called “PUNANI” and it the music video was just her squatting in different places across the world with the exact same framing with no underwear, with everything shown but the like. inside labia part was painstakingly and specifically censored with huge white lines. but the clitoris and holes and everything were perfectly visible and the video was playing on all TV’s constantly during the olympics. i was on a date with a guy i like and it turned on in the restaurant and the lyrics were like “infected punani sweet punani sour punani” just listing different adjectives some of which were really disgusting or medically concerning and i was like Hey man can you turn this off? and the waiter did but then like. later in the dream (we were walking around in hollywood and holding hands) the song came on again and i had to pretend to think it’s fine to not come off like. a prude.

the thing is PUNANI (2021) by madonna lady gaga was an extremely minor part of the dream. the main thing was i was trying to take the guy around town but there was a Blackwater type independent contractor army protecting almost every store and would point guns at us and they were also wh*te supr*macists and would make comments about us as we walked along. punani was just like. completely unquestioned in-universe lore. that ther song was released and everyone was ok with it

[foreveriallyzombified]

the song itself kind of sounded like technologic by daft punk

[foolsdiamond]

at the town council meeting for a suburb of my city to protest the building of a data center, there's so many citizens here we are out of seats. doorguy said there usually isn't more than five people. God bless my area

[foolsdiamond]

to anyone else who happens to be on Tumblr during this meeting with me

God bless the community for speaking up against this & everyone who came with far more research than I did to fight it

[digihowl]

if u woke up tomorrow and appeared in a world where the beatles never existed, how long would it take for you to notice?

i would notice immediately

1-3 days

at least a week

multiple weeks - a month

multiple months

half a year

a full year

multiple years

i would never notice

Remaining time: 14 hours 12 minutes

this was the plot to the movie Yesterday (2019) which ive only ever heard abt secondhand, so it made me wonder how long it’d take to realize the beatles are Missing. like imagine you google ringo starr and theres Nothing.

it also begs the question how Different music would sound, but lets say all music still sounds the same there just were no beatles in this timeline

[dajo42]

it’s been ten years

[geniusoflove]

its been 12 years

[shivshivshivvyyy]

13 years

[pinkthinkspalistineshouldbefree]

14 years

[momperlman-deactivated20251022]

15 years

[dammmithardison]

16 years

[thswrtchdthng]

Loss is a dancing queen, young and sweet, only 17

[ralfmaximus]

Loss can now legally vote

[puppygirllaika]

one of the most powerful tools you have at your disposal is the ability to be normal about stuff. be normal about sex. be normal about bodies. be normal about sex work. be normal about peoples kinks. and then, most importantly, when someone gets prudish, or puritanical, or conservative, recognize that you are the normal one in the conversation, and act like it.

"You think she should be ashamed? that's weird man. why do you care so much. You think that's gross? okay... kinda weird that you care though. you found out about her kinks? what are you, like, stalking her or something? what, you think her job sucks 'cause it involves sex? what's it got to do with you? you're really obsessed with other people man, it's kinda creepy."

the duality of shame and normalcy is not static. you get to decide what is normal and what is shameful, and you can do it by your own standards. If you let someone else make that decision for you, you're ceding more ground than you could possibly know.

[foolsdiamond]

at the town council meeting for a suburb of my city to protest the building of a data center, there's so many citizens here we are out of seats. doorguy said there usually isn't more than five people. God bless my area

[hungry-skeleton]

Fucked up that if you make a minor social blunder you can't ask the person if they hate you forever now because that within itself is another social blunder

[themapisonfire]

Zo fans wake up, I finally drew her again

[rabbitkinglune777]

black queers are the beautiful stars of this universe, especially black trans ppl