Jun 3
My gf and i had what I feel was a pretty bad disagreement last night (not made better by my overall dissatisfaction over a year long long distance relationship) would suck if we broke up in pride month I guess
#If i sound apathetic about it its because I am#I am still enormously pissed off#She basically told me she didnt want to come help me move because it sounded too stressful#Which is really not giving “we're a team” behavior which is generally how I think relationships should operate#And she has zero plans on like when she can actually move here#Shes just hoping she happens to get a job here but is also applying to stuff lots of other places that are not here#And then when she does talk about getting a job here shes like well I could work in a city a few hours away#Idk I just feel like we have different ideas about things rn#And also im enormously pissed that I literally explicitly said the words please come help me move im worried about it and id like you there#And her response was not let me figure out how to make that work it was debate plane tickets repeatedly and then finally be like#This sounds too stressful#Literally last week or whatever I was feeling so optimistic about this relationship#After a period where I was like long distance is the worst thing in the world
