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[fooliofailure]

bro thay put transgender in me

[fooliofailure]

you’re good queen. i mispelt “they”. Some kind of yrbasgender i am. i deserve to have it suques out of me likr a ksoquito

[sydmarch]

steam is absolutely absurd the discovery queue is always like "uhhh we're out of games that are relevant to you. call of duty perhaps?" meanwhile clicking through this collection of adventurex discounted games every single one is like "similar to disco elysium and stray. also it costs $3" ok why couldn't you recommend me this instead???

[tboy-trash]

we're far too culturally obsessed with men who are mean and rough around the edges but turn out to be big softies underneath it all when, in reality, most men who are like this are simply dicks

[mutationgirl]

many pros to having long soft hair but sometimes gravity and yawning conspire against you in such a way that leaves you rapidly and desperately removing strands from your tongue in the hopes of halting the sensation

[noknowshame]

resurrected dead wife watching her own montage: wow I looked so hot in that

[leiten7]

[noknowshame]

resurrected dead wife watching her own montage: wow I looked so hot in that

[leiten7]

[noknowshame]

resurrected dead wife watching her own montage: wow I looked so hot in that

[leiten7]

[sleepyoasis]

They have no power over us. Crush them under your boot, while raising your sisters up! Stand tall!

#LWithTheT

[catboybiologist]

After some years of HRT I've been left with this deep, low simmering rage. Because what do you mean it was always this easy to be happy

[catboybiologist]

I take a shot once a week, and even if that was too much, I could do it as pills, and so many of my problems just evaporated overnight.

And not one person thought to bring it up.

When I was talking about how horrifying puberty felt. When I was cutting myself. When I was in inpatient care. When I attempted suicide. When I talked for YEARS in therapy about how dissociated and trapped I felt in my body. When I felt like I never truly fixed something that was deeply wrong about me that started at puberty.

Not one person said it was a possibility. No one thought "hey, maybe this kid should go to someone trained to identify dysphoria". No one mentioned that trans people weren't some weird other group of people. It didn't have to be pressure. It didn't have to be "forcing" me. Just mentioning that trans people exist and it could be me. That it was possible and it was easy. No pushing, just laying the option out there.

HRT is treated like this last ditch option. This horrific, mutilating thing that I GUESS we can give to you if you have NO OTHER options. Because did you know it's permanent? Did you know you'll be on it for the rest of your life? Did you know the health risks? Did you know it'll make you infertile? Did you know that it's deviant? Did you know that it's an alternative lifestyle for other people?

No one said it was okay to WANT it to be permanent. Or noted that most people are reliant on the medical system in one way or the other anyways (and it's not even necessary for HRT). Or that the health risks are the normal parts of having that hormone, even in cis people of your gender. Or said it was okay to not want kids, or mention that you can just freeze gametes. Or acknowledged that the "deviant" people are just people, living their lives, that have been violently pushed out of "normal" society.

I grew up in an area that Republicans mock for being a kind of "woke central". And even then it's just. Not treated as an easy option. It was never on the table if you don't specifically already know you're going through gender stuff, and no one will help you get to that point. At which point, it's still treated like the last ditch option. Did you know you can be a feminine man? Did you know you can slap a "she/her" in your twitter bio and be done with it? Did you know that you're oh-so-valid without it? Did you know that you shouldn't take HRT? Maybe don't take HRT? Don't take HRT? Don't take HRT? Don't ta-

When you've been in it a while, HRT is the easiest, most casual thing in the world. Just pop a shot on a Saturday as part of your "everything shower" routine and you're done.

Anyways. Support trans kids always and forever.

[habitself]

hey shoutout to all you lesbians and bi girls and trans girls and nonbinary girls i hope you have a fantastic day and i’d absolutely give you a high-five if given the chance

[ursawood]

pride cryptos!!

[trentreznorsbutthole]

beautiful woman named iced coffee is calling out to me

[dajo42]

it’s been ten years

[geniusoflove]

its been 12 years

[shivshivshivvyyy]

13 years

[pinkthinkspalistineshouldbefree]

14 years

[momperlman-deactivated20251022]

15 years

[dammmithardison]

16 years

[fruitsfag]

17 years

[virtualgirladvance]

loss is an adult now :D 🎉🎉🎉

[notamothanymore]

they would be an adult today …. if not for the loss….

[whenimyoungandtrue]

???!!!????!?

[sapphling]

the more time you spend in active recovery from any given self destructive behavior or addiction the more you understand the common conception of the "relapse" as defined by a broken "streak" to be, like, so bad for one's own well-being that it would be funny if it weren't resulting in just a lot of misery and death

[the-peoples-puppy]

I told my girlfriend to think of quitting vaping as training her endurance by seeing how long she can run before she gets tired, then doing it again and hoping to go further next time. She said it really helped her.

[sea--burn]

[birdandmoon]

A snake story, based on an experience I had while I was in Florida.