Your friend, the Anon.

Blogging about life, thoughts, perspectives, art, movies, songs, love, relationships, pain, emotions, travelling, people, enlightenment and everything else. Problems are a constant thing in this life, thus, I am well aware that times get tough. If anyone needs any help with anything, I'll be more than happy to listen to your venting out or to give you some support or advice. This blog does not tolerate any form of discrimination, rudeness or offensive posts/messages. Anyone that displays this kind of behaviour will be blocked and reported. Much love, the Anon. ☆

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WHO RAISED ME

Grew up and raised by people of closed-minds, heavy opinions, selfishness, superficiality, self-righteousness and ignorance.

I thought they were right. I thought they were my role models. Boy, did I thought wrong!

Behind masks of compassion, care and goodness, underneath lies the darkness.

When the series of tragedies unfolded over the years, I was woke. I saw who were real.

And when they got people on board -- yeah, that's the money and material things talking.

It isn't shocking; but man, just hella baffling!

All their self-righteous judgement, perspective and fact

are all one big hypocritical act.

Those people who unfortunately raised me, are so called my "family".

But even blood you can't trust.

Because they still can fuck you up with their tusks.

Despite this,

it's alright.

Because, now, I have people who make my life bright and show me the light.

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A poem for my friend...

She is like a rainbow, pocket full of sunshine.

A star that illuminates even the darkest of skies.

She is a garden full of flowers --

if you step on her, she will still bloom quite relentlessly.

She only sees beauty, compassion and kindness; amidst this grim, cruel world.

What keeps her getting through the unbearable, painful adversities in life?

HOPE. FAITH. LOVE.

So, that's what she became of;

and that's what she believes in -- that someday, the bad people would be better and, life, would get better.

Because as the saying goes, "there is no dark cloud that the sun can't shine through".

Indeed, that is true.

No obstacle is powerful enough to trample our God.

He is there.

We know He always is.

And that's all we need to overcome anything.

Your friend,

The Anon

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It's been a while...

Hey guys. It's been a while since I've last posted. I've been very busy with college and work, but I promise I will be back posting some og content once the semester's finished.

Your friend,

The Anon.

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I got ME

I just got myself back again, after all these years. I don't need you in my life to destroy me once more.

Your friend,

The Anon.

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Sometimes we have to detoxify ourselves from the paradox -- the beautifully-damned that is life.

The Anon

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What’s convenient for you

You know what's sad? Seeing someone be with the person that finally lives up to their standards. You might think, "how is that sad? It's ultimately a dream come true". That's not the sad part I'm talking about. The sad part is that it took a lot of hearts for them to break to actually get the person they were looking for. Because how people nowadays love is only if it's convenient for them. It doesn't matter if they hurt people, what matters to them is in the end, they are happy. Oh, how cursed is the world that we live in filled with selfish people?

Your friend,

The Anon.

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First love

First love can be both a blessing and a curse.

Your friend, 

The Anon.

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Don’t settle for the superficial

Love is a natural force in this world. When you achingly and desperately seek it; it will come in a superficial state. So, wait. Wait for it to come to you; to come and find you. Because what is real will naturally find it's way to you. Don't settle for the superficial. We all know that doesn’t last. 

Your friend,

The Anon.

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I hate people. I hate how this world works.

The Anon

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And here I think, how can I let go of so much hurt and move on? When every time I see you all I can remember is the pain you have caused me.

Your friend, the Anon.

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That special one

In spite of what has happened between us, I would rather have you in my life than not at all. For you are one of the rare kind of person that has truly captured my heart and my soul. The kind that genuinely and purely loves. The kind that opens up your mind and makes you think of things that is otherworldly. You make my spirit run free and ignite my fire as hot as the Eta Carinae, the hottest star in our universe. You make me want to be myself, but a better version. And I couldn’t ask for more than anything else in life – other than you. 

Your friend,

The Anon.

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Ever wondered?

Ever wondered if destiny, fate and soulmates actually exist?

Or is everything merely a coincidence, and the force that acts upon human events are merely due to humanly decisions?

In another perspective, yes, there are such inexplicable moments that happen, which what we call are miracles. And yes, some of these happenings redirect to us being held responsible for their occurrence. It’s a concoction of the two that allow circumstances to happen in this world.

It is amazing how we are fixated on the idea that if two souls are meant to be together, eventually, they will find their way back. But what is the explanation behind this? Could it be the forces that live in this universe mysteriously connected two souls together with an unbreakable bond on their initial physical contact, or is it simply because of their choice to be with each other in the end?

Some of us, the unlucky ones who are still stuck on someone, are unsure of the decisions we have to make. Do we give up and let go completely? Do we hold on and face the consequences of constant suffering? 

The better answer to that is, live. My dear, we only have one life, and for sure as hell we must not waste it in self-pity, sadness, depression, self-blame, worry, pain and longing. We must glow like the Alpha Canis Majoris, the brightest star in the night sky; we must beam as intense as it is. Things happen because they were made to happen. If you decided this or that, it is because the forces in the universe decided it. Let no anxiety consume you about the future. Let the eternal forces do its magic. You just live. 

Your friend,

The Anon.

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I don't know what's worse. People pretending like they care about you, or actually knowing that they don't at all.

Your friend,

The Anon.

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The imperfect you

When there is the positive, there is also the negative that prevails, thus, every human being has their own flaws amidst everything that is good about them.

I think flaws are purposely to remind us that perfect does not exist; that despite them we learn to appreciate the people we hold dearest. That’s what makes being with someone worth it, when they show all the monsters behind their closets. We come to gradually accept them, because that is the moment they show their truest form. No illusions, no tricks, no games. What they showed you was their whole being.

Only the brave, the daring, the honest can ever reveal something as sacred as this, amid all the liars, scammer, users and the cheaters.

Oh, what an honor it is to know someone from their deepest core.

Your friend,

The Anon.

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Happy Valentines Day from the Anon

Hello there my fellow Tumblrians! Happy Valentines Day to all. 

Valentines Day isn’t just a day specifically for lovers. It is a day for loving the people you care about in general, so it doesn’t matter if you don’t have that “special someone”. Everyday you are loved by your family, friends and pets. Appreciate who’s loving you unconditionally, no matter who it is, because other people don’t even have anyone to love them. Stay lovely and stay loved. It’s the most beautiful thing in this world.

Lots of love from your friend,

The Anon. xo

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Freedom

Let us all thank the Higher Power in this universe for the freedom of speech. For words of the heart and the mind set us free from everything that keeps us feeling trapped. Without these words our souls remain untouched, leaving ourselves lifeless. 

Your friend,

The Anon.

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TIME

It goes with that saying, “time flies, especially when you’re having fun”. However, most of us never realize how much time we’ve got left until it’s all gone. 

We spend our childhood and pubescent years enjoying and without any worries other than a scraped knee. That all comes to an end when we reach adolescence and we start to acquire responsibilities, obligations and expectations. From that point, we begin to work; work on ourselves, work on our education, work on our relationships and work on everything else that is happening around us. Eventually, we work for a job to make a living up until the point in our lives when our backs ache, our hair turns grey, our skin wrinkles, our knees crack and our memories slowly fade away. 

We will spend most of our lives working, so, my dear, make sure you are doing something you love; something that sets your soul on fire as intense as the blazing, orange sun; something that crumbles up your fears, as your passion is more powerful than the things that scares you most. Make this life worth living, otherwise, you will come to know the true meaning of regret when you look back in time and realize, “I wish I did that”. 

Your friend,

The Anon.

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