DREAMER’S COLLECTIVE

~ 𖥔 ☾ median system ☽ 𖥔 ~ bodily 19 ~ she/her pronouns

[houseofdreamers]

𝐖𝐄𝐋𝐂𝐎𝐌𝐄 𝐓𝐎 𝐓𝐇𝐄 𝐃𝐑𝐄𝐀𝐌𝐄𝐑𝐒 𝐂𝐎𝐋𝐋𝐄𝐂𝐓𝐈𝐕𝐄 ⋆⁺₊⋆ we are a mixed origin system with audhd, ocd, and szpd…

asks are welcome ♡

𝐌𝐄𝐄𝐓 𝐓𝐇𝐄 𝐃𝐑𝐄𝐀𝐌𝐄𝐑𝐒 ⋆⁺₊⋆ 𝑂𝑈𝑅 𝐻𝐸𝐴𝐷𝑀𝐴𝑇𝐸𝑆

♯┆carina . . . 🌻 ♯┆quinni . . . 💫

♯┆verity . . . 🪐 ♯┆noir . . . 🔪

𝐍𝐎𝐓𝐄 ᝰ.ᐟ despite being plural, we often refer to ourself as singular depending on who’s fronting!! carina does this most frequently—as our host and “shell” alter who feels we’re all various facets of the same person, but this is something we are mutually comfortable with despite many of us seeing ourselves as different people. you are welcome to refer to us as either!

𝐇𝐎𝐔𝐒𝐄 𝐎𝐅 𝐃𝐑𝐄𝐀𝐌𝐄𝐑𝐒 ⋆⁺₊⋆ 𝐵𝐿𝑂𝐺 𝑇𝐴𝐺𝑆

♯┆daydreams . . . . . . . plural positivity .ᐟ

♯┆dreams . . . . . personal (plural) experiences .ᐟ

♯┆nightmares . . . system venting .ᐟ

[plural-accessories]

Stamp of the Mixed-Origin flag

Requested by no one

[houseofdreamers]

If you’re an (endo safe) median system, we would absolutely love it if you interacted with this post!! /nf

We definitely need more median plural moots!! It can get a bit lonely out here sometimes. ♡

[byjove]

trying to tell if you should go to the hospital as a chronically ill person and being like “okay, what’s worse? keeling over dead in the sanctity of my own home or going to the hospital and not having anything wrong with me and the doctors being really condescending?”

[prairiemountain]

You need to understand there's no hard line between system and singlet. The line just gets blurrier and blurrier the harder you look. Where's the tipping point from a singlet into a median? What counts as enough dissociation to be called a system? There's no objective, concrete answer to these questions. So if you feel like calling yourself a system makes sense of your life, then just go do it.

[rue2rue-deactivated20260525]

Systems with blackout amnesia are beautiful and fantastic!

Systems with gray amnesia are beautiful and spectacular!

Systems with no amnesia are beautiful and totally tubular!

It's common to feel doubtful of yourself because you may or may not experience amnesia. But I promise that it's completely normal to be where you are and to have your system function the way it does. Please do not fakeclaim yourself over your amnesia (or anything, really.)

Take care of yourselves ♡

[you-can-be-plural]

It's possible to be both traumagenic and endogenic. One origin does not erase another. Mixed origin systems are real and deserve to be acknowledged

[kleki-system-comics]

Driving

Ft. Black [He/Him] and Brown [He/Him]

[houseofdreamers]

*weary sigh. nods sagely.* there’s always that one headmate. [/Ih /silly]

[plural-accessories]

Userboxes that say "This introject misses their source partner"

Requested by 🌕🦈

[mesa-sys]

“I have [DID/OSDD/etc]” ily

“we have [DID/OSDD/etc]” ily

“I have a system” ily

“we are a system” ily

“I’m plural” ily

“we’re plural” ily

“I have [alters/headmates/parts/etc]” ily

“I am a(n) [alter/headmate/part/etc] ily

“I am a member of a [system/collective/etc]” ily

“my headmates” ily

“(my) other members” ily

no matter what words you use to describe your experience, ily

[okiimii]

i just want to say: you are not responsible for a stranger’s system. it’s not anyone’s job but your own to curate your online experience for you to what’s safest for your system.

[houseofdreamers]

i am lowkey SO picky about the books we read and films we watch these days, because there’s always that small frightening chance we’ll end up with another introject from said media…

/silly & /lh, but also /srs

[sawasawako-archived]

idc anymore i think we should be a burden to each other

[sawasawako-archived]

and yes this includes a certain degree of tolerance for emotional burden, all else being equal. my love for you, and loyalty to you, is not dependent on how easy you make it for me to love you. i don’t value you for how little trouble you cause me. i want to learn how to take you for who you are, instead of who i want you to be or who i think you should be

[moved2mindwrms]

shout out to plurals who have little to no distinction between alters!

shout out to plurals who cant communicate internally!

shout out to plurals who have only a few alters in their sys!

shout out to plurals who dont have obvious switches, or noticeable differences when anyone is fronting!

shout out to plurals who have doubt or think their “faking”!

shout out to plurals who dont feel like their “plural enough”!

shout out to plurals who have a front stuck alter and hardly ever see or hear from anyone else in the system!

shout out to plurals whos parts are just them!

shout out to plurals who cant tell where they end and someone else begins!

none of these things make you not plural or any less plural than anyone else! you ARE plural, and just because your plurality doesn’t look exactly like everyone else’s doesn’t make your plurality “wrong”! your experience as a plural being is valid! your plurality is really and dont let anyone (including yourself) tell you any different!

[positivitygenic]

it's okay to use your coping mechanisms, even when you know that they are coping mechanisms and that there are better ones out there. it's okay if you're not ready to go on to something better for you. you are worthy of finding relief from your pain, even if the way you find it is not the best.

[sphinx-witchcraft]

"But the evil fakers!!! They're why nobody takes me and my x disorder seriously!-" ah, so close! Nobody takes you seriously because you are visibly a minority in a medical field that can't sympathize with anyone that deviates from western eurocentric standards and values. Oh, you also don't fit the stereotype of what a typical person with x disorder looks like. Yeah, those people are just saying fakers are the issue because its easier to say that "faking" is the issue instead of saying it's the system they rely on. Yeah sorry, killing all the "fakers" won't change the system at all. No, yeah, you've still got a lot to learn.

[moved2mindwrms]

you wont get anywhere if you try to fight your headmates, the best thing you can do is be patience and kind to them. even if theyre doing something you think is “wrong” or “annoying” giving them grace and patience! it will help you, them, and the system as a whole!!