Cinna

-writing hiatus- im 22 and transgay be nice they/them pronouns

[iwannawritelots]

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About the Blog

This is a safe space! No racists, queerphobes, ableists, pedophiles, or any other nasty humans are welcome here. If you are any of the previously mentioned, get the fuck out.

This isn’t really purely an Obey Me! blog, but that does take up most of the content and the only thing I write fanfiction for. There isn’t any explicit sex on this blog (though there may be mentions of it sometimes). I do write angst and other dark themes, so please be aware of that while looking through my work.

Sending in requests is fine! Just please keep in mind that I have a life outside of tumblr and writing fanfiction, so I may take a while. I also will not necessarily write everything that is sent in, because I am not obligated to write things I do not want to. I am not here to pump out poorly written content. I want to write everything well!

About the Blogger

Hi! My name is Cinna. My pronouns are they/them. I am 22 years old.

I am very much hyper fixated on Obey Me! but that’s not purely what the blog is for lol. Sometimes I will post other things, but mostly OM stuff because that’s my main interest. I write fanfiction and sometimes do stupid li’l doodles.

[kittenscratches]

Honestly the argument "you don't need to use the word transandrophobia, transphobia already exists" is as ridiculous as saying "you don't need the word misogyny, sexism already exists".

Like yeah we could boil all types of discrimination down to their broader oppression but that would defeat the purpose of having any language in the first place. Words are important to define and convey things more accurately and specifically. There's nothing wrong with having a word that more accurately and specifically talks about when transphobia targets transmascs for their transmasculinity.

Like, at that point you just don't want transmascs to be able to accurately describe their issues with the language they choose. Which is bigotry 101. That's some fascist shit. Oh, this group of people who is harmed by a form of oppression can't talk about that???? Gee I wonder why anyone wouldn't want an oppressed group of people to more accurately talk about and describe their experiences.......

[hi-fi-planetoid]

And genuinely the "misogyny doesn't need to exist, sexism exists" was literally an argument made by misogynists in the 2010s to silence feminists from talking about the pay gap, the glass ceiling, rape culture, etc. Because they refused to believe that there's a huge, deeply ingrained system at play that targets and marginalizes women that amounts to more than just individual acts of prejudice and bigotry.

People deny transandrophobia and refuse to acknowledge corrective rape, unemployment rates, severe lack of accurate data due to erasure, murders reported as femicides or completely unreported, the ROGD argument, demonization of testosterone, the societal scapegoating and abuse of trans men.

Like it's a pretty good rule of thumb that when any group you can verifiably identify as marginalized is defining and describing their struggles as they themselves experience it, that opposing their ability to do that is going to always be directly silencing them and contributing to their marginalization.

[kenmaiii]

thinking hard about what kind of outfits Barbatos would wear outside of work.. he likes metal music so I kind of went based off that 🏃🏾‍♀️

[fruitsnommy]

@iwannawritelots

[obeythedemons]

Hey all! My fiance @iwannawritelots and I just opened a shop on SpoonFlower. Here, you can by custom fabrics for your crafting needs (as well as some home decor!) Look through our shop and follow us as we're going to be adding more! Some examples below!

[obeythedemons]

Heya! We actually opened two separate shops (so we can both enter into contests). @iwannawritelots is still at the original shop, but now I'm at LanceOL. Be sure to follow both of our shops, and if you're in a crafting or home decor mood, buy something! I'll be promoting the design below for a contest soon, so be sure to stay tuned for that!

Also, if you would like a design for a fabric, please let me know! Commissions will be open, you'll just need to commit to buying at least a yard of fabric!

[obeythedemons]

Hey all! My fiance @iwannawritelots and I just opened a shop on SpoonFlower. Here, you can by custom fabrics for your crafting needs (as well as some home decor!) Look through our shop and follow us as we're going to be adding more! Some examples below!

[turquoisemagpie]

Welcome to IRIS! Please regard the health and safety signs you will encounter during your time here.

[baggebythesea]

European Citizens' Initiative - Ban on conversion practices in the European Union

European Citizens' Initiative

Give your support !

European Citizens' Initiative is a mechanism to bring issues direct from the people to the EU commission. I strongly urge every citizen of the European Union member states to sign this Initiative to ban conversion therapy and similar persuasion practices.

[profiterole-reads]

One week left!

700,000 signatures still needed (but it's going up pretty fast right now, so there's a chance)

3 countries still need to reach the threshold: Belgium, Slovenia and the Netherlands are the closest to this goal

Please share!

[profiterole-reads]

Update:

670,000 signatures still needed

Belgium has reached the threshold! \o/ 2 more countries still need to reach it: Slovenia and the Netherlands are in good position

Please keep sharing!

[makingqueerhistory]

Hi! Have you heard of the RCMA archive? If not - it's an archive of digitized home videos featuring queer people. Which is purposefully defined to be broad - it could be people who identified as queer at the time of the videos, to children who would grow up and identify as queer, or videos that show queer people in private. It's a great project, sharing many different stories about the queer experience. If you're interested here's a link! https://www.roamingcenter.org/home

This archive is so fantastic; thank you for sharing it with me!

They describe themselves as:

"RCMA is the steward of a participatory archive (aka “post-custodial archive”) that preserves countless hours of home movies and community videos contributed by LGBTQ+ identified individuals across Middle America. RCMA gives special care and attention to preserving video content that captures LGBTQ+ life in small towns, mid-sized cities, and rural areas. From loud and proud pride parades to childhood memories made way before coming out, we seek to represent the broadest spectrum of what it means to be Queer. On this page, you will find a few highlights from our collection. To view the archive in its entirety, click here."

This archive really cheered me up today; such a beautiful collection!

[crazysodomite]

I'm sorry my stupid gay tail started wagging when I saw you. I'll go .

[thefugitivesaint]

Langston Hughes (1902-1967), ‘Tired’, “New Masses”, Vol. 6, #9, Feb. 1931 Source

[polari]

[Transcript:

Tired

I am so tired of waiting, Aren’t you, For the world to become good And beautiful and kind? Let us take a knife And cut the world in two— And see what worms are eating At the rind.

]

[intersexelphie]

it’s gone beyond an obsession at this stage because what the fuck is this

[obeythedemons]

Heyyyy,

I haven't been active on this blog much, but I am currently working on an original work and I'm very proud of it. I think it's some of my best work, even if it's in its early stages. I'm estimating I'm a little more than halfway through writing it, and I'm hoping to be done with the first draft by July?

If I can manage to get it published, I will share the news here, so please keep your fingers crossed!

[beepathan]

hey everyone its april fools. but dont worry i dont have anything planned. just going to sit here and...

I LIED !!!! GET PRANKED

POST BELOW ME GET FUCKING WET

[keepcalmandcarriefischer]

Hey guys! Check out this block of pure sodium that I got!

[arodabi]

Sometimes i feel like younger queer kids are getting a bit to bold with openly talking to people they don’t know In The Context Of:

More than once i have had a younger/same age queer person come up to me in public settings and say something about “finding other gays” or clearly clocking me as nonbinary and I’m like :)))))))) hey buddy I’m here with my conservative parents can you fucking not out me :))))))))

Just say you like my outfit or hair and move on, fuck even tell me you like my shoelaces. Don’t call me gay and limp your wrist at me when you don’t even know me? Especially when there’s a bunch of ppl around?

[the-gayest-tuba]

i was out with my ex once when three *very* young queer kids, like thirteen years old, came up to us and asked us “are you guys, you know…” and did the limp wrist thing at us. one of them loudly exclaimed that it was so cool to meet other queer people in real life. this was in public in an unbelievably conservative area - we didn’t even feel safe holding hands because we were surrounded by Mormons. we got lucky that day, but I’m begging y’all to remember that the world doesn’t work like the internet. other queers are real fuckin people. don’t do this shit. OP is right; tell me you like my jacket, or my patches, or the rainbow spokes on my wheelchair, but don’t out either of us!

[life-on-the-spectrum]

This used to be standard operating procedure not even ten years ago: NEVER OUT OTHER QUEERS, even if they’re supposedly already out. Never assume that it’s okay to let third parties know that so-and-so is queer. Ever. You never know when you’ve found the one uncle with the heart condition that they can’t bear to risk telling, or the one neighbor who’s just threatening enough that they don’t mention it around, or even the grandma that they haven’t gotten around to mentioning it to yet. You might have just ruined a very important milestone for someone, or you could have put them at actual risk of harm.

Also… stop freaking assuming. If you don’t see a pride flag on them, please don’t just assume. You can’t tell ANYTHING about a person’s gender or partner preferences by what they’re wearing on any given day, what their hair looks like, or whether or not they’re using makeup. You legit cannot, and you look like a jerk when you try.

[astra-the-dragon]

this is even more important now that Trump is in power.

some people will be choosing to live in the closet and it is not your job to pressure them one way or the other.

protect your lgbtq siblings - honor their choices - and never talk to cops, collaborators, and snitches.

[stele3]

Younger queer people have grown up in a better world, but we’re in a time of backsliding right now. Do NOT out other queer people. Also, I’m not gonna tell you how to present yourselves in public………..but please, I am begging you to re-evaluate HOW safe you are in the current climate.

[disableddinosaur]

Stop outing people if you suspect they’re LGBTQ+. I’m an elder millennial and in my day, we never did this. We came out when WE decided to come out and it was taboo around my conservative family members. I still have not come out to my family as bisexual. I was so afraid to. I was afraid that I would be disowned or what would happen.

[obeythedemons]

My cats are weird. Frodo got super hyper in the shelves and Pippin had to join

[gayvampyr]

and my personal favorite:

i love getting validation as a lefty but also learning about new fun ways it continues to suck

[obeythedemons]

SCISSORS I CANNOT USE SCISSORS