🐾🐈 Minor, mid teens // febfem ⚢ 🧡🩷💗💜🖤 // 🌛🌜 tomcat bi 😼💗💜💙 // gender critical // radlean / rad adjacent 💛🤍💜 // desisted (ex enby) // battle-axe bi 💜🩶💙
⚠️ My blog is mostly focused on gender criticism, if you don't like that, you have every right to leave.
Don't even try to post hate comments/asks/etc. I'm literally just gonna block you so there's no point lol (you can be blocked when you're anonymous btw)
So.. I've decided to make an intro post, 'cause why not?
You can call me Tomcat c:
I'm female & a minor (mid teens)
💗💜💙 Tomcat bisexual + Febfem (I've never been with a guy before, so you could consider me a goldstar Febfem xD 🌟) ily fellow bi girls (and wlw in general) Biphobes/bimisogynists fuck off 💗💜💙
I used to be a tif. I would change my identity a lot, but I eventually settled on genderfluid (until I peaked ofc.) I was a trans supporter from 2018 - 2023, I started identifying as trans myself in 2020 or 2021
Also, I love cats 😼🐈💞
• Gender critical
• Porn & kink critical
• Anti ai images
• Anti sex work
• Battleaxe bisexual (pansexual and other mspec orientations are the same as bisexual)
• There are only 3 orientations (homo, bi, and hetero), it is also possible to lack an orientation (asexual), preferences aren't orientations (stuff like pansexual & demisexual for example)
• Asexuality is not a spectrum, allosexuality is
• Orientations aren't just "identities" or "labels". I don't "identify" as bisexual, I AM bisexual
• Attraction is sex based. Lesbians/gays are exclusively ssa, straight people are exclusively osa, bisexuals are both ssa and osa, and asexuals don't like either sex
• Femininity and masculinity are just stereotypes associated with the sexes, women are not inherently feminine and men are not inherently masculine
• Not a fan of the terms "girly" or "manly" since they both rely on stereotypes (I also feel this way with the word "tomboy" tbh, I prefer "mascgirl" or "azurgirl")
• Names shouldn't be gendered, anyone can have any name
• I don't gaf if informed, consenting adults go on hormones or get surgeries or whatever, I just don't think that makes a male a woman or vice versa. Claiming to be the opposite sex just because you fit their stereotypes is inherently sexist.
• SSA people should have our own community separate from trans people
• Bitch, cunt, slut, whore, etc. are all slurs. Imo, they can only be "reclaimed" when they are universally acknowledged as slurs, if we continue to use these words while they're not acknowledged as slurs, it will just further normalize the use of sexist slurs.
• Pro 4b / 6b4t / 9b4t, pro female separatism, pro choice, pro female only spaces
💜🤍💛 I'm also gonna post radfem/gc blinkies (if you don't know what blinkies are, they're like the images below) and other terf gifs/aesthetic stuff sometimes. I take blinkie requests, here's a post with more info, please read before requesting. My blinkies will be tagged as #tomcats blinkies
Posts where I say shit will be tagged #tomcat meows
Sorry if there are any grammar mistakes or anything, I stayed up all night and I'm really tired while writing this lolll. I might add more later idk
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All gifs are edited by me except for the "male detected, opinion rejected" one, and the "basically.. men suck" one. I get all of my blinkie templates from blinkies.cafe
This tweet actually made me look it up because i thought the dude had caught some allegations but no it's just about the fucking HP audiobook again 🤡
Imagine going back in time and telling a feminist "Oh yeah one day we're gonna have a huge movement to denounce sexual assault and harassment. And then males are gonna get pissy about it and start saying NoT aLL mEn. And then some women online who cannot stop centering men for even 5min will create a meme format to say that actually their favourite male characters and celebrities can do no wrong. And then other women who cannot stop centering men for even 5min will change their minds about said celebrities because they're guilty of being vaguely associated with the wrong type of feminist." The sheer layers of stupidity....
I see a lot of women saying that it's wrong to say that we don't 'own' our surnames because if we were born with it it's ours and men are also taking their surname from their father. I kind of understand what they're saying but the difference is that property and authority was also passed down from father to son while women were born as their father's property and died as their husbands property.
I HATE when people talk about women who are victims of rape or women in general like they're property of their country/culture/religion. I see this a lot when white racists talk about immigrants coming and raping 'OUR women' while they themselves are doing the exact same thing.
I've also seen this happening when moc talk about colonialism or even when a woc is in a relationship with a european person. They aren't angry at the pain and trauma that women go through because of these men but rather the thought that another man can violate his property and often themselves. They hate it when their priviledge and ability to oppress women is taken away from them.
Sometimes it feels like history is written and taught from the perspective of a man. The brutalities women faced are often only talked about when discussing colonialism but only somewhat implied when talking about pre-colonial history. People don't want to acknowledge that the large majority of women in the past only 'had sex'(were raped) with their husbands because they were taught that it's their duty to do so and they it's not like they had any other choice.
Radblr is flawed but all in all I’m happy a space where women are the priority exists on the internet. It’s crazy that defending our rights or even saying women are female is hateful everywhere else, so thank you all for the dose of sanity. Truly.
It’s amazing how far feminism has come in the areas that benefit men (unprotected sex - yay! Mistresses can terminate their pregnancies - woo! Extreme pornography -yeah! Wife making money and paying family costs without me - hooray!) yet we still lag so behind on the areas that don’t benefit men (equal parenting, housework, emotional labour, family administration, child costs, childrens effect on career trajectory etc). It seems almost deliberate that the ONLY ‘advancements’ we have made are sexual
Charlie Kirk and Andrew Tate and whoever else was/is not TURNING men and boys misogynistic, these talking head grifters exist BECAUSE men and boys are already misogynistic and they specifically want to hear someone say those things. I'm so tired of this narrative that these people are some sort of shamans doing spells hypnotizing wide eyed males into beliefs they had never even heard of before
And even if they were "turning" boys and men misogynistic, that only paints the picture that enormous parts of entire generations of males just need to hear the right words for violent misogyny to awaken in them like a fucking sleeper agent
ok so ladies remember to be hypervigilant and on red alert for any crypto terfs or hints of transmisogyny but if you think you see any male patterns of violence in your communities just remember that’s your internalized cisheteropatriarchal biases that must be unlearned and you should be ashamed for even thinking it t b h
I thoroughly believe men should be loved the way women are expected to be loved. Shampoo his hair for him in the shower and rinse it out for him. Pull him to your chest and play with his hair when he’s feeling sad or sleepy. Take him out to dinner and pay for his meal. Bring him little surprise gifts. Kiss his forehead and temple when you see him. Let him be the little spoon and hold onto him like he’s everything to you. Be obsessed with him, treat him with all the love you expect to be treated with.
I thoroughly believe men should be kept in cages with no bottom sitting in rank mud. When they need to be bathed just spray a hose through the bars (and the water is only half-thawed and full of splintering pieces of ice), which obviously makes the mud worse and all of the little flies nesting in it will billow around and get in his eyes and shit. Throw dry kibble at him and meat trimmings through the bars when he's hungry. When he seems like he's in a playful mood, pick up a bunch of reasonably sized, pointy rocks and play dodge. And then afterwards, when he's covered in bruises and welts, he can play a game of "The ground is pointy rocks and squelching mud full of flies". Keep a clamp around his cock and balls. Make him bury his own shit with his hands. Never teach him a human language so he can never say anything about cryptocurrency. Have a little fun with it ❤
I thoroughly believe men should be loved the way women are expected to be loved. Only if they put out and never say no. And should be harassed if they don’t meet a specific beauty standard. And should be blamed if they’re ever raped or told they’re falsely accusing someone which is worse than rape. They should be told all their interests are fake and they’re only into it to get attention from women. We should tell them their mental health doesn’t matter because women have it worse. We should tell them they need to lower their standards and date women they aren’t attracted to or violent women or else they’ll die alone as shriveled dried up fuck sticks. We should make an entire industry dedicated to the rape and trafficking of them that will be defended by millions of people. We should sexually harass them out of industries we’ve deemed too good for men. We should make the beauty standards for men be only attainable through starvation and plastic surgery. We should start demanding males have their rights taken away and have no say in their own bodies. We should expect males to not only pay for at least 50% of the rent and bills but also do 100% of the child care and housework because women work so hard. We should cheat on them and then blame them for not fulfilling our needs enough. We should marry them and the moment they’re too sick to fuck or do our laundry, we leave them. You’re right. We should “love” men the same way they “love” us.
I thoroughly believe men should be loved the way women are expected to be loved. 140 men per day globally should be murdered by their female intimate partners.
I sometimes feel crazy that women aren’t grasping that the material conditions of the female sex globally are still extremely poor. Women speak about ‘patriarchy’ as if it’s some ominous, looming figure in the sky. The men in your life are the patriarchy. Men use male solidarity to sexualize, dehumanize, silence women and defend other men. The actions of the patriarchy are sustained by men as individuals.
We are oppressed. We are not in different worlds from the woman in extreme cases of gender apartheid (like Afghanistan, Pakistan, South Africa, Tigray, many more.) Western men are not more benevolent than other men, they don’t hate women less than other men. It’s because women had to save themselves. Women literally committed bombings and arsons for freedom.
The government, and military powers, and religious powers, and the police and courts system, and the medical institution, and the media, and the language we use, and all the money and resources of the entire earth, are still under the control of men for the purpose of serving men.
Of course men would agree that you are empowered in choosing to take their last name, and be feminine, and objectify yourself, and choose to be a stay at home mom, whilst they have power over literal nuclear codes. It’s an illusion. It’s false power.
Men hate women. If they are able to, they will hurt you and exploit you, and no one is coming to save you once you are trapped in a relationship with a man. The justice system is not made to save you. It’s made to protect him. The power imbalance of heterosexual relationships is too vast for me to suddenly ignore all the domination women suffer under and encourage women to be with men.
So anyway since TRAs can't not copy literally every form of activism, slogan, etc. from every other movement, and I see they're talking about coverups of Harry Potter tattoos, here's the link for Redemption Ink, which is a charity that covers "branding" tattoos that sex traffickers use to mark girls and women as their property. Donate to help a victim afford to cover or remove the physical marks left behind by her experiences with sex trafficking.